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Awakened Soul: The Last Reincarnation

by Mateo Sol ยท Updated: Apr 8, 2022 ยท 59 Comments

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Thereโ€™s a worm addicted to eating grape leaves.

Suddenly he wakes up, call it grace, whatever, something wakes him, and heโ€™s no longer a worm.

Heโ€™s the entire vineyard, and the orchard too, the fruit, the trunks, a growing wisdom and joy that doesn’t need to devour.

~ Rumi (“The Wormโ€™s Waking”, The Essential Rumi)

For the past few years, we’ve been writing aboutย Soul Ages as a way to explain the process of existential recurrence – our individual lives rippling through eternity.

Once we’ve accepted the nature of our soul’s existence, there are a few important questions that are raised.ย  What is the purpose of reincarnation?ย  What are our Soul’s evolving toward?ย  And as we mature in soul age, why do we feel a growing urge to “return back home”?

Table of contents

  • What Is Reincarnation?
  • Why Do We Reincarnate?
  • Why Do We Feel Like We Need to “Return Home”?

What Is Reincarnation?

The first aspect that must be understood is that ‘reincarnation‘ is a word that embodies many different ideologies.ย  Ancient cultures all around the world have believed in reincarnation since the dawn of time, and a few major religious systems have incorporated the idea into their teachings (e.g. Jainism, Buddhism and Hinduism).


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Reincarnation of an ‘individual self’ is only as possible to the extent of believing that your sense of ‘self’ – your ego – is real.

Two identities who are dwelling within two different physical bodies in the present, or in the past, will be two very distinct personalities.ย  Our personalities are, to a large extent, determined by our environmental conditioning and physical genetics.ย  Traits such as Introversion or being a Highly Sensitive Person, for example, are determined by our physical biology’s, while traits such as shyness, self-esteem, ideologies and neuroticism are the result of environmental psychological conditioning.

In truth, the ‘I‘ is a transitioning, ever-changing phenomenon.ย  We can easily prove this by catching up with a friend that we haven’t seen for 30 years – both you and your friend will not be the same person as you both were in the past.ย  ‘I‘ is a transitioning, ever-changing phenomenon.

Although our identities and senses of self are ever-changing, there is something that remains the same.ย  There is something within us that is constant and continuous, and that isย pure awareness. ย It is this very pure awareness which serves as theย experiencer and observer of life, and it is this pure awareness that we can refer to as our Soul.

This understanding of reincarnation closely resembles that of the Buddhist idea that the continuity continues, but the individual disappears.ย  But how can a religion like Buddhism that doesn’t believe in the soul believe in reincarnation?ย  I believe the answer is that it was to prevent us from creating an ego identification with our “Souls”.ย  The Buddhist idea of the Soul can be compared to the following analogy:ย  You light a candle in the evening and leave it over night.ย  When you go to blow it out in the morning can you say that it is the same flame that you had ignited in the previous evening?ย  It is not the same flame, and yet somehow it is connected.

In this way, Buddhism understands our soul’s as an energy, or an ever-burning flame.ย  However, in order to prevent identification with it, they didn’t refer to it as a “Soul”.

As we mature in soul age we come to understand the wisdom in this Buddhist teaching.ย  The moment you start identifying with present or past life identities is the moment you begin creating a division between yourself and the world around you – and it is this that is the root of all disharmony in the world.

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Why Do We Reincarnate?

So if we aren’t the same person who is reincarnating over and over again – why do many people have memories of these ‘past lives’?

Jungian psychology did a wonderful job in exploring the existence of the Collective Unconscious – a concept that Jung believed individual memories dwell in from past lives:

“In addition to our immediate consciousness, which is of a thoroughly personal nature and which we believe to be the only empirical psyche (even if we tack on the personal unconscious as an appendix), there exists a second psychic system of a collective, universal, and impersonal nature which is identical in all individuals.ย  This collective unconscious does not develop individually but is inherited.ย  It consists of pre-existent forms, the archetypes, which can only become conscious secondarily and which give definite form to certain psychic contents.”

Freud referred to these karmic leftovers as “archaic remnants“, or mental fragments whose presence cannot be explained by anything in the individual’s life, but rather appear to be primal, innate, and inherited shapes of the human mind.ย  The grandfather of psychology William James also shared his perspective, stating: “As our spiritual being is amplified here on earth and as we grow in age and experience, we become more conscious of this vaster world all around us, and when we die it is only to enter into an enlarged capacity.“

Essentially, the Collective Unconscious is formed of a pool of memories that some individuals, through the purification of awareness or evolution of their soul ages, have tapped in to, being able to remember events of a person’s life hundreds, and sometimes thousands, of years ago.

