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9 Types of Muscle Tension Caused by Trapped Emotions

by Aletheia Luna ยท Updated: Feb 24, 2023 ยท 69 Comments

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Your body is a map and storage house of every experience you have ever had.

So many of us carry repressed and trapped emotions within multiple areas of our bodies, without even knowing it.ย In fact, we can go for years, even decades, completely oblivious to the blocked energy our muscles are holding on to. This repressed energy is responsible for countless ailments and chronic health conditions that cause us great suffering.

The fact is that your body doesnโ€™t forget.


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Your body is the most honest and obvious way to access trapped feelings and even traumatic memories. No matter how much you try to ignore, intellectualize or suppress how you feel, your body knows the truth.

If you are struggling with chronic tension in your neck, shoulders, back, thighs, legs, or any other area of your body, this article may help you get to the root of your pain, once and for all.

Learning how to release muscle tension is a part of our series on somatic bodywork.

Table of contents

  • What Causes Chronic Muscle Tension?
  • Consequences of Chronic Muscle Tension
  • 9 Types of Muscle Tension Caused By Trapped Emotions
  • How to Release Trapped Emotions

What Causes Chronic Muscle Tension?

According to various studies and papers, we develop chronic muscle tension as a result of four different causes.

The first cause is social conditioning. Social conditioning starts in early childhood and is reinforced throughout the rest of our lives by our parents, friends, teachers, family members, and society at large. A lot of the muscle tension that we develop is the result of unspoken social beliefs that we were taught to adopt as a way of being โ€œacceptableโ€ or likable. For example, many of us were taught that โ€œonly babies cry,โ€ so as children, we learned to suppress our tears and sadness in order to โ€œnot be a baby.โ€ Many of us were also taught that expressing anger is a โ€œbadโ€ thing as we were punished as children for expressing it. This form of conditioning is strengthened throughout adulthood, particularly in our workplaces where expressing anger is seen as โ€œunprofessionalโ€ and potentially dangerous to our job security.

The second cause of muscle tension is trauma. Traumatic experiences can range from being spanked as a child all the way to extreme violence. Trauma may have been deliberately inflicted on us (e.g. rape or physical assault) or accidental (e.g. a car crash). When these traumatic experiences arenโ€™t consciously dealt with, they can result in chronic fear, stress, and even occurrences of PTSD. This chronic anxiety, anger, and grief tendย to get stored within the body resulting in muscle tension which contributes to numerous other illnesses such as fibromyalgia, digestive disorders, mental illnesses, and even cancer.

The third cause of muscle tension is psychological tension. Psychological tension is any form of anxiety, frustration, sadness or anger that we develop as a result of our perceptions. For example, we may develop psychological tension as a result of our thoughts regarding our coworker (e.g. theyโ€™re lazy) or of usย being stuck in traffic (โ€œthis shouldnโ€™t happen). Our automatic tendency to attach to these thoughts and take them seriously is what causes us psychological tension. The more negative, fearful or fault-finding our perspective is, the more tension we tend to store in our muscles.


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The final cause of muscle tension is environmental stressors and habits. For example, our sedentary lifestyles (working at a desk all day) tend to exacerbate our physical pain because we arenโ€™t giving our muscles a chance to expel the tension. Other habits such as poor posture, lack of sleep, drug use, unhealthy eating, and environmental pollution tend to increase the likelihood of us developing chronic muscle tension.

Consequences of Chronic Muscle Tension

The field of psychosomatic medicineย has conducted numerous studies through the years exploring the mindโ€™s effect on the body, and vice versa.

In terms of muscle tension caused by mental and emotional factors, we tend to experience many health issues:

  • Mood disorders (anxiety, depression, SAD)
  • Joint pain and increase chance of injury
  • Dysmenorrhea (menstruation problems)
  • Insomnia
  • Skin problems (acne, psoriasis)
  • Asthma and hayfever
  • Headaches and migraines
  • Palpitations and chest pain
  • Nausea
  • Fibromyalgia
  • Irritable Bowel Syndrome
  • GI issues (diarrhea, bloating, constipation, cysts)
  • Hypertension/High blood pressure
  • Sexual dysfunction (premature ejaculation, painful sex)
  • Increased tendency towards addictive behavior

This list is by no means complete, and there are many other consequences out there of muscle tension. So if you believe Iโ€™ve missed something out, please comment below.


