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12 Signs You’ve Met Someone From Your Soul Family

by Aletheia Luna ยท Updated: Sep 29, 2024 ยท 118 Comments

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Have you ever come across a person who you feel like you’ve known “forever” โ€“ even if you’ve just met?

Have you ever come across a person with who you immediately connect, without knowing why?

Sometimes these people actually know what you’re going to say before you’ve even said anything. Mateo and I used to call these experiences “freaky mind connections” because we’d often think and say the exact same thing at the exact same moment.


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These people who we connect with on a deep heart level can be thought of as our “Soul Family” or “Soul Group.”

I’ll share with you how to recognize members of your own Soul Family and what lessons they’ll help you learn.

Table of contents

  • What is a Soul Family?
  • Types of Soul Family Connections
  • Why Do We Have Soul Families?
    • Soul Families Throughout History
  • 12 Signs You’ve Met Someone From Your Soul Family
  • How to Find Your Soul Family

What is a Soul Family?

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A Soul Family is comprised of a group of people that your Soul energetically resonates with on a mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual level.

These people are members of the same “Spirit Family” as you and they share an intensely strong bond that transcends time and space itself.

Intuitively, most people tend to describe this connection as sharing the same “frequency” or “vibration” because of the deep harmony felt.

Such a deep and harmonious connection goes beyond sharing the same surface-based personality tastes, hobbies, and opinions: it’s an intense magnetic and spiritual bond that is inexplicable to the mind.

Therefore, your Soul Family is often described as being comprised of Souls that are cut from the same “energetic cloth” as you.


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Types of Soul Family Connections

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There are many different types of Soul Family connections that you can develop including:

  • soul friends
  • soul mates
  • kindred spirits
  • karmic relationships

Essentially, a soul tie happens when two people of the same vibrational frequency energetically overlap and share similar thoughts, feelings, values, and dreams.

Although you might come from different cultures, races, or opposite backgrounds, you’ll immediately sense an ancient and strong connection in your bones, blood, and very Soul.

Read more about Soul Ties.

Why Do We Have Soul Families?

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To me, the most valuable social experience a person can ever have is meeting a member of their Soul Family.

The defining quality of this type of person is that they make it impossible for you to remain the same person by the time they exit your life.

Relationships, like nature itself, have many seasons. Uniting with a Soul Family member can last a few hours on a plane trip, or end after 60 years of marriage. Sometimes only physical death will end (if only momentarily) such connections.

Every member of your Soul Family will appear in your life to teach you a lesson and to catalyze your spiritual awakening.

However, we’re not always ready to fully connect with members of our Soul Family โ€“ but even this is a lesson unto itself.

So why do we have Soul Families?

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Metaphysically speaking, Soul Families are a natural product of the “flow” of Spirit. If you look at the Ocean, you’ll notice that sometimes clusters of waves arise. The same goes for Soul Families: we are all Spirit, but we’re also broken down into many different Soul Families. These Soul Families carry out certain roles, namely, to help each other embody the purpose of their Souls.

In other words, your Soul Family is here to help you learn, grow, and experience what ancient traditions have referred to as “nirvana”, self-realization or spiritual enlightenment.

Soul Families Throughout History

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In many spiritual traditions, the obstacles that we face in this life are said to be chosen before birth.

It is said that we choose the family we’re born into, the bodies and personalities we develop, and the people we bring into our lives. These people are chosen because our Souls knew they would give us the best chance to learn the many life lessons we need to grow spiritually.

There are many examples of Soul Families throughout history that gained a lot of force and traction, therefore creating drastic social change.

Take, for instance, the Creative Renaissance, that was composed of figures such as Leonardo Da Vinci, Michelangelo, Raphael, Machiavelli, Thomas More, Copernicus, Francis Bacon, Galileo, Martin Luther, and William Shakespeare. Chances are that they were all part of the same Soul Family!

There was also the Spiritual Renaissance that was composed of figures such as Gautama Buddha, Mahavira, Makkhali Gosala, and Ajita Kesakambali.

In China, there was Confucius, Lao Tzu, Mencius, Chuang Tzu, Lieh Tzu, and in Greece there was Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, Heraclitus, and Pythagoras.

All of these individuals interacted with each other (directly or indirectly) in different ways that were necessary for a revolution to occur.

The amazing thing is that each of these Soul Families has wildly expanded our collective growth and evolutionary progress.

