Itโs 9 am. You realize that you have no motivation to do anything whatsoever. If your mood were a color, it would be the most boring shade of beige ever created.ย
The truth is that you feel โmehโ about life, but youโre not necessarily depressed. You just donโt have the drive to do or achieve anything. But a part of you feels like you should.ย
When you go on social media, for instance, youโre bombarded with people writing books, achieving sexy bodies, attending meditation retreats, and a million other successes.
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But you feel unsuccessful. Left behind. Lethargic. As if you have nothing to show for your time on this planet. And if you have done awesome things in the past, they donโt matter now because theyโve been and gone.ย
Can you relate?
As a new sleep-impaired parent, I can relate to the feeling of having no motivation to do anything. But before that, Iโd have periods of struggling to push myself to act and feeling like a failure as a result.
If you struggle with having no motivation to do anything but arenโt necessarily depressed (aka., difficulty getting out of bed, losing interest in everything, feeling empty inside), then I want to help you get to the core of why this may be so. Perhaps youโll find a thing or two validating, inspiring, or helpful.
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18 Reasons Why You May Lack Motivation Right Now
Having no motivation to do anything rarely happens because youโre lazy.ย
Laziness is when you have energy but choose not to do something, like refusing to clean the dishes, take out the trash, or let the grass die because you canโt be bothered watering it (guilty x3).
There are a multitude of reasons why you may lack motivation right now. These reasons can be quite simple all the way to deep and unexpectedly complex.
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Here are some of the most common reasons:
- Youโre not sleeping or eating well
- Youโre not exercising
- You adopted the toxic core belief: โIโm good for nothingโ or โI canโt do anything rightโ at a young age
- Youโre too stressed, and your nervous system is frazzled, begging you to rest
- You have compassion fatigue (empathizing with too many people, too often), and on a related note:
- Youโre an empath who feels everything too deeply and too much
- You lack a clear daily routine, causing you to live in a state of chaosย
- You havenโt set realistic and doable habits or goalsย ย
- Youโve got social media overwhelm and burnoutย
- Youโre surrounded by too many energy vampires or people/situations/habits that drain your energy
- Youโre a highly sensitive person struggling to navigate the intense bombardment of stimulation inherent in daily life
- Youโre overwhelmed with the opinions of others and struggle to listen to your own voice
- Youโre experiencing toxic comparison with others, thereby demotivating you to do anything
- You have unresolved childhood trauma, leaving you in a state of functional freeze where you appear normal on the outside but feel stuck on the insideย
- Youโre going through an existential crisis or dark night of the soul, leaving you mentally and emotionally depleted
- Youโre going through a spiritual awakening, leaving you feeling confused and overwhelmed as to your sense of life direction
- Youโre experiencing eco-anxiety/climate grief as you reflect on the state of the world and feel helpless, hopeless, or powerless
- To summarize: youโre a person living in the 21st century (I mean, doesnโt that basically say it all?)
Can you relate to any of these signs? If you have any more to add, post them in the comments section below.
The Spiritual Message Hiding Beneath Low Motivation
Having no motivation to do anything can make you feel like a failure. But from a spiritual perspective, this feeling has its own intelligence.
Think of it as a messenger asking you to slow down, tune in, and reorient to what truly matters in life.
If you feel a sense of constant lethargy, indifference, or apathy in daily life, it could signal that youโre stuck in a place that isnโt challenging you to grow โ that feels dead-ended and empty.
Of course, not all of us can quit our boring jobs or abandon certain responsibilities at the drop of a hat.ย
But even when life looks dull, there are still ways of finding a sense of self-actualization and Soul expansion.
Engaging with any form of creativity, for instance, has the immediate impact of boosting motivation and a sense of connection with life.
I find activities like journaling, drawing, and crafting with a purpose help me to regain that sense of vitality. For you, that could mean playing music, painting, sculpting, dancing, singing, or anything that requires creative ingenuity.ย
Ask yourself, โWhat is this feeling of low motivation teaching me? What does it want me to know about my life right now?โ and tune into what comes up.
