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13 Signs You’re Struggling With Emotional Numbness (the Secret Illness)

by Aletheia Luna · Updated: Jun 15, 2024 · 224 Comments

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At some point or another we’ve all heard these words before:

“Suck it up princess!” “Be a man!” “Stop being a cry-baby,” “Get over it,” “Stop being so sensitive,” “Get thicker skin!”

While these words were likely spoken without consciously intending us long-term harm, they nevertheless point to a common and undeniably tragic truth in our society: that expressing your emotions is a sign of weakness, rather than strength.


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If you were born into an emotionally repressed culture that valued the “masculine” ideals of efficiency and logic, it is likely that you struggle with some level of emotional numbness.

If you were born into a family that shunned any form of strong emotional expression, it is even more likely that emotional numbing is an issue for you.

And if you experienced an extremely traumatic life event that was simply too overwhelming for you to handle (from which you haven’t recovered), I can almost guarantee that you suffer from emotional numbness.

So how does emotional numbness impact virtually every part of our life? And what advice can I share with you after going through my own struggle with this issue? Keep reading and you’ll find out.

Table of contents

  • What is Emotional Numbness?
  • What Causes Emotional Numbness?
  • The Danger of Emotional Numbness
  • Why is it ‘the Secret Illness’?
  • 13 Signs You’re Struggling With Emotional Numbness
  • How to Overcome Emotional Numbness
  • Emotional Numbness Q&A

What is Emotional Numbness?

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Emotional numbness is a defense mechanism employed by the mind to avoid intense and overwhelming emotions such as fear, hatred, jealousy, and grief. When you go emotionally numb, you lose the ability to feel and experience your emotions on a psychological and emotional level. In this sense, emotional numbness is often clinically connected with dissociation, which is the disconnection from one’s memories, identity, environment, body, or senses.

What Causes Emotional Numbness?

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As with most issues, emotional numbness goes back to childhood and the way we were raised by our parents. Being abused by our parents physically, emotionally, sexually, psychologically, or spiritually can contribute towards our inability to self-regulate emotions, which results in emotional numbness. Feeling alienated or disconnected from one or both of our parents, or family at large, can also contribute towards emotional numbness. Being punished whether directly or indirectly for expressing our emotions in childhood also creates emotional numbness.

Numbing our emotions may also start after a severely traumatic experience, such as witnessing acts of violence, being assaulted, experiencing rape, suffering intense loss, or anything that we didn’t have the capacity to psychologically and emotionally handle in the moment. For this reason, emotional numbness is often a symptom of PTSD and various anxiety disorders. You can take our free emotional trauma test to explore this further.

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Emotional numbness is also influenced by our culture and wider social circles, particularly those that emphasize being stoic, rational, and emotionally invulnerable (e.g., British, Chinese, American, Russian).

The Danger of Emotional Numbness

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If you even have the slightest inkling that you might be emotionally numb, it’s time to listen up. Emotional numbness is not a small character flaw or minor area of self-growth to improve in – it is a serious problem which needs to be addressed immediately.

Speaking from experience, emotional numbness has formed the root of many issues I have faced (and still continue to face) in my life. Due to my upbringing in an emotionally stunted, dogmatically religious family whom I felt disconnected from for the majority of my life, I never learned how to handle strong emotions. I was punished verbally, emotionally or physically anytime I expressed strong emotions, and freethinking or any form of dissent was rejected, resulting in being ostracized.

The combination of having a British father and a mother who was traumatized by her own emotionally unstable mother – on top of an oppressive fundamentalist religion – led to grooming me as a stoic and “stable” person who was taught that expressing emotions was not only bad but shameful.

As you can see, sometimes there are numerous factors at play that may contribute to your inability to regulate intense emotions, and therefore resort to unconsciously numbing them. In my case, I learned that strong emotions = punishment in one form or another, and so I learned that they were dangerous to experience.

The danger of disconnecting from your emotions is that it can lead to a host of mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual issues. Such issues may include dysfunctional coping mechanisms (obsessive compulsions), mild to severe depression, spiritual emptiness, inability to enjoy life, inability to form close and fulfilling relationships, disconnection from inner self, confusion, irritability, fatigue, addictions, chronic illnesses, and somatic illnesses (illnesses produced by the mind).

In extreme cases (and I’m talking about situations where emotional contact is nil), emotional numbness can lead to acts of cruelty.

Why is it ‘the Secret Illness’?