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9 Types of Muscle Tension Caused By Trapped Emotions

According to a study conducted in 2012, 25.3 million Americans (11.2%) suffer from chronic pain every day and 17.6% suffer from severe levels of pain. This single study reveals a grim reality: so many of us are suffering from muscle tension on a daily basis. Surely there must be a better way to live.

As a person who has struggled with chronic neck and shoulder pain for many years, I was lucky to discover the source of my pain thanks to a healing method known as โ€œfloating.โ€ Thanks to my experience in a float tank (also known as a sensory deprivation tank or isolation tank) I was able to discover that my muscle tension was intimately linked to old memories and repressed emotions. Lying in the dark, with no sound or sensory input on top of 800 pounds of dissolved Epsom salts, I gradually started feeling my muscles unwind. As each muscle group relaxed and spasmed, thoughts and emotions fired through my head. For example, as my spine let go into the water, I could feel grief pour through me and memories from childhood run through my mind. I could feel my upper thighs release their contraction as anxiety and loneliness bubbled up through me. I could feel the fear and burden be released from my shoulders and neck area.

Although everyone is different and there are no (known) absolute places in the body where outright emotions are stored, there are certain places which tend to accumulate specific types of emotions.

Below, I want to share with you nine of the most common types of muscle pain and what underlying emotions are connected to them.

1. Shoulder Tension = Burdens and Responsibilities

When we feel weighed down by the stress of life, we tend to accumulate these feelings within our shoulders. Ever heard the expression โ€œcarrying the weight of the world on your shouldersโ€? Shoulder tension seems to be intimately linked to social and emotional responsibilities, including unconsciously carrying the burden of other peopleโ€™s pain. As such, many empaths,ย healers, and caretakers struggle with chronic shoulder muscle tension.

2. Neck Tension = Fear and Repressed Self-Expression

Neck tension is often connected to throat chakra issues such as the inability to communicate clearly or be your authentic self around others. Fear and anxiety are also frequently stored in this area, particularly as a physical response to danger (as the neck is a vulnerable area) or strange environments. Neck muscle tension is also related to trust issues.

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3. Upper Back = Grief, Sorrow, and Sadness

Unexpressed and unreleased sadness tends to build up within the upper back region. As this area is close to the heart, it is also where emotions connected to heartbreak and loss are stored. For instance, if you carry around grief regarding a loved one or your family at large, you will likely feel tense in this area.

4. Middle Back = Insecurity and Powerlessness

Healing traditions such as reflexology link middle back pain to feelings of helplessness, hopelessness, and insecurity. If youโ€™re feeling unsupported by other people or life, you probably carry tension here.

5. Lower Back = Guilt, Shame, and Unworthiness

Lower back issues often correlate with feelings of low self-worth and lack of self-acceptance. Feelings such as guilt, shame, and even sexual inadequacy or trauma can be stored here as well.

6. Stomach = Inability to Process Emotions

The expression โ€œI canโ€™t stomach itโ€ appropriately describes stomach muscle tension. If your stomach feels stiff or sore, you might struggle to process both negative (and even positive) emotions.

7. Inner Thighs = Fear of Vulnerability

Are you nervous and untrusting around other people? If you struggle with social anxiety, you might also have inner thigh pain. Because our legs are biologically programmed to run when we first spot danger, fear towards others is often stored here.

8. Outer Thighs = Frustration and Impatience

How fast do you live life? The more quickly and mindlessly you live, the more likely you have frustrated and impatient energy stored in your outer thigh muscles. Our jobs and personal lives can also contribute greatly to muscle tension in this area.

9. Buttocks = Anger and Rage

How often do you have to deal with people who are a โ€œpain in the bumโ€? Anger and suppressed rage are often stored in the buttocks. Pay attention next time you feel your head boil: is your but tensing up as well?

