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15 Signs You Have Complicated Grief (a Spiritual Malady)

by Aletheia Luna · Updated: May 18, 2024 · 56 Comments

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This is an article for all those who have experienced regular grief and loss, and are struggling to move forward. And this article is also for those who have experienced grief so profound that it has become chronic and debilitating.

The latter variety of grief that is ongoing (for many years), is also known as complicated grief according to psychologists.

But complicated grief is not solely to do with the mind and heart, as those in the psychotherapeutic field would have you believe. Complicated and long-lasting grief goes much deeper than that – at its core, it’s to do with your Soul which is also known as your True Nature.


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Because complex grief is so deep-rooted, it also requires deep-rooted healing techniques and practices that are Soul-centered. Yes, it’s crucial to seek support from psychiatrists and therapists. But at the same time, it’s also essential to do some Soul-searching and work with yourself on a spiritual level.

Table of contents

  • What is Complicated Grief?
  • 15 Signs You Might Be Experiencing Complicated Grief
  • Causes of Complicated Grief
  • Complex Grief and Being a Highly Sensitive Person
  • Complicated Grief, Soul Loss, and the Dark Night of the Soul
  • How to Move Through Complex Grief

What is Complicated Grief?

Complicated grief is what happens when a person, after experiencing a major loss, struggles to move through the natural cycle of grief and instead becomes trapped in their pain and devastation. Complicated grief is grief that never seems to go away, that continues for many years, and that cripples a person’s ability to function normally in the world.

15 Signs You Might Be Experiencing Complicated Grief

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Pay attention to the following signs of complicated grief:

  • You lost someone or something many years ago, yet you still feel the same amount of grief (or more) today
  • You struggle to focus on anything else other than your sense of loss
  • You feel emotionally numb and detached from reality at times
  • You lack a sense of purpose and meaning of life
  • You struggle to accept the death of someone and cling to reminders of them as much as possible (e.g., watching videos of them, listening to their voice, sleeping with their clothes, etc.) OR you avoid all reminders of the person as much as possible
  • You have intense pining for the person who died that feels overwhelming
  • You feel like a victim of life that has been punished cruelly 
  • You lack trust in others
  • You feel disconnected from any Divine source
  • You blame yourself or feel guilty for the person’s death (or the situation that caused grief)
  • You struggle to live a normal life or function properly
  • You isolate from others and avoid social activities at all costs
  • You ruminate over how things could be different
  • You struggle to see how life is worth living without your loved one 
  • You wish you had died along with your loved one

There is no right or wrong amount of time to grieve. Grieving is a unique process for everyone. But if you can relate to most of these signs and struggle to function in life, I strongly recommend reaching out to a trained psychotherapist or psychiatrist. Admitting that you need help is not a sign of weakness, it’s a sign of strength. Simply go to your internet browser and type in “grief counseling” and you will find many options.

Alternatively, if you feel suicidal, please reach out for support. There are so many skilled, caring, and compassionate people out there ready to help. Please hang in there. See this list of worldwide suicide crisis lines for help.

Causes of Complicated Grief

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Complicated grief is an intense and prolonged form of grief that is experienced for a number of reasons. Common factors that increase the likelihood of experiencing it can include:

  • The relationship you had with the person (i.e., how intensely close you were, how complex the connection was, etc.)
  • How sudden, violent, or unexpected the death was
  • Past history of trauma (for instance PTSD, C-PTSD) and whether it was resolved or not
  • Personality type – that is, being an empath or highly sensitive person (HSP)

Does complicated grief only happen to those who have experienced the death of someone?


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Complicated grief can also occur to those who have lost a partner (through a divorce), a house, a job, a friend, and so on. 

Complex Grief and Being a Highly Sensitive Person

Those who have sensitively wired nervous systems (highly sensitive people) and deep feelers (empaths) are at risk of developing complicated grief simply due to their personality type/disposition. This is not to say that all HSPs or empaths will develop complex grief, but for some, there is certainly the possibility – especially if there has been a history of unresolved trauma. 

If you think you might be an empath or highly sensitive person (or both), I’ll share some ways of moving through complex grief soon. But first, let’s examine how complicated grief is connected with an important spiritual experience known as the Dark Night of the Soul.

Complicated Grief, Soul Loss, and the Dark Night of the Soul

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As we learned above, complex grief is caused by a variety of reasons, including previous unresolved trauma. But trauma is not just emotional or psychological – it’s also spiritual. In fact, in my perspective, all trauma, deep down, at a core primordial level, is spiritual.

