How to Start Journaling For Mental, Emotional and Spiritual Growth

Journaling is possibly one of the most simple but profound tools out there for enhancing your well-being on every level (mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual).

In fact, journaling is such a useful practice that I recommend it non-stop in the articles I publish throughout this site and to those I mentor privately. When it comes to self-growth and spiritual maturation, journaling is probably one of the top five practices I recommend to everyone, no matter how good a person is at writing or not.

Thankfully, you don’t have to be particularly good at writing to benefit from journaling. Not only that, but you don’t even have to worry about things like grammar or spelling – none of those fussy details matter at all. What does matter is the attitude and intention you bring to journaling. Are you interested in growing and learning more about yourself? Great! The desire to learn is the entire point of journaling. Therefore, as long as you’re sincere about discovering more about yourself, you’ve already succeeded! When it comes to journaling, there’s nothing to master but your own ability to be self-aware.

But understandably, journaling doesn’t come naturally to everyone. So if you’re struggling to get motivated, I’ll share with you some of my best advice in this article.

What is Journaling?

Journaling is the practice of writing down your thoughts and feelings for the purposes of self-analysis, self-discovery, and self-reflection. As one of the oldest forms of self-help in the world, journaling is about exploring one’s own thoughts, feelings, impulses, memories, goals, and hidden desires through the written word. As such, journaling is often prescribed by therapists, counselors, and spiritual mentors as a powerful way of developing more self-understanding and compassion.

Primarily, journaling is about exploration: exploring who you are, what you think, how you feel, and the way in which you process life’s daily events. As a byproduct, more clarity and insight is gained about your mind and emotions, leading to heightened self-awareness. The more self-aware a person is, the more well-adjusted, grounded and balanced they will feel, despite what is going on around them. Therefore, journaling helps us to find inner stability and gives us the ability to untangle ourselves from self-destructive forms of behavior and negative thought patterns.

18 Benefits of Journaling

For something so simple, there are an amazing number of benefits linked to journaling. These benefits are both subjective (personally felt) and objective (scientifically proven).

Here’s are some of the many benefits:

• Strengthens your immune system and leads to better physical health (source)
• Improves emotional intelligence (the ability to perceive and understand emotions)
• Soothes anxiety and increases feelings of calmness (source)
• Promotes individuation (the maturing of the self/identity)
• Enhances mental health (source)
• Helps you to deal better with depression (source)
• Encourages spiritual growth and integration
• Reduces symptoms related to panic, PTSD, and addiction (source)
• Increased self-awareness, self-understanding, and self-compassion
• Improves your ability to communicate with others (source)
• Increases happiness (source)
• Promotes mental clarity and problem-solving skills
• Helps you to deal with stress and intrusive thoughts more effectively (source)
• Increases creativity
• Improves your work efficiency (source)
• Can help to improve your IQ (source)
• Speeds up emotional recovery after romantic breakups (source)
• Promotes emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual healing

… and I’m sure there are many other benefits I haven’t mentioned here. For something so basic, this list shows a stunning array of benefits which virtually anyone can receive! All we need to do is learn how to make journaling a daily practice.

How to Start Journaling

My love affair with journaling started at the young age of 10. I think the first ever journal entry I wrote was about my goldfish who had died and how sad I was. Being a sensitive introvert, recording my thoughts just seemed to come naturally to me as it allowed me to process what I was going through. Journaling was also a private space to open my mind and heart and share what I was too shy to tell others. In my teenage years, I journalled each and every day without fail, and it was a lifesaver. Journaling was probably the number one thing that got me through all of the depression, fear insecurity, and confusion of growing up – particularly during my process of spiritual awakening and the turmoil of separation from my family.

As I’ve matured, I now feel much more comfortable sharing my thoughts and feelings publically (through this website), but I do still record private thoughts and feelings every few weeks or so. To me, journaling has been one of the most powerful instruments for mental, emotional, and spiritual growth I have ever used. Without this daily practice, I don’t think I would have ever learned half of what I know now.

