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Sexual Transmutation: 5 Ways to Channel Sexual Energy

by Mateo Sol ยท Updated: Jul 25, 2024 ยท 159 Comments

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Sex. It’s the driving force of nature, the energetic core of life.

From the pollination of plants to the biological urge to reproduce in animals and humans alike, nearly everything has a sex drive โ€“ and that sex drive arises from our libido.

As the essence of all creation, sex is the center of all life; from the birth of a child to the ecstatic conception of a piece of art, all creation is rooted in the libido. ย 


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If you have an unwieldy sex drive or are simply interested in channeling this energy in a creative way, keep reading. You might be amazed by what the power of your libido can do!

Table of contents

  • What is Sexual Transmutation?
  • 9 Benefits of Sexual Transmutation
  • Sexual Transmutation Throughout History
  • Sexual Energy = Intense Creativity
  • Sexual Energy = Spiritual Transformation
  • How to Practice Sexual Transmutation

What is Sexual Transmutation?

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Sexual transmutation is the alchemical practice of channeling and directing your sexual energy into a ‘higher’ purpose. As one of the most powerful energies in existence, our sexual energy can be directed towards achieving goals, manifesting dreams, and experiencing deeper states of consciousness.

Famous examples of people who practice sexual transmutation (either knowingly or unknowingly) include:

  • Nikola Tesla
  • Joan of Arc
  • Gandhi
  • Richard Wanger
  • Maria de Naglowska
  • Dante Alighieri
  • Beethoven
  • Mother Teresa
  • Andy Warhol
  • Henry Thoreau
  • Leonardo Da Vinci

9 Benefits of Sexual Transmutation

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Anyone with a sex drive (no matter how big or small) can practice sexual transmutation. This is also a practice that suits anyone of any spiritual or religious persuasion (as long as that religion embraces sex as a natural and healthy experience).

Some of the most commonly noted benefits include:

  1. More focus and mental clarity
  2. Increased creativity
  3. Enhanced motivation and drive
  4. Boost of physical energy (good for those who suffer from fatigue)
  5. More assertiveness and confidence
  6. Improved mood
  7. Greater ability to manifest change
  8. Heightened self-awareness
  9. Intensified spiritual experiences

If you think that I’ve missed out any key benefits, let me know below in the comments!

Sexual Transmutation Throughout History

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Ancient cultures have, for thousands of years, recognized the power and force of the libido. While some have condemned and feared it (as the mighty force it is), others have celebrated and channeled it.


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Apart from the Tantric and Taoist sexual energy practices, there are countless other references to the hidden powers within sex. ย Kabbalah, for instance, sees sexual desire as the deepest spiritual expression one can have. ย And in Yogic philosophy, our pure sexual energy is dormant until awakened in its highest form known as “Kundalini.”

Many esoteric groups also practice something called “Sex Magick,” which is connected to psychiatrist Carl Jung’s notion of sexual alchemy (similar to Freud’s sexual sublimation). ย In Sex Magick, it is taught that with enough will, we can transform the raw energy of our libidos into the transcendent power of creativity.

Sexual Energy = Intense Creativity

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Frequent sex has often been perceived, in many religious traditions, to be a kind of distraction. And while there’s absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying regular sex, there’s so much more to the libido then just getting off (orgasming).

Sex, other than being a source of pleasure, can also be channeled into any form of creation โ€“ from writing that book you’ve been meaning to pen to mastering the art of intuition. As sexual energy is creative energy, it makes sense to make the most of its innate benefits. Just look at the likes of Immanuel Kant, Lewis Carroll, and even Emily Dickinson โ€“ all practitioners of sexual transmutation (in their own way)!

It’s true that after having sex, we feel more relaxed โ€“ and this is because the body’s energy and motivation have been temporarily depleted. But imagine what would happen if you used that burst and release of sexual energy toward fulfilling a dream or goal. There are many ways to do this. Visualization is probably the most common method (we’ll explore more practices soon).

Sexual Energy = Spiritual Transformation

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There are two sides to the path of sexual transmutation: sexual abstinence and sexual expression, both can create powerful spiritual transformations. What path you decide to walk depends on your libido, character, and personal needs.

Regardless of what path you choose, your sexual energy can be channeled toward feeling closer to the Divine and more in touch with your Soul. Indeed, the moment of orgasm is a holy glimpse into the Divine โ€“ it is a moment of no-mind, a moment when you temporarily merge with Oneness and lose your limited ego.

You can also use your sexual energy to fuel your inner work and infuse your path with intensity (especially if you decide to remain celibate). Ancient Hindu philosophy calls this the path of Bhakti or devotional longing. We can see this almost erotic love affair with the Divine within figures such as Sufi poet Rumi, Christian saints such as Teresa of Avila, and Hindu mystics such as Anandamayi Ma.

