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Emotional Frequency: Why Are Many Old Souls Empaths?

by Mateo Sol ยท Updated: Mar 15, 2024 ยท 135 Comments

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Some of you may have heard of Empaths: people who are known for their highly developed ability to sense the emotions and thoughts of the people around them.

You might have heard all the symptoms of being an Empath; finding public places overwhelming, confusing others emotions with your own and absorbing them like an “emotional sponge“, finding films/images of violence or cruelty unbearable, feeling other people’s physical pains, being a great listener, suffering from fatigue, needing solitude to recharge and even experiencing the emotions of loved ones who are far away.ย ย But most articles fail to answer why this occurs.

And more intriguingly, Empaths account for about 5% of the population, yet are much more predominant within people who identify with beingย Old Souls or as a Highly Sensitive Person.ย  How can this be explained?


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Understanding Energy Bubbles

Until a few years ago, I had never heard of the word “Empathย “.

Growing up, I noticed a strange shift within me whenever I was around other people. ย I’m naturally very calm and centered, but in the presence of other people, I can empathize with the emotions they are feeling almost immediately, which can create distress.

When I was younger, I eventually learned that this was something very useful to possess and had been known for centuries by the Incans. ย In the Incan way of viewing the world, we believe in a concept known as “Kawsay Pacha“, living energy. ย To us, the world of nature is alive and responsive, and the cosmos is a vibrating field of pure energy frequencies.

Incansย onceย believed they were born into a world that was as conscious of them as they were of it, and that everyone couldย experience the energy of another living being as if it were theirย own. ย These people who could experience the energy of others had a great blessing, as they would find it much easier to cultivate a soulful connection with all living energies in nature and learn to harmonize themselves within their surroundings using “Ayni“, an energetic reciprocity that exists within all living matter.

When two living energies (for example: humans, animals, mountains) first meet, their energy bubbles touch each other, which is known as “Tinkuy“. ย Once a personย encounters another person’s energy bubble, something we call “Tupay” starts to occur, where the two people begin to experience a collision of contrasts and differences between theirย energies, creating a confusion.

It’s at this point that the successful “Empath”, differentiates the type of energy of the person, whether it is “Yanantin“; a completely opposing energy, or “Masintin“, an energy similar in frequency. ย That is when you apply “Taqe“, an attempt to harmonize these two encountering living forces.

The Quechua word for an Empath is a “Qawaq” which means “one who sees“. ย It comes from the verb “Qaway” which means “to see” the living energy.


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Old Souls As Empaths

We all experience empathy to some degree. ย Empaths, however, struggle to distinguish their own emotions from those of others.

Highly Sensitive People are born with a physical sensitivity, that of a brain that is overly sensitive to stimuli of emotions, thoughts or activity. ย In many cases, HSP’s are so sensitive to subtleties within their environments that it allows them to feel the emotional changes within other people as well. ย However, not all HSPs are Empaths.

With Old Souls there’s a difference; their sensitivity is not physical in relation to the brain, but is spiritual, or is in relation to their souls. ย This doesn’t mean that all Old Souls are Empaths, but it does mean that many can easily become spiritually attuned to the living energy around them.

This spiritual attunement experienced by the Old Soul is enhanced by their “Old” energy that has been reborn many times. ย The more an energy comes into consciousness and then returns back to its origins, the thinner the veil of identity between “I” and “That” is, and the more it is purified.

As our individual egos become less defined, our unconscious intuitive receptors are left open to not only experience ourย own emotions, but the emotional vibrations of those around us.

The closest I can come to scientifically explain this is that somewhere within the frontal lobe of the brain, there is an area responsible forย Echopraxia,which not only allows us to involuntary repeat others actions, but when activated in Empaths, can also allow for emotions from the surrounding environment to be involuntarily received andย absorbed. ย However, there aren’t enough studies conducted to determine any of this conclusively.

Grounding Your Emotional Center

Being an Empath can be a great asset; but only if you learn to center yourself, grounding your emotions within your own being and refraining from shouldering the unhappiness and suffering of the entire “Pachamama“, mother nature. ย If you don’t learn how to ground yourself, you’ll live like a slave toย your emotions, rather than a master of them.

Once you learn to master these emotions, you will not feel burdened by your empathy, but freed by it. ย You’ll have the ability to control when you want to feel other people’s emotions in order to purposefully understand them. ย You’ll also learn when to tune them off, allowing you the space and clarity to act or advise accordingly.

But first, how do we do that?

1. ย Identify the Origin

The emotions you feel will not always be from other people; they are often your own. It’s easy to think all negative emotions are coming from other people, so in order to get things straight, try to constantly analyze whether there is something that may have caused the negative emotions you’re feeling or not.

