Do you lack feelings of sexual attraction toward others? Is your sex drive very low? You may Asexual. Take our free Asexuality Test to discover your unique percentage score!
Note: this test is meant to encourage fun self-reflection, so take the results with a pinch of salt and do your own research. There are many shades of asexuality (and sexuality in general), and they are not explored within this test. This test merely provides a big-picture outline of this orientation and the likelihood that you may be asexual. Enjoy!
I have a question, actually. I took the test because I was curious. I have a fiance and I’m pregnant. My fiance suggested I may be asexual because I’m not that interested in sex. I’m wondering, does not being very sexually driven necessarily mean I am asexual or on the spectrum (if there is an asexual spectrum)? Like, the questions on masturbating, sex scenes in movies and books, meh, I’m just not into it. I’ve made love with my fiance, we made baby. I dont see sex as a scientific thing, I mean, technically I guess it is.. but that’s beside the point. Point is, I’m a little confused. Maybe I’m just didnt grow up as sex crazy as my women counterparts, or maybe I am asexual. I’d like to know what you think, if you have a moment to reply.
You’re right! Asexuality is a spectrum, and it doesn’t necessarily mean that one dislikes the idea/practice of sex. There are asexuals who like the idea of sex and are fine with having it; they just don’t experience sexual attraction very often (or at all). There are also asexuals who have sex to please their partners, and there are asexuals who abstain from sex entirely. One doesn’t necessarily have to think of sex clinically (or find sex scenes dry) to be asexual, and in my opinion this test falls short in a lot of ways,
Being asexual is different from being aromantic, as well. Being asexual doesn’t exclude one from engaging in alloromantic relationships, and vice versa.
All this stuff is just scratching the surface of asexuality, because the question of sexuality is a complex topic in and of itself. If you want to find out more, I suggest going to AVEN, an online community that discusses all of the stuff I just mentioned and much, much more.
I will refrain from giving you my interpretation of your sexuality, because I believe it is something you must discover and decide for yourself. But whatever you decide, just know that you are in no way invalid or broken for what you are. The people who say so are liars and deserve to have their faces smashed with liar cake. :)
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