Past memories serve us in our journeys of self-exploration as ways to learn and grow.

The idea is that as we grow in soul maturity, the souls who have applied enough Soulful Energy in their lives will be able to remember the patterns of foolish and destructive behavior repeated in the past to correct, learn and move forward from.ย  For example: In a past life we might have been poor and spent all our life pursuing money, but once we achieved riches, we realized how empty the pursuit left us and how pointless it all was.ย  The memory of this can prevent us from making the same mistake in our present life, and this is precisely what the Buddhist ‘Wheel of Life‘ illustrates.

As long as we keep dying feeling unfulfilled from this life, as long as we keep dying carrying our superficial desires and expectations that create misery and suffering for ourselves and others, and as long as we continue to identify with our false senses of ‘self’ – we will continue to return to this world until we reach fulfillment.ย 

Our reincarnation is a necessary process of refining our soul, of liberating ourselves from unfulfillment and of assisting us in quenching our spiritual thirst.

Why Do We Feel Like We Need to “Return Home”?

It is during this process of our soul evolution that we mature and begin to feel alien and isolated in this world.ย  Suddenly, everything feels flat, barren and dry, and we struggle immensely to connect in relationships with other people.ย  This is when we develop the deep longing to return back to our “true home” – to our divinity or conscious womb – the place where we feel we belong, and where we finally feel whole again.

At first, it may seem like a terrible experience to go through the ordeals we go through in this life – and this is often referred to as the Dark Night of the Soul.ย  But when we begin to ‘grow up’ spiritually, we start to understand that a spiritual awakening is not about having blissful experiencesย but is about serving a much higher and more profound cause: the collective growth of the human race.ย  This is something we as individuals can never be separate from.

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The last reincarnation is the one where we awaken, where we join opposites, where we transcend separation and duality and become whole so as to truly become responsible.

The ‘Awakened Soul’ is the final step – the progression of the Old Soul who has undergone immense spiritual work.ย  It is impossible to awaken completely all at once – we must first begin to awaken for short moments, hence the necessity for Old Souls.

To awaken is only possible for those who seek it and want it – for those who are ready to struggle with themselves and work on themselves and developing their authenticity for a very long time in order to attain it.ย  Most people will say that they are spiritual, and that they meditate or do yoga every now and then, but as Buddha put it:

You must want to free yourself from dukkha (suffering) as if your hair was on fire!

Most soul ages will not have such a strong desire and will not be ready to die in order to find truth.

And this is what an Awakened Soul is: their false identity has died (this is the Buddhist concept of ‘being in the world, but not of it‘), they have opened the final door, they have seen through the falsity of the world, and a unity has been revealed that encompasses all beings and transcends all boundaries.ย  Mystics in every religious system in every culture and in every age have reported this to be the highest truth.ย  Jesus, another Awakened Soul, would teach this as ‘blessed are the poor in spirit’, an emptiness that results from being freed of all encumbrances and tethers to one’s past.

In fact, just as the unconscious works on a collective scale, so also does ‘awakening’ occur in waves of collective awareness.ย  Some Awakened Souls who were contemporaries could be found in India such as Gautama Buddha, Mahavira, Makkhali Gosala, Ajita Kesakambali – who were all spreading the same message, while in China there was Confucius, Lao Tzu, Mencius, Chuang Tzu, Lieh Tzu and in Greece Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, Heraclitus and Pythagoras who were all contributors.ย  One of the most comforting statements ever made by Socrates was:ย  “No evil can befall a good man in this life or in the next.“

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About Mateo Sol

Mateo Sol is a spiritual educator, guide, entrepreneur, and co-founder of one of the most influential and widely read spiritual websites on the internet. Born into a family with a history of drug addiction and mental illness, he was taught about the plight of the human condition from a young age. His mission is to help others experience freedom, wholeness, and peace in all stages of life. [Read More]

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  1. eklatea says

    December 10, 2016 at 5:41 am

    I’m not sure about this article …
    I think I’m in the awakening process, and I am an old soul. But I’m unsure what will happen when I die in this life …
    I think, I either will leave this world forever or stay until the last human is gone. I don’t know why … but I want to be on this world until it’s end, but I know that this world is not wonderful and I have my problems with it … I simply don’t know.

