The moment you meet your twin flame is the moment the earth beneath your feet begins to shift.
I like to think of the meeting of two twin flames as an existential earthquake: all of a sudden you can sense that an immensely important person has entered your life. All of a sudden you get the overwhelming feeling that your life is going to change in a way you aren’t even aware of yet – and yet you intuitively know that the changes will be great, greater than what you’ve ever experienced, and breathtaking in their magnitude.
I know all of this because I was fortunate enough to have met my own twin flame a few years ago, so I have already gone through the fiery, intense and transformative process of meeting my soul’s mirror.
Although I feel immense gratitude for the gift of connecting with my twin flame, I am happy to say that this blessing is open to everyone. However, such a gift is not always received openly or even recognized by us on a conscious level. Sometimes we’re at a point in our lives where we are simply not receptive to both ourselves and our twin flame’s presence due to stress, over-work, lifestyle habits and negative thought patterns that lead to low self-esteem.
If you’ve connected with your twin flame, or would like to discover who your twin flame is, you’ll find everything you need to know on this page, including common twin flame signs, twin flame stages, and much more.
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What is a Twin Flame?
A Twin Flame, or Twin Soul, is a person who you feel connected to not just on a physical and emotional level, but also on a soulful or spiritual level.
Our Twin Flames represent our friends, lovers, and teachers in this life. They are the yins to our yangs, the suns to our moons, and the light to our darkness.
Twin Flames are also our mirrors in that they reflect back to us all of our hidden fears and shadows, but also our true inner beauty and strength. In this way, our Twin Flames open the door to tremendous emotional, psychological, and spiritual growth.
11 Signs You’re in a Twin Flame Relationship
Are you already in a twin flame relationship?
Common signs to look out for include:
- The sensation that time doesn’t exist between you
- A strange sense of “recognition” or deja vu between you as though you’re both “destined” to be together
- Intense magnetic attraction to each other
- Your strengths and weaknesses perfectly balance each other
- You share the same values, desires, and dreams
- Your Twin knows you better than anyone else in the world
- No matter how many times you fight, you always forgive each other completely
- You have a multi-faceted connection together, i.e. you are best friends, teachers, and lovers to each other
- Uncanny synchronicities exist between you (for example, both of us got together on 11.11.11)
- You’re both driven towards a higher spiritual/social purpose
- You learn the values of empathy, compassion, forgiveness, and unconditional love together
You can take our twin flame test if you would like to find out if you’ve found your twin flame.
The Origins of Twin Flames
So ancient is the desire of one another which is implanted in us, reuniting our original nature, seeking to make one of two, and to heal the state of man. – Plato, Symposium
The concept of having a “Twin Flame” originated in Plato’s mythic dialogue entitled “The Symposium” which wrote that human beings originally had two faces, four arms, and four legs. Under the threat of being overpowered, the gods split them in half, creating the humans we see today. Hence, it is thought that we all have one “twin” soul out there in the world.
Others hypothesize that twin flames are members of our Soul Group (people with whom we resonate with on the deepest level and were predestined to meet), or that twin flames are the embodiment or other “half” of a singular soul.
However, we define twin flames as those whose souls have agreed to reincarnate together across many lifetimes.
The purpose of the twin flame union is to help each other to spiritually grow, expand, and reach spiritual illumination. Everything in life is composed of energy at its core, and twin flames are people we resonate with on the deepest spiritual level. Like two tuning forks or gravitational fields, twin flames are magnetically attracted to each other.
The Purpose of Twin Flame Relationships
Put simply, the purpose of the twin flame relationship is to help us shed away the snakeskin of the ego, face and heal our wounded hearts, and transform into spiritually awakened beings.
Twin flames are a divine expression of Balance, Harmony, and Unconditional Love. Every twin flame couple will have a higher purpose to achieve together, and this may include anything from raising conscious children and starting an eco-conscious business, to becoming spiritual guides and mentoring the lives of many.
