Twin flame relationships are among some of the most potent connections of life – and it is said that they are increasing at an unprecedented rate.
Gone are the days of mating for power, royal influence, practicality and religious jurisdiction. Now, more than ever, we are free to meet and greet who we like, comb through thousands of possible suitors on the internet, and commit when we are ready. When else in history have we been granted such freedom?
But with this newfound freedom also comes the potential for immense growth both psychologically and also spiritually. This is where twin flames – also known as “twin souls”—come into the picture. What is so striking about twin flame relationships is that they are cataclysmic in their ability to revolutionize our lives, just as an earthquake is cataclysmic in its potential to transform any landscape.
Because of their sheer power and breath-taking catalytic nature, twin flame relationships are often romanticized, idealized and worshiped in unnecessary and misguided ways just as the false idol is lauded for its imaginary divinity. While the connections that twin flames have are indeed divine, they are also intensely unsettling. And in this article you’ll discover why.
7 Misconceptions About Twin Flame Relationships
If you want comfort, pray for a soul mate. That is my piece of advice. Why? Because soul mate relationships, although challenging at times, are essentially places in which we can feel at ease. Also soul mates (soul + mates) are not always necessarily romantic, and can range from kindred spirits found in friendships, family connections, and even work relationships. On the other hand, it is said that we only have one twin flame that we may or may not reunite with during our lifetimes (hence the binary word “twin”).
Also, the goal of a soul mate is to bridge the separation between “self” and “other.” The goal of the twin flame, however, is much different. In my experience, the role of the twin flame is to aid you in the development of inner wholeness, harmony and self-realization (Oneness) – but this journey certainly isn’t full of sunshine and roses. In fact, the meeting of two twin flames is like the meeting of the sun and moon, earth and sky, fire and water: both partners mirror precisely what the other lacks. Understandably this can create divine harmony, but also intense conflict within a relationship.
So what are the most common myths and misconceptions about twin flame relationships? And furthermore, what can you expect if you have truly met your soul’s twin?
Myth 1 – Your twin flame completes you.
Reality – Your twin flame helps you to become more complete. They do not complete you.
It sounds so beautiful to “be completed” by another person, and on one level this is true of twin flames. Twin flames complete us in the sense that they serve as the catalysts to our wholeness. In other words, our twin flames reveal to us what areas we are lacking (in my case it was empathy, humility and compassion). However, our twin flames in and of themselves do not complete us. Why? Because beneath all the layers of beliefs, wounds, conditionings, and ego-masks lies pure, infinite, perfection. How can pure, infinite, perfection ever be incomplete? It only thinks it is incomplete. And that is the role of our twin flames; to remind us of the truth of who we are.
Myth 2 – Your twin flame is a member of the opposite sex.
Reality – Your twin flame might be the same gender as you.
The heterosexual ideal still pervades a lot of twin flame literature. But life doesn’t adhere to traditional thought, religious influence, or even the gender binary system. In reality, your twin flame could be the same sex as you, which might cause you to question your sexuality and other beliefs about life.
Myth 3 – Your twin flame is just like you.
Reality – Your twin flame is most likely your “opposite.”
Although you both share many similarities, you also share a striking number of differences. However, these differences deeply contribute to the relationship rather than taking away from it. For example, while you might be an introvert, your partner might be more outgoing. While they might be more masculine, you might be more feminine. And you will both share opposing strengths and weaknesses, e.g. you might be more thoughtful, they might be more practical; you might be impulsive, they might be measured; you might be calm, they might be anxious, and so forth.
Essentially, you are both the embodiment of the “yin and yang.”
Myth 4 – Your twin flame will come at the right time and be in the right place.
Reality – Your twin flame might appear at the worst possible time.
Or … they might appear at the best possible time. Life isn’t always predictable. For instance, you might meet your twin flame, but discover that they are already married. Or you might connect with your twin flame at a bad time (e.g. during or after a crisis). There is no set rule.
Myth 5 – You will always recognize your twin flame straight away.
Reality – You might not initially recognize your twin flame until much later in life.
We are all at different levels, or stages, of conscious development in life. Sol and I refer to this as “soulful maturity” and speak about this in terms of soul ages (which symbolizes the various points we inhabit on our paths of Wholeness). In this regard, younger souls will have a much harder time distinguishing their twin flames from garden-variety lovers – until they realize that no matter how far they travel, they will always return back to their twins. Older souls, on the other hand, will have a much easier time recognizing their twin flames, but might also be subject to romanticizing or idealizing the connection, resulting in a lot of frustration (which we’ll explore next).