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2. ย Apply Mindfulness to Ground Yourself

The emotional energies that you absorb and experience from others are usually processed through your unconscious intuitive receptors. ย When you focus your attention with mindfulness on a specific action,ย it forces your unconscious mind to tune out of those emotional frequencies and focus conscious attention on something else instead. ย Examples of grounding exercises include focusing on your breathing rhythm, visualizing a protective shield around you, or focusing on the spot between your eyes where your “third eye” is located.

3. ย Seek Solitude and Distance Yourself

After you have grounded yourself using a mindfulness technique, try to leave the area that persons energy bubble might have effected (for instance, leave for a different room or physically distance yourself by a few meters). ย This will allow you to see whether it really was that person’s emotional energy that was influencing you or not. ย Afterwards, make some solitary time for yourself which will give you the space to centre yourself again.

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Being a Qawaq,ย orย Empath has proven to be an invaluable skill in my life which allows me to teach and treat other people. ย It has helped me toย understand what a person wants or needs and what they are afraid or insecure about by attuning myself to their different emotional vibrations.

So now I’d love to know: what are your experiences as an Old Soul with the gift of being an Empath? ย Please share with me below!

If you would you like to keep reading about empaths, you’re welcome to click on one of our other empath articles below:

  • Empowered By Sensitivity: What Type of Empath Are You?

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Mateo Sol is a spiritual educator, guide, entrepreneur, and co-founder of one of the most influential and widely read spiritual websites on the internet. Born into a family with a history of drug addiction and mental illness, he was taught about the plight of the human condition from a young age. His mission is to help others experience freedom, wholeness, and peace in all stages of life. [Read More]

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  1. John H. Carter says

    June 03, 2020 at 6:09 pm

    Without pain and suffering, how would we know Love and Compassion?
    At an early age I became aware that Angels were among us. I was in enough situations to need them that they made themselves known to me. They say that bed wetting is a sign of child abuse. I wet the bed until I was 14. I only tell you this because I feel my Healing abilities and being an extreme Empath were brought on by my childhood. At age 15 I developed hodgkin’s disease and was in stage 3 before they finally figured it out. I Love the gifts I’ve been given and wouldn’t change a thing. If you are having trouble being too sensitive, take a walk in the woods barefoot and ask God or Great Spirit for guidance. Hebrews 13:2 Don’t forget to entertain strangers. For by doing so, some have entertained Angels without knowing it :-)

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  2. Danelle says

    March 22, 2020 at 12:45 pm

    I was six when i encountered my first experience of a spirit. And after that I could sense different energys. And i always could responde well with animals and i was loved being in the woods and around creeks and ponds. Ive encountered this all the way up to adult hood. But the emotions of others r so overwhelming now. It makes me ill more

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    • MelodyBlue says

      November 20, 2022 at 3:41 pm

      Iโ€™ve a lot in common with you! Iโ€™ve found that Iโ€™ve gotten sick more and more easily as I get older being empath and psychic and all that, but I donโ€™t know why..
      I have a theory that as kids we have to get used to being this strangely unique (I DID get sick A LOT as a kid too though, and I AM extra super sensitive) and then as we get older we naturally begin to develop more and more abilities because our genetics physical and spiritual are like โ€œhey yeah! By now you must be totally aware and able to use all youโ€™ve already got, letโ€™s kick it up a notch!โ€ But since society is the way it is, we canโ€™t really thrive even though we were made to.

      Reply
  3. All aboard says

    December 11, 2019 at 10:12 pm

    I feel everything. Itโ€™s making life almost unbearable. This knowing is strengthening and I wish I could turn it off. I canโ€™t be around people and itโ€™s preventing me from being able to work..especially with hateful, jealous people. Their emotions absorb into me and itโ€™s like I hear their thoughts..not through words…but through emotions. The emotions become words. I am scared. How will I support my family if I cannot work around others? It feels like a disability. I almost donโ€™t feel human anymore. Iโ€™m glad Iโ€™m not the only one.

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    • MelodyBlue says

      November 20, 2022 at 3:46 pm

      Totally not! I feel the same way:)
      I actually dropped out of school because it was getting so bad, I was getting physically sick. So now Iโ€™m trying to build my life up from the ground in a way that is helpful to me and conducive to who I am and what I can do:)
      Fortunately for me I live at home still, and I can vividly imagine all the pain and stress youโ€™ve been going through.
      Perhaps dog walking in your neighbourhood? Iโ€™ve been considering that myself to do since I feel okay around animals, just not people (I think itโ€™s cuz animals always own up to their emotions and intentions, while humans do not. Makes it confusing, hurtful, painful and excruciating at the worst of times)
      Or maybe something that involves an activity you enjoy and wonโ€™t hurt you, like being in nature as a conservatory park person ? I donโ€™t actually know the real name of it just the approximate of what it might be described as.