Not only that, but each coming generation will bring in waves of powerful and transformative Soul Family energy that is built upon the previous progress of earlier Soul Families.

By finding your Soul Family, you grow at not only an individual levelย but also a collective level. Each plan, each path, is equally as important in the overall evolution of the whole.

It’s only through this profound experience of relating to one another on a Soul level that drastic change can occur on both an inner and outer level.

12 Signs You’ve Met Someone From Your Soul Family

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If wanderers who are members of other sects should ask you, “What, friend, are the prerequisites for the development of the wings to self-awakening?” you should answer, “There is the case where a monk has admirable friends, admirable companions, admirable comrades. This is the first prerequisite for the development of the wings to self-awakening.โ€

โ€“ Gautama Buddha (The Anguttara Nikaya)

There are a few ways to tell if you’ve met someone who resonates with you on a Soul level. (Please note that in the case of karmic relationships, a lot of these signs don’t apply.) Here are a few things you might notice:

1. Your eye contact isย deep and engaging

You’re not afraid to make prolonged eye contact with members of your Soul Family โ€“ it doesn’t feel awkward.


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When you do make eye contact, it’s as if there’s something familiar that you both share, something comforting, something ancient.

Perhaps when you make eye contact, you’re tapping into a deeper truth that youย both silently understand and share.

2. They will be more Soul-centric than Ego-centric

Members of your Soul Family will not be interested in ego-centered pursuits such as fame, status, money, and glory. Instead, they’ll be more soul-centered.

For example, they might be interested in conscious living, meditation, healthy eating, yoga, helping the environment, and so forth. Even if they’re not overly “spiritual” per se, you’ll be able to pick up on their big heart.

3. You’re magnetically drawn to them

For no apparent reason, members of your Soul Family will “pop out” to you like sore thumbs. You’ll be immediately drawn to them and their energy. Even if you lose touch with them, they’ll likely emerge in your life over and over again.

4. Both of youย speak the “same language”

When speaking, both of you share similar thoughts and insights, and you’re on the “same page” emotionally. It’s not uncommon for you to both repeat the same thoughts and words, as if you’re mirroring each other’s minds.

5. You feel as though you’ve known them for your entire life

You’ve never felt so comfortable and understood by another person in your entire life! Deep down, your connection feels timeless. When you first met this person, you felt a strange sense of recognition and familiarity.

6. You always feel energized around them

Whenever you spend time with a member of your Soul Tribe, you’ll feel energetically uplifted rather than drained.

7. They appear in your life when you most need guidance

The moment you’re open to growing beyond your current layers of fear and limiting beliefs is the moment you’ll attract a member of your Soul Family for spiritual guidance.

8. Hours talking with them feels like minutes

Time is completely relative when you speak with someone from your Soul Family. You enjoy talking with them so much that time disappears quickly and before you know it, three hours have gone by!

9. They reflect your best qualities

Your Soul Family reflects your best qualities, but they will also challenge you to see and embrace your greatest flaws.

Sometimes challenging you will including creating difficult circumstances for you to learn from (usually unconsciously), or being brutally honest with you (even if it hurts).

Whatever the case, you can count on your Soul Family to help you authentically grow.

10. You share similar life experiences

Themes such as abandonment, abuse, isolation, and other struggles will be shared between you and your Soul Family member. Each life theme will be used as a basis for growth, advice, and mutual support.

11. Your Soul feels nourished in their presence

There are some people in life who seem to weigh heavily on your Spiritย โ€“ your Soul Family does the opposite. You’ll always feel seen, understand, loved, and uplifted by members of your Soul Tribe.

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12. You can be your raw and authentic self with them

There’s no need to hide, fake, or pretend to be someone else around your Soul Family. Your Soul Family honors and celebrates the “authentic” you both on a personality level, and a Soul level.

How to Find Your Soul Family

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Where do you find people from your Soul Family?

People have asked me this question so many times, and I once asked the same thing too.

But the question isn’t about “where” you’ll find them โ€“ย your Soul Family will find you. Instead, the question is “when” you will find them.ย 

Over the years, I’ve found that a time comes in your life when you feel a strong pull towards your Soul Family as if you’re finally ready to meet them.

When members of your Soul Family also reach the same readiness, synchronicity will bring you together.

But this inner feeling doesn’t mean that you should sit around, twiddle your thumbs, and continue your normal routine without changing anything.