Myth 6 – Twin flame relationships are always happy, smiley, and perfect.
Reality – Twin flame relationships can be tumultuous, overwhelming, and intense.
Is the perfect relationship to you defined by complete harmony? Is the prefect relationship to you characterized by complete understanding, acceptance and humility? While these qualities do define twin flame relationships after many years of inner work, they don’t always. In fact, at the beginning, twin flame relationships can be riddled with the most intense arguments and clashes conceivable. Many people refer to this as “karmic cleansing” where all our faults, flaws, and deepest core wounds are brought to the light to be dealt with and healed. Of course, this can be extremely unsettling, particularly when two big egos are involved in maintaining their illusion of greatness.
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The tricky thing is, our twins know precisely what buttons to push, and precisely how to stir up and provoke our greatest fears, shames and secrets like no one ever has before. This is usually not done with malicious intent, but to encourage growth, for both partners empathically feel the others’ pain and desire for their self-realization.
Myth 7 – You’ll immediately be ready to invite your twin flame into your life.
Reality – You might not be ready to open up to your twin flame.
As I mentioned before, our twin flames don’t always arise at the right time and place in our lives. In my own case, I was still in the depths of religious conditioning and dogma when I met Sol, so it took me many months before I could realize the true, deep significance of the connection. In your own case it might take many months, even years to truly fathom the significance of your twin flame who may or may not play an active role in your life, and vice versa. Due to the intensity of twin flame relationships, it is common for them to disintegrate very quickly, and later re-emerge later in life when both partners are emotionally, mentally and spiritually ready.
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Have you ever experienced a twin flame relationship? Finally, what other myths have you come across that have’t been mentioned in this article? Please share your insights below.
Hey everyone!
I somehow came across this amazing, full of love and light website! I’m very thankful I did! it’s funny because I very rarely share in random public forums.. However, I felt a desire to share my twin flame story with whoever is meant to read this.
I have definitely, without a shadow of a doubt met my twin flame. I will tell you that this love, this experience is hard to describe in words. It’s bigger then words, it’s like to know it is to open yourself to it. I keep saying “it” because I don’t quite know how to label this experience. :)
Let me rewind to the years leading up to this beautiful union. What I feel to be true is to learn to love yourself is an open door to all that is already yours. The “soul class” of learning to love yourself may be given to everyone differently. My awakening came from the awareness that on some level I believed that love was suffering. I say that because I was attracting “loves” what were more suffering then enjoying. When that simple truth hit me their was no turning back! I began to “wake up” and redefine what “love” means to me. I honestly found the meaning through loving myself. Through seeking spiritual growth I was shown how to create a love bond with my self. It no longer became an outside need. I felt myself healing and becoming love. “Lonely” slowly became a foreign feeling, now it is very, I mean very rare that I connect to this feeling. If you really think about it, how can we possibly feel lonely when love surrounds us?! With the perspective of seeing the world in this way you see and feel that love is everywhere. Our very existence is love, we are miracles. Believe that and watch more of them come your way! Love is in the roots of the trees, the rays of light that come from the sun, in animals, our loved ones, a person who pays you a compliment. You get my drift:) It’s all inside of you just waiting to be tapped into.
Fast forward this journey as I fill you in with some things that happened inbetween meeting my twin flame. (I still smile calling him that, it’s sounds funny:) A big move. Went from city life to a small beach town- change in careers- sort of, learned a lot more about myself, shared an amazing love relationship that had a beginning and an end- all completely serendipitous! I mean every single event was all connected and played a huge role in reuniting with my TW. I learned in this stage, truly how to let my intuition guide me and to let go of what I thought was the right way. What the hell do i know anyway?! Those limiting thoughts were just my fears talking. Not my higher self talking. Letting go and moving into the unknown is our higher self talking:) I would say I let it guide me more then ever, it felt strong, almost like I had no choice. I was in full transition and their was no stopping it. I either listened and acted from my fears or acted in faith and love. Wow- that was a challenge, but I did it! I acted out of faith, trust and love. I took what appeared to be the “harder” road, the “not conformed” road for what I believed was the road of my truth. I thought how can the the truth be wrong, how can me being honest with myself guide me any other direction but the right one?! Even though it was hard and quite scary I didn’t look back. I would often say things like, “oh okay- I’ll do this- just please keep guiding me step by step. I know it’s for my higher good and the best outcome for all. I trust you and thank you.” (I am all about positive self talk and mantras!) I don’t always know who I’m talking too but their is definitely without a question a greater force at work FOR us at all times! Wether our “egos” think so or not. Instead of asking yourself, “why is this happening to me?” Try talking a deep breath and rephrasing that to “Okay this is happening FOR me, thank you in advance for the greatness that is unfolding me. I ask for your guidance.”
