Some of you may have heard of Empaths: people who are known for their highly developed ability to sense the emotions and thoughts of the people around them.
You might have heard all the symptoms of being an Empath; finding public places overwhelming, confusing others emotions with your own and absorbing them like an “emotional sponge“, finding films/images of violence or cruelty unbearable, feeling other people’s physical pains, being a great listener, suffering from fatigue, needing solitude to recharge and even experiencing the emotions of loved ones who are far away.  But most articles fail to answer why this occurs.
And more intriguingly, Empaths account for about 5% of the population, yet are much more predominant within people who identify with being Old Souls or as a Highly Sensitive Person. How can this be explained?

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Understanding Energy Bubbles
Until a few years ago, I had never heard of the word “Empath “.
Growing up, I noticed a strange shift within me whenever I was around other people. Â I’m naturally very calm and centered, but in the presence of other people, I can empathize with the emotions they are feeling almost immediately, which can create distress.
When I was younger, I eventually learned that this was something very useful to possess and had been known for centuries by the Incans. Â In the Incan way of viewing the world, we believe in a concept known as “Kawsay Pacha“, living energy. Â To us, the world of nature is alive and responsive, and the cosmos is a vibrating field of pure energy frequencies.
Incans once believed they were born into a world that was as conscious of them as they were of it, and that everyone could experience the energy of another living being as if it were their own.  These people who could experience the energy of others had a great blessing, as they would find it much easier to cultivate a soulful connection with all living energies in nature and learn to harmonize themselves within their surroundings using “Ayni“, an energetic reciprocity that exists within all living matter.
When two living energies (for example: humans, animals, mountains) first meet, their energy bubbles touch each other, which is known as “Tinkuy“.  Once a person encounters another person’s energy bubble, something we call “Tupay” starts to occur, where the two people begin to experience a collision of contrasts and differences between their energies, creating a confusion.
It’s at this point that the successful “Empath”, differentiates the type of energy of the person, whether it is “Yanantin“; a completely opposing energy, or “Masintin“, an energy similar in frequency. Â That is when you apply “Taqe“, an attempt to harmonize these two encountering living forces.
The Quechua word for an Empath is a “Qawaq” which means “one who sees“. Â It comes from the verb “Qaway” which means “to see” the living energy.
Old Souls As Empaths
We all experience empathy to some degree. Â Empaths, however, struggle to distinguish their own emotions from those of others.
Highly Sensitive People are born with a physical sensitivity, that of a brain that is overly sensitive to stimuli of emotions, thoughts or activity. Â In many cases, HSP’s are so sensitive to subtleties within their environments that it allows them to feel the emotional changes within other people as well. Â However, not all HSPs are Empaths.
With Old Souls there’s a difference; their sensitivity is not physical in relation to the brain, but is spiritual, or is in relation to their souls. Â This doesn’t mean that all Old Souls are Empaths, but it does mean that many can easily become spiritually attuned to the living energy around them.
This spiritual attunement experienced by the Old Soul is enhanced by their “Old” energy that has been reborn many times. Â The more an energy comes into consciousness and then returns back to its origins, the thinner the veil of identity between “I” and “That” is, and the more it is purified.
As our individual egos become less defined, our unconscious intuitive receptors are left open to not only experience our own emotions, but the emotional vibrations of those around us.
The closest I can come to scientifically explain this is that somewhere within the frontal lobe of the brain, there is an area responsible for Echopraxia,which not only allows us to involuntary repeat others actions, but when activated in Empaths, can also allow for emotions from the surrounding environment to be involuntarily received and absorbed.  However, there aren’t enough studies conducted to determine any of this conclusively.
Grounding Your Emotional Center
Being an Empath can be a great asset; but only if you learn to center yourself, grounding your emotions within your own being and refraining from shouldering the unhappiness and suffering of the entire “Pachamama“, mother nature.  If you don’t learn how to ground yourself, you’ll live like a slave to your emotions, rather than a master of them.
Once you learn to master these emotions, you will not feel burdened by your empathy, but freed by it. Â You’ll have the ability to control when you want to feel other people’s emotions in order to purposefully understand them. Â You’ll also learn when to tune them off, allowing you the space and clarity to act or advise accordingly.
But first, how do we do that?
1. Â Identify the Origin
The emotions you feel will not always be from other people; they are often your own. It’s easy to think all negative emotions are coming from other people, so in order to get things straight, try to constantly analyze whether there is something that may have caused the negative emotions you’re feeling or not.
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2. Â Apply Mindfulness to Ground Yourself
The emotional energies that you absorb and experience from others are usually processed through your unconscious intuitive receptors.  When you focus your attention with mindfulness on a specific action, it forces your unconscious mind to tune out of those emotional frequencies and focus conscious attention on something else instead.  Examples of grounding exercises include focusing on your breathing rhythm, visualizing a protective shield around you, or focusing on the spot between your eyes where your “third eye” is located.
3. Â Seek Solitude and Distance Yourself
After you have grounded yourself using a mindfulness technique, try to leave the area that persons energy bubble might have effected (for instance, leave for a different room or physically distance yourself by a few meters). Â This will allow you to see whether it really was that person’s emotional energy that was influencing you or not. Â Afterwards, make some solitary time for yourself which will give you the space to centre yourself again.
