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“You never initiate sex.” That’s assuming that if you don’t initiate sex that you’re asexual
but there are many people who are sexual but virgin by choice because of various reasons
Hi, my name is Chloe. I always fell in love with boys until I was 14, that’s when I first fell in love with a girl, and with time, other girls AND BOYS. I knew that I was Bi. And it was totally normal. I knew that.
But then, when I was 17 I started a bad relationship, I could even say traumatic. Since then, I don’t date, I still feel attracted to some people (I would say that in 20 people, 1 makes me feel attracted) but I always push them away soon or later. And in all times, I imagined to kiss them but never do sexual relations – I only feel like I could actually do it (sexual relations) in 2 days of the month (First 2 days of my period). The rest of the month I feel kind of repulsed about it.
And it’s been very confusing because I feel that I don’t want to date with anyone but I keep daydreaming about a celebrity in special, that I know that I will NEVER date him. That makes me feel safe at some point because, in that way, nobody will hurt me and I won’t imagine with someone around me that I could possibly fall in love, I don’t know.. AND I would like some advice, I’m not sure what’s my sexual orientation, if I’m asexual or if it was because of my past relationship (Although it happened about 3 years ago). And if you know what I should do, my daydreaming is almost impossible to control, I feel distracted, my days are not very productive because I’m always losing myself in thoughts. Thank you for reading this and Thank you if you help me.
Hey Chloe! I am not a professional but, from what I understand from what your question i you are not asexual. So, when you are dating, dopamine is realeased which gives us pleasures of being in love, but after we breakup, there is mess in our body as we still crave for that dopamine dose that we used to recieve when we were dating and yours not ending on good terms messed this process further. Now, we can’t exactly determine how long it will take for someone to cope up with the pain and though at superficial level you thought you were doing fine, deep down the mess was still not cleared thus creating insecurity. Everything else is just the effects or signs that your body deep down is still battling the war of 3 years. Thus you are not asexual but just not ready to fall in love again. If you are still confused, like I was, just remember this formula:
Question: Do I want to touch his/her private parts? If your answer is yes, then you are sexual and if your answer is no, you are asexual(this should be your answer for each and every person irrespective of he/she is your crush). Just, don’t try it right now. For this question to be answered truthfully, the mind and body should be at peace which yours isn’t right now. You need some time off. You definitely aren’t asexual, don’t worry.
I hope you have understood, this answer looks pretty messed up
As a somali boy living in a very heterosexual environment, the size of my ass always left me doubious. I know thats not how you spell doubious but i cant be asked to autocorrect is as my science need me. Off to boots before the 4 lions get there.