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Do You Suffer From the Fear of Rejection? (Read These 9 Inspiring Tips)

by Aletheia Luna · Updated: Jul 13, 2024 · 25 Comments

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The fear of rejection is ancient and primal. Biologically, we are wired to seek acceptance from those around us. The alternative is being cut off and isolated, and from an evolutionary standpoint, that equals death.

So when we talk about the fear of rejection, we aren’t just raising discussion about some new neurosis. No. The fear of rejection is ancient and deeply embedded within our DNA. In fact, I think it’s safe to say that all of us will fear rejection at some point in life, and the vast majority of us will continue fearing the consequences of rejection far into our adulthood. If you suspect that your fear of rejection might be crippling your life, you’re not alone. So many people out there – myself included – have suffered as a result of this fear. But there are many tools out there available to help you. And I intend to share these with you with the hopes of helping you to feel more freedom in your life.

Table of contents

  • What is the Fear of Rejection?
  • Why Do We Fear Rejection?
  • 13 Signs the Fear of Rejection is Controlling Your Life
  • How to Overcome the Fear of Rejection

What is the Fear of Rejection?

The fear of rejection involves the dread and avoidance of being shamed, judged negatively, abandoned or ostracised from one’s peers. Those who fear rejection will often go to great lengths to ensure they blend in and are accepted by those around them.


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Why Do We Fear Rejection?

There are many facets to the fear of rejection. Here are some of the main reasons why you might fear being disliked and shunned:

  • You fear being alone and isolated from others
  • You’re scared of having your worst fears confirmed, i.e. that you’re unlovable, stupid, ugly, worthless, a failure, etc.
  • You fear having old trauma triggered, i.e. feelings of abandonment from childhood
  • You’re scared of the end product, i.e. plunging into depression, anxiety, self-loathing, etc.

Take a few moments to reflect on the reasons why you may fear rejection. What is it that you’re truly scared of? Try fast-forwarding to the feelings and thoughts you may have after being rejected.

13 Signs the Fear of Rejection is Controlling Your Life

Here are some signs to look out for:

  • You struggle to share your opinion for the fear of being judged and rejected
  • You fear standing out and being different, so you try to blend in
  • You lack assertiveness and can’t seem to say “no”
  • You’re a people-pleaser: you gain your self-worth from being socially likable
  • You’re extremely self-conscious and aware of what people think of you
  • You don’t feel equal with others
  • You have a weak sense of self/personal identity
  • You want to be like someone else rather than being yourself
  • You say and do things to be accepted, even if you disagree with them
  • You struggle to open up to others for fear of being judged
  • You keep a lot to yourself and feel socially isolated
  • You have low self-esteem
  • You frequently struggle with self-loathing and critical thoughts

How many of these signs can you relate to?

As a person who has struggled with social anxiety before, I know what it’s like to suffer from the fear of rejection. Fearing other people’s opinions of you is like living in a prison 24/7 – a prison inside of your MIND. No matter what you do or where you go, you’re always hypervigilant and trying your best to be a wallflower who is quiet and acceptable to others. Not only do you fear what other people think of you, but you fear what you think of yourself. All connection with self-love and acceptance is lost as you look to others to give you a sense of being acceptable. It’s a truly horrible and excruciatingly tiring experience.

If you’re experiencing the fear of rejection, I deeply empathize with you and want you to know that YOU ARE NOT ALONE. There are so many other people out there fighting similar battles. But fortunately, there is hope. You don’t have to suffer from this fear forever. But overcoming this fear does take work.

How to Overcome the Fear of Rejection

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Through the years, as I’ve kept doing my personal inner work, I’ve mostly overcome my fear of rejection – although not completely. I am human, so there are a few things I’m still afraid of. But hey, I’m not giving up. I’m getting there at my own pace.


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On my path, I’ve discovered a few tools, practices, and bits of advice that have come in handy. I’ll pull all of these bits and bobs out of my personal medicine bag and share them with you:

1. Other people don’t really care about you

I realize that this may sound cruel, but it’s the truth. People care less about you and more about themselves: that’s just the reality of life.

When we see the world through a fearful mindset, we tend to believe that others pay more attention to us than they actually do. This unexamined belief creates a lot of anxiety within us: we start believing that people are carefully watching us in order to judge us. Actually, they aren’t. Yes, people will give you passing judgments, but really, they couldn’t care less about you. Understanding this harsh reality is actually quite liberating! The best way to see this for yourself is to people-watch. Sit down in public and just watch people and what they do. You’ll notice that most of them are lost in their thoughts/phones/own little worlds. No one is paying attention to you, and even if you do stand out, you’ll only capture their finite capacity for attention for a few minutes at the most.