I call emotional numbness the secret illness because it is so pervasive in our society, and so socially acceptable, that it often flies underneath the radar. In a society that largely doesn’t know how to handle strong emotions in healthy ways, being stoic and “level-headed” is valued – yet this very same calm and collected facade often conceals unhealthy detachment from one’s feelings. Thus, emotional numbness is a secret illness because so many of us struggle with it, yet don’t even realize that we have it until chronic issues start emerging.


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13 Signs You’re Struggling With Emotional Numbness

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Emotional detachment is not always a bad thing. It comes in handy when you need to maintain boundaries, avoid undesired energy overload from others, and even help others in crisis situations. But emotional detachment turns into its unhealthy twin (emotional numbness) when it becomes an automatic inner defense mechanism.

“What’s so great about feeling strong emotions?” you might ask. The answer is that without feeling our emotions, we don’t have the capacity to live and learn from them or experience the beauty and depth of life.

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Here are some of the most significant signs of emotional numbness that you should look out for:

  1. Inability to express strong negative or positive emotions
  2. Inability to “fully participate” in life (i.e., feeling like you’re a passive observer)
  3. Feeling that life is like a dream (a sense unreality)
  4. Living on autopilot
  5. Lack of interest in activities others find enjoyable
  6. Feeling distant from others
  7. The tendency to withdraw from friends and family members
  8. Emotions are only felt in the body as sensations, but not by the mind (or else are completely muted in the body and show up only as illness)
  9. Dislike of people who express strong emotions (both positive and negative)
  10. Not feeling anything in situations that would usually generate strong emotion
  11. Panic or terror when strong emotions eventually breakthrough
  12. Feeling empty inside
  13. Physical and emotional numbness or “flatness”

In extreme circumstances (such as in PTSD sufferers), emotional numbness may even influence the desire to commit suicide. If you are considering suicide, please seek out support immediately (click here to locate your country’s suicide hotline).

How to Overcome Emotional Numbness

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Like any psychological defense mechanism, emotional numbing can be complex to deal with, and often requires support from a trained professional such as a therapist.

If you feel that emotional numbness is significantly impairing your life, please do an act of self-compassion and seek out support either locally or online (there are even free counseling services online such as 7cups).

For the time being, here are some helpful practices which I have personally found to increase my ability to feel, cope with, and express strong emotions:

1. Anchor yourself to your body

As mentioned above, emotional numbing is connected to dissociation (mental disconnection from one part of yourself). In my case, whenever I experience strong emotions, my automatic response is to either (a) only feel the emotions in my body, not my mind, or (b) to have a complete meltdown. In both cases, one of the best self-soothing mechanisms I’ve learned is to anchor myself to my body through mindfulness and physical contact. Similar to what a mother does with her child, I tightly but gently hold one area of my body – usually my hand or stomach. This method helps me to feel contained and grounded in my body.

I also recommend using shapewear or a pressure vest to help you in extremely emotionally turbulent periods to anchor yourself to your body (here is a good example of shapewear). Shapewear is used by women and men to keep “love handles” and other body parts slim and defined. For our purposes, shapewear is like a hug to the body that will help you feel safe and ‘held together.’ Pressure vests are a little more expensive and they are used by people with sensory integration disorders (such as autism) to relax.

2. Deep breathing

Whether used alone or in conjunction with the above-mentioned technique, deep breathing is a simple and easy way to help you mindfully move through whatever you’re experiencing. This practice is particularly useful when intense feelings such as fear or rage break through. There are many books out there that talk about the importance of deep breathing (such as this one), and there are many online tutorials with breathing techniques. I recommend sticking to something simple, something you don’t have to think about too much, and something that doesn’t feel forced. The point of deep breathing isn’t to follow someone else’s technique perfectly, it is to use your breath (in whatever way suits you), to calm your mind and body. Also, I recommend breathing slowly, deeply, and softly instead of forcing deep breaths (which can increase anxiety) – let your breath be natural. Read more about how to relax using deep breathing.

3. Keep a journal of sad thoughts

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I realize this suggestion may sound a tad bit melancholic, but it’s a practice worthy of your time and effort, particularly if you’re wanting to feel and express your emotions. Journaling is also a powerful form of shadow work (a way to express what you would usually suppress).

In a physical journal or online diary, spend five to ten minutes every day writing down something which triggers even the slightest pang of sadness in you. For example, you might write down a memory of your dog who died, an issue in the world, something someone said to you, a scene from a movie, a daily struggle … or virtually anything that is upsetting (or what you imagine would be upsetting).