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Given the insane amount of reasons why you may feel no motivation to do anything right now, what actually helps? What makes a real difference?
Below, Iโll share with you some ideas and simple mindset shifts that are two-three-four-in-one practices. In other words, many of them will help you on multiple levels: physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
1. Disconnect from overwhelm and overstimulation
Delete the social media apps from your phone. Stop multitasking. Do one thing at a time. Wear earplugs out in public). Create a quiet and calm space for you to relax at the beginning and end of your day.ย
Overwhelm and overstimulation โ whether via peopleโs opinions, world news, or even via too many sounds, smells, or sensory forms of overload โ keep you in a state of distraction, disconnection, and dissociation.ย
How are you meant to find motivation to do anything if your mind and body are in a state of overdrive?
2. Practice โslow livingโ
There has been a trend in recent years of taking a โdopamine detox,โ meaning taking a break from TV, music, video games, junk food, social media, or anything that gives you a surge of feel-good chemicals. And you could go that route.ย
But I find that adopting the โslow livingโ philosophy is much better because itโs designed to become a way of life rather than a temporary fix you perform to then return to old habits.ย
Slow living can and does include โhigh dopamineโ things, like listening to podcasts or logging on to YouTube. But it includes these activities at a more measured level.ย
For instance, instead of listening to the next and best video on YouTube for hours on end, slow living asks you to carefully consider who you want to listen to and for how long.
Other words that describe this lifestyle are โintentional livingโ and โmindful consumption.โ
So instead of consuming everything everywhere, all at once, slow down. Consider how much is too much and draw a line. Think carefully about what you want and need โ then do away with the rest.ย
3. โHang garlicโ to ward off the โenergy vampiresโ
I used to give away my energy to anyone/everyone without a second thought. I thought that it made me a โkindโ and โcaringโ person. That was until I began experiencing chronic compassion fatigue and burnout. Iโd even start gradually resenting the people asking me for help. Not so empathetic or compassionate, eh?
To regain the energy needed for motivation, pay attention to what and who is siphoning away your life force.
You can tell youโve come across an energy vampire when you leave the person or situation feeling noticeably tired, cranky, on edge, and depleted of energy.
To metaphorically โhang garlicโ to ward off these energy leeches, set personal boundaries. Say no to situations and events you donโt need to attend. Keep your distance from tiring personalities.ย
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Try the โgrey rockโ method (my favorite and one I regularly use) with difficult people and preserve your sanity.
Grey rocking is when you pretend to be as boring as humanly possible โ Iโm talking monosyllabic answers and being unapologetically dull. Doing so will give you the oomph you need to move in the direction you want.
4. Embrace your demotivation โ it may be a sign that you need to heal
Having no motivation to do anything can actually be beneficial. Who says it always has to be a bad thing?
When you tune into that sense of โmeh,โ you may find that your body has a deep need to rest, relax, and recover.
In fact, feeling demotivated is usually a sign from the body-mind that it needs space to โjust be.โ We live in an overstimulating world, after all, and if you donโt make time to properly rejuvenate your energy or heal from daily stressors, demotivation can be the result.
So make space in your day to โjust be.โ Many people do this via meditation, but if you suck at it (like me), try spending time in nature to sit and watch without any need to achieve a special zen state. This is a form of down-to-earth spirituality I love. ;)
While this โbeingโ space may feel a little unexciting to occupy at first, it allows you to regain access to more inner reserves of energy.
5. Explore whether there may be a core belief keeping you in an unmotivated state.ย
The most common negative core beliefs that produce a feeling of demotivation are โIโm good for nothingโ or โI canโt do anything right,โ but there are others.ย
To find your unique limiting core belief, do this in a low-effort way by thinking about what you would ideally like to do (such as going to study a new skill or achieve a lifelong dream), but imagine what a critical person would say about your efforts to achieve that goal.ย
What the critical person says is a projection of your own inner critic and a reflection of a hidden negative core belief.
