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Emotional Frequency: Why Are Many Old Souls Empaths?

by Mateo Sol ยท Updated: Mar 15, 2024 ยท 135 Comments

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Some of you may have heard of Empaths: people who are known for their highly developed ability to sense the emotions and thoughts of the people around them.

You might have heard all the symptoms of being an Empath; finding public places overwhelming, confusing others emotions with your own and absorbing them like an “emotional sponge“, finding films/images of violence or cruelty unbearable, feeling other people’s physical pains, being a great listener, suffering from fatigue, needing solitude to recharge and even experiencing the emotions of loved ones who are far away.ย ย But most articles fail to answer why this occurs.

And more intriguingly, Empaths account for about 5% of the population, yet are much more predominant within people who identify with beingย Old Souls or as a Highly Sensitive Person.ย  How can this be explained?


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Understanding Energy Bubbles

Until a few years ago, I had never heard of the word “Empathย “.

Growing up, I noticed a strange shift within me whenever I was around other people. ย I’m naturally very calm and centered, but in the presence of other people, I can empathize with the emotions they are feeling almost immediately, which can create distress.

When I was younger, I eventually learned that this was something very useful to possess and had been known for centuries by the Incans. ย In the Incan way of viewing the world, we believe in a concept known as “Kawsay Pacha“, living energy. ย To us, the world of nature is alive and responsive, and the cosmos is a vibrating field of pure energy frequencies.

Incansย onceย believed they were born into a world that was as conscious of them as they were of it, and that everyone couldย experience the energy of another living being as if it were theirย own. ย These people who could experience the energy of others had a great blessing, as they would find it much easier to cultivate a soulful connection with all living energies in nature and learn to harmonize themselves within their surroundings using “Ayni“, an energetic reciprocity that exists within all living matter.

When two living energies (for example: humans, animals, mountains) first meet, their energy bubbles touch each other, which is known as “Tinkuy“. ย Once a personย encounters another person’s energy bubble, something we call “Tupay” starts to occur, where the two people begin to experience a collision of contrasts and differences between theirย energies, creating a confusion.

It’s at this point that the successful “Empath”, differentiates the type of energy of the person, whether it is “Yanantin“; a completely opposing energy, or “Masintin“, an energy similar in frequency. ย That is when you apply “Taqe“, an attempt to harmonize these two encountering living forces.

The Quechua word for an Empath is a “Qawaq” which means “one who sees“. ย It comes from the verb “Qaway” which means “to see” the living energy.


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Old Souls As Empaths

We all experience empathy to some degree. ย Empaths, however, struggle to distinguish their own emotions from those of others.

Highly Sensitive People are born with a physical sensitivity, that of a brain that is overly sensitive to stimuli of emotions, thoughts or activity. ย In many cases, HSP’s are so sensitive to subtleties within their environments that it allows them to feel the emotional changes within other people as well. ย However, not all HSPs are Empaths.

With Old Souls there’s a difference; their sensitivity is not physical in relation to the brain, but is spiritual, or is in relation to their souls. ย This doesn’t mean that all Old Souls are Empaths, but it does mean that many can easily become spiritually attuned to the living energy around them.

This spiritual attunement experienced by the Old Soul is enhanced by their “Old” energy that has been reborn many times. ย The more an energy comes into consciousness and then returns back to its origins, the thinner the veil of identity between “I” and “That” is, and the more it is purified.

As our individual egos become less defined, our unconscious intuitive receptors are left open to not only experience ourย own emotions, but the emotional vibrations of those around us.

The closest I can come to scientifically explain this is that somewhere within the frontal lobe of the brain, there is an area responsible forย Echopraxia,which not only allows us to involuntary repeat others actions, but when activated in Empaths, can also allow for emotions from the surrounding environment to be involuntarily received andย absorbed. ย However, there aren’t enough studies conducted to determine any of this conclusively.

Grounding Your Emotional Center

Being an Empath can be a great asset; but only if you learn to center yourself, grounding your emotions within your own being and refraining from shouldering the unhappiness and suffering of the entire “Pachamama“, mother nature. ย If you don’t learn how to ground yourself, you’ll live like a slave toย your emotions, rather than a master of them.

Once you learn to master these emotions, you will not feel burdened by your empathy, but freed by it. ย You’ll have the ability to control when you want to feel other people’s emotions in order to purposefully understand them. ย You’ll also learn when to tune them off, allowing you the space and clarity to act or advise accordingly.