Okay so let me cut to the chase and leave out the million serendipitous details that I could share! Following the path of my truth, having faith,not caring what other people thought I should or shouldn’t do, I found myself. I found my twin flame. Every article about the signs of meeting your TW was spot on. I didn’t even know what a twin flame was! It was and still is the freest love I’ve ever known. It’s expansive, inspiring, at times consuming, being energetically bound can be challenging yet what we’ve learned about ourselves through this is incredible! Random but not, our birthdays are 7/9 & 9/7! That’s crazy and that’s just one of the MANY signs. Meeting him felt like I was home. Like I had been traveling through all this land and I’m finally home. Luckily for us in our case, we were both ready. In fact we believe we both called to eachother. Our experiences prior to meeting were coincidentally alligned. We had learned the lessons that we needed in order to be gifted eachother. It really is a gift and their isn’t a day that goes by that we’re not thankful.
This love is worth the journey. Trust your heart and may your truth set you free!
With love from heart, Alicia❤
I first met the guy I feel is my TF back when we were both younger when he came to work at the same place. He walked past and he looked familiar to me. yet I had never met him before. I asked someone who he was and they told me his name and where he was from. I was engaged by then to my now ex husband at the time. TF and I used to have a lot of banter between us and loved having verbal stoushes. He was moved to a different department and worked nights so we didnt have any contact for a long time. I got married my husband and I bought a house and got to know the neighbours, ironically one happened to be TF’s brother who became my eldest child’s godfather. So we met up again and the verbal stouches/banter (flirting) began.
We could talk to each other for hours, which made my husband jealous (his wife didnt care). We moved away for a few years, on returning TF and I were like we had never been apart. (My eldest has told me recently how she had observed how he acted around me back then, even said he was in love with me) He would drop in for coffee and we would chat. My husband started accusing me of sleeping with him so he backed off. My husband was a selfish, violent man who was always putting me down. TF was always protective of me and my kids. TF and his family moved away to the other side of the country, his marriage ended and not long after mine did too.
We would talk for hours on the phone and one night he indicated we would be together and even said the timeframe it would be. I told him I had met someone so it wouldnt happen if I was with him still. I feel this man was a soulmate (SM) I didnt know about TFs then. TF stopped calling me and we lost contact for 16 years. SM and I were together for 14 years until he passed away. My dad passed away a couple of years later. TF’s brother rang to offer his condolences and I asked if he had TF’s number as I was arranging a work reunion. I sent TF a text and he called me almost immediatley and we talked for hours. He had been though another divorce and a failed engagement and a few other failed relationships. He had moved closer and said he would come over and see me. He said he wished he had known about my dad he would’ve been here to be a support. He came over and stayed and we made love for the first time. 2 weeks later invited me to meet up with him in a town halfway between where we spent a nice weekend doing little things like going to the movies, out for dinner and fishing, and lots of talking.
We agreed to trying a long distance r/ship, we kept in touch by phone and email, then after a month he went silent. After a couple of months he rang me out of the blue, he was travelling back down from his daughter’s and kept in touch over the next week. Then I didn’t hear from him for a couple of days and got a call Xmas Eve to tell me he was camped nearby and wanted me to come and join him for a week. I went out on Boxing Day and spent an awesome week with him, then things shifted NYE. I left very confused early NY Day while he was still asleep. I began seeing someone as he went silent again which was short lived.
When he did make contact again he had gotten a job the other side of the country so we decided that was too far way to maintain a r/ship. I began seeing someone new, then he started seeing someone as well.
We I still kept in touch even while we were in r/ships this time. After 12 mths this man ended the r/ship on a Friday TF rang on the Sunday on his way to begin a job as he sensed something was wrong. His g/f had gone on ahead of him. A couple of months later he called in expectantly one day as he felt I needed him. He was living back closer. Three weeks later he broke it off with his g/f and came over for a month.
We spent a lot of time visiting over the next few months, then he got a job the other side again. This time we kept in regular contact and he invited me to come over which I did …we spent 2 months together. When it was time for me to leave he quit his job and we travelled back over, we spent 9 days together on that trip. He stayed for a few months (not with me). I felt we were becoming closer in that time, he told me he had to go away again for work. He left without saying goodbye 5 months ago and is ignoring all contact from me except for an email he answered with just the words “in time”.( that was 3 months ago) I bit the bullet and told him of my feelings in the last one. I dont even know if he reads my emails or texts :(
Points I have noticed are: whenever I have been in a relationship he begins one too….when I split he as too.