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6. Set smaller, more bite-sized, and realistic habits or goals. Beware of all-or-nothing thinking. Do tasks step by step, little by little. Youโll have less ammunition to throw at yourself when life doesnโt go your way and, therefore, have less of a chance of feeling demotivated.
One way to make habit-setting fun is via habit tracking in a journal. Above all, be consistent. Even if what youโre doing feels miniscule or low quality, just keep going. Consistency is key. I canโt stress this enough being someone who has run this website for over a decade and has a vast body of work even while feeling frequently demotivated through the years.
When all else fails, showing up and doing the work is all that counts.
7. Practice self-compassion, stop comparing yourself with others, and be kind to yourself. Being a human right now on this chaotic planet can be a lot to deal with. Sometimes, simply getting up is enough. So celebrate your small successes. Remember that your path is your own and it is unfolding at the unique pace that it needs to right now.ย
8. Go in nature. Clear your energy field. Get grounded and connect to the more-than-human world. Watch the trees, the sky, and the birds. Feel the life force energy return to you. Sometimes, this is all thatโs needed.
9. If youโre going through an existential or spiritual crisis, journal. That is what helped me every step of the way. I recommend keeping a journal as your constant companion and exploring your deeper thoughts, feelings, and needs. The more self-awareness you develop, the more youโll know where you want to go and the more motivation you’ll slowly develop.
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Great things are done by a series of small things brought together. โ Vincent van Gogh
Having no motivation to do anything can make you feel like a failure โ like youโre not really fully living the life youโve been given. But this feeling has its own intelligence.ย
It is a messenger asking you to slow down, tune in, and reorient to what truly matters in life.
Demotivation is a teacher that asks you to stop and listen.
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I hope something Iโve shared has helped you. If so, please let me know below, along with any tips you have for others grappling with this issue. You never know who you may inspire!
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And then there is the drop in estrogen that starts for women in our late 30s! I have been in perimenopause for a couple of years and fatigue and lack of energy are one of the top symptoms. I am coming to realise that it’s not that I was demotivated these years, I just needed HRT! On phytoestrogen now and getting there. PS: Earlier, it was lack of iron for me. So one of the first things to do when lacking energy or motivation is to check the levels of vitamins and iron. It can be as simple as that.
Oh yes, iron is a big one. I had to get an infusion at the end of last year and it helped a lot. Thank you for sharing this new perspective Lola ๐
Bro this is wild. I read this now while feeling drained and acknowledging it in a journal lmao. I have over a month until my next art market, and my new tarot cards told me I put too much energy in my creativity. My body right now during work feels bored and tired :< I just need to rest and like you said “simply be”… which is starting to feel nice because my mind is always wandering! Thx for this <3
Glad to be of help Jenn!
It’s not exactly a lack of motivation, but executive dysfunction, especially task initiation, is something with which I struggle on a daily basis. I am often overwhelmed emotionally and overstimulated physically as well as paralyzed by procrastination caused by perfectionism.
I appreciate you sharing this, Katie Jo. Sometimes it can indeed be an executive dysfunction issue ๐
Thank you for touching on this topic! ๐๐ผ It has been quitte the challenge the last 1,5 almost 2 years. I have been calling it “hermit mode”. Last november I think, the physical energy levels went even worse then i am used to with chronic illness. At that point i think i was finally able to throw in the towel and just accept. Allow myself to do nothing. After a while its going mentally back and forth again.
I Am trying my best to accept life and health as it is right now, making the “best of it” by embracing “the slow life”. Figuring out along the way what that means and how it would look like for me.
If people mention, do things now you have a chance before you regret them…. that makes everything worse. Makes me feel like I have to push myself again (probably over the wrong edge) and reassures that feeling of being a failure that gets nothing achieved in life and indeed…. will regret all the choices you didnt make. That is a horrible haunting guilt trip.
