The great malady of the twentieth century, implicated in all our troubles and affecting us individually and socially, is “loss of soul.” When the soul is neglected, it doesn’t just go away; it appears symptomatically in obsessions, addictions, violence, and loss of meaning. – T. Moore
What is at the root of all our suffering?
This is a question that has haunted the minds of humanity since the dawn of time.
What we’ve learned from religion and spiritual traditions alike is that the core of our torment is rooted deep within human beings.

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It is a canker of the Soul. A fragmentation of the psyche. A disturbance of the mind. A severance from nature. A desecration of the very world around us.
All of this pain is rooted in the loss of Soul.
This is why Ensoulment – being in the soul or living in alignment with the Soul – is so critical.
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What Happens When We Are Severed From the Soul?

When we are cut off from the Soul, we are cut off from each other and the world.
It is then that we collapse into a state of fundamentalism, cold rationalism, and mechanistic reductionism that sees the world/others as an object to be used and discarded.
When we are severed from the Soul, human beings become deranged.
Illnesses of every kind begin to emerge, starting within the body as chronic illnesses and eating disorders – ending with mental illnesses, existential crises, paranoia, hatred, suicide, murder, and the psychotic abuse of our most innocent members of society.

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For humanity to heal, we must reconnect with the Soul. We must become Ensouled. For us to reverse, in whatever way possible, the direct path of self-destruction we’re forging right now, we must be initiated onto our Soul’s path.
Ensoulment is the answer to Soul Loss, which is the most severe pandemic of all time, afflicting all people of all races and countries.
Humanity has lost its Soul, and without a move toward Ensoulment, what hope is there for our children’s children to survive in a world that is being laid to waste as we speak?
What Actually is the Soul?

We all possess a Soul. On a fundamental level, Soul is our animating essence – it derives from the Old English word sāwol, which means “spiritual and emotional part of a person, animate existence” (1).
Through the ages, thanks to both religious and wider spiritual influence alike, the Soul has been understood as the indwelling spark of Divinity we all carry.
In a nutshell, Soul is your innermost essence or Spirit embodied in earthly form. To use a simple analogy, Spirit is like pure light, whereas Soul is the kaleidoscopic, multi-colored lens through which Spirit shines.
Your Soul can also grow and expand throughout life.
In the words of poet Kahlil Gibran,
The soul walks not upon a line, neither does it grow like a reed. The soul unfolds itself, like a lotus of countless petals.
The Soul is paradoxical in nature and is both wholly human and wholly Divine.
Ever heard the expression, “He’s a lost soul,” or “She sold her soul”? The Soul can become sick, lethargic, and lost. But there is another part of the Soul, the Divine part (the “Immortal Soul”), that can guide and support us.
What is Ensoulment?

There’s a part of every living thing that wants to become itself: the tadpole into the frog, the chrysalis into the butterfly, a damaged human being into a whole one. – Ellen Bass
The word Ensoulment is composed of ‘Ensoul,’ which means to endow or imbue with a Soul, and the suffix ‘ment,‘ which means action or process. So, Ensoulment quite literally refers to the process of being infused with Soul.
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Ensoulment is about learning how to live more in alignment with your Soul by listening to its authentic wants, needs, and values. It’s a path of embodying your most authentic Self.
Another synonym for Ensoulment is Soul recovery or the shamanic notion of Soul retrieval; however, Ensoulment is more of an ongoing philosophy and lived experience than a single shamanic ritual.
Note on the traditional meaning: Originally, Ensoulment was a term with religious connotations, referring to the moment in which a fetus gains a Soul. But that’s not what we’re talking about in this article. Instead, we have intentionally redefined and reimagined Ensoulment to mean the ongoing experience of Soul Initiation.
12 Deep Transformations That Happen When You Become More Ensouled

The sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light in the darkness of mere being. – Carl Jung, Psychiatrist & Ensouled human being
Soul Loss looks like anxiety, depression, addictions, narcissism, violence, and abuse of all kinds.
Ensoulment, on the other hand, looks like openness, warmth, creativity, compassion, connectivity, joy, and a purpose-driven life.
To summarize, here are twelve transformations that often happen when you start to become more Ensouled:
- Living more in the present moment.
- Receptivity, humility, and openness.
- Creativity and living a life of rich self-expression.
- Having a strong sense of meaning and purpose.
- Knowing and honing your unique spiritual gifts.
- Feeling more connected to and led by your intuition.
- Greater ability to let go and surrender to a Higher Power.
- Moving toward internal integration and Wholeness.
- Experiencing more signs, synchronicities, and doors opening.
- Feeling connected with other people, the world, and Life itself.
- Heartfulness (awe, reference, wonder, enchantment, devotion, compassion).
- Orienting to the mysterious, the numinous, and the magic within and without you.
Ensouled people live with a great sense of creative meaning and purpose, are connected to their hearts, and feel a stronger connection with the Divine.
This journey isn’t something we can quickly “achieve” in the traditional sense. It’s not a linear path. It’s a spiralic, ebbing and flowing journey. It’s a movement of nature: organic but powerful. There is no single “finish line” – Ensoulment is an ever-deepening process of illumination, growth, and interconnectedness.
Four Sacred Paths of Ensoulment