      Reply
  4. Lex Barringer says

    September 06, 2019 at 6:45 pm

    As much as I love your writing and style, I have to disagree with all HSP are empaths.
    I’m an HSP but not an empath.

    The following psychic abilities are what I have:

    Intuitive discernment
    Claircognizant (knowing what people are thinking in a logical way).
    Clairsentient (knowing what is happening around me, in the form of mediumship and telepathy).
    Clairaudient (able to hear what some devices pick-up in the electromagnetic spectrum, not audible to the human ear).

    I’ve wondered what it would be like to be an empath but the more I think about it, I’ve got so many empaths in my life trying to blow past my boundaries I’ve set for friendship (trying to fast track romance with me but I’m an aromantic hetero-demisexual). They get angry, when I rebuff them, and I can sense their displeasure of my answers in a logic way. Not fun for me.

    I’m a loner because of this stuff, before it wasn’t a choice, now, it is, as I know my worth. It took me a very long time to get to this point, been lonely my whole life but unwilling to be restrained in a relationship, just to make the other person happy and I’d be in utter Hell, for the remainder of that relationship.

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    • Anon says

      August 23, 2020 at 7:42 pm

      Hi Lex

      Thanks for sharing. I find your station fascinating (ie where you have reached in your journey)

      I am same-sex soul attracted and have come across (male) soul types, or manifests, like yours (there are female versions too)

      Itโ€™s good to hear you understand yourself and are in respective peace

      For myself, while I have some extra sensory abilities, I have contextualised much as relevant for my circumstances, eternally growing and attuning to continually unfolding { accurate } knowledge. I let nothing rule me (which is why I canโ€™t look at horoscopes etc; Iโ€™m the master of my destiny, taking the โ€œhorseโ€™s reinsโ€ as destiny bolts along)

      In my situation, finding love is very hard when you have so much of it to give, but the universal system (ie The Universe) mandates that you canโ€™t be linked to your compatible [ entity ], until the universe affirms itself [ that you are now worthy or whatever ]. Very cruel and I felt hard done-by in my lot. But I too am to a degree learning to be at peace with my lot, it is ok for me, Iโ€™m learning to work on myself and when the time is right, the Universe will grant its consent for me to align with [ a soul compatiblity right for me ]. I just donโ€™t know why the Universe is making such a big deal out of it with the massive delay

      Enough for now, keep sharing yโ€™all

      Best

      Anon
      Australia, Earth, This Solar System, Universe :-)

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    • MelodyBlue says

      November 20, 2022 at 3:52 pm

      Sometimes empath and clairsentience can get confused by people (wow spelled that wrong) Iโ€™m both and more, so itโ€™s kind of a weird ride
      But the way you describe it yeah thereโ€™s totally a boundary there that Iโ€™ve been trying to define for a while now.
      The empaths youโ€™re describing sound like.. well I guess a lot of empaths long for a connection, it if itโ€™s not an honest and respectful one then who needs that? Probably just the wrong people for you and youโ€™re totally right to stick to your boundaries. I know my worth too and it can take a lot of courage, especially when one can hear what theyโ€™re thinking and feeling and experiencing, to remain unbiased and resolute in your decisions.
      Just keep doing what youโ€™re doing and following the right path forward for you and I am certain that you will find better people for you in this life :)

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  5. P says

    July 20, 2019 at 9:14 pm

    I think I may be an empathic, but I’m not absolutely sure. I have experienced a lot of this before, but not so much anymore. So, I don’t know if it’s been tuned off totally, or I somehow learned to control it too much. But I distinctly remember being at work and not thinking of anything in particular, then suddenly I had these overwhelming emotions crash through my head: anger, confusion, disappointment, hurt, shame, and then I “felt” it had something to do with my friend. So, since I couldn’t call her at the moment, I emailed her (I can’t remember why I couldn’t text her). I asked if she was okay because I had some feelings about her. When she replied, she first sent “Holy shit!” Then the second email explained how she just had an argument with her boyfriend and those were the same emotions she felt and she also mentioned how I sent the email a few minutes after the argument, meaning I was feeling her emotions at the same time SHE was feeling them. She was over 300 miles away.

    I haven’t had anything like that happen to me in a long time. But I used to feel my friends emotions from a distance.

