The Deeper Meaning Behind Being a Loner

I don’t mind to be a loner, people can judge me whatever they want, I rather be alone than being with the wrong people. All the drama’s that I had been through my life, it’s really make me wiser by day. You don’t need a lot of friends or to be accepted to be happy. I choose to be happy life is too short to deal with the drama from other people. I have a lovely family and one good friend that is all that matters to me. I am not anti social, I always greet people nicely, sometimes I have a chat with my neighbors etc. Kindness is my religion, but not all people deserve my kindness and respect, it has to come from both sides.

I don’t see any problem with being a loner, although I have to admit that I’ve felt bad about that before. I got used to it and kind of get angry when people say I am anti social, or tell me I should be more outgoing. I became a loner as a fact of life, I got depression and I know how heavy it is, to be called names just because you can barely understand what’s going on. Another thing I have to admit is the fact that I’ve learned so much at this point of my life, when I was depressed, so many things became crystal clear in my mind, I’m not going to say I’m thankful to the universe (and bla bla bla) for such happening in my life, because I’m not at all, but as I said: I came to understand so profoundly so many things of life, as if my soul was some sort of dark room and for some reason my depression came to give it light, I know I don’t know everything, but I know a tiny part of everything. I know the topic here is not about how good you have made through… Read more »

Hi I have just read this article today and thought perhaps I would my own story to the mix, I am in my 50’s and I am married to a real nice lady , who is intelligent and thoughtful and has some of my attributes, but above all, along with my mother one of the only two friends who know me and love me, more importantly I trust their advice and value their friendship, so in saying that shall I start off ?, I came from a broken home ( I often joke I broke it myself…..hint joke ! ), as a child growing up I found solitude in the bush that I could get lost in ( I never did get lost in thousands of acres though ), I made cubby houses as a young boy, explored learning about native plants, snakes and other things in the wild, I loved watching the stars at night and seeing the clear night skies and hearing the night sounds of animals moving in the darkness, from earliest age, I found that most people lied or needed others to complete who they are, I always knew who I was, I used to trust… Read more »

I was raised as an only child we owned a store in philadelphia and lived upstairs in an apartment i spent lots of time by myself when i wasnt downstairs with my parents. We had people who worked for us mostly teenagers or very young adults so there was lots of contact with them. At sometime in my younger years i began to feel lonely and for the longest time wanted to be around people and when i got married had kid then divorced and moved back home i wasnt ever lalone but still felt lonely? anyway my parents are now dead my kids are grown and live on there own and somewhere things switched i LOVE being by myself and to much social contact overwhelms me i find myself craving for just the peace and quiet of being in my own space and not being obligated to tslk to or be around other people i much prefer emailing using facebook and simetimes talking on the phone now i even turn my cell off for days at a time this way nobody can bother me ir ask me to do anything! crazy because i use to live on the phone… Read more »

A MAN WITH NO PEOPLE CANNOT BE BETRAYED i love and live by that