Also he does the silence and taking off when we get close after he has had a discussion with his eldest child.
He has a lot of family issues he tries to suppress.
For the last couple of months he has been in my dreams every night. always very real, always affectionate. Sometimes I hear him ask a question. I have been meditating, sometimes I see flashes of us together while awake.
I am considering sending him one last message asking if he is still alive and that I am worried. Then silence until I send him a Merry Christmas.
I have been with my twin flame for 5 years. I met him under odd circumstances. Upon conversing, I was intrigued and felt a strong desire to know him more. There was a strong connection between us. When we met, we were both married. We became good plontonic friends. Later, I was there for him after his marriage fell apart, and he was there for me when my marriage fell apart. We are nearly 10 years apart. I was 18, and he was 26. We had only ever made deep eye contact once as friends. We both had a difficult time keeping such eye contact due to such a strong connection and feeling of being naked and bare looking into each other’s souls. As we were both married, and were both loyal and devoted, we both consciously avoided that connection. We had long talks getting to know each other, and cared about each other’s emotional anguish or wellbeing. We used to laugh about how stubborn we both were and that two people so stubborn could never work in a relationship. We both had buried thoughts about how denying that we would ever fit romantically actually hurt each of us, making each of us feel disappointed and unworthy. We both had a deep level of caring about each others wellbeing that any deeper of a connection would ruin our friendship. Eventually, once both of us were lost and damaged from abusive marriages, we truly connected. Before we had never touched or even hugged one another. We held each other and fell asleep. While sleeping and during complete subconsciousness, our soul connection lit on fire. I remember his breathe on my neck, the feeling of his skin, how his natural smell intoxicating, and how our bodies fit so perfectly together. It felt like sparks, magnetic, intoxicating, euphoric, and an out of body experience with our souls holding each other as indescribably as the physical connection. I remember being in a state of subconscious mind where I could not control all that was happening, and experiencing it the same with him. When we woke up the next morning, we were never the same. Without words or even talking about the experience, we simply just were connected in a way that was from then on, unbreakable. We became a “You Are Me,” as we’d say before we ever said “I love you.” It was a breathtaking, impossible to describe union. We spent a year in a complete state of euphoria together. Then life started to test us. We were best friends, partners, teamates, each other’s strengths and weaknesses, and no matter how bad things got, we would be find as long as we went through it together. After 3 years, we went through a stage where resentment occurred and stress, anxiety, and fears tested our relationship. We moved frowars from that, and made our first child while making love. Due to life knocking us down again at that point, we were forced to live 19 hours apart for 2 months while I carried our son. We did begin to become distant as we both worked opposite schedules. When we were finally reunited, we picked up where we’d left off in our unparalleled partnership. 6 months later, when our son was nearly due to be born, my husband(we’d said vows at 2 years) went through severe inner trial of his own where he distanced himself, began doing things that broke my trust, deceived me, wronged me, and caused a loss of connection that we struggled and fought each other about for nearly a year. No matter the pain and resentment, neither of us have ever been able to separate ourselves. We lived together but were nearly like roommates that both cared for our child, home, and livilhood, but lacked nearly all emotional and physical connection. We fought and disagreed and nearly hated each other. Then we fell upon another hardship in life that caused us to lose nearly everything. In that, we broke down those walls and barriers. Upon doing so, our souls flame began burning deeper and even more unquenceable. There was no direct conversation about repair of trust, healing, or otherwise what had been damaged. It was as though our souls had made peace with the pain and hurt and our relationship began to heal. Today, we stand together in hardship. We are both still healing in some aspects but are connecting on a spiritual level not experienced before, and spiritual enlightenment within us both. We struggle sometimes where we play the runner and chaser game but never too far. We both know that we have a calling as purpose to achieve together and cannot truly ever walk away from the other. It is nearing an end in this stage, as it is a spiritual feeling of coming closer and closer almost as our heart chakras, souls, and entire selves are merging completely. It has been a beautiful, long, and difficult road in our life together and our relationship. There has always been an unconditional love and uncontrollable desire to contribute to each other’s wellbeing. A feeling of being lost in the times where we became so distant and strayed from our partnership. A pain that cannot be described. A feeling of not being whole, and losing a part of yourself that you can never recover as your counterpart carries it with them. I know he is my twin flame. I cannot wait until both of our souls are fully healed and come together in complete oneness. I can feel it approaching, and our interactions are becoming more and more blissful and deeply rooted.
