Do you lack feelings of sexual attraction toward others? Is your sex drive very low? You may Asexual. Take our free Asexuality Test to discover your unique percentage score!
Note: this test is meant to encourage fun self-reflection, so take the results with a pinch of salt and do your own research. There are many shades of asexuality (and sexuality in general), and they are not explored within this test. This test merely provides a big-picture outline of this orientation and the likelihood that you may be asexual. Enjoy!
I always felt like sex was just about reproduction but it turned sexual and I never understood the desire to have sex. I thought it was just “I want to have a baby with my husband” and thats all. when I figured out what asexuality was I realised I wasn’t crazy and that other people felt the same way as me.
Thanks for this test. I always figured I was Asexuality. Don’t like romance novels I think they’re stupid. Could be because I was grossly overweight as a child who had a learning disability. Funny thing is I have a bit of a bawdy sense of humor and I don’t know where that came from. Other than that, I don’t care about sex and don’t understand the big deal about it except for reproduction.
….thanksies for the test!
I had a question tho, could you tell me how are souls assigned their sexuality?
What could be the spiritual reasons for being asexual, when most of the people out there are not?
Hi I am so glad I found this test because lately i have been wanting sex but i am not turnd on by anyone and i dont know what that means maybe it’s just a faze or maybe its permanent
It’s good to know that I can relate with people who have the same questions like me. I’m 25, virgin (maybe I’ll die virgin and I don’t care), and I really never liked the idea of sex at all, I was scared by it. I do consider sex as a BIG MEH in my life. When I was teenager I discovered porn, but I never saw it as the big deal. It’s just a ridiculous fantasy. It’s almost laughable when you think about it. I have questions about who I am as a person, and while some of my friends talked about oral sex and having the first time with their girlfriends/boyfriends back in high school, it was something that always made me feel uncomfortable because I was like “why you are telling me this?”. People take sex like it is the World Cup or the Super Bowl, as this “big event”, but it isn’t. Besides the fact that I was sexually abused when I was kid by my classmates, just thinking about it makes me sick. I don’t like being touched, as the matter fact when someone touches me in a way they shouldn’t I go insane. I do masturbate but over the years I have found no excitement about it. Maybe I did in my teens, but not now, I rarely masturbate but I feel gross and I hate my body because of that. My mother gave me “the talk” at a very young age but I was like “oh… kay…?”.
I have met someone, someone I like and probably be with, but I care about the aspect that if she can love me, the romance behind it, but the sex it’s something that doesn’t interests me, but I know why people walk away from me when they start to know me and I start to know them, the interest is gone after days. I’m someone they can’t love, nobody has ever loved me, honestly, but I’m the cold-heart-type-of-person and I do not open myself with someone very easily. I had crushes on a girl or boy in the past but from a big distance so they don’t know about it to avoid me from being ashamed. The first person I liked was a boy when I was the third grade, then the girls came, but just like this boy it just didn’t worked for me. I don’t like the terms of boyfriend/girlfriend either because I’m tired of hearing my family and friends asking me why I don’t have any and I have never had a relationship with anyone, nor kissing someone. Maybe I’m antisocial because of the same thing because I can stand be around a lot of people and when I’m alone with a girl or guy, I just leave because the interest is low, even if I consider the person attractive I just leave. As the matter fact when I see people kissing it’s gross, makes me sick. I’m not either gay, straight or bi, I felt some attraction for both genders but it’s very minimal, very microscopical. When I see a male or female body I don’t see what’s the big deal. It’s just a body, nothing more. Why do people make the big scandal about it? I don’t know. I know that people won’t understand when I say that I’m asexual because the first thing that comes to their minds is judgement and rejection, so why bother say anything or make them understand. I got 85% so that settles everything I guess. Finally I can be happy being asexual (the only thing that I can happy about), I’m finally fit somewhere.
Well… I’m not sure if it’s the undiagnosed autism, the CPTSD, or both, but it took until I was FORTY EFFING TWO to realise I’m asexual / zooromantic (I only love my cats). Could be the result of being fetishised my whole life, and never experiencing a healthy romantic relationship, too. But at this point, I’ve been single almost 4 years, and haven’t been touched (I think I hugged a friend this summer once) really in nearly a year. Last sexual experience was in January, and the last time was assault. Before that, I could feel some attraction, but after, my brain decided that feeling ANY attraction was unsafe and wrong. I’m struggling to find a happy medium with exercise, but that causes unwanted sleep fapping, to the point where I want to tape up my fingers and wear mittens to bed. Orgasms are humiliating, period; if it gets bad enough, I may seek out medical intervention (removal of clitoris / labia / vulva / nipples) to prevent myself from sleep stimulation.
