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Your Shadow Self is your “dark side.” It is that unconscious force within you that contains all of the feelings, traits, behaviors, and desires that your parents and society deemed “unacceptable,” taboo, or weird growing up.
While the human shadow contains every thought, feeling, desire, and personality trait that we have rejected or suppressed, it also contains our hidden light and disowned gifts.
So, how big is your dark side? Consider this test an initiation into the shadow work path if you haven’t entered it already. No matter what result you get, it’s always crucial to incorporate some level of shadow work into your life and inner work journey.
Tip: Bookmark this page and come back to it periodically to see how you’ve progressed on your shadow work journey.
Shadow Self Test – How Big & Active Is Your Dark Side?
What is Shadow Work?
Shadow work is the practice of finding, befriending, and transmuting the wounded, suppressed, and buried parts of yourself (i.e., your shadows) so that you can regain access to your inner Light.
Our Dark Side & Carl Jung Shadow Self Quotes
Where does this idea of having a dark side come from in modern times? The concept of the shadow originated in the work of Swiss psychoanalyst Carl Jung.
Here are a few of the most famous Carl Jung shadow self quotes to contemplate:
Everyone carries a shadow, and the less it is embodied in the individual’s conscious life, the blacker and denser it is.
(Psychology and Religion)
The shadow is a moral problem that challenges the whole ego-personality, for no one can become conscious of the shadow without considerable moral effort. To become conscious of it involves recognising the dark aspects of the personality as present and real. This act is the essential condition for any kind of self-knowledge.
(Aion)
People will do anything, no matter how absurd, in order to avoid facing their own souls. One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.
(Psychology and Alchemy)
The shadow is a tight passage, a narrow door, whose painful constriction no one is spared who goes down to the deep well. But one must learn to know oneself in order to know who one is.
(The Archetypes and the Collective Unconscious)
What result did you receive, and how accurate did it feel? Share below. You might find that others recognize themselves in your experience, too.
Want to take another test? Try our Shadow Archetype Test.
My shadow self is light. But I feel that I trigger darkness in people around me. It’s frustrating that I have to be the positive person always. That drains me out.
That must be tough Reshmi. One thing I find important to remember is that you don’t need to be the positive person for the people around you, it’s not your responsibility to fix how others feel.
Thank you for sending this test again. It is not the first time I have taken it, but this is the first time I finally have a small shadow.
I am particularly proud of this result and extremely grateful to both of you because a lot of my result comes from all the work I did with the Inner Child journal, the Shadow work journal and the Dark Night of the Soul Journal. My exploration of Reiki helped, as well as other deep work I did, but I started my healing journey with your journals and I cannot recommend them enough. Thank you for the light you bring into the world.
It means a lot Nevena to know our journals have helped you so much 😊. Journaling seems like such a simple thing, but in the right moment of our journey it can be incredibly powerful to make that space of reflection.
I’m happy you’re also enjoying the Reiki exploration, we do feel it’s a bit gap in our work and Aletheia plans on exploring it a lot more this year. 😊
Lots of love 💜
I stopped taking the shadow test after the 4th question for each had two answers that generally or vaguely fit for me – I couldn’t place myself specifically with one.
Perhaps I’ll try again…
Yes, perhaps try again some time when you have more clarity – or choose one answer that slightly fits you more.
According to your answers in this test, you most likely have a Lightly Active (Small) Shadow Self.
This means there’s a high chance that you acknowledge and accept most parts of your nature and don’t tend to repress, reject, or condemn aspects of yourself.
This is a significant accomplishment because it means you can live a life of more ease, abundance, and fulfillment, unhindered by the shadow’s self-sabotage.
thank you. this is interesting to me because it seems like doing the inner work over a period of years has lead me to this point. i feel more at peace with myself and am still on a journey of healing. i allow myself to feel good and don’t ignore when i feel bad. i feel more at home with myself than i ever have.
i think that giving up all of my vices over time has helped. i chose growth and being kinder to me over gratification and numbing myself. thank you again.
That’s wonderful to read Nico, great job on finding that balance of feeling all feelings good and bad. It’s when we can welcome it all that we can begin to find that sense of inner home and joy you describe 😊💜
Thanks for the recent newsletter emitted the shadow quiz and I got moderately active shadow. that seems manage manageable and interesting to approach. Revisiting your overall inner work quiz , self love is still the dominant need in my life. I’ll revisit some of your resources on that and give it some attention. Thank you very much for all you do.
J x
Thank you James. That’s probably the wiser way to approach these assessments. Unlike the self-improvement focus on achieving ‘goals’, inner work is a life long journey with long plateaus and occasional unfolding spirals of growth.
So keeping your eye on the inner work necessary through these tests without obsessing over specific outcomes is one of the more gentle approaches that I’ve found.
Pls send my archetype
Hi Ursula,
You should have received it after taking the test. If you still can’t access the results, please let me know.
Well… The first sentence of my result clearly stated that (“According to your answers in this test, you most likely have a MEDIUM level shadow self buried within your unconscious mind.”) I “most likely” was medium level. However tallying my results must have taken me reading the next four sentences because then it was so (“As you have a medium shadow self, it likely isn’t consuming your life yet, but you may find it creeping up on you when you least expect it.”) Here is how I see it, my writing.