2. Everyone is scared of rejection

Not just you! Even people who appear to have it “all together” and are famous fear rejection (think Adele, Olivia Munn, Emma Stone, Barbra Streisand).

One of the biggest misperceptions that fuel the anxiety surrounding this phobia is the belief that you’re alone. You’re most definitely not alone. In fact, according to some sources, public speaking is more feared than death in America. What does that say about the fear of rejection?

3. People’s judgments mirror their insecurities

More often than not, the way in which a person judges you speaks volumes about who they are as a person. Not only that, but people also have the tendency of projecting their insecurities onto you, which is another reason why you shouldn’t take criticism personally. Other people only know what they see, which is very limited and two dimensional. No one else truly knows your entire story or your life. Remember this when you feel anxiety around others.

4. Accept yourself no matter what

The fear of rejection traces back to poor self-esteem. Poor self-esteem is caused by a lack of self-acceptance and self-love. If you want a real, long-lasting, proven approach to overcoming the fear of rejection, develop self-acceptance. Redirect your focus from what others think about you, to what you think about you. Explore your self-talk. What mental traps are warping your thinking? How can you be more kind and compassionate towards yourself? Explore different ways of loving yourself and reprogramming your thoughts so that they are supportive rather than self-destructive. I can’t emphasize enough how important this point is. Learning how to accept yourself is vital if you want to overcome this phobia. At first, it will be hard to redirect your focus from the external world to the internal world, but with practice, you will find it easier.

5. Practice meditation and mindful breathing

Meditation helps you to become aware of the thoughts that fire through your brain. Mindful breathing helps you to stay grounded in the present moment. Put these two practices together and you have a recipe for improved mental health and emotional healing. I recommend the Vipassana style of meditation (you can find many useful videos on youtube to help get you started). If you struggle to practice meditation, try a spiritual meditation that uses a form of active meditation that involves purging your mind and body of repressed energy. Both active and vipassana meditation can be practiced every day in the morning or evening for ten to thirty minutes. Mindful breathing, on the other hand, can be carried with you throughout the day to create a sense of inner peace and groundedness.

6. Explore the root of your fear

Pinpoint exactly what makes you fear rejection. Are you scared of feeling unworthy or degraded by others? What is beneath that fear? Do you secretly fear that you are indeed worthless? Remember that all fears stem from your own beliefs about yourself. These core beliefs affect you deeply and often go unnoticed. I recommend reading one of our articles on core beliefs so you can get a better idea of how to unearth your deepest fears. By clearly defining what is causing you suffering, you’ll accelerate your process of healing.

7. Practice being vulnerable

Take small steps and open up slowly. Remember to show self-compassion and kindness, encouraging yourself along the way. For example, you might like to share an opinion in a conversation, wear something quirky in public, or politely decline a request from someone else. Celebrate all of your small victories, and if you experience a failure, realize that it’s a learning opportunity and be gentle with yourself. You might even like to journal about your experiences and progress.

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8. Stop pathologizing your fear

Be careful of fearing your fear. Simply accept that you have it. One of the biggest ways of exacerbating your fear of rejection is to excessively focus on it and blow it out of proportion. Realize that it’s normal to fear what other’s think of you. It’s normal to fear rejection. Pathologizing your fear is like picking at a scab in hopes that it will heal. Sometimes it’s best to just allow this fear to play out when it plays out. Live your life and don’t get caught up obsessing.

9. Allow uncomfortable emotions to play out

Don’t run away from how you feel; you’ll only make it worse. Instead, face your feelings of shame and discomfort. Allow these feelings to play out within your mind and body. Use mindful breathing to get yourself through these sensations. By courageously facing these emotions, you will deal with them more quickly so that they don’t build up. When you repress your feelings and pretend like everything is “fine,” you are not only lying to yourself, but you are actually making your fear worse. So next time you feel this fear creeping in, allow it. Breathe deeply and trust in your inner strength. You might even like to talk yourself through it: “OK fear, I feel you. It’s alright. You can come. I’m not here to reject you, I’m your friend. It’s OK, and I’m OK.” Strangely, by allowing your uncomfortable feelings to play out, they dissipate much more quickly than if you were to avoid them. Try it out for yourself.