Soul loss, or being disconnected from your Soul, is a pandemic we can see in society everywhere. We can observe it in the way we mercilessly use and destroy the earth, harm each other, and hurt ourselves. We can see it in our materialistic greed, our narcissism as a species, and our addictions that never seem to go away.

When we are disconnected from our Souls, our True Selves, our Higher Nature, we feel innately lost. Life loses its sacredness and meaning. We abandon reverence for brazen egotism. Our relationships feel empty and superficial. We don’t know what our life purpose is. Life feels mechanistic and barren. And we always carry a hole inside of ourselves that can never quite be filled.

If you can relate to these feelings, you might be experiencing soul loss, which is what inevitably leads to something known as the Dark Night of the Soul. The Dark Night is what happens when we feel totally disconnected and cut off from the Divine. Life may feel hopeless, desolate, and totally void of meaning. We may carry the sense that we’re like the living dead, dragging ourselves through an existence that leaves us feeling nothing but pain, disappointment, and sorrow.

But as horrible as the Dark Night sounds (and it is), it is a crucial part of the spiritual journey – the journey to reconnect with the loving, wise, and Divine part of us that is our Soul.

Complicated grief can serve as an initiation onto your spiritual path through the Dark Night of the Soul. 

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The feelings of loss, longing, emptiness, and sorrow that you’re experiencing mirror exactly what those undergoing a Dark Night experience. The only difference is that those experiencing complex grief are seeing all their hope, freedom, and happiness bound-up in the lost person. On the other hand, those that enter the Dark Night who have no previous experience with complex grief see all their hope, freedom, and happiness bound-up in the Divine.

While one is longing for the person (who mirror’s your own Soul qualities), the other is longing for Divinity/God/Enlightenment. Both are due to Soul Loss. As such, complicated grief is a spiritual malady. 

How to Move Through Complex Grief

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Firstly, there are no magical instantaneous cures (although miracles can and do happen). So the guidance below is meant to help you rather than immediately cure you. 

Again, please use this advice as a supplement to seeking professional psychological help. Sometimes the nervous system is so inundated that it needs intervention by a trained therapist or psychiatrist.

Also, please be gentle with yourself, as much as is possible. Go slowly, and if at any time you feel that any of these suggestions are too much too soon, stop immediately and take care of yourself.

Here are some paths for moving through complicated grief:

1. Practice basic self-care

Set a regular bedtime. Make at least one healthy meal per day. Get some sunshine. Take a walk. Drink enough water. See our self-care article for more guidance and a free printable self-care checklist.

2. Journal about how you feel

Journaling is a simple but powerful way to process your grief and get it all out in a physical, tangible form. Try journaling first thing in the morning when your mind is at its freshest (but any time during the day is totally fine). Feel free to vent all your feelings and let it all out. Read our article on how to start journaling for more help.

3. Give yourself permission to scream, cry, and let it all out

How would you like to physically process your grief? Does screaming into/punching a pillow, crying, laughing, or doing intense and intentional exercise appeal to you? Perhaps you feel driven to roll around howling and clawing at the ground. Whatever way you wish to process your grief is totally fine and important to honor. (Just make sure that you don’t hurt yourself.) If you are emotionally numb and struggle to feel anything, start little each day. For example, you might like to punch a pillow for ten minutes and see whether anything stirs within you. Physical catharsis is an important way of processing grief, so give yourself permission to let it all go – even if it looks/feels odd, ‘silly,’ or melodramatic. You have the right to let it all out.

4. Do some art therapy

You don’t need to be an artist to benefit from art therapy. Simply pick up some pens and a piece of paper and draw however you feel. To hell with the inner critic! Art therapy is a surprisingly simple but powerful way of processing grief. You can even celebrate your deceased loved one by creating a piece of art in honor of them.

5. Try mirror work

Please approach this activity gently as it can release a lot of emotions. Find a mirror in your house, close the door to ensure privacy, and gently gaze at yourself. If this is too painful, feel free to stop and try this a little bit every day until you’re comfortable with looking into your eyes. As you stare into the mirror, enfold yourself in a hug and cradle yourself. Eventually, as you practice this activity, you may like to say something compassionate but powerful to yourself such as, “I’m here for you,” “We can do this,” “I’m getting there,” “We’re strong.” See our list of morning affirmations for anxiety and depression sufferers for inspiration.