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    • Aaron Buckie says

      January 26, 2020 at 2:03 pm

      Wowzers I’m an empath and an old sole that is awakening to my true self however stuck in self sabotage through addiction, fighting being reborn. I attracted narccissist and thinking or more wanting to help as I could sense/ feel there pain. cCn be obsessive trying to work out conceptually the feeling im having as conformation. My life spiralled out of control through a narcissistic partner. That I could feel deep wasnt who they really were and I couldn’t let go until I was ultimately destroyed. Even at the darkest times I had a sense I would rise back and It may sounds strange but just had and have a feeling of a purpose that is meant for something substantially more but no idea in regards to what that is. I am a human lie detector. Which I ignored if it couldnt conceptually prove it. Several times of not trusting the knowing within because there was no conceptual proof. I found myself in a position of having it proved that my knowing even if it couldnt be conceptually interpreted was right. Ive told people they couldnt trust certain individuals who felt they could and in the end after learning the hard way asked how did I know that was going to happen. I can sense a complete strangers pain and can sense they want freedom opposed to basking in the pain I have a nearly uncontrollable to help which is bad when in a postion unable to help myself feeling like being reborn with the knowledge what to do to find pecae but feeling like a child inside is pretending to not know how to take care of themselves

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  6. Sherry says

    April 04, 2019 at 6:04 am

    I am definetly an Empath it is exhausting if frogs or insects got in at my job I had to rescue them and I feel awful if I hit an animal or insect etc while driving. People have called me crazy etc but I canโ€™t help it the thought of someone smashing a frog/bug/plant or any living thing is unbearable. Am I crazy ? Have you ever seen this with Empaths?

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  7. Tamyanna Graves says

    December 26, 2018 at 4:31 am

    My experience as an empath is a bit different than what you explain. You talk of the frontal lobe processing these feelings in my experience these feelings are processed within the vital organs for example I feel emotions like love and hate in my heart and fear is felt and processed through the kidneys. Itโ€™s a second brain within our body that processes all the different emotions. My actual brain is what makes me consciously aware of this process. The Practice of Meditation and being in touch with my spirituality helps me to cope with all these emotions.

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    • Anon says

      August 23, 2020 at 8:00 pm

      Thatโ€™โ€™s actually really interesting. My mentor is presently helping me to visualise and feel the emotions in the internal organs. I still havenโ€™t connected the brain organ to the process, but Iโ€™m sure itโ€™s all coming. I just know that I have a strong mindโ€™s eye that sees and โ€œfeelsโ€. Come to think of it, perhaps we regularly forget as humans we are only utilising something like 25% max of our complete brains, though at times Iโ€™m sure this can be at 5% max… for some people lol. Imagine what we could achieve if we had 100% or 200% utilisation access to our full mental capacity. Hereโ€™s just a heresay example: those ancient massive rock assemblies eg in Russia & at the bases of Incan & Aztec mountain sacred sites are too perfect etc to have been placed there without modern machinery – what if ancient peopleโ€™s collaboratively used some sort of parakenesis. No one factually knows nowadays (or maybe thereโ€™s some clair-empaths that do!)

      Best

      Keep sharing tโ€™all! :-)

      Reply
  8. Sherwin says

    November 06, 2018 at 1:50 am

    I detest being both an empath and an old soul. I yearn for my end and for the cycle to cease. Its so difficult as an old soul, when nothing surprises you or excites you in the same way. Nothing is new and that makes me feel worn and used. What’s even worse is that a majority of people fit the stereotypical bubbles and nobody wishes to transcend them. Explaining who we are as empaths more often than not prove to be futile and when you toss in the fact that I am an old soul, conversations can get so dry and dense. It is so hard to appreciate these gifts or curses and to try and surrender and just breathe.

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  9. Jean Jackson says

    December 14, 2017 at 10:59 pm

    Hi Mateo. Thanks very much for your work and your writings. I have always found the ability to “read” people, but not knowing why or how. I can “sense” what they are thinking. I’ve never told anyone this. I don’t see “auras” or anything, but I do react accordingly to what I’m reading in others, so that harmony is the outcome. I prefer to be alone most of the time. Since I can remember, I’ve always been an observer, rarely speaking up. I still am today, although not to appear odd in public, I don’t stare, and will simply smile – immediately receiving a warm smile in return (from strangers). It’s a nice feeling. I am 60 years old, and finally getting comfortable with myself. Thanks for your insight and help. Keep safe, and keep up the good work please! Thank you.

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  10. Adenaan says

    August 18, 2017 at 12:03 pm

    I really enjoyed reading and it makes alot of sense according to my encounters, i have so much restless nights i need to get advice on something, would you be so kind to just hear me out…on email plz im adenaan thank you

    Reply
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