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Being a Qawaq, or Empath has proven to be an invaluable skill in my life which allows me to teach and treat other people.  It has helped me to understand what a person wants or needs and what they are afraid or insecure about by attuning myself to their different emotional vibrations.
So now I’d love to know: what are your experiences as an Old Soul with the gift of being an Empath? Â Please share with me below!
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Are there any resources on the Incan way of seeing empathy? I was especially curious about differentiating energies and harmonizing them. Something I have had problems with.
I remember from the age as early on as 5 being able to read people. I didn’t understand at the time why I was receiving such messages but I just could. Now older I understand it all but have also felt cursed as I felt I was sensing too much. I felt I never belonged and didn’t fit in with most people. I tended to like to be on my own and sought solitude and quiet time a lot. I suffered in the school environment as it just wasn’t for me. My son now 17 is gifted the same. He senses others and doesn’t fit in with the school scenario. He always knows when something is bothering me. He wont let up till I tell him. We often find ourselves thinking of the something at the same time. He’ll say something while I will have been thinking of it or vica versa. Over the years and being divorced now I was seen as incapable, weak, too sensitive and quiet, suffered low self esteem, depression which added in my whole being of people not understanding me although I always had this innate ability to understand them. I could sense their unhappiness… Read more »
We empaths love nature so one grounding exercise I love is hugging trees :)
Do you have any information about PTSD and Empaths? I identify as an Empath, and Highly-Sensitive. And I have picked up a few other labels ~ such as INFJ. and Old Soul. Maybe Indigo. Among other ‘explainers’ that have helped me. But currently, I would like more info regarding healing from significant trauma, namely PTSD. … any leads? I appreciate it. Thx
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Figuring out I was an empath was the worst for me. I had no idea a lot of feelings weren’t mine for a long time. I was maybe 22 when I finally figured out, hey! I am NOT feeling that! My daughter is empathic and I am so glad I am around to explain what it is and how to deal with it. A long time ago I decided it was a gift. I can use it to anticipate what people need from me and then give it. I think that giving what you have to spare to someone’s need is a duty not something we should do as a gesture. Being empathic helps me with this. And it makes me a good friend. That’s the yang. The yin is that I can feel really hurt and angry people and shady people and that can be a creepy and exhausting experience. I also find that incubi and succubi are drawn to me and my energy. I learned a technique to close cleanse myself and zip myself into a protective sleeping bag to sever the connection with certain people. It took practice and I still can’t do it in highly intense… Read more »
I am an Empath, I can have strong feelings when I am around people a lot. So I retreated back to solitude, which helped me a lot to forget about the feelings and energies from the people I hang out with.
Because I was in solitude by default, and was quite content with being alone most of the time, where I could devise plans and just play with my thoughts. That was quite a blessing. Trying to socialize more, made it all more different. But I was sensing that my feelings even if I am alone, can pickup the general mood of the environment. But I think my irregular sleep pattern helps with that oddity as well.
Also because I am of more quiet nature, this feelings or energy of other people guide me, when it is smart to say anything, or when they are ready to hear what they need to hear at that given moment. This is also the reason, why we (at least me) are not seeking attention, because this empathy is very personal and deep for each person with whom we come in contact with.
Here is my point of view. It has no traditional roots, just experiential.
Empathy is the resonant capacity that allows us to feel one another. In general it is limited to congruence of experience or proximity. It is primarily associated with the emotional and physical states.
Telempathy is the clear perception of another’s thought through the field of felt (empathic) resonance.
Telepathy is somewhat different in that it is a shered spiritual resonance that carries thought values. For example someone might be describing a spiritual experience and suddenly you will share a bit of their illimination. As it filters through your system the results will be in harmony with the original source but create a unique expression in you.
That’s how it seems to me… today.
Thanks for your work here, Mateo and Aletheia
♥ Welles
It is tough to be an empath, especially when you grow up thinking something is wrong with you…not understanding what is really happening. I did not realize I was an empath until my early thirties, and have learned how to seek solitude, ground myself and recharge. At times, though, it still catches me by surprise…when connecting with the emotions or events of a family member far away…
Work in process…still learning! Great blog, thanks!
Until I read this, I had no idea why I was so different. I had for years been diagnosed as “Borderline Personality Disorder”, because I was so highly sensitive. I was inded litterally “a slave to my own emotions” But I never felt like I actually had a mental illness, and now off medication and having learned mindfulness through DBT therapy, I feel as if there was another explanation for the way I am-possibly being an empath. My psychologist had even commented that my sensitivity did not just include my own emotions, but being ultra sensitive to the emotions of those around me, and I had to be very careful to not take that on. I know that’s not entirely what makes you an empath, but after reading the first paragraph I realized that’s exactly who I am. “You might have heard all the symptoms of being an Empath; finding public places overwhelming, confusing others emotions with your own and absorbing them like an “emotional sponge“, finding films/images of violence or cruelty unbearable, feeling other people’s physical pains, being a great listener, suffering from fatigue, needing solitude to recharge and even experiencing the emotions of loved ones who are far… Read more »