Do you lack feelings of sexual attraction toward others? Is your sex drive very low? You may Asexual. Take our free Asexuality Test to discover your unique percentage score!
Note: this test is meant to encourage fun self-reflection, so take the results with a pinch of salt and do your own research. There are many shades of asexuality (and sexuality in general), and they are not explored within this test. This test merely provides a big-picture outline of this orientation and the likelihood that you may be asexual. Enjoy!
So I just recently found out that I’m lesbian, and I felt very happy that I could finally understand myself. My only fear was actually telling people and talking to others about it, because I knew they probably wouldn’t understand. But there had always been another question on my mind that I always brushed over, but now I’m starting to think about it more. Why am I never really that interested in sex? It just doesn’t seem like such a big deal to me, and it seems to be what everyone around me wants and desires, but I never been excited for it. I do want kiss, hold hands, cuddle, hug, and fall in love, but sex just never felt like a huge priority. Losing my virginity never felt like a huge deal like my friends would make it. It’s rare that I crush on someone, and everyone around me seems to have multiple crushes every week. Having sex just felt like something vague in my head, something so far away, but I had always felt like it was something I needed to do because everyone else cared about it. But do I really care about it? I had thought that my confusion stage was over and now I finally have answers, but now I’m falling down that familiar sexuality confused spiral again. But I do know I want romance, but just uninterested in having sex. I feel I would only do it if it’s what my partner wanted, but not necessarily me.
And I scored 65%, so maybe that explains it.
I’m 16 turning 17 soon and I haven’t had my first kiss I’ve rejected so many boys even boys I’ve liked because I just don’t like the idea of being in a relationship atfirst I thought maybe I was lesbian but nahh I just don’t like girls like I really don’t and I still get crushes on boys but let’s just say I like them from a distance once they start asking me out I get annoyed
Haha ya, maybe we’re all just afraid of having an actual relationship.
This is a joke don’t get offended.
Hello, friends and foe, like many of you a scored a high score of the asexual quiz and many other asexual quiz’s. I am a thirteen-year-old girl who has a strict family and lives in a part of Texas that’s not renowned for accepting everything. I have always been put under the categories of sexually curious and have dated around a few times because I was bored, but I was never really atracted to any of the people I dated and I usually felt lonely (if that makes sense). My friend jokingly made a Buzzfeed test a few weeks ago to see what sexuality I was and I got asexual. I guess I never really thought about myself like that, but it made sense because any time my friends or family talked about hot people or sex I felt nothing, I don’t feel attraction to anyone. At all. I’ve never had a crush or anything like that. I’m a bit confused to be honest because I never really thought that I would be alone, but it makes me happy to know why I’m different and I really hope people will accept me like this.
I’m 19 and very confused, I , unfortunately have a libido , but I never wanted nor understood why others wanted a girlfriend/boyfriend and kiss them. I like cuddling , but really dislike kissing and other sexually related things. Sex in general is really strange for me, I tried watching porno , but it was just strange and I was worried about the consensuality of the whole thing. On the other hand reading about people who fall in love and enjoy themselves sort of arouses me even if I find it unconfortable and annoying, like cicle cramps. But in the test I just scored 50. ???
Some of these questions I’m not sure of so that’s probably messing it up.
80% Asexual
My name is Maddy and I remember when I was younger that when ever my parents kissed I thought it was disgusting. The very thought of me kissing someone was disgusting. But as I got older I started liking people in a way where I was comfortable, like being near them, talking with them, and growing a close relationship. I turned 14 a few months ago and I remembered before my birthday that I wanted to understand what it meant to have different genders, (I don’t know how to put it, im sorry if it was worded wrong) I found Asexual and was curious, I did some research and never really thought about it again until recently. Nothing bad happened during my 14 years, I have a wonderfull life and I’m grateful for it! And I realise now that I never had any sexual attraction with anyone, I wouldn’t know since I’m 14. But I still have never felt completely comfortable with the topic of “sex”, (I don’t know if it’s because of my age) but I’m not sure. I have a friend who tells me that when she gets older she wants to lose her virginity at the “right time” and it’s one of her greatest desires. I usually laugh when she brings it up because it sound different and weird, later I realise that I don’t want that though, my other fiends will talk about it too as in a way where they want to get married, and have kids. I don’t want that though, I do want kids, but adopted. I don’t really feel comfortable with the thought other people would. I’m not sure. I don’t know anyone who is Asexual so I wouldn’t know how to find to find advice on whether or not I’m Asexual. I got a 65% on the test, but I think with time I’ll understand myself, and why I feel the way I do with other people. I could be wrong about this, I could be right, I’m not sure. I feel like I’m forcing myself to not like someone cause I don’t want to be awkward around them, but it’s not where I’m at the point that I can’t live without knowing if they like me back or not, because I decided that I’m wasting my time on that, and its silly. But whenever I do like someone I never think, “THEY ARE SUPER HOT!” As my friend would put it, I don’t like to see people like that. I see people more as just, as their personalities, and I’m not usually attracted to them for long, it’s never really a big deal anyway. Thanks for reading, I kind of just wanted to tell my story.
wow you are incredibly strong minded and very lucky to be this confident in yourself and your sexuality at the mere age of 14. Its extremely admirable, I wish i had this confidence when I was a teenager. Bravo to you!
