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19 Signs You’re a Highly Sensitive Person (+ How to Survive and Thrive)

by Aletheia Luna ยท Updated: Sep 30, 2022 ยท 343 Comments

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It all added up. Sensitivity to loud sounds, harsh light, emotional climates, and over-stimulating situations? I’d just discovered something amazing: I’m a highly sensitive person.

For years, since childhood, I had always believed there was something terribly weird, different, strange, or broken about me.

New situations easily overwhelmed me. Strangers set me on edge. Loud sounds made me jump out of my skin. And even the slightest amount of coffee or alcohol sent me into a tailspin.


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If you can relate to this level of sensitivity, you might be a highly sensitive person.

The life-changing reality of this label is that it helps you to accept that (1) you’re not crazy, (2) there’s nothing wrong with you, and (3) you’re not alone.

Table of contents

  • What is a Highly Sensitive Person?
  • 19 Signs You’re a Highly Sensitive Person
  • HSPs, Emotional Intensity, and Giftedness
  • Common Myths About the Highly Sensitive Person
  • How to Survive as an HSP
  • 5 Ways to Stop Emotional Snowballing as a Highly Sensitive Person

What is a Highly Sensitive Person?

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Highly sensitive people (HSPs) are individuals who are genetically predisposed to higher levels of mental, emotional, and physical sensitivity. It is speculated that around 15-20% of our population is wired differently and therefore experiences life in a much more intense way than the average person. HSPs differ from neurotypical individuals in that they are more deeply impacted by sights, sounds, smells, tastes tactile sensations, and emotions.

19 Signs You’re a Highly Sensitive Person

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Mother of the discovery,ย Elaineย Aron, has been researching the highly sensitive person for over 20 years now. As such, she has a finely tuned list of traits and behavioral quirks that define the highly sensitive person. I’ve refined some of these traits below. See how many you can relate to:

  1. I’m aware of subtleties and nuances in different environments, e.g., a tap dripping too loudly, a light bulb burning too brightly, etc.
  2. I’m easily overwhelmed by the senses. Loud noises, strong smells, tastes, and light affect me negatively, e.g., the pounding music of nightclubs, loud busy freeways, and strong perfumes.
  3. I need to withdraw from busy days and take a break, or a nap, by myself.
  4. I’m overly sensitive to pain, e.g. needles, sports injuries, insect stings, etc.
  5. I become spooked and startled easily.
  6. I like to take my time, and not overload myself with too many activities as it drains andย overwhelmsย me.
  7. I prefer to avoid violent TV shows and movies.
  8. I find it hard to adapt to changes in my life.
  9. I tend to ruminate and process information deeply.
  10. I’m empathic. I’m aware of the way people feel around me, and when any slight change occurs in them.
  11. Emotional environments tend to affect me deeply.
  12. I’m often perceived as being introverted or shy.
  13. I’m profoundly moved by nature, the arts or music.
  14. I tend to be more philosophically and spiritually-orientated.
  15. I feel unusually strong emotions.
  16. I avoid and deeply dislike confrontation of any kind.
  17. I prefer to not be observed when fulfilling tasks: it unsettles me.
  18. I tend to avoid situations that are too intense or chaotic.
  19. I seem to process the world at a very deep level.

How many of these qualities did you say “yes” to? I’d love to hear in the comments!

HSPs, Emotional Intensity, and Giftedness

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Perhaps one of the defining qualities of being an HSP is how emotionally intense we are.

We feelย everythingย in an intense, passionate, and sometimes devastating way. This intensity often leads us to become artists, visionary leaders, innovators, mentors, healers, and therapists.


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But this is a bittersweet trait we share because while it helps us to live life with passion and intensity, it can also isolate us. We may be misunderstood, criticized, underpaid, undervalued, taken for granted, alienated, and generally perceived as being “too much.” We may be classified as neurotic, melodramatic, thin-skinned, or generally finicky โ€“ and mistreated because of it.

Yet, despite the many challenges we face, our intensity and giftedness as highly sensitive people also opens the doorway to potentially transcendent and cosmic adventures. For example, many people who are highly sensitive undergo spiritual awakenings and various mystical experiences. Because we are naturally sensitive and more in-tune with the undercurrents of life, we often find ourselves having paradigm-shifting insights about the nature of reality.