10. No matter what you do, others will always judge you

This is another hard truth, but one that can be liberating. Even when you put on the people-pleasing mask, there will still be people who’ll judge you. Perhaps they will judge you as too nice, too fake, too boring, too whatever. No matter how likable or dislikable you are, there will always be someone out there who has an opinion of you. This is a reality we all need to accept, especially those of us who fear rejection. What matters is how you deal with those judgments. Do you let them pass over you and continue loving who you are, or do you let these judgments define who you are as a person? Don’t be defined by what another person thinks of you. Define who you are and honor every wounded, messy, and beautiful part of you.

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I hope these tips will help to inspire and help you grow. Overcoming the fear of rejection is a process that takes time. Keep pushing your comfort zone slowly and showing yourself lovingkindness. With patience, practice, and persistence, you will get through this!

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  1. AnonymousPerson says

    July 11, 2023 at 1:57 pm

    Just some phrases/terms to google if you want to work on your fear of rejection. 1. How to overcome the fear of rejection 2. How to deal with criticism 3. How to receive feedback. 4. Constructive criticism vs destructive criticism 5. Constructive criticism vs insults 6. How to flirt without being creepy 7. How to stop looking creepy 8. How to not care what others think 9. Rejection therapy 10. Books on rejection 11. Rejection quotes 12. Rejection sensitive dysphoria 13. How to not come off as desperate. 14. How to not come off as needy. 15. How to not come off as clingy 16. How to communicate in a relationship 17. What to do if someone is distant 18. How to listen in a relationship 19. Modern gender roles in a relationship 20. Modern gender roles in a family 21. Women do more of the chores 22. Women and the mental load 23. Men are more likely to be lonely. 24. Men are more likely to have less friends. 25. How to have male best friends as a man/woman. 26. How to have female best friends as a man/woman 27. How to make best friends (in general) 28. How to cope with disappointment 29. How to recover from a breakup 30. How to move on from a relationship.

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  2. Anna King says

    June 21, 2023 at 9:14 pm

    Thank you. I’ve always enjoyed your site.

    Reply
  3. Klara says

    May 03, 2020 at 4:34 pm

    Thank you for this article, it was very comforting to read. Also I am thankful for the tools to overcome this fear. ❤️

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      November 26, 2021 at 1:09 pm

      I’m happy that this article has been of service Klara ❤

      Reply
  4. mark says

    December 07, 2019 at 9:21 am

    This is very interesting. I have suffered from low self esteem and lack of courage almost all of my life, probably due to the fact that my fear of rejection/ sensitivity is so EXTREMELY high. No-one seems to know why this is, not even the psychologists! SUPPOSEDLY I grew up in a loving, caring environment growing up but I was made fun of by people who didn’t understand me, even some teachers too, because of my high IQ.I guess when people don’t understand you, they make fun of you because, quite simply, they just don’t get it. But that reflects on them, not me! there’s nothing wrong with being intelligent, even if that means being a little eccentric. However, my self esteem is increasing not at the rate that I would like, but certainly better than in previous years, which is a good sign! I also know that breaking out of your comfort zone is ESSENTIAL for building self-confidence. Often with women, I smile and make eye contact, actually, I ALWAYS do that, now that I think of it, but honestly don’t know how to take it to the next level. Im stuck there. and its ticking me off! I Can NOT afford a dating coach at this stage(would be nice if I could). Maybe I just need to lighten up a bit and have faith that it will happen, someday. I fnd it hard to meet women in non-activity based events like the store, shop, mall, etc. The only places that I have a chance to meet women is at specific dating events, which I do frequent, frequently, LOL, Any ideas on how to proceed after the initial smile/ eye contact? Doesn’t seem to be working very well, at least not at the moment. I’m actually pretty good looking OR AT LEAST HAVE BEEN TOLD SO by numerous people, whether they were sincere or not is another matter. Anyway, great article.