But journaling is not all sunshine and roses: it can be misused. For example, when approached in the wrong way, journaling can lead to excessive self-absorption and wallowing in self-pity. It’s important to take a structured and solution-oriented approach to recording your thoughts, otherwise, you could be doing more harm than good. I have made the mistake of using journaling as a vehicle for blame and self-justification before, so be careful of using journaling solely for the purpose of ranting and raving without true self-analysis.

When approached in a healthy way, journaling can lead to decreased emotional reactivity, more mindfulness, tolerance, understanding, and ultimately improved relationships both with yourself and other people. In this way, journaling helps you to let go of emotional and mental suffering and feel more inner peace. The direct and indirect benefits of journaling are probably limitless.

If you want to start journaling – or have tried in the past but never made a habit out of it – here are some of my best tips:

1. Don’t worry about the medium

Many people wonder whether paper diaries or digital diaries are better. My response is that none of them are superior: it all depends on the person. If you like to cogitate over your thoughts and go slowly, writing in a traditional paper diary might be the best for you. However, if you prefer the convenience of typing and if you like to move quickly with your thoughts, you might like to try an online diary or note-taking app such as Evernote, Microsoft OneNote, Penzu or another password secure website. Try exploring both and see what you like better.

2. Keep your diary private

Your diary should be for your eyes only – it isn’t to be shared on your Facebook page, Instagram account, Youtube channel, or other social media platform. It shouldn’t even be shared with your friends, partner or family members. Why? Because when we share thoughts and feelings with others, we tend to screen them for acceptability. Your journal should be a place where you can write freely without the fear of judgment or scrutiny – this is why it’s better to keep it private. No one is saying that you can’t share some of your private reflections verbally with others, but just try to keep what you have written to yourself.

You might also like to find a way of keeping your diary secure. You could use a password protected website like Evernote or, if you are using a physical diary, get a lock and key (or hide it really well)! The more confident you are that your thoughts will stay private, the easier it will be for you to write without inhibition.

3. Don’t bother with spelling, grammar, and punctuation

As a perfectionist, it took me many years to stop editing my journal entries for spelling errors and grammatical mistakes. Yes, I know that might sound silly, but for us precisionists, it can be hard to just let go and write “without abandon.” Eventually, I realized that editing my journal entries actually stopped my flow of thoughts and feelings because I was too busy trying to “play by the rules.” Try to avoid being anal-retentive about writing: just let it all out – it feels so much better! I don’t even play by the capitalization or sentence structure rules anymore when it comes to writing in my journal (and for me, that’s saying a lot!).

4. Forget about being a “good writer”

The purpose of journaling isn’t to write a literary masterpiece, it is to self-reflect and record the thoughts and feelings you’ve been having for self-growth. Simply write whatever comes to mind and don’t worry about whether it sounds poetic or eloquent.

5. Set a regular time of day

Making journaling into a habit requires you to set aside time every day. I like to personally write at the end of the day, but you might be different. Pick one period of the day and try to stick to it. For example, you might like to write first thing in the morning, after morning tea, after lunch time, or last thing at night. If you feel inspired to write at a time of the day you’re not accustomed to writing, just flow with it. There are no set-in-stone rules here.

6. Write your deepest thoughts and feelings

Journaling is an intuitive activity because it requires you to tune into your feelings and blurt all of that out on paper. For me, and many others, journaling is the most effective when it is a space where our deepest thoughts and feelings can be shared and mulled over. For instance, I love exploring my latest emotional insights, problems, and existential epiphanies in my journal. Sometimes I will write for a minute, and at other times I will write for up to an hour: it all depends on how I am feeling. So don’t be afraid to delve deeply into your mind and heart.

7. There’s no need for time restrictions

Try to avoid setting rigid time limits: it’s best just to allow your writing to flow. Of course, in an ideal world, we’d all have plenty of time to journal, but that’s often not possible. So sometimes time restrictions are necessary (i.e. if you have an extremely busy life). But if you have a bit of spare time, enjoy the feeling of letting your inner self materialize on paper. There’s no need to “set aside ten minutes a day” as many people recommend – I find that time restrictions tend to make journaling into a chore rather than an enjoyable self-growth activity. But, as I said, if you have limited time available, time restrictions can come in handy.