In fact, many highly sensitive people are also naturally gifted empaths andย old souls who gravitate toward various spiritual pursuits that explore the meaning of life and how to experience spiritual Oneness.

Regardless of whether you’re spiritually-inclined or not, you will have the insatiable need to live authentically and find your true purpose.

Common Myths About the Highly Sensitive Person

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As with any neuroatypical group, HSPs deal with their fair share of misguided judgments. Here are the three most common misconceptions about HSPs:

Myth #1: ย  HSPs are introverts

HSPs and introverts both reflect deeply and have rich inner worlds โ€“ but not all HSPs are introverted, and vice versa. In fact, as Aron points out, 30% of the total number of highly sensitive people are actually extroverted. It’s a smaller number, but it still shows that introversion does not always equate to being highly sensitive.

Myth #2: ย  Being an HSP is just another word for being shy

Just like introverts, highly sensitive people are often mislabeled as being shy. Although the two share things in common โ€“ such as sensitivity to overwhelming social situations โ€“ they are not the same thing. While shyness is learned, being a highly sensitive person is not.

Myth #3:ย  ย “HSP” is a mental disorder

For some, it can be easy to mistake the highly sensitive person as a sufferer of some strange mental condition. Although some HSPs possess separate mental illnesses, being sensitive does not automatically make someone mentally ill. Instead, sensitivity is a trait, a gift even, that some people possess and others don’t. Besides, what pathological mental disorder allows the sufferer to be endowed with such genuine joys as being more empathic, spiritually-orientated, and appreciating the details of life more fully?

How to Survive as an HSP

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Due to their sensitive nature, highly sensitive people are prone to idealism and perfectionism. This often stems from deriving our self-worth from the opinion of others, and not valuing ourselves enough. (And the self-worth issues we often develop are due to not being appreciated or understood throughout life.)

Also, being a highly sensitive person can hit you hard if you’re a male. Being a thick-skinned logician is favored as the masculine ideal in the Western world, rather than the sensitive, emotional poet. But whatever difficulties we face as highly sensitive people can be overcome with the ability to reframe the negative into the positive, and actively work to better our environments. Here are some tips:

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1. ย  Learn to value yourself

I learned this the hard way. When we place too much importance on what people say and think about us, we create immense psychological tension and anxiety. We are living to satisfy the thousands of different perspectives of who we “should” be, rather than embracing what we are. In essence, we are creating the exact thing we try to avoid that is detrimental to us: too much internal pressure and chaos. So be nice to yourself. Learn to value your qualities and gifts. Realize that you’re the one and only master over yourself, and no one can have power over you unless you let them.

2. ย  Don’t take things personally

This tip, mentioned by Don Miguel Ruiz in his well-known bookย The Four Agreements, is essential for mental and emotional happiness.

The highly sensitive person is prone to get hurt easily by other people and their words. Consequently, we frequently find ourselves on-edge in social situations, trying to finely tune our behavior to avoid conflict.

When we take the insults and the moods of other people personally, we blame ourselves. We think that somehow we’re responsible, even deserve their abuse, but we’re not and we don’t.

To overcome the dilemma of taking things personally, try looking beyond your feelings. Use your ability to analyze instead and think to yourself, “I wonder what type of pain this person is suffering to treat me that way?” For example, perhaps they had a really bad day? Perhaps they’re going through a divorce? Perhaps they got triggered? Perhaps they had bad sleep?

When we ask these “why?” questions, we go beyond the initial sting of being mistreated and realize that ultimately, how people treat us is a reflection of them, not us. As Don Miguel Ruiz says, “nothing other people do is because of you.“

3. ย  Embrace solitude

Solitude is not loneliness, instead, it is a chosen form of being alone, rather than an imposed one. When we choose solitude and take mini-retreats from our stimulating days, we give ourselves the gift ofย re-cooperation. As highly sensitive people, we need to be in-tune with our minds and bodies and the warning signs of burnout, such as irritability and physical exhaustion. So take a bit of alone time to renew yourself.

4. ย  Investigate, identify, and act upon your sensitivity triggers

Wouldn’t life be a whole lot easier if we managed to resourcefully alter or intelligently negotiate our way around the stresses and stimulations that come our way? Of course, we can’t plan everything, but for the stresses currently existing in our lives, we can work to plan ahead and alleviate the incoming tension.