But first, how do we do that?

1. ย Identify the Origin

The emotions you feel will not always be from other people; they are often your own. It’s easy to think all negative emotions are coming from other people, so in order to get things straight, try to constantly analyze whether there is something that may have caused the negative emotions you’re feeling or not.

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2. ย Apply Mindfulness to Ground Yourself

The emotional energies that you absorb and experience from others are usually processed through your unconscious intuitive receptors. ย When you focus your attention with mindfulness on a specific action,ย it forces your unconscious mind to tune out of those emotional frequencies and focus conscious attention on something else instead. ย Examples of grounding exercises include focusing on your breathing rhythm, visualizing a protective shield around you, or focusing on the spot between your eyes where your “third eye” is located.

3. ย Seek Solitude and Distance Yourself

After you have grounded yourself using a mindfulness technique, try to leave the area that persons energy bubble might have effected (for instance, leave for a different room or physically distance yourself by a few meters). ย This will allow you to see whether it really was that person’s emotional energy that was influencing you or not. ย Afterwards, make some solitary time for yourself which will give you the space to centre yourself again.

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Being a Qawaq,ย orย Empath has proven to be an invaluable skill in my life which allows me to teach and treat other people. ย It has helped me toย understand what a person wants or needs and what they are afraid or insecure about by attuning myself to their different emotional vibrations.

So now I’d love to know: what are your experiences as an Old Soul with the gift of being an Empath? ย Please share with me below!

If you would you like to keep reading about empaths, you’re welcome to click on one of our other empath articles below:

  • Empowered By Sensitivity: What Type of Empath Are You?

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About Mateo Sol

Mateo Sol is a spiritual educator, guide, entrepreneur, and co-founder of one of the most influential and widely read spiritual websites on the internet. Born into a family with a history of drug addiction and mental illness, he was taught about the plight of the human condition from a young age. His mission is to help others experience freedom, wholeness, and peace in all stages of life. [Read More]

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  1. Anonamist says

    November 08, 2015 at 1:25 am

    im alone is sea of emotion 10% mine I have more problems that just being an empath im a medium too
    not
    only feel people that are close I feel it from a far I am cursed
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  2. Anonamist says

    November 08, 2015 at 1:23 am

    London, United Kingdom
    im alone is sea of emotion I have more problems that just being an empath im a medium too
    not
    only feel people that are close I feel it from a far I am cursed I
    have found wood is a good grounding conduit but its getting harder to
    ground myself
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  3. Anonamist says

    November 08, 2015 at 1:21 am

    Anonamist
    im alone is sea of emotion I have more problems that just being an empath im a medium too
    not
    only feel people that are close I feel it from a far I am cursed I
    have found wood is a good grounding conduit but its getting harder to
    ground myself
    Like ยท Reply ยท Just now

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  4. christine says

    October 20, 2015 at 3:54 pm

    I see dreams that comes to past often in news etc and feel energy of people plants

    Reply
    • Mateo says

      October 21, 2015 at 8:59 am

      I suggest you take the https://lonerwolf.com/intuitive-empath-test/ as it sounds like you could be a Flora Empath and a Precognitive Empath.

      Reply
  5. Lauren says

    September 13, 2015 at 11:35 am

    Great article, thank you!

    I think that determining whether or not a negative energy frequency is yours comes with self-awareness more so than physically distancing yourself. With enough intent, people can direct energy at you from long distances, hence the concept of psychic attacks. Grounding, like you said, and blocking are great ways to protect yourself… I also carry Jet and Amethyst for strength and positivity. Being an empath is a heavy responsibility :) But we have the capability to harness our gift and use it for the greater good. Stay Strong!

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    • Mateo says

      September 13, 2015 at 5:36 pm

      Hola Lauren,

      Thank you for the insightful words many fellow empaths I’m sure will find useful. To me every aspect of soul age, empaths and any other gift that makes us unique is a blessing that only becomes a curse when the person hasn’t practiced enough self-awareness and inner work to learn to control it instead of being controlled by it.

      A spiritual gift is not a spiritual life, and without a spiritual life to serve as the foundation for the gift, it can easily become a burden.