You can’t win the lottery unless you buy a ticket! Once you feel ready to meet them, you need to start actively pursuing the encounter.

At this point, you’ll need to listen to yourย intuition or gut feelings rather than your head.

Your mind, full of fears and past habits, will guide you toward the path that feels most comfortable and safe โ€“ this is the wrong path.

The best path forward is to listen to your heart.

Certainly, your heart will guide you to step outside of your comfort zone and feel uncomfortable. But, in the end, your heart knows the way as it is connected to your Soul.

Likely, you’ll find your intuition guiding you towards new places and activities that you’ve never tried before.

For example, you might be guided to create an online meetup group, join a cooking class, start tai chi, take up a volunteering position, or even travel to a place that unexpectedly calls to you.

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You might only meet one person from your Soul Family, or if you’re fortunate, you might meet all of them โ€“ but this isn’t important.

What matters is having the experience of meeting those who share your purpose and mission on Earth to support our collective evolution as a species.

I feel blessed to know so many of my Soul Tribe through this work and website.

I hope that you’re drawn ever closer to other members of your Soul Family each day.

Have you ever met a member of your Soul Family? What was it like? Please share below!

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About Aletheia Luna

Aletheia Luna is a prolific psychospiritual writer, author, educator, and intuitive guide whose work has touched the lives of millions worldwide. As a survivor of fundamentalist religious abuse, her mission is to help others find love, strength, and inner light in even the darkest places. She is the author of hundreds of popular articles, as well as numerous books and journals on the topics of Self-Love, Spiritual Awakening, and more. [Read More]

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  1. grinelle says

    October 18, 2021 at 1:45 pm

    Is it possible to have a deep connection to a person who has passed on several years ago that I have never met? I think this person or this personโ€™s soul caught my interest over a year ago. This person was a famous singer who passed tragically. I became so deeply, emotionally invested it compelled me to write a novel altering the end of this personโ€™s life. I am not a writer! Or at least I wasnโ€™t. This whole thing was overpowering and drove me to the point of excluding nearly everything else in my life. I have a publisher. It might be out in November. Is this a possible member of a group I might belong to? I have started exploring reincarnation. I am a recovering alcoholic of many years now. I always go to AAโ€ฆstill. I was lost for many years. I think reincarnation is a reality. Do you have thoughts on this?

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  2. Kathy Rogers says

    September 22, 2021 at 10:03 am

    I feel as though I have rejected members of my soul family over the years. Is it possible I am evolving beyond the need or is it possible that I am mistaking soul family members for charlatans?

    Reply
    • Aletheia Luna says

      October 01, 2021 at 10:49 am

      That’s hard for me to say Kathy. Have you tried journaling about this and consulting with your intuition/gut instincts?

      Reply
      • Den says

        December 28, 2021 at 4:55 am

        I just want to share my experience, i am married with 2 kids, i left my country to find a job and support my family. And luckily, i think and i can feel that i found one of my Soul Family. Last yr same month, i was just looking at him and i really want to know him. And we started to know each other this year, january, and until now we are still on the same track โค๏ธ we both understand each other. He is married, too. But we know our limits. We both feel very comfortable when we are together and talking with each other. I started to be conscious about this feeling after a month. I know i am not in-love, i just want him to be beside me and talk about God. And months passed by, i started to have a question, like “why did i met him?” “Who is this man?” ” Why do i feel so good inside whenever i think of him?” The feeling is so different, i cannot explain. I tried to research about past life and i cannot find an answer. And now, finally this website helped me a lot โค๏ธ you uplifted my soul โค๏ธ all those 12signs, i got 80% answers from all of my questions now i can justify my feelings to myself, that i am normal by the way, we are very good friends โค๏ธ its feels like im feeding my soul when we are talking coz we always talk about God โค๏ธ

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        • Den says

          December 28, 2021 at 5:00 am

          And i felt like we’ve known each other for a very long time, and everytime i hear an old songs, he is the first one that comes into my mind. It feels good to think of him, i know this is not affection tho

          Reply
  3. Harry says

    August 31, 2021 at 2:49 am

    Ive met someone from my soul family 2-3 days ago. I cant really describe into words what really happened. We had such a strong bonding that it semmed everyone else around us just disapeared. She was also really into the spiritual world. For me this experience changed me forever. I wanted to just talk to her 24h straight.

    Reply
    • Aletheia Luna says

      August 31, 2021 at 2:01 pm

      It’s such a magical experience isn’t it? Thanks for sharing Harry. I hope the two of you meet again!