As an HSP, I struggled with this, stoically putting up with the extreme anxiety I felt at work until I realized that it was weakening my health. No, I didn’t do something drastic like quit my job, but I did decide to plan ahead and practice self-hypnosis every time I had to go to work, to prepare myself for the day. I still do.

As an HSP, you may be suffering from the same problem I did: a self-sacrificial acceptance of your less-than-healthy response to a situation in life. If you find yourself daily frazzled, try identifying what makes you so stressed out and think about what you can do to actively make your life easier to live. Life wasn’t meant to be bared with gritted teeth.

5 Ways to Stop Emotional Snowballing as a Highly Sensitive Person

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Your heart pounds, you begin to tremble, your chest constricts, pain shoots through your core, your mind blursย โ€ฆ ย and all this, simply as a response to a threat, insult or even a simple tone of voice.

Highly sensitive people frequently live life on the brink of emotional snowballing, a term I use to describe a situation where emotions get out of control and quickly become out of proportion to the situation at hand.

Just think of a small snowball rolling down a very steep hill โ€“ it becomes larger and larger and rolls faster and faster very quickly. For many highly sensitive people, this emotional turbulence is a fact of life.

But why? As Elaine Aron pointed out in her book The Highly Sensitive Person, โ€œmost of us are deeply affected by other peopleโ€™s moods and emotions.โ€ In fact, you could say that most highly sensitive people are simply excellent social chameleons to the emotional landscapes around them.

This can be good news if everything is peachy bliss, but many times, highly sensitive people find themselvesย absorbingย theย poisonous negativityย around them. You could say that the highly sensitive personโ€™s problem is taking things too personally. But itโ€™s much more than that. The highly sensitive person is deeply affected by any highly stimulating situation, whether physical, mental and emotional.


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In a sense, you could say they feel everything at a more extreme level than the non-HSP person. While this can make life a lot more profound for highly sensitive people, it can also make interpersonal relations very bitter indeed.

Below you will find four techniques I have found useful in preventing emotional snowballing. Iโ€™m a highly sensitive person myself and hope these will help quell the tidal waves of emotion when they roll your way:

1. ย Seek out a quiet, empty spot to cool down

As I mentioned before, highly sensitive people suffer a lot at the hands of hyper-arousing and stimulating situations. The best thing to do when you become aware of the symptoms of emotional stress is to remove yourself from the situation. Excuse yourself, or simply walk away from the person or people that are causing you harm and find a deserted, empty place.

I say deserted and empty because the least stimulating, the better. You need to make time to re-cooperate and soften the violent sensations inside of you. I find that the bathroom is usually the best place to go, especially when the lights are out and everything is muted and dim.

2. ย Focus on something that made you happy today

If nothing made you happy today, try the past week, or you could think about the best thing that ever happened to you. I find that focusing on something positive helps break the cycle of negative emotions that begin to quickly increase inside. It also helps to remind you that life wasnโ€™t always as painful as it seems in the present moment, and helps give you perspective.

If you have had a bad run-in with a specific person in particular, you can also try thinking of the last time you enjoyed being in their company. Did they make you laugh, did you share something nice together, were you excited to talk to them? This works especially well with family members and close friends who have upset you.

Itโ€™s good to remember that everyone has bad days once in a while, and they arenโ€™t necessarily angry at you โ€“ in fact, usually, they arenโ€™t. They are simply reacting to their own bad feelings and taking it out on you. Once again, this technique of focusing on a past positive experience works well after youโ€™ve sought out a quiet and empty spot to re-cooperate.

3. ย Listen to, or watch something upbeat

The biggest mistake that I made as a highly sensitive person was to listen to melancholic, dark music when I felt emotionally strained. Although itโ€™s nice to feel as though others can relate to the way you feel through their music, this is not always a healthy way to deal with emotional turmoil.