The inner mirror.
Many people are told to “do the inner work” or “face their shadows,” yet are rarely shown where to look or what they are actually seeing when they do.
This exists to offer orientation.
Not to diagnose. Not to correct. Not to assign blame.
But to help you recognize the forces that quietly shape how you think, react, love, protect, withdraw, and show up in the world.
We are not made from a single cause. We are shaped by layers—some chosen, some inherited, some experienced, some endured.
The Inner Mirror explores four of those foundational layers:
Zodiac — your natural temperament and energetic wiring
DNA — inherited patterns passed down through lineage
Environment — the conditions you were shaped within
Trauma — moments that taught your body how to survive
Together, they form a mirror—not to judge you, but to help you see yourself clearly.
Clarity is not the end of healing.
It is the beginning of compassion.
Before we explore these layers, it helps to understand what people often mean when they speak of ‘shadow.’
The Space Between Light and Shadow
This is not the light. It is a step toward the switch.
Many people encounter ideas like shadow, inner work, or healing and feel an immediate sense of recognition.
That makes sense, they think.
But recognition alone doesn’t show you where to look.
Without orientation, people are often left in the dark—not in total darkness, but in partial obscurity—where something is felt, but not yet clearly seen. Where only traces appear. Where shapes exist at the edge of awareness.
This is not to say there is one way.
Only that sometimes, a little light in the room helps.
Not illumination—but a step toward the switch.
A way to begin noticing what has been shadowing you:
Not as an enemy, but as what forms when something real stands between you and the light.
A companion that followed quietly. A faint outline cast by experience. A reflection, an influence nearby. A remnant of what once helped you survive.
Shadows are not who you are.
They are what appear when understanding has not yet reached a place it could.
Zodiac — Nature & Temperament
How you are wired to respond before you think.
Zodiac is not destiny. It is disposition.
It describes the natural tendencies you carry—how you instinctively process emotion, conflict, connection, and change. These traits are not learned; they are present early, often before language.
Some people are wired toward intensity. Others toward analysis. Some toward harmony, others toward independence. None of these are flaws.
But when temperament goes unrecognized, it often becomes mislabeled:
Sensitivity becomes “too much”
Guardedness becomes “cold”
Intensity becomes “dramatic”
Detachment becomes “uncaring”
Understanding your zodiac makeup does not excuse behavior—but it explains why certain reactions feel automatic.
When people ask, “Why do I always respond this way?”
Very often, part of the answer lives here.
DNA — Inherited Patterns
What was passed down without words.
DNA carries more than eye color and bone structure.
It carries patterns—emotional, behavioral, physiological—that existed long before you were born. Responses to stress. Tendencies toward anxiety or avoidance. Ways of attaching, protecting, enduring.
Some of what you struggle with did not start with you.
This does not remove responsibility—but it removes shame.
Recognizing inherited patterns allows you to separate:
What is yours to work with
From what was never consciously chosen
You are not here to erase your lineage.
You are here to become aware of it.
Environment — Conditioning & Upbringing
What felt normal because it was familiar.
Environment shapes us through repetition.
What was modeled. What was rewarded. What was punished. What was ignored.
Even loving environments leave imprints.
Children adapt in order to belong. Over time, those adaptations can harden into identity.
Silence becomes safety
Achievement becomes worth
Humor becomes armor
Independence becomes isolation
Awareness of environment is not about blame.
It is about recognizing why certain behaviors once worked—and whether they still do.
Trauma — A Broad, Human Definition
What taught your body to stay alert.
Trauma is not limited to abuse.
It includes any experience that overwhelmed your ability to process what was happening in the moment.
Accidents. Illness. Sudden loss. Fear. Injury. Being lost. Being alone when you needed safety.
The body remembers what the mind may minimize.
Trauma shapes response, not character.
Awareness here is not about reliving pain—it is about understanding why your nervous system reacts before you choose.
How They Interact — Awareness, Not Fixing
You are not broken. You are layered.
These forces do not act alone.
Temperament influences how trauma is stored.
Environment teaches how inherited patterns are expressed.
DNA affects what feels familiar.
The goal is not to eliminate these influences.
The goal is to see them clearly—so you are no longer unconsciously driven by them.
Awareness creates choice.
Choice creates agency.
And agency creates the possibility of change—without self-rejection.
Nothing is easy, but it takes presence, clarity and want. Do you want to remain a prisoner of your mind or do you want to become the warden with the key?
Thank you for sharing this powerful writing, Sovenquill. Wow! You are very eloquent. 💜
Thank you for sharing this explanation. There are so many things about inner work that I never understood. The information here has been really helpful to me. So thank you for your contribution. J x
I’ve done the Shadow work test but I don’t know how to get the results!!!
It will ask you if you want to subscribe to the newsletter. After you agree or decline the result will come up.
Large shadow self, I guess sometimes I do let it take control of me and make me someone I’m not typically but darkness is kinda comforting to me
Thanks for your vulnerability 💜