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  6. Catherine says

    August 28, 2015 at 2:54 pm

    Hi Mateo
    Thank you so much for your article. I’m 47 and I’ve suffered all my life as an empath but didn’t know this was the case till recently. As a young child I always felt the emotions of my parents who were alcoholics and my childhood was very traumatic. I was so torn between fear of my parents and sadness at what was happening inside them. I also felt extremely protective of my younger sisters and would not sleep some nights to be ready when I sensed my parents violent explosions, and I would gather my sisters and hide. I developed so much conflict internally in hating and loving my parents and feeling I couldn’t run away as I felt so responsible for my little sisters. As a child I sensed the emotions of my friends too and found large groups painful and consequently I liked to be alone but people were drawn to my happy outlook I also had dreams and premonitions of events and the deaths of people. I could feel them passing away and their energy once they left. This has caused me immense internal pain and confusion as often I don’t know how I really feel. My truth. It has affected my relationships and I feel it may be best to be alone yet I seek a companion that might see me as I am and accept me.
    I’m a teacher and I feel intuitively drawn to the emotions of teenagers and find teaching a great gift. Young people seem to be drawn to me and this is the one thing I feel my gift has brought me consistently.
    My three kids I feel are also empaths. They get the same strange and unexplained emotions and pains in their bodies as I do. Sometimes they cry like I used to. They feel a sense of dread and suffering and there is no cause in them. I try to help and we practice mindfulness, which I teach to teenagers.
    I would like to learn more about being an empath and how to help my kids and others who are young. It gives me great painful sensations that others may suffer as I feel I have. After watching my mother die before my eyes I felt more pain than ever before. At the moment of her death she telepathically sent me more love than she did when I was going. The rush of emotions and love was such a shock and I’ve felt lost ever since and found my sensitivity to others to be acute. I quit my executive teaching job and now work temporarily as I can’t see life the same way. I feel a great need to help. I wonder if you have any boos or ideas for me. Do you have a centre in Perth? I will be visiting my sister there in the NSW school holidays and would like to see if I can learn more.
    Thanks for your time

    With loving kindness

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  7. Cherie says

    August 25, 2015 at 9:04 am

    Hey Mateo, gosh I would love some tips on how to be the master of my emotions and not the other way around. I’m 26 and have always felt that I’ve been an emotional sponge around others, absorbing their emotions and when they are negative, I feel exhausted, frustrated, irritable and depressed. I’ve also always been very self-reflective and I can usually differentiate, when given some time to process, which emotions are and were mine and which weren’t, however I have not mastered controlling them. Sometimes when the emotion is strong, I start feeling physically affected as well and my thoughts start to follow the negativity, like a cycle. Sometimes I can’t shake it for awhile. Would appreciate any advice you may have for me

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    • Mateo says

      August 25, 2015 at 10:34 am

      Hola Cherie,

      What I’ve learned over the years is that it’s very difficult to target solely a way to overcome the overwhelmingness of being an empath.

      The problem is that these ‘gifts’ are deeply connected to our subconscious minds and unless we first work through several of the wounds that reside in our psyche, it will difficult to find the inner space necessary to ground ourselves when pushes around by others energies.

      We get better at being empaths by getting better a being humans, by evolving in spiritual maturity that will provide us the freedom within to master our emotions and those we feel of others.

      For now; find space for solitude, avoid overwhelming heavy energies and learn the art of temporarily grounding your conscious awareness in a point of fixation (your breath, your footsteps, your heartbeat).

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    • Missy B says

      August 27, 2015 at 12:52 pm

      Hi Cherie. I’ve found if I’m having a hard time shaking off an outside emotion, and grounding isn’t working, I give back the emotion with love, light and peace. It will be directed back regardless where it originated. I then surround myself with white light to act as a blanket for negative energy. This light bubble won’t act as a shield though. Often times I’m not able to distinguish where it’s coming from yet I know I don’t hold that emotion within myself for any reason. I’m having a hard time finding information of how to decipher the origin when I’m alone. If anyone has any tips on how I could, that would be much appreciated! ! I hope this helps.

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      • Mateo says

        August 28, 2015 at 10:06 am

        You’d be surprise what we carry inside that we aren’t aware of. Empaths especially run the risk of projecting what they carry onto others around them.

        We all carry the collective unconscious deep within our subconscious minds. Empaths who naturally possess a thinner ‘barrier’ between themselves as the energy around them can often tap into this collective without realizing it.