6. Reach out to someone

If you’re not ready to talk to friends or family members, reach out to a support group or supportive person. There are many support groups/people online and you might also find a few locally. Simply type in “grief support online” in your internet browser and see what comes up for you. If you are on social media, you can also find many groups and pages that are dedicated to grief. Simply look through grief-related hashtags (such as #griefsupport #griefjourney #griefrecovery) or search up grief-related pages. In fact, sometimes it’s a wiser choice to reach out to those who are intimately acquainted with grief and can adequately hold space for you. If you have a complicated relationship with those in your life, you might feel unsafe with them, which may be preventing you from reaching out. So the key here is to find a person or group of people in which you feel safe around. Feeling safe enough to open up is a crucial part of grief work.

7. Get to know your needs as an empath or highly sensitive person

If you are a deep feeler who has always been sensitive, you might be an empath and/or HSP. Consequently, you feel pain (and joy) to a greater degree than others. If this is the case, it’s important that you learn about your needs, in whatever way possible. For example, do you feel too stimulated by your environment (and is that distracting you from processing your grief)? Perhaps you need to take a vacation or create a space in your living area that is free of clutter. Does watching the news or going on Instagram stress you out? Perhaps you need to take a break in order to work through your complex grief first. You can read our articles on being an empath and a highly sensitive person for more guidance.

8. Reconnect with your Soul through prayer

First thing’s first, let’s put aside the religious connotations of prayer (you don’t need to be religious to pray). Secondly, there are many ways of reconnecting with your Soul, but prayer is one of the most simple and immediate paths. And for those experiencing complicated grief, there’s not much energy to do anything else.

Through prayer, we tap into the ancient practice of communing with something deeper within us. Even if you feel nothing at first, prayer helps you to access a glimmer of hope, a hint of light on the horizon. Prayer is also a way of reaching out for help and guidance, which is an act of self-love and healing in and of itself.


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You can pray in whatever way you like, as long as you like, to whomever you like. See our article on the power of prayer for more guidance.

9. Tap into your inner source of power and keep moving forward

Strength and the ability to overcome anything that life throws at you is your Divine right. You have a place inside of you that is imperishable, wise, and flowing with power. Please trust this and know that if you tap into your inner Spiritual Warrior, you will be able to handle anything that comes your way.

In my article on how to keep moving forward for those suffering alone, I list ten ways to tap into your inner source of power:

  1. Say to yourself: if you throw me to the wolves, I’ll come back leading the pack
  2. Take every day one step at a time
  3. Scream or ROAR
  4. Be a warrior, not a victim
  5. When it all gets too much, BREATHE
  6. Listen to empowering / emotional music
  7. Give your struggles a PURPOSE
  8. Find the lesson/gift in your circumstance
  9. Take care of your basic needs
  10. Be courageous and share your feelings with others

To delve into each of these points, keep reading this article on how to keep moving forward.

You might also like to pore through our article on how to access your inner strength during traumatic times for additional support. 

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Before you go I want you to know something: the strongest Souls are forged out of the most painful experiences. The deepest Souls are reborn from the ashes of the most excruciating pains.

What you’re going through has meaning: it has initiated you onto the spiritual path, whatever that looks like for you. Going through a Dark Night of the Soul is painful, but it is temporary. Eventually, you’ll be regenerated and resurrected to a new life of hope, direction, love, and happiness. The scars of your grief may never fade, but they will cease dominating your life. May you rediscover the light within your life.

If you have anything to share about your experience with complicated grief, please comment below. Let others know that they aren’t alone in their suffering.

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About Aletheia Luna

Aletheia Luna is a prolific psychospiritual writer, author, educator, and intuitive guide whose work has touched the lives of millions worldwide. As a survivor of fundamentalist religious abuse, her mission is to help others find love, strength, and inner light in even the darkest places. She is the author of hundreds of popular articles, as well as numerous books and journals on the topics of Self-Love, Spiritual Awakening, and more. [Read More]

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  1. Wendy says

    May 09, 2020 at 6:05 am

    So, I have had quite an experience thus far… Not to get into too much detail but; my mother passed away suddenly in December 2018, she fought Lymphoma cancer for about 5 years and I was her caregiver throughout… I had been working for 10 years at the job that I resigned from to support her prior to the diagnosis, was dealing with coordinating my 5 siblings, father and the extended family (inc. my mom’s twin sister and their 6 other siblings) and making sure my mom had anything she needed, I saved my parents house from foreclosure a few months later, and have supported my dad with his health issues since…(my mom was diagnosed, my husband was diagnosed with diabetes, and my dad had a heart attack within a few months of each other)…2017 was the hardest year yet; I wasn’t working, almost ended a 12 year relationship with my husband, was evicted while mom was in the hospital (for the last time) from our apartment, and was asked by my parents to execute her will & estate… I am in my early thirties and this was a lot to take on. At the same time, my 3 brothers all did things that crossed my personal boundaries (threatened me & my husband with guns / violence, moved into my parents house by manipulating my father, and then disowned me and forced us to leave the house I was born in, etc… I also conceived a baby that didn’t survive and now I struggle everyday to communicate how disconnected I feel. I can assure you, anyone out there, that there is hope! This situation is only a small fraction of my life overall and I hope that you find comfort knowing that as bad as this has been, I see a better life for the children who look up to me because I decided to rise above and be truthful so they can learn from my experiences without the pitfalls I’ve encountered. If nothing else, I feel blessed to spare them those hardships and they bless me in that my legacy will break these dark cycles and provide closure/peace.
    Thank you for posting this article, it helped me to finally feel something again.