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  2. Sea says

    November 16, 2015 at 4:57 am

    In another time and place, in the early part of our relationship, my husband and I were viewing a movie where, in a elevator, a man turns to the woman and says, “you complete me.” My husband said that
    (what the guy said) was “neat”. I said, oh, no, and was abhorred, and explained to him why. Towards
    the end of our time together this time around, on forms that said occupation, he put for himself: avid
    tree watcher, and for me, child of the universe, because nothing external defines my existence. I recently opened an account at a bank and child of the universe was listed as my occupation.

    I totally agree with Joanne. And I really enjoy the discussion with you and Bryan.

    When an extremely good friend died and I was left with everything, I somehow started dating
    the owner of my friend’s apartment building. I did not listen to my intuition, and dated this man
    two or three times. Deciding not to go further, I told him, “remember when you told me that all
    you needed to be happy, was a woman?” He said, “yes.” I said, “well, all I need to be happy is
    me.” He said, “well, I think that’s weird.” I said, “bye!”

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    • Mateo says

      November 16, 2015 at 7:09 am

      Child of the Universe :)

      The trouble with the soul awakening is that it’s impossible to verbalize; even thinking in concepts of ‘external’ and ‘internal’ implies a division that is only there from a duality arising perspective. I know what you mean though.

      I think Bryan feels his questions may have been a bit personal, and as they’ve been answered, his removed them. Hopefully others readers will get the basic idea of the questions from our replies.

      Sea, you strike me as quite the jokerster. The Tibetans have a word for this: “yeshe cholwa” which means roughly ‘wisdom gone wild’. The Indian equivalent is ‘avadhuta’, a term that refers to a wandering truth seeker who flaunts social conventions and whose concern with depth transcends moral and social frameworks. :)

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  3. Mags Sam Bol says

    October 12, 2015 at 7:09 am

    I do not see your comment as cruel,but a wake up call, my friend =) Like I said in my previous discussion, I have learned a lot within those 2 months. I had learnt it in the harshest of ways. You are correct. Women detest weakness in men. my depression had made me a shell of my former self. I admit most of what happened in that part of my life is my own fault, but I cannot cry over spilled milk right? I have to move on and find inner peace within myself. I am already doing most of what you have suggested, all I can say is it’s not easy. My road to improvement is going to be a long and slow journey. But, It’s better than not improving at all.

    Let’s just say I am near the exit of my soul loss experience. Right now I am doing what I can to find inner happiness. I have been helping a lot of my friends who were having the same experience as I had. I make sure I won’t let them experience the full force of depression. I am back to what I do best. Be the voice of reason and adviser to anyone who needs me.

    Thank you for your advice, SkyOnFire =)

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  4. Mags Sam Bol says

    August 11, 2015 at 2:06 pm

    I have search heavily on the net on why I feel very old in this life time. I also yearn to go home. I question myself many times that whatever I do, the only way for me to be happy is to find the twin flame that had separated from me ( please don’t judge) – a millennium ago. I feel I had been reincarnated too many times and had been desperate for completeness that feels like an eternity to achieve from finding my half and I am starting to feel drained and feel like giving up.I am still seeking answers on how I can be complete. I just feel that this is my final life cycle. I am seeking help from people who are like me on how they deal with their final cycle and how they can at least be happy on what they have. I don’t seek wealth or any materialism… I just know I have been suffering for the lot of my life time here.

    I want to be whole again. and this time, forever.

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    • Mateo says

      August 12, 2015 at 8:01 am

      The journey of the soul is to return to the wholeness. The secret is to learn where that wholeness comes from. To live life requiring to find an external ‘other half’ will leave you eternally incomplete, as it creates a duality in your journey, a reliance on an external factor outside of your control.

      To find wholeness, to return home, is to become inwardly complete. That there is no one and nothing that will fill that void other than your consciousness aligning itself back into its center.

      Thank you Mags for sharing your journey.

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      • Mags Sam Bol says

        August 13, 2015 at 8:19 pm

        Thanks for sharing your insights to me.. I don’t know., something in me is telling me that in order for me to be complete, I must find my true half.. Maybe I am one of those who are separated in half in order to learn a lesson or something like that. Just sharing what I know. To be honest I don’t know why I know these things. It’s just one of those “I Just Know” type of stuff.. hope you can share more of what you know to me.. I feel I have found my people that understood what I am dealing with right now.