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        • Missy B says

          August 29, 2015 at 6:18 am

          Thank you for the reply.
          That concept definitely resonates, since I believe many inventors and scientists have tapped into knowledge from the collective conscious. Would you have any advice how I can get these messages clearly? It presents as anxiousness, tightness in my neck and forehead, with almost similar to a buzzing in my head. I’ve tried to let it flow, also try to be present and aware when it happens, but I don’t get any info.

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          • Mateo says

            August 29, 2015 at 5:01 pm

            The most effective way I know involves personal healing through a re-balancing of your energies.

            But there are other methods which though slightly more difficult could provide some solace. They are beyond the length of a comment so I’ll look into writing an article in the future on the topic.

  8. ร–zlem Aldemir says

    August 02, 2015 at 12:55 pm

    My parents always call me an old soul, I just never considered it as a concept. I went to psychologist, doctors, I even tried meditation. No one understood me ever. I tried to talk to anyone who would show me any kind of interest, I tried to connect, seek a piece of advice, but I never could because I always kept to myself. Listening to people always gossip about their lives kept draining my energy. And I was a stranger to them, an odd person. I don’t have any interest in this material life. Maybe because I don’t have my life. All I do is observe and feel theirs as if I have lived them personally. Every single day feels like years have passed by, and so much experience without any physical connection.

    Okay, about five years ago, I dropped out of college and I left all of my friends and groups of people, even deleted all my blogs and pages, I totally focused on myself, on my psyche, because I didn’t have any other choice. What I could feel from other people were so intangible and meaningless to me, it began creating a huge weight on my mind and body, my emotions simply couldn’t build a bridge between them for me to feel alive. I couldn’t move, I couldn’t think, couldn’t talk or laugh, sometimes couldn’t even breathe. There was nothing wrong with me medically speaking, except allergies, but I could not get out of bed, I could not do anything, I never lost consciousness but my mind would not work properly. It was hell…

    Then I pushed myself so hard to exercise or walk, mostly watch TV shows. But it was when I understood what is pain and let go of it, I finally found myself, and gained more control over emotions needs or pain, I can understand and solve anything now, because if I don’t, they just pile up and become an ocean and drown me. I observe and analyze a lot, and never give up. My parents can see the huge difference in me and even listen to my advice now without any doubt in their minds, which is a first for me, because before no one ever believed me or considered me as a person or a friend. My life was a total nightmare. Well, it still is in different types of aspects, looking through a pain is like looking through a dirty window, you see everything dirty and don’t know better till you find yourself again and understand that you had to go through that just to find a better way to live I guess. And there is always pain. Sometimes I feel like I will not find a way to beat pain away from my life, but you know I don’t know how to give up.

    My only hope is to be myself and be free some day. No matter who is around or what is happening. Just to feel okay, even if it means I have to be alone…

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  9. Shari says

    August 01, 2015 at 11:46 am

    I have found solace among trees, rivers, the moon and stars. People say I’m a magnet to others but I feel a great anxiety when I’m in a large crowd. I don’t feel fear but the energy is overwhelming at times. Entering homes and businesses makes my heart beat fast because I’m not sure what kind of energy awaits. Some good, others not so good. I often feel very old and out of place with others my own age. There are times when I will say something and the person next to me would be scared or confused and ask how or where I received that informatIon. I’m a massage therapist and able to block transference while I’m working. I have difficulty when I’m out and about out of my work zone. I was always called a weirdo when I was a young child because no one wanted to be around a girl who “knew” things. I would love to learn more about empaths and others like me.

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  10. Hayley says

    July 15, 2015 at 3:30 pm

    Thank you for this article. I’ve been struggling lately with separating my emotions from others. A couple weeks ago a close friend was going through some issues and although he wouldn’t say what they were exactly I felt his heartache and actually shed a tear whilst communicating with him. I hate going to shops, I’ve found online shopping is the way to go :) I absolutely love being around people with positive energy and avoid the energy vampires if possible. In earlier years I often got very sick with a high temp the night before a loved one passed and I think from a young age I knew I was different. I could see images in my mind when talking to people about their loved ones and various problems but have tried my best to block the images out as I feel it is sometimes an invasion of privacy.
    Recently I spoke to a stranger and instantly recognised his soul as he did mine. The feeling of knowing him without actually having met him in this lifetime. This was a very strange occurrence and flashes of ballrooms and writing letters with quills went through my mind. I’m very excited about this journey and opening myself up to these new feelings.

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