Some of you may have heard of Empaths: people who are known for their highly developed ability to sense the emotions and thoughts of the people around them.
You might have heard all the symptoms of being an Empath; finding public places overwhelming, confusing others emotions with your own and absorbing them like an “emotional sponge“, finding films/images of violence or cruelty unbearable, feeling other people’s physical pains, being a great listener, suffering from fatigue, needing solitude to recharge and even experiencing the emotions of loved ones who are far away. But most articles fail to answer why this occurs.
And more intriguingly, Empaths account for about 5% of the population, yet are much more predominant within people who identify with being Old Souls or as a Highly Sensitive Person. How can this be explained?
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Understanding Energy Bubbles
Until a few years ago, I had never heard of the word “Empath “.
Growing up, I noticed a strange shift within me whenever I was around other people. I’m naturally very calm and centered, but in the presence of other people, I can empathize with the emotions they are feeling almost immediately, which can create distress.
When I was younger, I eventually learned that this was something very useful to possess and had been known for centuries by the Incans. In the Incan way of viewing the world, we believe in a concept known as “Kawsay Pacha“, living energy. To us, the world of nature is alive and responsive, and the cosmos is a vibrating field of pure energy frequencies.
Incans once believed they were born into a world that was as conscious of them as they were of it, and that everyone could experience the energy of another living being as if it were their own. These people who could experience the energy of others had a great blessing, as they would find it much easier to cultivate a soulful connection with all living energies in nature and learn to harmonize themselves within their surroundings using “Ayni“, an energetic reciprocity that exists within all living matter.
When two living energies (for example: humans, animals, mountains) first meet, their energy bubbles touch each other, which is known as “Tinkuy“. Once a person encounters another person’s energy bubble, something we call “Tupay” starts to occur, where the two people begin to experience a collision of contrasts and differences between their energies, creating a confusion.
It’s at this point that the successful “Empath”, differentiates the type of energy of the person, whether it is “Yanantin“; a completely opposing energy, or “Masintin“, an energy similar in frequency. That is when you apply “Taqe“, an attempt to harmonize these two encountering living forces.
The Quechua word for an Empath is a “Qawaq” which means “one who sees“. It comes from the verb “Qaway” which means “to see” the living energy.
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Old Souls As Empaths
We all experience empathy to some degree. Empaths, however, struggle to distinguish their own emotions from those of others.
Highly Sensitive People are born with a physical sensitivity, that of a brain that is overly sensitive to stimuli of emotions, thoughts or activity. In many cases, HSP’s are so sensitive to subtleties within their environments that it allows them to feel the emotional changes within other people as well. However, not all HSPs are Empaths.
With Old Souls there’s a difference; their sensitivity is not physical in relation to the brain, but is spiritual, or is in relation to their souls. This doesn’t mean that all Old Souls are Empaths, but it does mean that many can easily become spiritually attuned to the living energy around them.
This spiritual attunement experienced by the Old Soul is enhanced by their “Old” energy that has been reborn many times. The more an energy comes into consciousness and then returns back to its origins, the thinner the veil of identity between “I” and “That” is, and the more it is purified.
As our individual egos become less defined, our unconscious intuitive receptors are left open to not only experience our own emotions, but the emotional vibrations of those around us.
The closest I can come to scientifically explain this is that somewhere within the frontal lobe of the brain, there is an area responsible for Echopraxia,which not only allows us to involuntary repeat others actions, but when activated in Empaths, can also allow for emotions from the surrounding environment to be involuntarily received and absorbed. However, there aren’t enough studies conducted to determine any of this conclusively.
Grounding Your Emotional Center
Being an Empath can be a great asset; but only if you learn to center yourself, grounding your emotions within your own being and refraining from shouldering the unhappiness and suffering of the entire “Pachamama“, mother nature. If you don’t learn how to ground yourself, you’ll live like a slave to your emotions, rather than a master of them.
Once you learn to master these emotions, you will not feel burdened by your empathy, but freed by it. You’ll have the ability to control when you want to feel other people’s emotions in order to purposefully understand them. You’ll also learn when to tune them off, allowing you the space and clarity to act or advise accordingly.
But first, how do we do that?
1. Identify the Origin
The emotions you feel will not always be from other people; they are often your own. It’s easy to think all negative emotions are coming from other people, so in order to get things straight, try to constantly analyze whether there is something that may have caused the negative emotions you’re feeling or not.
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2. Apply Mindfulness to Ground Yourself
The emotional energies that you absorb and experience from others are usually processed through your unconscious intuitive receptors. When you focus your attention with mindfulness on a specific action, it forces your unconscious mind to tune out of those emotional frequencies and focus conscious attention on something else instead. Examples of grounding exercises include focusing on your breathing rhythm, visualizing a protective shield around you, or focusing on the spot between your eyes where your “third eye” is located.
3. Seek Solitude and Distance Yourself
After you have grounded yourself using a mindfulness technique, try to leave the area that persons energy bubble might have effected (for instance, leave for a different room or physically distance yourself by a few meters). This will allow you to see whether it really was that person’s emotional energy that was influencing you or not. Afterwards, make some solitary time for yourself which will give you the space to centre yourself again.
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Being a Qawaq, or Empath has proven to be an invaluable skill in my life which allows me to teach and treat other people. It has helped me to understand what a person wants or needs and what they are afraid or insecure about by attuning myself to their different emotional vibrations.
So now I’d love to know: what are your experiences as an Old Soul with the gift of being an Empath? Please share with me below!