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        • Mateo says

          August 14, 2015 at 9:35 am

          I am a firm believer in our intuition and its ability to guide us in our journey. But the old Greek idea that our souls are split in two halves and we spend eternity trying to find the other half is a misguided teaching.

          Can you imagine the love that can emerge from such a union? Two dependent souls that require the other person to feel happy and complete. It’s a sickly sort of love, co-dependent and doomed for failure. By loving this way we enslave the other person, we steal their freedom, with the burden of our happiness; “You can’t change, you can’t stop loving me, you can’t leave me…because I always need you to be who I want you to be so you can continue making me whole and complete”.

          Our souls are complete how they are, the problem is our minds, our core wounds (look it up on our website), that have misaligned our center, our origin. We live life centered in the mind looking for that person to make us complete, that next ‘achievement’ to make us happy and ‘successful’. But the truth is, our wholeness is always there, we’re just looking in the wrong place.

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          • Mags Sam Bol says

            August 14, 2015 at 11:38 am

            Thanks for your helpful insight once again. But if you can listen to my own view in this. if I may quote your statement: “By loving this way we enslave the other person, we steal their freedom, with the burden of our happiness; “You can’t change, you can’t stop loving me, you can’t leave me…because I always need you to be who I want you to be so you can continue making me whole and complete”.” It means that the union between those twin flames are not meant to be one/whole yet. In order for us to become whole, both need to be in sync of what they feel without hesitation of those factors. And once they meet again in time, they will work like two gears to make one machine work without worrying of being rusty. We old souls have been here for far too long. Yet, we never stop learning of our past. We never came from one origin Much like how religion origins are to us. But we all believed in one thing – One day we will be whole. and from that we can go home.

            I have rarely shared this to anyone because they will mark me as insane. But nevertheless, I will never cease to tell my views to the ones who have the will to listen. I hope my views can at least add to your knowledge on how we old souls live in this circle of life. Thanks again =)

          • Mateo says

            August 14, 2015 at 6:51 pm

            I agree with when twin flames meet they live in a perfect harmony, they exist in sync. We are in sync because they match our level of spiritual depth, of ‘soul age’ if you will. But then again the questions of whether there is only one ‘twin flame’ out there arises. Some loves are temporary for days, others are a lifetime. Some have multiple twin flames (even at the same time) and others only one.

            But to live thinking that there’s a final peace of the puzzle missing is a trick of the mind, as this article points out; when we see and awakened beyond our individual sense of self, we realize we are already complete. Everyone and everything is that ‘missing piece’ because we are one whole union of collective harmony.

            To hold out for meeting that person that will complete us still carries the notion of an egotistical identity. Because when you ask yourself “Who is the one waiting or looking?”, the answer will always be “I am”. The ultimate twin flame love comes when two souls who have reached the last level of awakenedness meet; they love to the greatest depth because both are loving from places of individual freedom, beyond that sense of self.

          • Thor M. Hammeroen says

            March 04, 2016 at 9:59 am

            I think partnership is a decent way for some people to learn more about their own weak functions (MBTI) and thus improve themselves and expand their wisdom.

            But sadly, so many get a partner for the pure sake of entertainment and/or to avoid being physically alone (escapism)

            I would not say that meeting one’s less developed/aware side is neither bad nor good. It depends on how the person takes it, and what do learn from it.

            Your weakness can be improved, and your strengths may be their weakness, which they can improve, if they wish too, by inspiration from “you”.

          • Shaun Barnes says

            March 21, 2016 at 12:32 am

            AMEN! I agree and totally understand every word you spoke here.
            I have met and spoke to a few individuals who don’t believe in wholeness for themselves…but have simply adopted the pursuit or sentitments of those who “seek to find or connect with” their other half in a spouse / relationship…of which I do not agree with. We must first know and purse “self mastery and self love” to achive wholeness and to not allow ourselves to be dillusional or manipulated into believing we can’t become whole! I often ask the question its all a matter of “how bad do you want it…” The “it” is depends on the individual…
            I’m just now reading this article since I’m fairly new to the LonerWolf community. I truly love this site and the articles…what a very positive and insightful body of work that is shared with such compassion and unconditional love for humankind…Thank you Sol and Altheia, I’m a much better person having connected with you and all who are part of LonerWolf!

          • Mateo says

            March 21, 2016 at 7:54 am

            Thank you Shaun for so much warmth and love, it is indeed the case that too much attention goes toward ‘ascending’ ignoring completely the descending of finding love for ourselves and awareness of our deepest instincts.