How to Release Trapped Emotions

Now you may be wondering how to release the muscle tension you have. Here are some tips:

  • Allow yourself to โ€œfeel it to heal it.โ€ One of the easiest ways to let go of muscle tension is to actively feel and let go of emotions when they come. Of course, this is not always possible, so at the end of every day, make sure you allow yourself the space to feel the emotions youโ€™ve had through the day. Feeling these emotions might involve crying, punching or screaming into a pillow, or any other form of catharsis.
  • Adopt an attitude of non-judgment. When we judge our emotions as something โ€œbadโ€ or โ€œwrong,โ€ we actually deepen our suffering and solidify the tension within our muscles. Instead, simply realize that an emotion is an emotion. It doesnโ€™t need to mean anything about you unless you let it.
  • Journal about how you feel. Let all of your emotions out in a journal, completely unfiltered. This is a very healing practice if done regularly and is a powerful form of shadow work.
  • Be gentle with yourself. Muscle tension tends to add to our negative inner voices which cause us even more tension. To break this cycle of the body feeding the mind and the mind feeding the body, be kind towards yourself. Treat yourself as you would a child or best friend. This practice is a simple but profound way to relax.
  • Stretch your muscles. Do simple stretches or try yoga to relax your muscles. Even just five minutes a day is beneficial.
  • Breathe deeply. Shallow breathing causes a restriction in air, blood flow, toxin removal, and increased anxiety. Deep breathing exercises stimulate the vagus nerve which calms the mind.
  • Try floating. Unless you can afford to go into outer space or an anti-gravity chamber, floating is the only opportunity there is on this planet to experience total weightlessness. โ€œSensory Deprivation Tanksโ€ may sound daunting, but actually theyโ€™re immensely healing and calming. People with claustrophobia frequently have no issues with floating. Some of the main benefits include reaching deep states of inner peace and bliss, muscle relaxation, enhanced magnesium, better sleep, improved skin, mental clarity, and improved focus. To get the most out of floating, try a minimum of three sessions.
  • Get a massage. Seek out a licensed massage therapist to reduce your muscle tension. Alternatively, use something like the Acuball to give yourself a deep tissue massage (the Acuball is what I use).
  • Meditate. Meditation is a great way to become more present and conscious of muscle tension as it arises.
  • Art therapy. Express how you feel through painting, drawing, sculpting or any other method of self-expression as a form of therapy.

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I hope this article has better helped you to understand your own muscle tension. Please remember that muscle tension has many causes, and emotions arenโ€™t just the only cause. Also, the list presented in this article isnโ€™t definitive or set in stone. Every person varies meaning that itโ€™s important that you actively explore what emotions are linked to your muscle tension yourself. For example, tension in your shoulders might mean sadness for you personally, whereas this article says itโ€™s generally linked to feeling burdened. So itโ€™s important that you explore your muscle tension for yourself.

Have any advice on how to reduce muscle tension? Please share with us all below.

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  1. Afton says

    September 05, 2022 at 9:52 am

    Emotional Freedom Technique (tapping) would be a great addition to the list of ways to process feelings and release muscle tension.

    Reply
  2. Diane says

    June 03, 2022 at 12:05 am

    I ‘ve had so much muscle tension all my life that I thought once a week bowel movements were normal. When I had babies, my active labor was always over 28 hours and I never dropped my babies until I was actually being wheeled into the OR for emergency C-section.
    Now I’m realizing this tense, withholding body mirrors my non-asserting no-opinion non-personality. Likely because I had a cruel mother who beat me down constantly, both physically and psychologically.
    I am now 70 and just realizing how my tense body is due to being so horribly repressed. My shoulders are held so high I’m wearing my arms like they’re earrings. It takes extreme focus and intention to drop them. And they go right back up very soon.
    I have a lot to un-learn. And a lot to learn about relaxation and self-love.

    Reply
    • Bruce Dickson says

      October 22, 2022 at 6:31 am

      Good for you, Diane, keep going. If you wish more methods, try Internal Family Systems (IFS). Many kinds of therapists converging on this method the last ten years. If you have strong psych background in talking to parts, you can learn it from Youtube, books and podcasts.

      Reply
  3. Manon says

    May 21, 2022 at 12:17 pm

    I am not able to download your bodywork PDF. Did you remove it?