      Reply
  4. Savannah says

    July 20, 2021 at 9:56 am

    Found my soul family member; she was in radio and I was trying to get into it. We talked for a couple hours and it felt like weโ€™d known each other for years. We were so in sync; we were finishing sentences and discovered our shared passion was writing.
    We reconnected after ten years apart and just as before, we picked right up.
    She flitted out of my life nine years ago and Iโ€™ve had no contact with her

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  5. GIRISH BORKAR says

    July 12, 2021 at 8:03 pm

    I have met several soul family members over the past 35 years or so – with each person I have felt a tingling internal vibration and a connection directly from the heart the moment I saw each of them. I had never seen them before but with each person as time passed I actually met them in social or work environments and we got to know each other – and today we are muses for each other. This is something so amazing that it is beyond description. We share common interest, common muses and love each other from the bottom of our hearts. We are such close friends that we share any and everything with each other. These people are both male as well as female – but when we are together we do not bond as a male or female, we bond as souls tied with the universal bond of humanity, love and compassion. I feel I have been blessed enough to find so many soul family members in this lifetime.

    Reply
  6. Mack says

    June 20, 2021 at 2:28 am

    Question- why are the people that I feel are in my soul family, not in each other’s soul families? Thanks :)

    Reply
    • Mack says

      June 20, 2021 at 2:35 am

      Or rather I mean- why are they not in each other’s lives in this lifetime?

      Reply
  7. Anthony says

    June 19, 2021 at 5:41 am

    Two years ago I walked into the stock room of the bookshop where I work saw a new volunteer. We introduced ourselves and I went on my way – stunned. Not romantically, she was much younger than me and I’m firmly married, but because I knew with complete certainty that I’d been looking for her all my life. Later, I discovered that she felt the same way about me. I wrote her a song, Haven’t known you that long, only forever. She inspired me with her dreams and loves to write a book, which I finished in (for me) record time. I’m sure it’s the best thing I’ve ever written. She’s my friend, my muse, and my teacher. Despite the difference in our ages, we have the same tastes in music and books, and she’s open to the spiritual. She evokes kindness and love from me beyond anything I’ve ever known.

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  8. John Duval says

    June 18, 2021 at 12:27 pm

    I have two soul family members in mind, and they were both in my circles for about 10 years before I connected with them. It has been an amazing ride, and I feel an incredible sense of growth since we connected. Not necessarily that they actively did anything, but they brought so much that I needed within my reach, so I could easily flow into a new way of being. For the first time in my life, I do not feel alone, and this helped me recognize that all the universe is the divine presence, so I am never alone. I feel a strong calling to move and create a new life, which may be more of my family calling. We shall see.

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      June 18, 2021 at 3:22 pm

      Beautiful. It’s such a special experience isn’t it? Thank you for sharing John. :)

      Reply
    • R says

      September 19, 2021 at 1:02 pm

      Oh. I hadnโ€™t meant to write a reply just yet, but this is what makes absolute sense for this soul family member. Iโ€™ve been joking for weeks now that the universe somehow keeps pulling us together and we are attracted at a cosmic level, despite there being a whole maelstrom of life raining on us.

      Reply
  9. Sharon says

    June 18, 2021 at 6:42 am

    It was so natural to be around her. No effort. We thoufht rhe same things. We spoke the same words at the same time. I wanted to be around her because it was so simple. I wonder if a friendship would have been possible and havent seem her since.

    Reply
    • Aletheia Luna says

      June 18, 2021 at 3:23 pm

      Perhaps she will re-emerge later in your life? Only time will tell. Regardless, what a blessing to have experienced that! :)

      Reply
  10. Madhuri says

    June 18, 2021 at 2:02 am

    I always dreamed of meeting my soul family. But over time, I realized that if I treat every new acquaintance or stranger as if they were my soul family. They may not really be from my tribe, but I will atleast leave that person with a feeling of upliftment and joy. So, now I love meeting new people and genuinely enjoy talking to them. Very few of them, if any become good friends but I will have had a pleasant experience. Plus, they may go away wondering if they met a soul family member. A win win for both of us ;-)
    That is my dirty little secret ;-p

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      June 18, 2021 at 3:24 pm

      Haha, I love that Madhuri, sending out little sprinkles of love and joy everywhere! Thanks for sharing your secret here :-D

      Reply
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