            I’m sure together with this community we can solve that!

    • Joanne Gillard Martin says

      October 07, 2015 at 3:39 am

      Stop seeking! There is nothing to seek! You already are whole and complete. The constant unnecessary cycle of searching will only drive you mad and cause you more suffering. Submit to the peace within even just for a few moments each day. You will notice the suffering will decrease more and more each day. We cause our own suffering and misery. You dont have to ‘go Home’ to return to wholeness because you are already whole.

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      • Mags Sam Bol says

        October 08, 2015 at 3:54 pm

        What I have said was two months ago and a lot has changed, my friend. Now I am at peace with myself but, still have more improvements to do. You are correct. I don’t have to seek anything anywhere. I just have to seek the wholeness within myself. I had caused a lot of pain within myself, yet I have learned to heal within as well. For more than a year, I have dealt with madness. It’s not an easy feat to accomplish. I know I still have a pinch of madness in me, but improvement is on the way. Myself IS my home. I learned that the hard way. I am thankful for your words of wisdom and I will remember that whenever someone is going through the same problem as I had. =)

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  5. arualseira says

    July 23, 2015 at 1:30 am

    I do feel the same since I was born, the sense of not belonging a strange in a strange island sourrended of people whom I can not related but you learn to get along with them, to love them, to give support when they need and ask for. For me it was painful being the way I am but now a days I asumed myself, my reality and now I see everithing as a learning process in which I can contribute at least a little bit if people let me by giving them some advice or support. Now I know that we are not alone we are here for a purpuse of being better human beings help us by helping others.

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  6. jen says

    July 01, 2015 at 2:39 am

    Well done! Thank you. Always enjoy reading your articles, thoughts and any information you know on such topics. Reincarnation or life after death is interesting. There’s never a time when you can’t learn something new and get a bit of wisdom.

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  7. Christinaw says

    June 05, 2015 at 11:10 am

    Really liked this mateo
    that probably explains why my many dreams were of other lands, peoplex weather etc were actually flashbacks of my past lives

    I believe that your article speaks the truth and enlightens my understanding of the Truth

    I woke up in 2013 it was the best 30 day month of my entire life!!!!

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  8. Bryan says

    May 26, 2015 at 10:28 am

    The important thing to realise is that much of the ego/individual is false thought-fabric. The energy that fills and creates our being is one with the world around us. What we emit, we also receive. Therefore there is a universal consciousness that inhabits all living creatures, and as people we act as one with all in our world. What we give and what we take, we do to/for the universal energy that shapes our world and living as much as we do to/for ourselves.

    The individual energy within us is, therefore, while precious, not the main determining factor in our lives, and, furthermore, not entirely individual in itself. Like clouds that are shaped and formed as they float, so are our individual energies directly influenced by the world around us, our universal consciousness, and by each other’s energies directly.

    Therefore things are not black and white: we have an individuality in our soul, but that individuality is part of a larger fabric, and while the core of it may be more or less constant, the outer layers of it are ever-changing.

    The purpose of reaching enlightenment is to understand and be able to contribute to the fabric of our world fully with our essence, and truly be a productive and active part of it. Only through understanding our true role can we hope to better ourselves as living beings, people, and society.

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    • Mateo Sol says

      May 26, 2015 at 2:27 pm

      Hola Bryan,

      Thank you for sharing such wonderful advice.

      One of the biggest stumble blocks I’ve found across many of our students is the maturing of their spiritual energy occurring at a different pace to their psychological one.

      So many masters, teachers and wise men have professed to go beyond our ego’s, to drop them which might be effective for many Eastern minds but for the West it is slightly different as it ends up becoming a sort of ‘disassociation’ with their sense of self.

      Our individuation process, our sense of self is quite different from the East. They have a much less defined ego, much more community formed one while as the individual sense of self in the West is much more stronger.

      Essentially, to mature psychologically we must first be able to form a defined sense of self. Only once we’ve completely integrated our ego’s into our psyche will we be able to transcend them.

      Why you write is completely right, we are a web of interconnectedness, an energy that is in constant flux with existence inwardly and outwardly. But when approaching this energy through the medium of the mind as a tool to understand it which is innately black and white in perception, we must do so by processing it in parts.

      You cannot understand the whole by studying its pieces, but it is through the awareness of the pieces that we begin to realize deep down in our souls we are part of something greater. As the wisemen put it; the pursuit of Enlightenment becomes the last barrier of itself.

