It’s a feeling that haunts us in the dead of the night, in the early hours of the morning, in the emptiness of large urban spaces, and even sometimes within groups of people:
The feeling that something is missing.
The yearning for deep connection.
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The craving to fill the inner void.
I used to experience this feeling a lot growing up. I think it was the worst around other people, especially in situations where everyone was meant to feel joyful and happy, like birthdays or festive celebrations.
I don’t know if you experience that hollowness – this craving for something you can’t quite name – but if you do, please know you’re not alone.
In recent years, I’ve come to realize that this feeling that something is missing from life comes from feeling separated and disconnected.
“Separated from what?” you might wonder.
When you go to the root of this feeling, you see that it traces back to being separated from love. This is the essence of Soul Loss, of dissociation, of the Dark Night of the Soul.
Sure, that may sound corny. But I can assure you that it’s not.
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The wound of separation appears in all of us to varying degrees.
For some of us, it comes through feeling invisible; for others, it comes through abandonment, betrayal, abuse, or neglect.
Sometimes the wound of separation just appears as feeling “not good enough,” “not made for this world,” or “like a loser who can’t fit in anywhere.”
If you’ve experienced a spiritual awakening or any type of transcendent glimpse into the deeper layers of reality, you’ll see what mystics have said since the dawn of time:
Our true nature is love.
Not eros (romantic) love, not philia (friendship) love, not storge (parental) love, but agape (unconditional love).
It’s a love that goes beyond the ego and one that unites us with all that is.
It’s a love that is open, curious, accepting, and compassionate – a love that is the essence of the Soul.
When I tap into that love through silence, stillness, nature immersion, and other means, I see that this is all that I’m searching for deep down.
The sense of emptiness, the sense that something is missing from my life, all trace back to that wound of disconnection from love.
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I’m writing this as a reminder today. I wanted to keep this message simple.
Place a hand over your heart and invite your Deep Self to emerge. Ask it, “How can I return to love?” and wait for a response. This is one of the simplest forms of Ensoulment possible.
I think you’ll find the answer immensely illuminating.
That’s it for now.
With agape ♡
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This….I have never heard it explained more succinctly—a deep feeling of validation. I felt a physical “sigh” from my body. Finally, I finally understand. Thank you for this, Luna and Soul.
This hit hard. I cried. I’ve felt this ALL my life, sadness & loneliness deep inside of me. When I asked I felt ‘self love & acceptance’
First of all, I want to thank you with full of my heart for your real, lovingly insisting support for all aspects of our lives. Agape perhaps is the truest word to comply with the creation itself. The source, the essence, the omnipotance of all. Thank you for reminding us our true essence which we sometimes think of it’s lack or hesitate to feel for ourselves or for others. That is beyond of lack, abundant and ready for giving and receiving in every moment. Blessed it be.
I resonate with this 100%. However, when I place my hand on my heart and ask the question, I get nothing. I’ve spent some time here and still nothing. I will revisit, but any advice?
I used to get that feeling a lot… A few years ago I started looking inward and then really took a deep dive inwards and started connecting to me and getting to know me and found out who I really am my likes and dislikes and what makes me tick was when that feeling disappeared… I covered a lot of ground examining myself and it’ll be a life long process… It has actually changed me into the person I wanted to be… Maybe it didn’t actually change me??? I think it opened the door for my true essence to come out…
Agape as in unconditional love is common in my research and practice as an educator. Thanks for reminding me to be childlike in engaging with love, that is truly all-giving and all-receptive without any conditions
Needed this today, thank you! I felt this separation most deeply in places where people were happy, like birthday parties. I would often feel more sad at celebrations, so I always thought there was something deeply wrong with me. I’m forever grateful for your work, you’ve helped heal so much.
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Could you please contact support, Hey? Explaining the issue in a direct email can help us fix it. I’m not sure what you mean about clicking on tests that only show you old ones. Here’s the link to support: https://lonerwolf.com/contact/
Dear Luna & Sol,
This simple and profound message resonates very deeply for me right now. Going through a lot of loss, grief and change in myself and this was a great comfort to read. :)
Sending my love to both of you. Thank you forever for the Soul work you share with the world.
Hugs & Peace,
Jamiel
Thank you for your heartfelt message here Jamiel, much love 💜