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    • AnonymousPerson says

      July 11, 2023 at 1:42 pm

      My advice is that maybe bragging about your IQ over others is already a red flag, hahahahaha. Treat women like people, and not as aliens who are incapable of understanding intelligence because “women are dumb dumb.” Women are not like apes described in alpha male talks, where they do so and so out of nature, while men are treated like rational humans that don’t have to listen to what nature says. There are women that respect intelligence because they are also intelligent, and generalizing all women as incapable of just understanding your intelligence is classic Incel behavior, hahaha. Maybe look up HealthyGamerGG’s videos on the psychology of incels or his videos on red pill/black pill communities. Besides, even if you’re intelligent, it’s not all about intelligence. You also need to learn more about the emotional/social aspect of dating. A woman is not someone you can win over by answering a test with a set of questions. They’re not like Pokemon where you try to “catch them all,” by focusing on a transaction where if you’re nice, they’ll have to give you romance back. Maybe look up what “Nice guys,” mean in dating, or look up “Nice guy syndrome,” and maybe that would help start making you understand. I don’t know. Maybe look up Kurtis Conner, a comedian who makes fun of old fashioned ideas in dating, life, and religion. I mean, he’s an atheist, and I’m not, but still, I agree with most of what he’s saying anyway.

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  5. Michael (A.A.) says

    November 23, 2019 at 3:12 pm

    To be honest, I’m the type of person people are incredulous to when I say I get shy sometimes. “You? Haha! Really??? You’re not shy at all!” Oh come on, I’m not shy about talking about controversial political, religious and societal issues but feelings. . . yes, I’m very shy . . . about talking about feelings. That’s why I’m practicing now.

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  6. Paul says

    September 18, 2019 at 1:04 am

    I do not fear rejection by women – I know that it is always guaranteed. As such, I never approach women, even those I find very attractive. There are always other guys a woman could choose as a sexual partner / boyfriend, so no woman would ever choose me. People talk about rejection as if it is one of two possible outcomes of an approach. For me it is always guaranteed and it is inconceivable that any woman would even consider saying yes to me. As such, there is zero point in trying.

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    • daves says

      November 11, 2019 at 2:59 am

      I feel the same way. Never felt good enough and I obviously wasn’t, no contact with a woman since I was 15.

      Reply
  7. F. I. Netzler says

    November 05, 2018 at 2:32 am

    Thank you for sharing this wisdom with us; beung abandoned don’t bother me as much as rejection does, at least by the things that matter most to me.

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  8. Renate Fester says

    September 13, 2018 at 2:46 pm

    My fear is probably a form of rejection although it feels a little different -and that is the fear of being left behind. So people come into our lives and some stay and others leave and we know this intellectually. What I found myself doing over the past few year is asking myself “how long are you here for” each time a new person comes into my life. I also believe that each person who crosses our path has a purpose in our life and we in theirs and so I find myself asking myself why are you here what am I meant to learn from you or teach you. I also know that intuitively that this persons presence is going to be temporary and that fear is what really gets me. I know that once our purpose is complete our paths will digress and I will again be left behind – albeit further along. Most days I feel like I am waiting …not sure for who or for what and the people I meet while waiting are adding to my knowledge skills. My entire life I have felt this way and I no longer fear this sense of abeyance . Now I fear that I will be left waiting …Does this even make sense?

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    • Aileen says

      September 14, 2018 at 5:00 am

      Unbelievably well said. I feel the exact same way! Thank you for putting my fear into words. I’m speechless after reading your comment…Makes sense, yes! You are not alone.

      Reply
    • Jay says

      February 28, 2021 at 12:41 am

      I also have had that feeling and sense of waiting and not knowing exactly what I feel I am waiting for . Very strange feeling indeed !

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  9. John says

    September 12, 2018 at 11:57 pm

    This was a phenomenal post and a real keeper. It hit my inbox just when I needed it, too. Thank you! I will use your responses as part of my “toolset” to guard against my own insecurities.

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    • Mateo Sol says

      September 13, 2018 at 1:01 pm

      No worries John, I also like the idea of a “toolset”. I remember hearing somewhere once, “To a man with a hammer, everything looks like a nail.” The bigger your toolset, the more variety of options you’ll have to tackle any problem.

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  10. Tina says

    September 11, 2018 at 7:31 pm

    I fear telling my parents I’m not a christian anymore, they can get worried sick and literally manifest physical illness because of it. I also fear being made to feel fearful of God and hell again by their talks in trying to convince me to come back because I tend to be influenced easily by others’ fear baaed ideas even though I intellectually don’t agree with them but still fear and ask myself “what if they’re right? “

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    • Mateo Sol says

      September 12, 2018 at 9:15 am

      I understand how difficult it can be Tina, I saw it all too well in my own journey and also supporting Aletheia’s in her separation from her family and Christian religion. The day comes however when the fear is less powerful than the thirst for freedom as long as we maintain ourselves aware of our inner workings. You’re already showing signs of enough self-awareness to realize how easily you can be influenced by others fear tactics. It’s not your responsibility to prevent them from worrying sick, their happiness is not more important than yours regardless of whatever socialized conditioning many dogmatic institutions would have us believe.