    Reply
  2. Dr John Dempsey says

    May 09, 2020 at 12:21 am

    Please keep posting. I am well into the Dark Night of the Soul. only thought reading the classics. a lot of Aristotle, Socrates, Plato’s, Euripides. Listening to her preachers. I have recently found the stoic section and you too. Which is brought so much happiness into my life. Instead of wondering why when I wake up my heart still beats for the loss of my children there is a certain amount of enlightenment from true suffering. Visited multiple psychiatrists they are untrain in care for patients. only identifying a condition. They just are not thought how to encourage healing to the human soul. Ironic after all those year at university. They are mere: “Pigs with Lipstick on The”m. Unless to your soul healing. Only good if you clinically require medication.

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  3. Frank L Frontis says

    May 04, 2020 at 8:12 pm

    It’s very difficult being in a relationship with someone troubled with Complicated Grief and Soul Loss whose under psychiatric treatment with psycho-pharmaceuti- cals. They lack motivation and drain you of yours, tend to attract negativity or “bad luck,” and seem to “hold you back from getting ahead” (maybe because they have no ambition to move “ahead.”

    In your highest wisdom, how do you stay in such a relationship without becoming the “target” of such a sufferer’s negative energies, and becoming “down” and “disturbed” yourself?

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    • Kareolynn says

      May 10, 2020 at 1:24 am

      I really understand what you are saying Yes I feel negative down depressed and I do feel that I have nothing positive to offer other people one person said I don’t want to be around you, you are too negative I know that about myself but I thought I was able to hide it from other people I feel I am always putting on an act around other people

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  4. Frank L Frontis says

    May 04, 2020 at 8:02 pm

    Once again Aletheia, great article! In reading it, I realized that my wife is the perfect example of someone whose experiencing Complicated (entrapped) Grief, and as well Soul Loss.

    She’s diagnosed in the mental health system with Anxiety, Depression, PTSD. The conventional model of mental health medicine, of course, does not recognize the “Soul” and its spiritual quality. And for this very reason I believe it has failed in it’s efforts to be of adequate help for my wife. Further, from what I’ve observed, Psychiatry, with its heavy emphasis on psycho-pharmaceuticals, tends to worsen many cases such as hers by blocking access to Soul and occluding problems in need of resolution caused by the effects of
    its medications that “drug the brain.”

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  5. Tammy Prop says

    May 02, 2020 at 10:55 pm

    My dad passed in 2020 in a big rig accident,it was sudden and his birthday was the following day as well. I was closes to my dad, he was my hero. Right after his death, i started listening to country music- all the time, i normally listen to rock! I was wearing his jacket and taking on as his role in the family unit. Two years after all the tears in the ocean that ive cried, i was suicidal. I finally went to see a Shaman. Sounds nutty, but not really. She looks like cathy bates, the actress! She looked like a normal person. She had me lay on a table and close my eyes, she layed on another table next to mine. Then she told me she needed to put her hand on my shoulder- for connection. At one time she got up and rattled those things that make noise…rattles! Im assuming for energy vibration. Bottom line….she said my dads death was sudden and tragic- he was earthbound and his soul was mingling with mine. Not healthy. He knew i was more able to sense him more than anyone, so he clung to me and thats why i was picking up his habits and such. So Cody (shaman) helped my dad into heaven and sent him towards the light. We have the whole session on tape. I had lost my ability to bounce back and he was clinging to me. I lost 3 essences of myself. Pieces that make up who we are, the stuff you cant see. I felt lighter and relieved. It took a couple of days but i was right again. And dad has his wings.

    Reply
  6. Panda says

    April 17, 2020 at 7:00 pm

    I have a suggestion, you guys should make a video in YouTube about your topics instead of writing it down in an article. I love your videos in YouTube.