The doors to the world of the wild Self are few but precious. If you have a deep scar, that is a door, if you have an old, old story, that is a door. If you love the sky and the water so much you almost cannot bear it, that is a door. If you yearn for a deeper life, a full life, a sane life, that is a door. ― Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Writer, Analyst & Ensouled human being
How do we become more Ensouled? That’s the next reasonable question. The answer is that there are different types of doorways, all with their unique potentials, gifts, and capacities.
I’ve spent over a decade exploring paths of Ensoulment. Here’s a sample of some of the most powerful paths:
Physical/Earth-centered Paths:

The soul is placed in the body like a rough diamond, and must be polished, or the luster of it will never appear.
― Daniel Defoe
Emotional Paths:

Love is the nature of the soul.
– John O’Donohue
Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray. ― Rumi
- Devotion
- Self-love
- Contemplating beauty
- Heart-centered meditation
- Inner child work
- Caring for a family/other beings
Imaginative Paths:

Music and art and poetry attune the soul to God.
– Thomas Merton
- Writing/Journaling
- Drawing/Painting
- Crafting
- Music-making
- Ritual
- Mythology/symbology
- Vision quests
- Shamanic journeying
Mental Paths:

Knowledge is the food of the soul.
– Plato
Quiet the mind, and the soul will speak.
― Ma Jaya Sati Bhagavati
- Prayer
- Chanting
- Silence
- Lectio Divina
- Meditation
- Reading books
- Dream work
- Mindfulness
- Shadow work
Of course, not all of these paths lead exclusively to Ensoulment.
Gardening, for instance, can easily become a mindless chore if it lacks a sense of heart and soul. Another example from the above list is chanting, which can become a dead droning of empty words if it isn’t first imbued with deep feeling and intention.
In summary, whatever we do with depth and focus can be a path of Ensoulment (i.e., Soul Work) – it’s all about your heart’s inner attitude and the meaning you infuse into what you do.
Essentially, Ensoulment is inner archaeology – it helps us to go back to the root of our being. Choose what resonates with you and leave the rest.
Conclusion

Ensoulment is essential because you and I – and Mother Earth at large – crucially and desperately need it.