I’m just disgusted by sex in any form, now. Don’t want to feel arousal ever again.
I scored a 90%. I took another aromantic test, and I was aromantic. I’m also asexual. I thought I was because I don’t experience any love except for my parents. Glad I’m asexual and aromantic.
Eeew Im so confused, but thankful for my awesome friends and other things. Please dont come near if you feel like you want to f me, I feel safer without u :)
Ima asexual n aromantic person n am feelin dis is da most prettiest thing happend to me ngl I have a exception n dat’s Lady Gaga lmao luv her sm but anyway ppl can call me wtv they want tho am ngaf cuz am better dan em am special n dat’s what I always wanted I don need someone to make me happy cuz am happy on my own I wish ppl can taste either cuz dat’s blessing n proud
I knew something was off when everyone started talking about sex and sexual desires but hell, I didn’t really expected to score 95% asexual.
thank u. this helped me so much. now i know i am an asexual panromantic
I scored 70%. I guess, like most other things in life, I’m even a slacker in my sexuality. C- for me!
I… really don’t want to be this way. at all. i get that it’s technically correct, but i don’t have to claim this label for myself, right? I technically identify as bi or pansexual, it doesn’t really bother me that i dont experience sexual attraction, I’m purely driven by romance. I’d genuinely rather die than be forced to use this label.
I oddly agree, i only got 70% but this label is one I don’t wanna use. I don’t think different of anyone who is asexual but i just don’t want to be seen like that. It’s so frustrating.
That seems very dramatic but also totally fine. Nobody is forcing you to do anything, there are no Label Police coming to get you, whatever you want is fine. I personally like the label asexual but have no desire to lock down a term for my romantic attraction, it just doesn’t seem important to me.
Well, that’s interesting for me, I had no clue at all about my sexuality, throughout, I had attemped many times past the years even though I was certain I would not have pleasure.
I have a question, actually. I took the test because I was curious. I have a fiance and I’m pregnant. My fiance suggested I may be asexual because I’m not that interested in sex. I’m wondering, does not being very sexually driven necessarily mean I am asexual or on the spectrum (if there is an asexual spectrum)? Like, the questions on masturbating, sex scenes in movies and books, meh, I’m just not into it. I’ve made love with my fiance, we made baby. I dont see sex as a scientific thing, I mean, technically I guess it is.. but that’s beside the point. Point is, I’m a little confused. Maybe I’m just didnt grow up as sex crazy as my women counterparts, or maybe I am asexual. I’d like to know what you think, if you have a moment to reply.
You’re right! Asexuality is a spectrum, and it doesn’t necessarily mean that one dislikes the idea/practice of sex. There are asexuals who like the idea of sex and are fine with having it; they just don’t experience sexual attraction very often (or at all). There are also asexuals who have sex to please their partners, and there are asexuals who abstain from sex entirely. One doesn’t necessarily have to think of sex clinically (or find sex scenes dry) to be asexual, and in my opinion this test falls short in a lot of ways,
Being asexual is different from being aromantic, as well. Being asexual doesn’t exclude one from engaging in alloromantic relationships, and vice versa.
All this stuff is just scratching the surface of asexuality, because the question of sexuality is a complex topic in and of itself. If you want to find out more, I suggest going to AVEN, an online community that discusses all of the stuff I just mentioned and much, much more.
I will refrain from giving you my interpretation of your sexuality, because I believe it is something you must discover and decide for yourself. But whatever you decide, just know that you are in no way invalid or broken for what you are. The people who say so are liars and deserve to have their faces smashed with liar cake. :)
yes. like for me i jist find sex disgusting. like for just no reason i think it is immensly gross and i never wanna do it
Hell yah bruh most disgusting shit ever. sex is for animals
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I got 80 in this test! I do masturbate. But i don’t attract to a naked body or porn and sexy movies. I don’t like to be touched, had some romantic relationships but i did sex to please my partner. And after a few seconds i start to hate sex during it. I’m not romantic person and don’t like some romantic acts. Thanks for the test. It made my mind much more clear.
Yeah, I scored an 85. I am grossed out by people’s bodies so even though I masturbate, I only read content because hearing or seeing sexual content is really gross to me. I think the idea of actually engaging in sex sounds awful. I am also not that big on romance, boring. It’s kinda nice to remember other aces masturbate, ya know? Like, weird, but also really comforting (sometimes I convince myself that I am faking because I get horny)