      All to often I’ve seen very spiritually mature people have a ‘break down’ after some personal disaster in their life because they have not integrated this spiritual perception into their psyche. Perhaps going through this might make an interesting next article.

      Warmly,

      Sol

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      • Bryan says

        May 27, 2015 at 8:29 am

        I’ve grown up in the Western society and I consider myself a Western person. But from an early age I’ve sought to transcend my ego in order to connect with the world around me. I wouldn’t say I took it piece by piece, but I did gain a better understanding of it step by step through living as the years went by.

        As Aristotle once very simply put it: “Knowing yourself is the root of all wisdom,” and in that you are entirely right. The way to get started is to look deep down into your own soul first, and discover who you really are.

        However, I fear our modern Western society is so much geared towards promoting the importance of individuality and ego in even the most superfluous matters, that if one isn’t made aware of his/her surroundings, they will never even begin to comprehend the world around them as a whole.

        Our self-centred view is often so extreme, that we’ve learned not to look at the world from anyone or anything else’s point of view, and certainly not as a greater entity to our own inner world. And yet, the truth is that our inner world is very much part of the workings of a greater world.

        We are not *that* important and unique as we intend to believe. We are important in our essence, connection, and contribution, but not so much as an individual entity. No great man has ever achieved anything alone. Not even the wise spiritual leaders of humanity. Their souls and wisdom were shaped and forged by the people and environment around them. Through their connection with the world around them they reached enlightenment.

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        • Mateo Sol says

          May 29, 2015 at 3:59 pm

          I completely agree, that is why I decided to call our work Involution as the process of inner spiritual evolving rather than just ‘aging’ in the biological external process.

          To think of existence as consciousness and our souls as a fraction of that consciousness that has been embodied in order to allow the universe to become self-aware through enough inner work is the main message behind it.

          But as you point out, we are very self-centered as a society. Hence the necessity to attract interest to this inner work through concepts of soul aging and self-mastery. If one is to transcend the ego there is obviously no master there, no one to be ‘mastered’.

          First however you must speak the language of the ego in order to be able the seekers of the egoless, you must feel the world begin at the tip of your nose before you are capable of realizing that you have in fact, no head.

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  9. Laura says

    May 08, 2015 at 12:05 pm

    I don’t know how much of an old soul I am but before my daughter was born 2 years ago, well before I was pregnant I was just so tired of everything that sometimes I wished I could sleep forever. I was never depressed though and basically happy with my simple life. Now that I am a mom, that has changed. It’s almost as if this is why I am here. I don’t work and I put all my time and effort into her. I almost try to get as much time as possible with her because of this scary fear I have. I don’t know if this is because I am a mother but I think she is my soulmate and that I would die without her.

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    • Mateo Sol says

      May 14, 2015 at 3:10 pm

      Hola Laura,

      To those who are going through the darker stretches of the journey of soul development, there is one powerful force that can allow us to surrender to everything else, love in the form of creation.

      Creation and love share the powerful experience of bringing something into our existence that was always there but we were never aware of it. Children are a part of us, a fraction of our soul, they bring back that sense of wholeness and belong in this world as through love that goes beyond our individual self, it draws back the unity that we so deeply craved for.

      It’s wonderful to see you’ve found such richness of existence with your daughter.

      Warmly,

      Sol

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  10. loner says

    April 20, 2015 at 11:54 pm

    Although Im around many people ,I have always been a loner…. At times , I dont question, I observe, and come up with conclusion as to why people say or do things that doesnt make sence to me.. … But, I always seek knowledge and the truth…Im unsure of why our exsistence is on this earth… I deeply care, show compassion, and have empathy for people, to a certain point… ( what I mean by this is, I can see who is taking advantage) like, I see the bigger picture…. I base my descisions on knowledge of what is right, justifiable, and the truth… Im always deep in thought… I crave intelectual people, books, magazines anything that is knowledgable.. Does this make me an old soul…

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    • Mateo says

      April 24, 2015 at 9:30 am

      Hola Loner,

      It’s impossible to entirely know an Old Soul simply by observing the external symptoms or characteristics of one. The characteristics you describe are of a maturer soul but to say outright ‘Old Soul’ is impossible as that can only be known by being in the presence of them.

      There’s an intensity in their eyes, a way in which they carry themselves and an outlook on life (free of fears, of attachments, of reactions) that can not be simply described through words.

      I hope that answers your question,

      Warmly,

      Sol

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