Contrary to popular belief, twin flames do not complete each other– this is because the Soul itself is already complete. Instead, such relationships exist to catalyze spiritual maturing and conscious expansion. In other words, twin flame connections exist to aid the collective growth of our planet towards compassion, tranquility, and love.
On a personal level, twin flame relationships prepare us to acknowledge, experience and eventually embody the Wholeness that has always and forever been inside of us. This state of Wholeness is what enlightened Teachers through the ages have embodied and spoken of. This Wholeness is the Soul, or True Nature, within us.
21 Major Twin Flame Signs
Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along. – Rumi (The Essential Rumi)
We are not always receptive to the appearance of our twin flames in life.
We might be heart-broken, wracked with grief, maritally over-burdened, or just plain tired and disillusioned when they suddenly appear out of the blue.
Feeling unprepared is one of the biggest reasons why twin flame separation and the twin flame runner and chaser complex occurs. In fact, we might have already met our twin flames, but we might have overlooked them or taken them for granted in some way.
Whatever emotional or psychological stage you’re at in life, it is always beneficial to be conscious of the people you live with and meet. These following twin flame signs might help you to open new pathways and opportunities for union:
- You feel a strange, inexplicable sense of “recognition” when you meet the person. This might manifest itself as déjà vu, or an unshakable feeling that you’ve known this person before, or are somehow “meant to be together.”
- You have a feeling that they are going to play a very important role in your own development, without knowing when, why or how.
- You’ve established an immediate, intense connection with them that is invigorating and shocking at the same time.
- You feel as though you’ve finally found a “home” or safe place with the other person.
- You are able to be your authentic self – warts and all – without the fear of rejection, persecution or judgment with them.
- You both embody the yin and yang, in other words, your dark side is balanced by their light side, and their dark side is balanced by your light side.
- You feel a sense of expansion with them, as though you are larger than your limited identity.
- They make you a better person, and you make them a better person.
- When together you are both bonded but free, attached but unattached. In other words, you still maintain your freedom even though you might be in a relationship with them.
- You are finely tuned to their energy, and they are finely tuned to yours. This means that you are both very conscious of the present play of energy (whether happy or sad, angry or forgiving, open or withholding) present in the connection. You’re both therefore highly empathic with each other.
- You feel as though you have been waiting for this person your entire life.
- You both connect deeply and mirror each other’s values and aspirations for life beyond surface similarities.
- Your twin flame is a mirror of what you fear and simultaneously desire the most for your own inner healing. For example, if you are a highly-strung person, your twin flame will most likely be relaxed and messy. If you like to play the victim, your twin flame will be a strong character who refuses to give you pity or sympathy to perpetuate your complex. If you are creatively repressed, your twin flame will be a flourishing artist. In this way, our twin flames challenge and infuriate us but also teach us important lessons about our fears, core wounds, and repressions.
- Your childhoods were polar opposite. You were raised in very different ways, which led to the development of opposite childhood wounds that you now have the opportunity to mend.
- One of you is more soulfully mature than the other and often serves as the teacher, counselor or confidant within the relationship.
- You are taught important life lessons such as forgiveness, gratitude, empathy, and open-mindedness by them and with them.
- The most growth you’ve ever experienced has been with them. No other friendship or relationship has transformed you as deeply as this one has.
- Your connection is multi-faceted. In other words, your twin flame is likely your best friend, lover, teacher, nurturer, and muse all at once.
- Your twin flame doesn’t try to change you. They accept you for who you are and what stage you’re at and encourage you to do the same for yourself (and vice versa).
- You can be truthful with each other about anything.
- Together, you both feel driven towards a higher purpose, whether spiritually, socially or ecologically.
8 Stages of Twin Flame Love
Twin flames aid our souls in finding completion. However, this journey is composed of many different “layers” or stages.
Here are the eight twin flame stages broken summarized (you can read more in our article “8 Twin Flame Stages“):
1. Yearning for “The One”
This stage is spent preparing for your Twin Flame on an emotional and psychological level. Often, a certain level of individuation and healthy self-esteem must be developed before meeting your Flame.