If youโ€™re primarily an auditory learner like me, listening to happy music is one of the best ways to stop emotional snowballing. I know it’s cliche, but try listening to โ€œDonโ€™t Worry, Be Happyโ€ by Bob McFerrin for starters! (It’s bound to make you smile!) If youโ€™re primarily a visual learner however, the next best alternative is to watch a comedic movie that will allow you to relax and break out of the negative cycles of emotion. Have a list of comedy movies at hand, just so you donโ€™t lose time frantically scavenging for one. (By the way, if you want to find out what kind of learner you are, take our Visual, Auditory, or Kinesthetic test.)

4. Ground and orient yourself to your surroundings

When you feel like you’re spiraling out of control (i.e., feeling overwhelmed, inundated, panicky, grief-stricken) find something beautiful, calming, or pleasant in your environment to focus on. This technique is often used in somatic psychotherapy for trauma sufferers and works wonders with highly sensitive people.

For example, you may choose to focus on a patch of sunlight on the ground, a vase of flowers in the distance, a child running and laughing, the calming color of the wallpaper, or anything else that brings you a burst of delight.

Orienting to something safe and pleasant in your environment is a powerful grounding technique that you can use anytime, anywhere.

5. ย Remember that this too will pass

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This philosophic approach to preventing emotional snowballing for the highly sensitive person is a powerful way to transcend your emotional strife and look at life with a birds-eye perspective.

Think of everything good and bad that has ever happened to you. All of it has passed by and has been replaced with something different: the good with the bad, and the bad with the good.

Life is a constant flux; a wax and wane of good and bad. If everything was always good, we would find life boring and weโ€™d take it for granted. In this way, the bad moments in our lives can even be seen as necessary and beneficial โ€“ they provide a contrast for the good so we can appreciate it even more fully.

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So just remember: when you are close to an emotional snowball, remember that this too will pass. Like everything in your past, it will perish and be replaced with something else.

Are you a highly sensitive person? ย Do you have anything to add to this article? ย If so, please do below.

Also, you may like to take our Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) Test.

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About Aletheia Luna

Aletheia Luna is a prolific psychospiritual writer, author, educator, and intuitive guide whose work has touched the lives of millions worldwide. As a survivor of fundamentalist religious abuse, her mission is to help others find love, strength, and inner light in even the darkest places. She is the author of hundreds of popular articles, as well as numerous books and journals on the topics of Self-Love, Spiritual Awakening, and more. [Read More]

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  1. Fred Barnard says

    September 25, 2015 at 11:49 am

    People say, because I can not live around barking dogs, that I’m “too sensitive”. i do not agree. I believe I have the right to the “Peaceful Enjoyment of My Own Home” Furthermore: People who have never suffered through extensive exposure to chronic barking often find it difficult to understand why it should be such an incredibly upsetting, debilitating ordeal. This section tells you why that is, beginning with a discussion of how our bodies react to exposure to chronic noise.

    The Physiology of the Upset Victim

    The various organs of your body are connected in a way you may not have thought of before. Your eyes, heart, lungs, digestive system, and the smooth muscles of your vascular system (among other organs) are all connected to your brain by nerve cells, which are also called neurons.

    Picture the way telephone lines run across the country connecting one city to another. The telephone line running from Los Angeles to San Francisco is not one continuous wire. It is many wires, each connected to the next. When an electronic signal goes from one city to another over the phone line, it travels in relay fashion from wire to wire until it reaches its destination. These particular types of neurons are like that. They carry electrical impulses from the brain in relay fashion, only instead of running from city to city, they run from the brain to the other organs of the body.

    Because the brain is wired up to these particular organs through the same relay system of neurons, it can simultaneously create changes in all the connected organs at once by sending electrical impulses traveling along the neural pathway.

    If your brain sends electrical impulses along the neural pathway telling the connected organs to speed up, the pupils of your eyes will open wider. Your heart will begin beating faster and your breathing will increase as your lungs begin to work harder. Also, the smooth muscles of your vascular system will react in a way that reduces the blood flow to your hands and feet and channels more blood deep into your body to the major organs. The one exception is your digestive system. When the speed-up message is sent, everything speeds up except your digestion, which slows down. The more things speed up, the greater the sense of tension we feel. When you feel emotionally upset in an excited, high energy sort of way, you are in a state of autonomic speed up.