How to Practice Sexual Transmutation

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When motivated by sexual desire, we develop a vaster imagination, deeper courage, firmer willpower, more tenacious persistence, and flourishing creativity that we weren’t even aware of. ย 

If the sexual energy within humanity can become so strong that it moves us to hurt others or risk imprisonment to satiate it, imagine what could happen if we harnessed this energy and directed it toward a greater purpose?

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Before I delve into how to practice sexual transmutation, I want to put a disclaimer here:

The path of sexual transmutation isn’t about rapidly indulging, denying, running away from, or even overcoming the desire for sex. ย It’s about accepting your sexual drive as an innate part of your nature; as the base notes to your higher symphony. ย 

I have seen many who feel as though they should rise “above” their “lower nature” elements, and thus decide to flee from or ignore their sex drive, considering it primitive and even “unspiritual.” Please don’t make this mistake. Sexuality is beautiful. Orgasms are doorways into the Divine. Pleasure is your birthright. Let’s not confine this part of ourselves to the shadow self (either through excessive indulgence or denial).

Ultimately, sexual energy cannot be created or destroyed, it can only be transformed.

Most of the following techniques I have experimented with โ€“ and they suit both men and women. Feel free to try one practice per week and only try those you feel comfortable or safe doing.

Sexual energy transmutation techniques:

1. 7 Day Experiment

For a whole week try abstaining from any sexual activity โ€“ either alone or with someone else. After the week, explore what you think and how you feel. While some people will benefit immensely from this practice (more energy, happier mood, greater creativity), others will struggle with built-up negative energy (anxiety, frustration, grumpy mood). This experiment will tell you whether the path of sexual abstinence or sexual expression suits you more โ€“ both are two sides of sexual transmutation.

2. Observe Non-judgmentally

If you choose to experiment with the path of sexual abstinence, practice allowing any feelings that arise within you emerge. Try not to judge them, instead, just be an observer. See these feelings as they are, they are natural. Simply observe what these desires and feelings are telling you about yourself. Also, try refraining from labeling them as “sexual energy.” Rather, treat them as a sensation, like when you experience something “hot” or “cold,” and experience them without any expectations of getting rid of them. Some people by simply observing have orgasmic rushes of energy without any physical stimulation.

3. Tantric Edging

Tantric edging is the practice of having sex and coming to the very edge of an orgasm, without reaching the point of ejaculation/climax. This is an ancient Tantric practice that helps to increase your energy, focus, and inspiration. Tantric edging also helps to boost your creativity and is great for those who suffer from chronic fatigue or depression.

4. Orgasmic Visualization

Visualizing is a simple sexual transmutation technique. The only thing that this practice requires is having a clear intention before engaging in sex.

Think about what you would like to direct your energy toward the most. Perhaps you want to finish that college degree, master a skill you’ve been itching to learn, achieve an important goal, or even have a profound spiritual experience of some kind. Whatever is important to you, carry it with you into sex. (Remember, this must be a realistic goal.)

As you engage in sex and reach the point of orgasm, visualize yourself achieving that dream, goal, or desire. The climax of sexual energy directed toward the image you’ve created in your mind is powerful. In Tibetan mysticism, this is known as creating a thought form or tulpa.

Some people feel uncomfortable doing this practice without telling their partner (it can be perceived as ‘using’ your partner to achieve something that benefits you). So if that is a concern of yours, have a playful conversation and let them know.

5. Create a Sigil

A sigil is a symbol that is infused with meaning and intention. This is a practice that is commonly used in Sex Magick or amongst practitioners of Western esotericism. Learn more about sigil magic to create a sigil.

After you learn how to create a sigil, you can then ‘activate’ it (and thereby activate your intention) during sex. At the point of orgasm, focus on your sigil (which you have put nearby somewhere) and then relax. You have now planted a seed within your unconscious mind, fuelled by sexual energy.

(Bonus) 6. Breathwork

Breathwork is the practice of consciously directing your breath. When it comes to sexual transmutation, breathwork can be used to move your libidinal energy throughout your body. This is a particularly effective technique if you suffer from a sacral chakra imbalance (the energetic center of your sexuality).

To practice this technique, breathe in slowly, feeling your sexual energy accumulate within you, then breathe out slowly and feel it dispersing throughout your body. This is a wonderful way of moving your libidinal energy away from your genital area and balancing it throughout your being.


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You can also visualize your sexual energy moving up through your spine (the energy of kundalini) and moving to your third eye chakra. This is a powerful technique, particularly if you want to channel your sexual energy toward spiritual growth (however, go slowly and be gentle with this practice, it can be powerful!).