Creating a sad thoughts diary has two main benefits. One, it helps you express your emotions, even if in an indirect way at first. And two, it acts as a catalyst for feeling and letting out your emotions, particularly when you need momentum (I’ll elaborate more on this soon). Learn more about how to journal.

Always try to finish your sad thought journalling with something uplifting, like reading the uplifting news subreddit, spending time with someone you love, playing with a pet, or watching something entertaining on youtube or Netflix.

4. Catharsis (let it all out, baby!)

When emotionally numbing ourselves becomes our default defense mechanism, we tend to have a huge amount of suppressed emotion lying just beneath our conscious awareness. In order to safely and effectively express your suppressed emotions, try some form of catharsis. Catharsis may involve screaming into or punching a pillow, using your sad thoughts journal (mentioned above) to stimulate sadness and crying, intense emotional-fuelled exercise, impassioned dancing, or an active meditation.

Regular catharsis should be a must on your journey. Without regularly ‘letting it all out,’ you run the risk of experiencing the repercussions of festering emotions (i.e., depression, emptiness, chronic illness, etc.).

5. Yoga and self-massage

Yoga is a well-known way of helping to clear and balance your energy. Not only that, but yoga often has a way of releasing emotions stored in the body. I recommend doing slow and gentle forms of yoga such as Hatha yoga for at least ten minutes a day. Remember, the goal isn’t to become some Instagram-perfect yoga star; it is to connect with your body, mind, and heart.


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The truth is that our unexpressed and repressed emotions are often stored within our bodies. I like to think of our bodies as being reflections of our unconscious mind: they are maps that help us to figure out what we are keeping locked away, and what unresolved issues we need to face. In my article about chronic muscle tension, I list the nine types of emotions trapped in different areas of the body. In order to release these emotions, I regularly use something called the ‘Acuball’ to introduce fresh blood flow and energy into these tense areas. I like the Acuball because it gives me a deep tissue massage, while also helping me to stay grounded in my body, relax, and release pent-up stress. (You can get the Acuball here).

6. Creatively express your feelings (or lack thereof)

Write a song, doodle in a journal, paint a picture, create a collage, find some way of expressing what emotion you last felt. If you struggle to feel anything at all, express that artistically. Grab those greys and blacks and turn that damn page into your own work of art. Pay attention to how you feel afterward. Does even the slightest feeling of satisfaction enter you? Journal about these emotions.

7. Take care of your inner child

As it was your child self that likely copped the trauma that caused you to default to emotional numbing, take care of this part of you. Practice inner child work and find ways of comforting and nurturing this vulnerable place within you. You may even like to create empowering affirmations for your inner child to help him or her access emotions. For example, you might repeat to yourself when you are in a difficult circumstance, “It is OK for me to feel,” “It is safe for me to feel sad,” “My anger is valid,” “Being vulnerable is being strong,” and so forth.

8. Dedicate space and time to feeling

In our busy lives, it is very easy to numb and distract ourselves with social media, the TV, shopping, food, social commitments, and other things that constantly cause us to look outside. Looking inside is much harder and requires far more self-discipline, hence why most people don’t do it. If you are serious about overcoming your emotional numbness, you will need to dedicate space and time to all of the activities I have mentioned in this article. If you struggle with self-discipline, I recommend making yourself externally accountable by joining a spiritual meditation group or other practice to help you turn inwards. Please don’t skip this step, it is imperative that you spend time exploring your inner self, and in particular, what you are repressing and why.

Emotional Numbness Q&A

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Here are some commonly asked questions about emotional numbness. Hopefully they’ll answer any remaining concerns or thoughts you may have about this topic:

What causes emotional detachment?

The simple answer is trauma. Usually, emotional detachment (or numbness) can be linked to early childhood experiences such as being abused mentally, emotionally, sexually, or physically. However, not everyone who experiences emotional detachment had tough childhoods. Sometimes, other traumatizing experiences later in life can trigger emotional detachment as a protective mechanism (such as divorce, job loss, rape, illnesses, war, etc.).

Can numbness be a sign of anxiety?

Yes, emotional numbness can mask intense feelings of anxiety – it’s the mind’s way of protecting itself from being flooded by overwhelming emotions. Numbness is a primal reaction to fear and is also known as the freeze response. There are three main reactions to anxiety-provoking situations that we have: fight, flight, and freeze.

How to fix emotional numbness?