      Continue on this path of self-understanding and slowly the thirst for freedom will outpower the stagnation of fear.

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      • Tina says

        September 13, 2018 at 1:49 am

        Yeah, I feel my thirst for freedom is boiling inside me and my guides and angels are urging me to be my authentic self but I’m like a crying baby everytime I get a sign from them about it

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      • Tulsi says

        September 13, 2018 at 8:13 pm

        Hi Sol,My fear stems from becoming alone in old age.I am now 45 years of age and emotionally dependant on my 20 year old daughter.But in two years time she will be off to do further studies in Buddhism and ordain as a monastic.I will be left alone as i am seperated from my husband.At the same time,i dont want to stop my daughter’s future or spoil her desire to ordain in a monastery.What do i do?How do i counselmyself?I do not have freinds and i dont want to be with people.My only link to the world was thru my daughter.You advice will be much appreciated.

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    • Ika says

      September 12, 2018 at 1:37 pm

      Hi Tina, I am facing a similar situation, only that my parents are moslems. I am still afraid too, just like you. Thank you for sharing your issue here, also for making me feel less lonely and all this more bearable.

      Mateo’s reply applies to me as well, I guess. I am too still waiting for the day when my thirst for freedom finally wins.

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      • Jose says

        September 12, 2018 at 11:24 pm

        Hey tina, take a scientific approach to all relgions and you will see that all believe systems are rooted in the same fountation. Also, look on u-tube: Epicurus cure for unhappiness; the ideas are profound, but will show you what really matters in this world!

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        • Tina says

          September 13, 2018 at 1:57 am

          The problem is that they will make science a lier and relegion to be the only truth there is, they won’t listen to science because my church has brain washed us that the entire world is out to get us and make us not believe

          I will check that out. Thank you for the suggestion

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      • Tina says

        September 13, 2018 at 1:52 am

        I know right? They will feel like they have lost you to the devil and believe we’re going to hell. I can’t imagine how terrifying that would be for them, that’s why I don’t want to tell them, they can literally die of fear about me

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        • John says

          September 13, 2018 at 5:48 am

          Hi Tina, Your Parents won’t die of fear about you. As Sol said, people (including your parents) spend more time thinking about themselves than about you. Generally Parents love unconditionally. Don’t give them that much power in believing they’ll die of worrying. God (the Creator/Higher Being, or whatever you think/feel God is) didn’t make your Parents that powerful to die worrying about your religious beliefs. It’s about taking responsibility for our OWN understanding/own experience in our own spiritual journey & not taking responsibility for others’ reactions/judgements. You can’t control what your Parents want to think about your spiritual journey. That’s THEIR own responsibility to think whatever they think.

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    • soulfire says

      October 01, 2018 at 1:30 am

      Hi Tina. It’s funny really. I grew up in a protestant home and it was fairly strict, but at the same time my three younger brothers and I were allowed a lot of personal freedoms. In our home it wasn’t so much the fear of going to hell if we did something wrong or “sinful”. I think as normal healthy human beings we realize that no one is perfect. And from a Christian perspective the only person who was truly perfect and without sin was Jesus. But then we are not God made flesh. For me the most troubling part of religion is the church it self, it’s doctrines and the governing bodies there of. I think by joining ; or growing up in a church, warps your views of reality. I remember very well the day I chose to do confession of faith. One question that was asked was: Do you believe that the Christian Reformed Faith is the only true faith? I agreed although somewhere inside of me I knew it was not the case. I think I did confession more for my parents than myself. That was the one part that truly bothered me. That “we” re the one true faith. But you see, at the time I reallydidn’t know what I know now. I do believe in Jesus. I believe he lived and that he died for the benefit of all mankind. But that’s where it stops for me. i haven’t attended a church in many many years and sometimes I bump into people from this former church of mine and they’re like; You should go to church again…
      I think not. One thing I’ve learned is that many of these so called reformed people are a bunch of shysters, liars and crooks. they are probably the most judgemental people I have ever known in my life. Oh sure, there are some truly good people among them. But they are also there in every walk of life. I don’t need someone to look down their nose at me because of something that happened in my past. Nor for any reason. I do believe. I just don’t believe according to their standards. And I don’t give a hoot about their opinion. Faith is a personal thing. It’s how you choose to accept it and how you live it. If a church is supposed to be family, then be a family. If not, then I don’t want any part of it.

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