    If your brain sends electrical impulses along the neural pathway telling the connected organs to slow down, your pupils return to normal size and your heart rate and breathing slow. At the same time, the smooth muscles of your vascular system channel more blood into your hands and feet and less to the major organs. As you might expect, when the slow-down message is sent, your digestive system reacts by speeding up. That’s why digestion is a more pleasant process when you’re relaxed than when you’re tense.

    The more things slow down, the more relaxed we are likely to feel.

    The Autonomic Nervous System & the Endocrine System

    The organs of the body that are beyond our conscious control, like those listed above, together with the nerve cells that connect them, are known as the Autonomic Nervous System (ANS).

    Notice that when you hear the sharp report of a barking dog, it gives you a start. Physically you feel yourself give a little jump and you experience a sudden sense of tension. That feeling is the autonomic nervous system speeding up the inner workings of your body. As the barking continues on, the neurons continue firing and you become increasingly tense.

    When a dog barks, he creates sound waves. Sound waves are real physical entities that have a real physical effect on our bodies. We can’t see them, but they are there and they carry the output of the barking dog to the sensory hair cells of our ears, which then carry the report of the sound into our brains. The brain, in turn, stimulates the ANS, which makes us feel tense.

    Hormones are chemicals manufactured within our bodies. Under certain conditions, those hormones are released into our blood streams by our body’s various glands. Different hormones do different things. They regulate our growth, our metabolism, our sexual desires and our sense of well being and distress. While the ANS makes us feel tense, it is the endocrine system that makes us feel anxious when we are in close proximity to a barking dog. That’s not surprising really. The hormonal (endocrine) system is regulated by a primitive part of the human brain that seems to respond instantly to the primitive threats and messages of desperation that are implicit in the voice of a chronically barking dog. That’s part of why barking drives people wild.

    To really appreciate the impact that chronic barking has on your autonomic and endocrine systems and, thus, your emotional state, you must also factor-in the length of time required for our bodies to return to normal after an acoustic shock like that which we receive when a nearby dog releases a loud, sudden, percussive burst of barking. If it happens only once, you may return to normal in a matter of seconds. However, with each additional episode of barking, your systems fire-up more quickly, and it takes a little longer to return to baseline. If it happens frequently enough, you will still be wound-up from the last outburst when the next one hits, with the result that you will be forever tense, and at no point will you ever be able to become truly relaxed in your own home.

    Some people have an autonomic nervous system that works like greased lightening, while others have a relatively sluggish function of the ANS. The more readily your ANS fires up, the faster your endocrine system will kick in, and the longer it will take your body to return to a relaxed state after you are exposed to a flurry of barking.
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  2. Csilla Varadi says

    September 15, 2015 at 6:14 pm

    Such a great article. Especially how you wrote about the negative feelings building inside. I’ve never analyzed the phenomenon at the moment it actually occurred in me so I was subject to some real bad times when the negative feelings took total control over me. I’ve also found walking away from the situation one of the best strategies as I cannot breathe when someone overwhelms me. What I don’t understand is that I am not highly sensitive like all of the time. Most times, I am the chillest person ever and I’m even known to calm others down. But there come periods when everything just seems overstimulating and seems like I cant ever recover from the overbearing emotions I have inside. It’s quite annoying :D Do you also have these changing periods?

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  3. LC says

    September 07, 2015 at 11:13 pm

    There are some very good mind-body techniques which have been proven to be very helpful in helping “cope” with being highly sensitive. The Alexander Technique comes to mind as a good representation of learning how to be non-reactive and more responsive to our surroundings. I have found this technique to appeal to my Western mindset and to offer help in situations where stimulation can become overwhelming. Without trying to, it seems to incorporate much Eastern philosophy, and sheds new light on any practice of tai chi or qi gong. Both long-held methods of becoming more supple and calm.

    These practices seem to have found me as much as I found them, as I don’t know I would be alive and functional today had I not begun learning how to re-integrate with my body.

    I wish all who read this, and those who don’t, the best in learning how to function without your OWN paradigm, instead of all the others that seem to influence sensitive people so readily in today’s world.

