Q: Am I Selfish? I’m Stuck in an Unhappy Relationship First, thank you for this site. Let’s start: apparently, I am selfish and my timing is bad – any articles on getting better at this? I made a fast decision 8 months ago to move in with a guy I barely knew. Poor choice by me. […]
There is a very fine line between having a protective lover and a possessive lover … And yet many of us don’t know the difference. What separates innocent possessiveness (as seen in the first few insecure stages of love) with aggressive possessiveness? At what point do we say “enough is enough”? When left unexplored and […]
Lying, cheating, stealing, manipulation, bullying, abuse, isolation, rejection, divorce … Relationships are undeniably tough, and for most of us they present the most hard-earned lessons in life. But why are relationships so hard to deal with? How come most of us struggle to ever find someone we feel truly loved and accepted by? And why […]
Jen from Canada asked earlier this week: Do you have any guidance on how to heal the body and mind from severe trauma? She goes on to explain: I experienced verbal bullying as a child continuing from grade 3 until grade 10 mostly from boys. My life was turmoil with many of the side effects […]
Throughout our lives we all come in contact with at least one person who we consider abusive, unkind or deliberately malicious. Like me you might have been teased, gossiped about, shouted at, hit, defamed, backed into a corner, intimidated and unjustly punished – and your reaction might be “WHY?” Why are people so cruel with […]
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