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We’re suffering from pandemic proportions of Soul Loss that’s only getting worse, putting us on the fast track to the sixth mass extinction.
We’re not only destroying Mother Nature and the ecosystem, but we’re also experiencing large-scale cultural collapse that is undermining the fabric of our civilization.
We need to think bigger as a race. Whatever we do can’t merely be for the individual – we don’t have that luxury. Our efforts must be directed toward the Whole. And that starts at a root level: becoming reconnected to our Souls again.
Being true to who we are means carrying our spirit like a candle in the center of our darkness.
– Mark Nepo
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From the depths of MY SOUL I am soooooo very grateful for this article!!! I’ve been on a healing journey for lots of years at this point, but within the last couple of years I’ve had the realist level of LIFE, LOVE and ACCEPTANCE for EVERYONE and EVERYTHING in EXISTENCE, as my main priority… Seeing the things that I have really valued enough to dedicate myself to the pursuit of sharing my belief system, with everything in existence, as a key level of expressed as HAND DELIVERED PERFECTION, is a true blessing and I am truly humbled to be a part of everything in this movement!!! I believe the things we are truly able to speak on in this world are a major key to the survival of LOVE!! So many things that I have spoken on in regards to my personal belief system, are spoken word for word precisely the same!!! I’m a level of guided speaker of the Divine and this article just had the ability to show me EXACTLY WHY WE LOVE THIS WORLD SO VERY MUCH!!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this article!!! It truly brings tears to my eyes to see, feel and hear the truest amount of pursuit to the world’s largest percentage of people, being lead by such an amazing belief system!!!! Mind you, we’re far from alone in this movement, in ways we can only begin to speak on lol, but trust me when I say that the level of love just recieved for this entire existence of being, has been able to radiate true purpose back into our hearts pursuit!!!! I’m tearing back up just typing the divines message here lol… But LIFE LOVE AND ACCEPTANCE FOR EVERY ONE AND EVERYTHING IN EXISTENCE ISNT ONLY A MOTTO TO ME, IT’S TGE REALIST LEVEL OF HOPE FOR RECOVERY TO BE EXPRESSED!!! You are most definitely rocking your souls purpose!!! Keep shining cause you are able to reach millions with your level of love and pursiut of justice being brought back into existence!!!! With the biggest level of life love and acceptance possible, for everyone’s highest and greatest good, we love you and this article lol!!!
Wow! I can feel so much love from your comment Melissa, thank you deeply ♡
I love this site, the writing and teaching from both of you is wonderful. The comments and sharing from others are very enlightening and helpful when I am having a day of struggles. As I have been listening and watching the world fall to pieces, I repeatedly remind myself that not all have fallen into that trap. I take heart when I talk to some of my friends that they have not fallen into the repeated messages of hate and division. Thank you for all you do to keep the spirit alive and involved in this world at a crisis point. Love and beautiful energy to you.
Thank you for being here Eileen :)
I just wr one this lovely piece, praising both of you and the magnificent work you do. It disappeared – maybe it posted somewhere – who knows. I’ll try and summarize what I said. Brevity is not my strong suite.
I can’t remember how or when I found you. Although I’ve been studying
metaphysics and “the mystery” for over 30 years, I am always surprised about how your work and writing works on me and my Psyche. You have the unique ability to make incredibly important and complex material into beautifully written, accessible information.
In a time of potential “Great Darkness” your light shines right through.
Keep going – you are brilliant, and great integrators, but even more importantly – you are extremely generous. It is such a gift!!
Thank you!! I already get your posts,
I’m not sure where your previous comment went. But thank you so much for posting again these wonderful affirming words. Much love to you Barbara ♡
Beautiful as always and reminds me why shamans are called the “soul doctors”. Ensoulment, hearing, aligning with my soul, giving it space reclaimed from ego and mind, living its truth has been my conscious path for several years and unconscious for several decades. It started as self improvement, self discovery journey, grew into seeking of happiness, then spirituality. In our time of mind domination, soul is not taken seriously or even considered. Yet many of us would have been so much happier and less alone if they faced their souls. You’ve done an excellent job at describing this path in words and sharing the key tips to get started. Light and love.
“In our time of mind domination, soul is not taken seriously or even considered.” – yes, it’s bizarre isn’t it? Being surrounded by this work all the time, I assume everyone else knows and carries it with them. But the reality is that most people in the world don’t give a second thought to matters of the soul. We need more authentic, integrated, mature ‘soul doctors’ in this world ♡
Its difficult to articulate just how painfully in need I’ve been for this very type of inspiration. Not only can I relate, but have recently had to pull myself out of my own soul loss that nearly overtook me. I’m in the process of finding within, the desire and motivation to heal. Lately, I’ve realized that ive mentally and spiritually, been holding myself hostage. Imprisoned and paralyzed inside my mind. If you’re unfamiliar, trust me, its horrific. Pity parties and guilt trips don’t compare to this unfortunate throwdown. However, to consider a greater good has helped me break out n reanimate. And remaining true to myself is of great importance to me. It’s the root of who I am, oddly enough. This article has provoked such a positive and hopeful emotional response. I learned about ten years ago what being an empath entailed, relieved to have an explanation for experiencing the emotions of others around me all throughout my life. Now, reading the information you’ve offered has motivated me to continue this journey. Not only for my own soul but aware that there are others that maybe in desperate search of their own. Thank you. I mean that most sincerely. As above, so below. Have a kick ass day!
Audrey K Boone
Louisville, Ky
I can relate to that mental-imprisonment you talk about Audrey, I’ve been there before *many* times. I’m SO delighted this has sparked the desire within you to keep going, that is all I could ever ask for when sharing these pieces. With great love ♡
You have no idea what these words mean to me I feel like I have been waiting to hear them my whole life. I’m so grateful, deeply sad, and yet I feel set free.
Thank you,
Thank you so much.
Just beautiful, thank you Gem!
Hi everyone,
I think I discovered the lonerwolf.com site between 2012 – 2014 after my father took his own life in 2008. Shortly after his unexpected passing, I found myself filled with unshakable pain, sorrow and heartache. In between caring for my two small boys and full time functioning, I found myself not wanting to get out of bed in the morning most days. I picked up books after books trying to learn more about human emotions and feelings but nothing seemed to heal my sea of sadness and mountain of sorrow.
When I first read the “Dark Night of the Soul” blog, I found myself drawn to the details and messages as if those words, one by one was describing the exact symptoms of “soul loss” that I was experiencing. I’ve read so many articles on this site since that day I discovered this site. At first I read with my mind, I tried to define senses and logic from the mental plane but gradually, the words and messages I absorbed seem to not go straight to my head. I nodded and smiled gently when I saw words and messages that resonated with my inner knowledge. It was like I have gained a deep sense of knowing without thinking. As if the inner knowledge or wisdom keeps accumulating, all the while I found myself thinking less, arguing less coupled with feeling clear and calmer.
Today, I am pain free but still coming back time and time again to learn and search for new materials published on this site if they are still made available to a learner like myself. Thank you for helping me to continue to transform my inner self.
Gratefully yours,
Kelley
It means so much to read a comment like this from a long-time reader such as yourself. Thank you for growing along with us Kelley ❤
Oh Aletheia, thank you so much for every word of this! So needed, so beautifully crafted. Thanks especially for sharing about your background. Though we will likely never meet, you and Mateo are a precious part of my Soul Tribe and so dear to my heart. Thank you for you!! ☮
❤ big hugs, thank you Deanne
Aletheia, this is perhaps the most profound message I’ve read on lonerwolf yet! And I’ve read quite a few. Thank you. You have no idea how much I needed to read these words at such perfect timing.
Great read.. & re-read & yes to all 11 signs,