To be honest… except for the health and frazzled overstimulated nervous system. For those parts i understand why rest and a slow life is so important. For other reasons, i dont understand why i am stuck in this place.(specific location)
January have been going so well considering neighbor difficulties. In the last 3 days it have been 2 evenings with stomping for several hours and my whole ‘living the slow life’ & ‘feeling peace’ is out the window. This place is such an unhealthy place to live. Unfortunately i havent been able to figure out a plan to flee the scene, and find myself some honest peace and quiet to genuinely be able to heal that frazzled nervous system. Until then…. lots of journaling, Epsom baths, candles and incense…. ๐
Thank you for the journal! I was almost too late! If you are going to offer more temporarily offerings, i really need to pay faster attention to the newsletter. ๐คญ
Thank you for sharing this, Evelien. And I’m glad you got the journal in time (there will be more temporary offerings!) ๐
Motivation? What’s that? Your article was very enlightening and revealing. I do
have a little trouble with motivation sometimes, but then after a Coke, I kick it
to the curb!๏ปฟ๐๏ปฟ
๏ปฟ๐๏ปฟ Thanks Angela!
I found so much kinship in this article ๏ปฟโค๏ปฟ. I’ve experienced not feeling motivated on and off in my life and looking back, I can see it was my soul urging me to slow down and reconnect to my own magic. I was a young, single mom hustling and burning out repeatedly throughout most of my life. Instead of turning inward and slowing down to reflect, I pushed harder, thinking I had to do, produce, and make some type of tangible output in order to demonstrate my worth and value to the world. Now at 42, I realize it’s the opposite. I also care less of what others think of me. The more I slow down, abide by my values, listen to my inner voice, lean into intentional rest, and honor the truth of who I am, the more peace I find during these times.
Society tends to laud and celebrate people that constantly achieve and are ‘highly motivated’, whereas those that move slower in life and produce at different rates are othered or seen as outliers. But I feel that many of us that relate to this are anchors for this world to retreat back to the beauty and intelligent wisdom of our souls that yearn to truly experience, live, and move through life with joy. And,the pace need not be specified.
You know what’s even more curious? Children are like this. Most are so mindful and engrossed with what they are doing, and if you try to rush them, they start to express their discontent, frustrations, and resistance. They know exactly how to ebb and flow with life. As they grow older, you start to hear more of “I am bored.” But when they are young and not exposed to the systemic frameworks that exist, you rarely find a demotivated or bored child. I know when I try to force or rush the demotivating seasons of life, I end up feeling worse. Reconnecting to my inner child and also to the child spirit shifts this energy so fast.
I could keep writing on this ๏ปฟ๐๏ปฟ I have a lot of say. What has been so helpful for me as I navigate midlife and being different from others is to love, honor, and accept myself. This takes continued practice too, lots of grace, and lots of self-forgiveness. That means doing things for myself even if other people don’t do it or it isn’t accepted. As soon as I did this, I felt incredible freedom. No more resistance, no more adhering to the 90 things to accomplish because everyone else was doing that, or living a life that wasn’t mine. Aletheia, this was such an amazing article posted at just the right time. Your articles always come exactly when my soul needs to hear comforting words, divine confirmation, or embrace new perspectives of life-ing today. Thank you ๏ปฟ๐๏ปฟ๏ปฟ๐๏ปฟ
Thank you for sharing! Lots of recognition. Be well! ๐๐ผ
Thanks Evelien ๐โจ
Such wisdom here ๐ Thank you for this beautiful share, Christine!
This came in its right time.. I have been struggling with different phases of demotivation, and the way you described the causes is very accurate and creative. I relate to the feeling like ‘good for nothing’. It is okay to feel like that, so we move on.
The slow life style aspect you mentioned is amazing and my experience in it proves effective, it is also linked to the Islamic principle of Tawakkul, which is reliance on God in every aspect of life. I realized that there is always a time for challenge and fast/furious lifestyle, no need to have it all the time, thanks to God.
I pray that we all find more peace tranquility and guidance in our life challenges!
I always appreciate your unique takes, Haytam. Thanks for sharing this principle of Tawakkul :)
Believe me, I appreviate it a lot much more when you ponder on them amd give me your feedback like always, thanks from the heart.
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