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By embracing the spiritual power of our sexual energy (and not rejecting it), we can experience greater health, prosperity, growth, creativity, joy, and transformation.

If you are interested in delving more into this topic, you can read my follow-up article on Spiritual Sex .

Have you ever practiced sexual transmutation? If so, what benefits did you experience? Let me know below!

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  1. Rajan says

    January 21, 2020 at 9:55 pm

    Good

    Reply
  2. Courtney says

    January 16, 2020 at 11:34 am

    Does the non- ejaculation thing work the same for masturbation? Im young so I dont have a sexual partner to. Whenever I masturbate I reach climax so I dont have a problem with that. And I understand the whole thing about pornography because one day I found myself watching things I would never do. What im trying to say is that is there a way that I could masturbate and still be moving up in my spiritual journey because I have yet to feel guilt afterwards.

    Reply
    • Jack Q. says

      May 12, 2020 at 3:20 am

      In my opinion that’s not about anyone in particular:

      About masterbation… It takes a lot of time away from a person’s life. Emotional perception gets distorted & a person may impregnate an ugly person with erotic features.

      A masterbater can get red dots that act like hemmoriods on the opening of the urethra from increased blood flow & men eventually experience premature ejection without control.

      Prostatic secretions will increase in volume leaving embarrassing stains in clothing that will stink.

      Relationshipwise no single female will be able to satisfy the lust of a habitual masterbater who would seek erotic excitement more than love.

      Masterbaters tend to be moody & grumpy too. The anger of a masterbater intensifies. Orgasm is way different to a habitual masterbater. It’s more stimulating than euphoric.

      After finding the opposite sex boring a masterbater may find cross gender fetishs autoerotic & participate in same sex experimentation.

      The emoto-senso perception coupled with hormones can lead to adrenaline addiction & drug use.

      The regret sets in when after a person realises how much of their live was wasted on staring at a picture or video while conducting an activity that took the life force & providence from them.

      People who emotionally perceive with self indulgence eventually find disappointment in living the life they made out for themselves vs the one that was already given & never find their true soul mate in the altered state of perception.

      Sound/ light sensitivity & tinnitus occurs more in masterbaters too.

      It’s really not healthy at all.

      Reply
      • Amanda Tse says

        May 13, 2020 at 8:57 pm

        Jack , whilst the prevalent practice of repetitive, ejaculation -orientated masturbation is in many ways an assault on the body, and not constructive in many ways , practices and intentions will vary and self -pleasure can be an important act of self love, and sexual energy retained . I personally am beyond the need for physical stimulation of any kind and experience sexual energy flow when thinking of God. I’ve even had spontaneous orgasm , simply because I opened my relaxed body and mind to the Beauty and Peace of God , with no ‘sexual’ thoughts whatsoever, simply oneness.
        Sex has been demonized by the church for millennia and guilt and shame attached to it and it is herein that lie the cause for the dysfunction that is now prevalent. If we want to help people on their spiritual paths I believe we can do so by meeting them where they are now, and helping first to heal the dysfunction around sex by reinstating the understanding that the ENERGY is sacred and teaching how this may be embodied and expressed in the world .

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    • Amanda Tse says

      May 13, 2020 at 8:31 pm

      Courtney, Yes, you can circulate (transmute) your sexual energy during masturbation. Relax by breathing deeply and letting your body go soft, especially around your middle and hips, pelvis , genitals. As sexual energy builds up, stay relaxed rather than tensing, and the energy will flow, upwards, especially if you imagine that happening as you breathe. You can ‘breathe’ it up to your solar plexus, heart, or your mind (or to chakras if you’re familiar with those ?) This is all spiritually expanding and masturbation will slow down, become and act of self love, which has tremendous value. You can also come to orgasms without ejaculation in this way, so you retain your semen which is nutrient and energy rich . Be so beautiful for you to get on this path at such a young age ! Blessings and good wishes to you and please feel free to find me on Fb Amanda Tse (admin, is this ok? )

      Reply
  3. john says

    December 12, 2019 at 8:38 am

    carzy g but yes

    Reply
  4. Mrinal says

    October 26, 2019 at 12:26 am

    Hello Mateo,
    Thank you for the truly insightful article. I have read this to help a friend who led a life of indulgence, addictions to drugs, alcohol and sex. Although you wrote about transmutating the sexual energy, I advised him to meditate 10-15 minutes daily in front of Lord Shiva’s idol. He followed your non-judgmental technique for the first week (earlier, repressions doubled up his addictions). He improved gradually in spite of failures. But 3-4 months hence, he was able to subdue his urges and became a totally transformed individual. One fine day, he overcame all those addictions without any therapies or medicines, he cried his heart out in that great achievement of rightly channelising his internal energy and is leading a peaceful life.
    Thank you for the help in healing his pains.