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    • LC says

      September 07, 2015 at 11:14 pm

      Correction above, Meant to say “…function WITHIN your own paradigm…”

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  4. Lillie says

    September 06, 2015 at 5:21 am

    Sometimes, like right now for me, I get physically ill when faced with emotionally upsetting issues. My blood pressure and heart rate go crazy and I physically feel ill when I stand up. All I want to do is lay in bed. Yesterday I read a book. Wasn’t even a good one. I don’t want to eat. You could invite me on an all expense paid vacation and I would not be able to pack. Driving at a time like this is dangerous. I accidentally ran two red lights a few days ago. It is almost like I go into a depression shock and would truly like to go to sleep and wake up when all of this mess has left my body. I have been told that I process information kinesthetically and that it all goes through my gut. My decisions are based on how I feel rather than logic. And I also find that I put so much energy into agonizing over things done to people I care about and what I could or should do about it. Do I just roll over and wish them well? If I attempt to right a wrong will my actions be appropriate or an over reaction. Just trying to tame my anger instead of blowing up is taking its toll. I’m not a screamer, but the very few times I have “lost it” I have hit people and thrown breakable objects on the floor. Can anyone relate? And all of this is bundled up in a nice sweet person that is 59 years old, well educated and loves to help others.

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  5. Mary Ann says

    August 28, 2015 at 10:57 pm

    I would add…wear light weight layers. A tank top, sweater or hoody and scarf. I get too hot when I fly, but if the plane is cold I can use the scarf as a blanket or whatever. Also to carry my own healthy snacks so I’m not a prisoner to IF the plane offers any food, and stay away from alcohol and soda/pop…that combined with altitute = painful bloating. I also carry Tums and Immodium. My GI tract tends to run too fast when I fly so sometimes its good to slow things down.

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  6. sandy says

    August 25, 2015 at 8:09 am

    do these things actually help people? go to another room and cool down? think of something happy? these are all so vague and every one of these blogs always have the same suggestions

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  7. Rosepetall AJ says

    August 22, 2015 at 10:24 am

    what about at school? Or your in your class? Even when I’m at a camp and I’m doing an activity. I don’t like crying around people and I don’t really like to ask to be excused to the bathroom cause other people will just look at me. I cry over small things sometimes and I can’t really control it, I don’t know if I can. my mom doesn’t really like when I get sensitive over small things but I try and tell her how I feel and she just tells me to tough in up. But next time I will try and think of happy thoughts. Thankyou Luna :)

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  8. JSensitive says

    July 12, 2015 at 2:45 pm

    I was so happy to find this site. I was extremely shy as a child and always super sensitive but it seems to be getting worse as I get older. I have decided to limit time with long time friends because I feel they tease me more than normal. Is it normal for them to tease me? It started to make me cry whenever I would leave a girls night out. Tonight, as with many nights I had a melt down because I felt like my husband made an unnecessary comment in front of my kids that hurt my feelings. My children have seen mommy cry too many times and my husband always says I am too sensitive. I will be honest that there are times I want to run away.

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    • Timothy D. Rossi says

      November 16, 2015 at 2:38 am

      You might want to read about Aspbergers, and other scenarios where others do not have empathy. I have found that those who are Highly Sensitive seem to be a magnet for those who are disconnected from their emotional issues and because the HSP can often pick up on the truth of how others are feeling, it might even be that the other person is actually screaming to be heard, but are not able to discuss this or emote. Instead, they spend time around HSP’s in order to be seen and heard, without having to talk. You essentially become a grounding place for their emotions, hence their laughing it off or making you feel bad about your emoting, when perhaps, in reality they are doing this to cover their challenges in dealing with their emotions. This may not be the case at all for you, but in case it can help, you might want to consider this and add it to your own wellness process.

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  9. Tina says

    July 05, 2015 at 8:46 pm

    This is me in a nutshell. Every emotion I feel is amplified and deeply affects my mood which I try to mask. I get overstimulated and soak in to much when I’m in a busy and tight space-the smell-the tone of voices-my emotions and others emotions all pack in to one and I feel overwhelmed. I hope to meet in real life someone like me who is also HPS.

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    • Kurapt Ako says

      July 07, 2015 at 5:50 pm

      Welcome, I am sure you will find use for the amplified feelings. You may also be a lot of things, including a visionary and a prophet able to sense what is normally hidden to normal human beings.

      Reply
  10. SW says

    July 02, 2015 at 8:26 am

    This is me, me, me! So happy to know there are other who know and understand what makes us tick!

    Reply
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