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I can so relate to this Mateo. I have always seen & felt the same things as a child. I lost faith & trust in myself & thought I was crazy. Spent many years shutting myself off from the world with medications to numb out the pain I was experiencing. In 2011, I started going through an Awakening & The realisation of being an Empath! It has been an amazing journey of transformation & self discovery. I have been on a spiritual journey since & gone through many different teachings including Shamanism, Munay-Ki initiations, sweat lodges, energy & sound healing, chakra work, meditation and so on… Life is so beautiful now. I am experiencing ascension symptoms, starting to remember my soul and contact with my higher being! I am in the process of a full Kundalini awakening and it is truly amazing! I am feeling so much joy, love, peace and gratitude for my life journey and to where it has brought me today and I am now ready to share my journey with the rest of the World!
I am pleased with the inordinate amount of time and effort you have spent compiling vast amounts of information here. What a true accomplishment of your efforts.
A few observations have caught my attention that there are little to no references with any astrological signs and genders. Perhaps I have missed or simply overlooked these aspects. I believe that astrological signs hold merit and bearing on Infant to Old Soul’s nature and ritualistic mannerisms albeit to where they are almost habitual. The references made with regards to gender lays simply in your listing of notable names of historical notice. Little to nothing is stated that there are any tendencies of one gender over another within any given soul. I.e. are there more women than men in each of the five listed soul ages or is it more heavily weighted with men?
Thank you and regards,
JC
I have always considered myself empathic. It can get to the point where I get mentally drained sometimes. I enjoy my solitude. Recently a psychic told me I’m an old soul which just confirmed my suspicions of it. Now I’m just trying to figure out if I really am an old soul and why do I keep reincarnating. Sometimes I feel like I’m 1000 years old. I’ve also recently just had a spiritual awakening and somehow tapped into other abilities.
As a young person I was very smart beyond my years. I never felt my age. I easily mingled with adults and explored complex ideas of philosophy. I was irritated by the trivial concerns of others and got swept up into deeper meanings of social obligations. My ability to feel grew when I met my partner. He brought me visions of my past lives that we had experienced together and that solidified how different I was. This is my first attempt at sharing it. Reasons for sharing is this does feel like a safe community of like minded people searching for the same thing..support and to belong. He is an older soul than myself. His presence heightened my abilities. I went from being able to travel my mind to what I knew into things I didn’t know and history (my most disliked subject) not only came alive but I could live it. Oddly it was like we shared one conscious mind sometimes. Not in real time but our synced ideas would always reveal themselves. People are draining and I do block them out, or I have learned to keep them at bay, but eventually I have to break it a… Read more »
I’ve recently discovered that I’m an empath and I’m struggling a little – hard enough growing up as a teenager without people calling you nosey because you can’t shut out their problems. I was told when I was young that I was an old soul and I just don’t feel like a child, I never have, and it singles me out even more. I have no idea about adulthood but being both and a teenager can be lonely.
This is a cool article. I’d love to learn more about the Incan idea of an empath. I am an empath, and I actually see energy bubbles…whether they’re the ones the Incas speak of I don’t know, but I would be interested to learn more about it because this is the first time I’ve heard of other people possibly seeing them.
I wish I’ve came across this article sooner. I was hopping from article to article, originally I was merely searching for the definition of old soul. As a friend of mine repeatedly said I am one. I’ve always been able to empathize others, since very young age. From time to time, I get into a ‘battle’ with my emotions, at times I hate the fact that I have empathy, ability to feel how others feel, while lack the ability, power to change anything. And sometimes I don’t mind empathy that I have, and perhaps even proud of, sometimes I’m able to just tune it out when I don’t want to deal with other’s issues. Reading this article, it made me think perhaps what I have, could be more than just empathy, but empath instead. While personally I’m not quite into the idea of ‘spiritual world’ (I have my own theories on what life is / how it works) I have to say it is rather accurate in a sense. And wishing I would’ve come across this piece sooner. As the ability was stronger for me when I was younger, as I grow, not knowing what it is, I relentlessly trying… Read more »
Hello & Good Day to you Mateo
Many thanks for another well written & insightful article! I must admit I believe i have some of these attributes & skills, & I must say that the ability to talk to absolutely anyone & everyone, AND be able to connect with them all, is an ‘Old Soul’ skill that is great to have! Not only can you talk meaningfully with the full spectrum of personalities but also ALL age groups too! I can provide insight & humour to the very old or young, & any age in between ……. and they all seem to understand me! ……or so they make me believe they do!!
Honestly I don’t know if I’m an empath or not. I have always had what I can only explain as a “psychic” ability that reaches beyond just perception and being able to subconsciously feel others emotions. I’ve always been a high IQ person and just correlated my abilities with my ability to spot patterns. But it even scares me at times with my knowledge of things that I have no formal education in that according to all laws of nature, one would need to have education of such topic to know such facts….. almost like being possessed by a demon. That being said, I’m internally conflicted by this because I’m extremely skeptical to say the least of spirituality, the spirit world, and or things that cannot otherwise be explained by science or physics. This is why my abilities are almost frightening to me. For starters, I’m kind of like a “human/animal whisperer”. If a human or animal has either been traumatized or diagnosed with a mental disorder that renders them “mad”, all I need is 1 minute with them of looking into their eyes, maybe placing a hand on their cheek, and they immediately seem to be cured. As I… Read more »
I think this may be me, I’Ve been told I wear my heart on my sleeve. I can talk to someone and walk away with tears. I feel like I can feel people’ s pain thank you so much for this information♥