8. If you’re struggling, ask these questions …

Sometimes we just don’t feel “in the flow” of writing, and sharing our thoughts doesn’t come naturally. As an author and blogger, I get this frequently: it’s just part of the natural ebb and flow of life. If you ever feel this way, here are some useful question you can ask yourself which will stimulate thought:

• How am I feeling today?
• What is an issue I’m facing?
• What can I do about my most recent problem?
• What spiritual lesson is hidden in a difficult situation I’m facing?
• What thoughts are triggering my current feelings?
• Why do I keep having these thoughts?
• What was the message hidden in last night’s dream?
• What do I feel the need to change or improve about myself? (And why?)
• Am I being self-compassionate?
• Am I seeing the entire picture?
• How am I being dishonest with myself or others?
• In what ways can I be more mindful?
• What mistaken beliefs am I buying into?
• What is my plan of action to achieve my goals?
• What setbacks and obstacles am I facing?

These are only a few of the many potential questions you can ask yourself. I personally prefer to just allow my thoughts and feelings “vomit” out onto the page – but other people prefer a more structured approach. So if you’re one of those people, you might like to keep a list of questions like the one above, close by.

9. Don’t be afraid to explore traumatic experiences

Journaling is about growth, and growth often includes digesting past experiences. Sometimes the experiences we went through in the past were disturbing, traumatic or upsetting. Don’t be afraid to explore these experiences – but just remember not to wallow in self-pity. It’s OK to express your feelings
loud and clear on paper; this is a terrific form of catharsis. But once you start ruminating and obsessing over these past experiences, then it’s time to switch to your left hemisphere brain and start thinking about how you can overcome the pain inside of you practically.

10. Reflect on what you’ve written

After you’ve finished your journal entry, you might like to read back over what you’ve written with the intention of gaining clarity. As I mentioned previously, try not to nitpick your writing – spelling and all the rules of writing are irrelevant here. What matters is that you gain a big picture perspective on how you think and feel. If any thoughts, feelings or realizations stand out to you, try highlighting them. You might like to create a table of contents at the end of the notebook (if it is physical) and write down the page numbers that correspond to your mental breakthroughs. If you’re using a digital diary, try to tag your entry with something like “epiphanies” or “important realizations” so that you can easily access these thoughts later.

Personally, reflection on what I wrote was one of the best ways to emotionally and mentally metabolize the most difficult experiences in my life. Reflection is what allows you to integrate your thoughts into knowledge, understanding, and inner transformation.

11. Write for the joy of it

Don’t journal out of duty or obligation, do it because you enjoy doing it! Journaling isn’t for everyone, so if you don’t resonate with it, that’s OK. There’s probably something else out there equally as beneficial. But if you do enjoy and benefit from this practice, pay attention to the benefits! Don’t just make journaling into something else to check off your “to-do” list. I like to notice how much mental and emotional clarity I have after journaling, and it is those feelings and discoveries that keep me going.

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I hope this advice helps to give you a bit more direction and motivation. Even just spending a few minutes a day recording how you feel is hugely beneficial, this is because journaling helps you to read your own mind and make sense of all the mental clutter and emotional turbulence you feel inside.

As a self-awareness and self-discovery tool, journaling is second to none in my opinion. When we explore our thoughts, we’re not living second-hand knowledge or seeing ourselves through the eyes of some “professional” – instead, we are actively seeking to understand, through direct experience, who we are and what we value the most at a core level.

I hope journaling can benefit you just as much as it has benefitted me.

As a final note; if you enjoy writing down your thoughts, you might also like to read my article on automatic writing. Automatic writing is a way of accessing your unconscious mind and realm of your soul.

Please feel welcome to share your thoughts or feelings below.