I first thought I am grey-asexual, but most luckily, I am asexual, so that means that I don’t really have a crush on anyone. :O
I don’t like the last question, which was along the lines of “Do you ever have to fake an interest in sex for the sake of a conversation?” And I can guess that if you choose “I Agree” you will get a higher score since many asexuals have to hide and pretend they like the idea of sex more than they really do to decrease any judgemnt, but the thing is even though I am asexual I haven’t had to do that since I tell people how interested I really am in sex, which is not much. So I haven’t had to fake a conversation since I stay true to myself when talking to others about that subject if it ever even comes up, so that question isn’t really good since both answers can lead to you being asexual. Still thank you for making the test!
I felt the same about the question regarding having to fake conversations about sex.. I never fake it.. I say I don’t care about sex, don’t like sex, and am interested in being intimate not sexual. I was always called ridged, a tease or other derogatory names because I don’t need, want or like sex. I also have heard ‘ what are you gay’? My answer was maybe but I’m not interested in sex with any gender.. I am happy to have read this thanks for sharing. I was treated like an odd ball but never felt like the odd ball.. I see it as people mistaking sex as love or visa versa. I have a deisre for companionship, hugging, hand holding ect.. kissing is nice but has never led to a sexual desire either.. so I felt like people who are sexual are / we’re odd.. the whole concept is odd with my heart and soul.. sex and love are completely separate in my book of what love means.
It says I am..? Well they’re not wrong, lol. I don’t like boys at school and neither do I like girls
So I took the demisexuals quiz and scored 85 and then took this quiz and scored 80. Is there a big difference between to two or not?
As far as I know, the main difference is that demisexuals don’t feel sexual attraction until an strong emotional bond is formed, whereas asexuals don’t feel it at all
We are simply not bothered by it, sex. It doesn’t mean anything is low or should be high. It’s that simple. And you didn’t even consider the ranges in asexual in your questions: what about demi, Gray, aromantic??? There are asexuals that can be sexual in relationships when there is an emotional connection. Either help or really, don’t.
Just wanted to drop in and say your test was honestly the best one I could find out there. Thank you so much for making it!
It takes me a long time to understand things. I looked up asexuality a long time ago and it seemed maybe like me, but I didn’t understand sexual attraction. Now I do. I have rarely felt hot or nervous around someone attractive. I don’t have the desire to sleep with someone I find attractive. Usually someone has the desire to sleep with me and they thrust themselves upon me and I just go with it. Now that I don’t drink and I am older it doesn’t happen as often. I like the way it feels when a man touches me, I don’t know if that means I am not asexual. I just don’t feel attraction and I can live for years without sex and be happier. I’m still at the figuring it out stage, but most signs point to yes. I don’t really want to be a greysexual. I want to be normal. I scored a 95% on this quiz. Life experience after this will show me the real answer.
“You never initiate sex.” That’s assuming that if you don’t initiate sex that you’re asexual
but there are many people who are sexual but virgin by choice because of various reasons
Hi, my name is Chloe. I always fell in love with boys until I was 14, that’s when I first fell in love with a girl, and with time, other girls AND BOYS. I knew that I was Bi. And it was totally normal. I knew that.
But then, when I was 17 I started a bad relationship, I could even say traumatic. Since then, I don’t date, I still feel attracted to some people (I would say that in 20 people, 1 makes me feel attracted) but I always push them away soon or later. And in all times, I imagined to kiss them but never do sexual relations – I only feel like I could actually do it (sexual relations) in 2 days of the month (First 2 days of my period). The rest of the month I feel kind of repulsed about it.
And it’s been very confusing because I feel that I don’t want to date with anyone but I keep daydreaming about a celebrity in special, that I know that I will NEVER date him. That makes me feel safe at some point because, in that way, nobody will hurt me and I won’t imagine with someone around me that I could possibly fall in love, I don’t know.. AND I would like some advice, I’m not sure what’s my sexual orientation, if I’m asexual or if it was because of my past relationship (Although it happened about 3 years ago). And if you know what I should do, my daydreaming is almost impossible to control, I feel distracted, my days are not very productive because I’m always losing myself in thoughts. Thank you for reading this and Thank you if you help me.
Hey Chloe! I am not a professional but, from what I understand from what your question i you are not asexual. So, when you are dating, dopamine is realeased which gives us pleasures of being in love, but after we breakup, there is mess in our body as we still crave for that dopamine dose that we used to recieve when we were dating and yours not ending on good terms messed this process further. Now, we can’t exactly determine how long it will take for someone to cope up with the pain and though at superficial level you thought you were doing fine, deep down the mess was still not cleared thus creating insecurity. Everything else is just the effects or signs that your body deep down is still battling the war of 3 years. Thus you are not asexual but just not ready to fall in love again. If you are still confused, like I was, just remember this formula:
Question: Do I want to touch his/her private parts? If your answer is yes, then you are sexual and if your answer is no, you are asexual(this should be your answer for each and every person irrespective of he/she is your crush). Just, don’t try it right now. For this question to be answered truthfully, the mind and body should be at peace which yours isn’t right now. You need some time off. You definitely aren’t asexual, don’t worry.
I hope you have understood, this answer looks pretty messed up
As a somali boy living in a very heterosexual environment, the size of my ass always left me doubious. I know thats not how you spell doubious but i cant be asked to autocorrect is as my science need me. Off to boots before the 4 lions get there.