    Reply
  4. Sue says

    February 27, 2022 at 10:56 am

    Hi Aletheia,
    I have a lot of pain in my body much of which is caused by a chronic autoimmune liver disorder (PBC) which was diagnosed 13 years ago. I have had fibromyalgia and CFS for years and now have arthritis and carpal tunnel in my hands. I also have a pinched nerve in my neck and sciatica down my right leg. In short, Iโ€™m a wreck, but Iโ€™m trying to be positive and rectify all my ailments through positive action both mentally and physically. I am in therapy after the passing of my husband last year and appreciate your suggestions to release trapped emotions. The problem I have is that I was sexually assaulted by an male Ayurvedic Doctor some years ago and also by a female masseuse and this has made me somewhat reticent to seek out anyone with a โ€˜hands onโ€™ approach. I am working through these issues with my therapist but nevertheless many of these holistic approaches throw up a whole other set of issues for me. Any suggestions on how I can start to heal and what I should do to overcome what are some real stumbling blocks for me?

    Reply
  5. Kim says

    September 09, 2021 at 7:53 am

    Wish I had done something about this when it first became a problem for me. I recently began a Qigong practice. This has been a big help for me, too.

    Reply
    • Aletheia Luna says

      October 08, 2021 at 11:30 am

      You’re doing the best you can now, and that’s what counts. โ™ก

      Reply
  6. Deepanjali Verma says

    July 17, 2021 at 4:07 pm

    Hi Luna
    I really liked your article. Thank you for writing it down
    Can I share your article ??

    Reply
    • Aletheia Luna says

      September 03, 2021 at 11:14 am

      Hi Deepanjali, I’m glad you enjoyed this article. You’re more than welcome to share on social media or with your friends/family, go ahead! If by ‘share’ you mean repost, please see these guidelines: https://lonerwolf.com/want-republish-work/
      :)

      Reply
  7. Kelly says

    July 10, 2021 at 9:43 pm

    Thank you so much for sharing. I am currently experiencing alot of tension in my head, neck and shoulders. I know it’s caused be repressed emotions. I’ve just started releasing them with The Emotion Code a book by Dr. Bradley Nelson. I’ve been trying many ways to heal my past. Yoga Nidra also very good. Hope this helps. Much love.xx

    Reply
    • Aletheia Luna says

      September 03, 2021 at 11:15 am

      Thank you for these great suggestions Kelly!

      Reply
  8. Barbie says

    February 05, 2021 at 1:33 pm

    Everything I read from top to bottom was very refreshing and I’m going use the tips as well as share this with a friend. I live on low income or I’d donate a lot of money. Thanks for opening my eyes.

    Reply
    • Kelly says

      July 10, 2021 at 5:58 pm

      Thank you so much for sharing. I am currently experiencing alot of tension in my head, neck and shoulders. I know it’s caused be repressed emotions. I’ve just started releasing them with The Emotion Code a book by Dr. Bradley Nelson. I’ve been trying many ways to heal my past. Yoga Nidra also very good. Hope this helps. Much love.xx

      Reply
  9. Yesenia Velazquez says

    May 04, 2020 at 12:37 am

    I want to start by thanking you so much for your articles and books. They have helped me immensely!
    My fibromyalgia went away but now I’m having pain again. I’m exhausted all the time and hungry but I don’t gain weight. In fact if I skip a meal because I’m too exhausted I lose a couple of lbs!
    Reading this article and other of your has given me an idea as to why all of a sudden I’m in pain.
    I’m beating myself up because I haven’t been able to do much of anything even though I’m no longer in chronic pain.
    I got more done back then!
    I thought once my chronic pain gone I’d have more energy.
    Is it true that spiritual awakening is also part of these physical challenges I’m going through?
    Read that on another site.
    Also, I’m terrible at meditation but visualizing comes so easy for me???

    Reply
  10. alexandra says

    April 19, 2020 at 5:32 pm

    This topic is behind the book, โ€œEmotion codeโ€ by Bradley Nelson?? Perhaps the wrong last name but in the book, he teaches you his modality on removing these emotions that are trapped in your body, causing you physical pain n it is through a series of questions that you ask yourself and decipher your answers through self muscle testing and it has been successful for many people. N my quick explaination may have sounded complicating especially if youโ€™re unfamiliar with muscle testing but it is a simple test that we can all perform on ourselves using different methods. Read about it online and youโ€™ll realize itโ€™s nothing intimidating. And I also know that a lot of energy practitioners uSe his technique in their practice.

    Reply
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