    Reply
    • Mateo Sol says

      October 26, 2019 at 1:14 pm

      I’m so happy to hear your friend has done well with this, thank you for being there fore him Mrinal :)

      Reply
  5. Harish Kumar Uma Parameswaran says

    October 07, 2019 at 11:42 pm

    Gnostics believe stimulating the sexual organ will always lead to degeneration of human soul also they term these practices “black tantra” the root of all human sufferings. What is your take on this?

    Reply
    • Mateo Sol says

      October 09, 2019 at 11:47 am

      Hey Harish. I haven’t come across much of this in Gnostic teachings, what is the source of this statement?

      Reply
  6. Mirror says

    September 10, 2019 at 5:24 pm

    I had been abstaining for 7 months. And then I masturbated today. A few minutes ago, actually. And then I came across this. I wish I could turn back the clock. I have seen the benefits of abstinence. Self development and improment and stuff. I did not know about sexual energy though, until just now. I will start again. Besides, I have realised it is not that hard to abstain.

    Reply
  7. Amado says

    September 08, 2019 at 1:20 pm

    Isnโ€™t sex however, in particular casual sex, a covert search for attachment? One that was denied to us in early childhood.

    Reply
  8. Dallas RND says

    January 13, 2019 at 6:48 pm

    I could use some help on how to transfer this sexual energy into something big happening in my life I am already focused but not sure. If I can do something else to help good things come out of the big horrible thing happening to me

    Reply
  9. Starla says

    January 09, 2019 at 8:44 am

    Dear Mateo

    If you can be so kind to help guide me in this situation. My libido is over active, I do not invite this but have had precisely what you speak of here. Spontaneous multiple orgasms, (daily) and Iโ€™m not thinking of sex at all. Itโ€™s what caused my spiritual awakening and to venture into researching. I came upon twin souls, kundalini ect. I am new to all this, but how does one stop the orgasm if they are spontaneous & not under my control at all. In meditation it occurs ever more so. When I came across sexual transmutation I liked the concept of it but at the same time I cannot practice surpressing an orgasm if it happens when it wants. I do visualization of the shakti shiva and that helps for so long only, days perhaps, that it stops working and the orgasms start again. I seriously have researched, itโ€™s not an entity, which leaves me the only conclusion of it being that I have a twin flame, itโ€™s the kundalini or perhaps because I am an Empath since birth I feel energies so deeply. As I said before I am new as where before I was a Christian but this started my spiritual awakening, I am grateful for. Yet I am still working on this. I meditate daily, cleanse my chakras, and I am a vegan, all to relieve this condition that frankly is not something you go around asking in the spiritual community because itโ€™s so taboo. Until I came across this page, the Universe always provides, hoping thereโ€™s at least a slight answer for all this. Thank you so much in advance. โœจ

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    • Matt says

      July 01, 2019 at 8:14 pm

      Everything’s nice and tight. It’s just one thing I think is wrong and could potentially harm someone if they were to do it and that is the act of having sex but not ejaculating. I used to have to same logic regarding the energy staying in your body at peak level if I were to not ejaculate but it often leads to blue balls(blood fills up in sexual organs and doesn’t get released as it would have had it I were to ejaculate). It’s a painful, uncomfortable and scary experience if you don’t know what blue balls are and how they occur. Also, the only two ways of relieving blue balls is to either finish what you started i.e, ejaculate, or apply ice to your balls and wait for the pain to go away. I’d rather not get sexually stimulated at all and if I did, I’d rather jerk off than suffer that pain again.

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      • Shae Hepburn says

        January 20, 2020 at 11:21 pm

        There are ways to prevent blue balls. If you study the Kamasutra and Tantric Sex there are several methods. In fact many artists and men over time that have wanted to understand their own masculine sexuality have channelled or redirected their sexual energy to peak creatively and spiritually. Harnessing one’s sexual energy and learning to direct it can be very creatively and spiritually satisfying.

        Reply
  10. charles tichenor says

    December 21, 2018 at 4:34 am

    There must be more to ‘ sexual energy ‘ or ‘sexual desire ‘ than a biological need to reproduce. How do you explain homosexuality? Please don’t it’s a choice. My deepest sexual desire has been homosexual in nature since infancy. What sayest thou?

    Reply
    • jeanne says

      May 31, 2019 at 12:14 am

      Thank you for sharing the article on sexual transformation, I would very much appreciate more

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