I was introduced to this guy by my family friend and a month before we got introduced I had a feeling that I will meet someone who is going to impact my life in a massive way, fast forward a month and we got introduced, a month later we met and I burst into tears at the end of the date because I knew that this person is going to cause me pain and I will spend the rest of my life with him. We both lived abroad for a whole year but always kept in touch, I started noticing that he was very insecure and had a massive ego, his insecurities would get into the way of our relationship all the time, we would quarrel more than we would get along with each other. After 8 months he would start to disappear, come back and repeat the whole cycle again, we keep on coming back to each other all the time. He is literally me, he projects all my insecurities back to me and maybe that is why he argue a lot, but I cannot imagine my life without him, he is my motivator, he is everything I am but in a mans body. We did not speak for a few months but then he came back into my life again and it was as if he had never left, but this whole relationship is mentally exhausting. At times where I felt the happiest and great things were taking place in my life his relationship towards me would be the same as I felt about myself, secure, happy, however, when I was going through difficulties he would treat me badly, he is a reflection of my thoughts. I could also feel his moods all the time and if he was having issues with his health. I know that when I completely heal then maybe we both can enjoy our lives without all these mentally exhausting troubles.
Three years ago i met a woman through work and felt and immediate attraction to her, not a physical attraction but much deeper. Until this year i didnt hear from her again…. Fast forward to this year, her and I were attending a trade show and we saw each other. As I walked up to her I was washed in relief like I had been waiting for her in an unknowing way forever. Later she told me that no one had ever looked so happy to see her like I did in that moment in her entire life…. So this is how it starts and we had an amazing connected relationship… sadly her 20 year marriage, she had just left a few months earlier, left her wounded and broken. Sadly she was not ready for us and has broken it off. While she admits she wants it all and that everything about “US” is all she had ever wanted she can’t do it and doesn’t know if she ever will be able too. It is simply too overwhelming. Ive done a lot of soul searching as to why this has been so hard for me and through my search this is the only explanation. I do feel her at times. I feel her emotions and they are never happy like before. I always reach back with love and caring and hold it as long as I can…. I now know why having me in her life is so hard and why its so hard for me to be without her… I truly wish there was a way to get us back together because all I want to do it love her completely and give all to her.
I was wondering if you are in the middle stages of Twin Flame connection (i.e runner and chaser), is it possible that there is something which obstructs other relationship prospects? I don’t know how to explain what I am asking clearly, but I guess an example would do. As I mentioned, my Twin Flame and I are in the running and chasing phase for about 2 years now. In that time we both have tried to meet other people separately, usually not successfully. For myself, I noticed that I would meet men and we would talk a lot, set up dates and make plans to meet up and the day before or the morning of, the man politely backs out. Is there any connection to this due to the stages of the Twin Flame relationship, is there an energy around me which obstructs?
I would have to disagree. A soulmate connection can be just as challenging. I think there are far too many negatives out there regarding twin flames such as union will never happen, wait for another lofetime, etc. I have also noticed many people in dispair but mostly women and have heard of people waiting for 20 years to reconnect with their twins! Far too passive. I think we need to learn to empower and uplift people on this challenging yet rewarding journey. Learn to clear the blockages and karma for both you and your twin and see how you feel thereafter.
My Twin Soul is my gay best friend of 12 years. We share all the remarkable characteristics but we are strictly platonic and don’t feel sexual feelings. He is like a brother. He aids me in all my relationship turmoils. I wonder if it means I’ll be single living with my gay best friend and never find a husband but that suits me fine too. I love spending time with my bestie we talk for hours!
I like this article quite a bit. Earlier this year (2016) I read about Twin Flames for the first time. Never was I so amazed at anything. For finally, after 9 years, I was reading about my experience with my ex and it wasn’t all in my head. It was in black and white, in WORDS… However, no TF relationship is one size fits all. We are all different. My Twin has lost all respect for me when I began chasing him hard after a reunion we had. After he finally “got rid” of me for good, I really believed the connection I thought we had was all in my head, but after reading many articles about Twin Flames, I know it’s not. He just doesn’t need or want me in this lifetime. I don’t believe he wants to look beyond the surface, nor does he have the time or patience for a Twin Flame relationship. He wants to enjoy life on a surface level, and because of our temperments and enormous age gap, he just does not want me. But I feel him in my soul at all times, I miss him so much it literally hurts me physically. But I still wouldn’t trade him, because it would be like trading your family– no matter how much pain they cause you, they are yours, a part of you and that’s that. Unconditional love. So I go on alone forever, knowing that even if I met someone else, I could not be happy after experiencing what it’s like to be next to him. He doesn’t feel the same, but he is definitely the Yin to my Yang, he is everything I wish I could be, yet we are wired almost exactly alike. I guess in reality I would probably be beside myself trying to maintain a relationship like that. It’s easy to say I want him, but it would just be chaos. I just want to feel whole again. I guess that’s what I’m missing most.