To fix, or rather regain the ability to feel again, it’s important to be gentle with yourself. Try reconnecting with your body, practicing deep breathing, doing some catharsis, journaling, and creating a safe environment for yourself. Seeking out professional support is usually crucial, as emotional numbness is usually a major sign of a traumatized nervous system. To regulate your nervous system, you need a safe holding environment, which a professional therapist/counselor can provide.

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I hope this article opens up new possibilities for you – or at least inspires you to take emotional numbness seriously.

I can’t emphasize enough how important it is to face this issue because avoiding it will only prolong your suffering.

If this article has helped you, please let me know. It brings me a sense of satisfaction to know that I am helping someone out there somewhere. Also if you struggle with emotional numbness and have other techniques or tools to recommend not mentioned in this article, please comment below. You never know how far throughout this world your advice can spread. :)

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  1. mir says

    May 15, 2020 at 10:25 am

    I’m graduating from high school and I’m really scared to move out of my house. I’m going to be going on a gap year next year out of the country and I find it terrifying. I’ve had issues with intense homesickness in the past (sleepaway camp) and I think with my future now getting so close, I have been experiencing emotional numbness for a while because I’m too scared to face reality. your tips seem very helpful and I’m going to try them. thank you for speaking about this and helping me recognize what I’m struggling with and how I can deal with it.

    Reply
  2. Linda says

    May 04, 2020 at 8:59 pm

    Thanks for this article. It was really helpful for me, especially the part about anchoring oneself when feeling dissociated. Sadly, I got so used to this feelings – running on autopilot and experiencing the world’s reality as levels of a computer game (without a possibility to simply restart or go back to a previous saving point) that it led to depressive episodes and drinking problems. I need to do something about this.

    Reply
  3. Francesca May says

    May 03, 2020 at 6:24 am

    I was told by a therapist I was emotionless, since then I have taken time to understand what she meant by that. I am keen to overcome my emotional emptiness, but not sure how. Has anyone come across any books on this?

    Reply
    • Aletheia Luna says

      June 20, 2020 at 2:47 pm

      I recommend looking into books on trauma healing, Francesca. Likely the reason why you struggle to express emotions is due to trauma still frozen within your mind and body. Check out somatic healing therapy as a field of interest to help you through this. <3

      Reply
  4. Crystal says

    April 29, 2020 at 6:53 am

    I have all of the symptoms for emotional numbness but I’m young teen 12-13 and I’m worried what my family and friends would think if I have a therapist.

    Reply
    • Karen says

      June 25, 2020 at 1:56 am

      Crystal, you don’t need to discuss this with family and friends if you don’t feel it is safe to do so, but there might be someone who will listen to you without any judgement. Do you have any other trusted adults in your life, like a school guidance counsellor, teacher, sports coach, minister etc? I think you will know in your gut who is trustworthy.
      Another option is to reach out to counselling services for teens on line or on the phone. I don’t know where you live, but in Canada, there is something called Kids Help Phone, I am sure most places have something similar that you can access.
      The first step is always the hardest, but you can get the help you need. Please take care of yourself, you are worth it!

      Reply
  5. Matt says

    April 26, 2020 at 9:10 am

    This is very helpful. I didn’t really even notice my numbness until a partner was telling me that I don’t really ever express emotions. This has been a challenge for me, but I’m excited to try some of the tips you mention in your article. Thanks!

    Reply
  6. Lula Arie says

    April 26, 2020 at 5:25 am

    My husband passed away last year this month. I sat in the hallway and cried my eyes out…heavy loud sobs. After that soul cleansing cry I felt complete numb and on autopilot. I know I am still grieving but I can also recognize that I have been emotionally numbing myself since I was a child. I can relate to most of the symptoms of emotional numbness . It’s so hard to explain this to people. Thank you for writing what I cannot Express. This helps me to realize what is wrong and how I can overcome. God bless you!

    Reply
  7. Juli says

    April 25, 2020 at 2:41 am

    After years of searching I now find at 62 my exact symptoms. I’ve tried so hard to find help but here in the UK it’s non-existant all I get is prescribed anti-psychotics. But thanks at least I now have a name for what’s wrong ❤️