    Reply
    • Aletheia Luna says

      April 18, 2020 at 4:06 pm

      Hi Panda. Thanks for sharing here. We do our best, but writing articles is my first-love. :) We’re still getting the hang of making videos (which take tremendous time and effort). But we’ll be making more of them across the next few months. In fact, a new video will be published tomorrow on the Coronavirus. Stay tuned. :)

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      • Panda says

        April 18, 2020 at 8:50 pm

        Alright, thank you in advanced Aletheia.

        Reply
  7. Laura says

    April 17, 2020 at 12:52 pm

    I have had to hold space for my boyfriend who is still experiencing grief from his marriage and family breakdown five years ago. She took his two boys and his home. She destroyed his self worth, his sense of humor, his trust. He is traumatised and relives it everyday. It is constantly in his thoughts and words. This beautifully written article was just what I needed to read today. Thank you for sharing.

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      April 18, 2020 at 4:03 pm

      Take good care of yourself as well, Laura. Holding space for someone who is struggling with such grief can have a painful impact on you as well. Big hugs

      Reply
  8. Christina says

    April 16, 2020 at 8:51 pm

    I connected with my twin flame in the Facebook group and it was an amazing experience. We could communicate telepathically, we could feel each other’s presence and touch. Even though he lived in England and I in the US, we woke up at the same time and would fall asleep at the same time, unintentionally. We were in contact with eachother at all times. I loved him truly and deeply.

    In February 2020 he passed away and I knew before anyone told me. I was disconnected and when I tried to give him a hug, I found myself touching very cold and stiff skin. When I looked next to me I saw his face but we were in a small enclosed space. I knew it was just an empty shell and the man that I loved so deeply was no longer there. I still hear him talking to me. Sometimes I see him trying to touch me, but I feel nothing.

    I have been crying almost every day and just feel disconnected. I feel numb and I hear him telling me, we will get there in the end. I have seen his face switch back and forth or be super imposed over someone else’s.

    I have started seeing a therapist. While I understand that we will always be connected, I do not want to become delusional. I know that I have to accept his passing, but how do you do that when you can still interact with the person through the clairs. My human mind cannot wrap itself around this.

    I read somewhere that I could be experiencing “soul shock” and needless to say it didn’t say how to work through it. I know the strength of the wolf is the pack and the strength of the pack is the wolf. I have been trying to reach out to my pack.

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      April 18, 2020 at 4:02 pm

      Christina, I hope you find the healing you need. If your clairs are open too wide, you might like to focus on grounding yourself. Seek out nature, earthy foods, warm baths, do some digging in the garden – all these things will help to bring you back to earth. Sending love <3

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  9. Jeanette says

    April 16, 2020 at 2:11 am

    Thank you, Aletheia!
    I lost my mother when I as two years old (now I am 52) and I still feel guilty because I am alive and she is not. When I reached adolescence I stopped feeling welcome in my maternal grandparents’ home and in the world. Thank you for all the insights you’ re giving me!

    ‘If you send me to the wolves, I’ll come back leading the pack.’ I will remember this!

    God bless you!

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    • Aletheia says

      April 16, 2020 at 10:38 am

      Lots of love Jeanette! It’s a pleasure to help.

      Reply
  10. Bianca says

    April 16, 2020 at 1:10 am

    Hi , I love you so much and I have so much respect for you guys, God bless you ! ❤
    When I had 10 years my step mother died, that was very difficult for me, I felt that a part left with her ,maybe I experience a sol loss and than 2016 I think , I started my spiritual awakening and in 2017 my father died, and always I had in my mind that I don’t know how I will survive if he will die, yeah he was how he was in my childhood but I loved him and I was so obsessed to be positive at that time when he died so I cry a little and than nothing and I experience a lot of pain in my body and nightmares but in my childhood history I have ,sexual abuse , sexual assault, humiliations , so are a lot ,and I don t know … I have trust in God and I learn to love myself and take care of myself and my body and I believe that slowly I will be ok and I will transcend this things , sometimes I cry when I have triggers but from what you explained I don’t have a complicated grief … I don’t think of them ,but when my father died open the wound of the first one , I have trust in the power that is in me that I will be ok , everything that has a beginning will have an end ! I need to have patience with myself and keep learning to love myself and you guy’s are part from my process, because a lot of your advices helpd me , and that’s why I am grateful for all that you share with us , I send you my love and respect ❤

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      April 16, 2020 at 2:29 pm

      Thank you for your vulnerability in sharing and opening up here, Bianca. <3 Your kind words mean a lot. Lots of love right back at you!

      Reply
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