Just a lil question; are the things twin flames argue about generally ridiculous, minor things such as memes about a dead gorilla, the usage of one’s office stationery, and whether it’s common knowledge that the chrome web store is in fact an application and not a web page?
Just a lil question; are the things twin flames argue about generally ridiculous, minor things such as memes about a dead gorilla, the usage of one’s office stationery, and whether it’s common knowledge that the chrome web store is in fact an application and not a web page?
“Getting the Love You Want” by Harville Hendrix sort of parallels this idea. People in turbulent (or really any) relationship could benefit from reading it and learning more about the mechanisms at work with what you describe as twin flames here. Thank you for letting me know about twin flames, I love your articles!
Wow! Thank you for that post. This is exactly what’s happening to me right now. I’m in a twin flame relationship and just came to the realization that my twin is a gay. He is in denial though and I don’t know how to tell him this. But all the signs are there. It’s a big relief because I’ve known something was not quite right despite the immense connection. In the same time it hurts knowing that we won’t be able to live a romantic life together in that sense. I hurts thinking we won’t be close to eachother always in a physical way. Either way I’m glad I found him. And the turbo speed inner development and spiritual growth that has happend in these past 7 weeks are crazy. And the best gift I could have gotten. <3
you hit the nail right on the head…
I believe i have met mine and it has been the most fickle gut wrenching experience of my life…when we are apart i feel physically ill i cannot manage and when he comes back i feel whole again and he shuts me out often but can’t stay away either he often says he things i put a spell on him but what i believe is that he is my twin flame…i have not mentioned that i believe he is my twin flame because i don’t think eh would believe me. he seems insistent on pushing me away but then always comes back to me and tells me he cannot stay away. we’re not even romantically involved anymore. even trying to manage a friendship seems almost damn near impossible but he has this unconditional love from me that i cannot control so i don’t bother trying though friends and family have told me to just leave it. but how can i i will never stop loving him unconditionally its just impossible i cannot fight or control it. I just wish that it wasn’t so conflicting dealing with him. I wish TF relationships were easier i didn’t ask to meet him wasn’t looking for him at all and he just showed up in my life and then pursued me for an entire year to then make my life hell. The only thing i know is i am magnetically drawn to him since the first day i laid eyes on him and it has not changed since.
Bless you, my dear. You’re so unbelievably strong. I’ll write more later as it’s late. Yet just wish to gently nudge you and say you’re doing amazingly. There is a theory that the female twin does the clearing first, and that the male twin also has his/her own stuff to deals with as well. If you trigger annoyance and anger and resentment that he reflects, he’s still clearing it for himself and ancestry. As are you. Yesterday I had a massive clearing of my mother’s and my father’s energies from my body and cells. I feel cleaner now, liberated. You are doing the same on a level, I feel. You are so loved and irrespective of what’s going on, whatever emotions you are experiencing, they are a result of childhood/past life trauma and deserve more love and respect for now healing and clearing themselves as you experience them. YOU always deserve more love, not less. That’s how we love ourselves. And enjoy the experience of being mushy humans. Lol. So much love to you.
I also had a similar realisation the other day with my maybe-twin (I shifted to a parallel reality where he’s just a nice soul I met because the obsession has been leaking my energy and sanity away). I saw him without clear eyes, because my eyes had dirt in them and my heart had huge chips in it, or walls. By the grace of God, the veils are clearing again and I can see the truth… Once I love myself, do proper self nurture, eat well, drink water, exercise, pray, meditate, do whatever I’m meant to be doing, things will flow as I am meeting my needs with love.
You are your true lover. Let the world abandon you, let your twin leave, but never abandon yourself. That’s what I am learning, for all the men I’ve loved never left themselves for me or for anyone else. They knew they were whole and although they were a tad selfish, they remain whole and in self love.
Hopefully I make sense this late at night!
So much love, you beautiful strong soul! <3