    Reply
  8. Alison Gross says

    April 21, 2020 at 10:17 pm

    Uh….this was a all great until you got to the part about about how transcending our emotions is part of spiritual enlightenment. You don’t seem to realize that THIS is part of the problem as it still portrays the emotions as “lesser,” as something our ultimate goal should be to “move beyond” even if we have to hang out with them a bit first to get to that end goal. The pervasiveness of this attitude in spiritual circles makes it even harder for people with emotional numbness to feel heard and supported. For example, I like to do some deep yoga both for the physical benefits and to create a space where I TEMPORARILY set aside all my stresses and pains and just focus on breathing and physical sensations to be able to feel in the moment which my numbness usually prevents. However, these practices are accompanied by an on-going monologue about releasing all our negative feeling because they “no longer serve us” It does acknowledge that during deep yoga, strong emotions may surface and to accept and not fight them when they do but to then “let them go.” Very like this article, the ultimate aim seems to be to get rid of the feelings and acknowledging that you feel them is just a stepping stone on the path to doing that. This is just one example of thousands I’ve encountered that sends the message that feeling emotions deeply is “unenlightened” or “unevolved” and while it is less pervasive that the general social attitudes described here, for those who move in alternative/new-age/etc. spiritual circles, it is just as toxic and damaging.

    Reply
    • Leith says

      June 16, 2020 at 1:41 pm

      I, too, have found this unsettling and perplexing. I, in all honesty, do not see the distinction between transcending and dissociation.

      Reply
    • Aletheia Luna says

      June 20, 2020 at 2:45 pm

      Thank you for pointing this out, Alison. I originally wrote this article back in 2017 (it’s now 2020) and my experience and views have changed a lot since then. I couldn’t agree with you more. Trying to ‘transcend’ emotions is a load of baloney as it’s bypassing the truth of our present moment experience. Embracing our emotions as the lost and scared children they are is the healthiest path (and only path) in my opinion.

      Reply
      • Ralph W Gardner says

        July 11, 2020 at 11:14 am

        Having been a survivor of early childhood sexual abuse (my mother), I understand very well how many can experience frustration with regarding to the release of ‘old’ emotions can entail. Alison was right to imply that it’s easy for people to get the impression having such “emotions” is a “lesser” part of their experience. It can give people the impression that such “emotions/feelings” are almost something to be shunned, when in fact, such is our creative energy which will transform back into pure Light as we part the clouds of our ‘shadow.’ Using the breath, to me, is simply honoring and allowing our ‘deepest’ emotions/feelings’ to be felt, which acknowledges that level of the ‘inner children.’ I’ve counseled many in this process for almost 20 years and just recently, in the past year, finally shed the last vestiges of a life-long depression. It has been a long, progressive process and I’ve never felt more alive, now at 71. Joy just comes so easily to me in any moment and I wish that all of you here. Thank you, Aletheia and your partner, Mateo, for all the great work you’re doing. Blessings…

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  9. Rebecca Kirk says

    April 05, 2020 at 4:21 pm

    I’ve been feeling numb for the last 3 years I believe. At least that’s when I’ve noticed it at it’s strongest point and it hasn’t gone away ever since I noticed it and started talking about it. My friends always say they wish they could turn off their emotions like I can but I always tell them they’re crazy to think like that because feeling is so much better than never being able to feel any emotion for longer than 30 seconds. Tonight I’ve been doing research on feeling numb because growing up I used to be such a lively and emotional person until one day it all just shut off. I know how to please a crowd and what to say and how to be “happy” around others. All my friends tell me how happy and bubbly I am which I don’t feel like I am, I just really know how to put it on for the world. However, when the sun goes down and everyone is asleep, I get these huge mood swings where one second I’m crying on the floor and the next I’m staring at my wall not even thinking. Kinda odd to think if you didn’t understand I guess. This article helped me a bit, and I now have a better understanding of why this has happened to me and why it has continued. I just struggle because therapy has never worked for me, I’m not on any medications, and even with family and friends it’s always the same thing every time. I try to let myself cry it out but my brain involuntarily tells me no and I just stop without thinking. Like I’m not allowed to feel emotions anymore, even though that’s what I crave the most in life. I pray that one day I’m able to let out this huge buildup in my mind and heart and soul where I can fully express what I feel and have no walls built up. Yes, as a child I was neglected and sometimes I still am, and I went through a situation where I was taken advantage of in 2018 but my mind shut off where I cant even fully remember what happened, thank God. I just wish that nobody has to go through this like I have and many others have. This should be discussed more on a serious level rather than the way society does now. Especially in my generation. Thank you for all of this, I hope it has helped and continues to help more people who also struggle with this.

    Reply
  10. Ghada says

    April 04, 2020 at 4:02 am

    Thank you so much …. yes it helps indeed ..
    But since you decided to share .. can i ask if you managed to beat the numbness because i aim to break free from it and it wouls be comflrting to know that others before me have succeded

    Reply
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