2. Glimpsing “The One”
In this stage, you’ll temporarily glimpse or come in contact with your Twin Flame. This experience might be through a dream, a picture, or through brief real-life contact.
3. Falling in love
After finally meeting your Twin Flame, you will fall rapidly, deeply, and madly in love. You might try to resist the experience at first (perhaps due to an already established relationship), but eventually, you won’t be able to stay away from them.
4. The Fairy-Tale relationship
After deciding to enter a relationship, you’ll enter a dream-like period that feels like paradise. Everything will feel perfect within your relationship.
5. Outer Turmoil and Inner Purging
As the sparkle from your new love wears off, egos begin to rise up. In this stage, any insecurities, fears, traumas, and shadow issues buried within you and your partner will come to the surface. These will need to be resolved for you to mature as a couple.
6. The Runner and Chaser
Like stage five, this stage is a “trial by fire.” As tensions mount, it is common to temporarily (or in some extreme cases, permanently) leave the relationship either emotionally or physically. The less mature and psychospiritually integrated partner will play the role of the Runner, while the more emotionally balanced partner will play the Chaser. This game of cat and mouse can last for days to years. (You can learn more about spiritual psychology here.)
7. Surrender and Dissolution
Eventually, issues are resolved in your relationship, and a space of acceptance and openness is established.
8. Oneness
The more shadows are dealt with through shadow work, the easier Unity or Oneness becomes. In this stage, Twin Flames experience little to no conflict and a return to blissful paradise.
More In-Depth Help
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Common Twin Flame Questions
Are you struggling to find the answer to a twin flame question that’s been on your mind for a while?
I’ll answer some of the most common twin flame questions below. (And let me know in the comments area if there’s an area you think I should cover):
1. Are twin flames meant to be lovers?
No, not necessarily. There is no such thing as a cookie-cutter twin flame relationship. Some twin flames are lovers, while some twin flames are best friends. You don’t have to feel sexually attracted to your twin flame for the connection to be legitimate. It’s perfectly normal to have a platonic relationship.
2. Does everyone have a twin flame?
Yes, it’s quite likely that everyone has a twin flame. But not everyone has the capacity to connect with their twin flame within this lifetime. Twin flames emerge within our lives when our souls are ready to undergo the process of spiritual awakening and transformation. For some people, the twin flame connection is simply too intense and is not welcome, and hence never happens.
3. Can a twin flame be a soul mate?
Yes, it is possible that a soul mate can become a twin flame, and vice versa. But twin flames and soul mates have different functions. Twin flame relationships are intense and challenging: their purpose is to help you spiritually grow. Soul mate relationships, on the other hand, are more mild and peaceful: their purpose is to help support you. It’s like the difference between fire (twin flames) and water (soul mates). Read our article on the difference between soul mates, twin flames, and kindred spirits for more of an in-depth distinction.
4. Why do twin flames run?
Sometimes, our twin flames run away because the connection is too overwhelming and intense for the ego. When the ego is not ready to spiritually evolve, it resists, fights, and tries to escape – this is why twin flames run and try to avoid the relationship.
5. Do you only have one twin flame?
Yes, as the name “twin” implies, there is only one other person on this planet who can be called a twin flame. All types of relationships provide the opportunity for growth, but twin flame relationships are rare in their ability to help us spiritually evolve and awaken.
6. Is there such a thing as a false twin flame?
Yes, there is such a thing as a false twin flame. Whether due to our own false perception (it’s true that love blinds us) or due to the pretense worn by the other person, it’s possible to mistake someone as our twin flame. The best way to know whether someone is a false twin flame is to pay attention to (a) whether they genuinely share the same values as you, (b) if you can be your true self around them, and (c) if there is mutual spiritual transformation.
7. Are twin flames toxic?
Our twin flames can have toxic mindsets and wounds, but they are not toxic to be around. On the contrary, our twin flames are loving, inspiring, and supportive people to be around. They help us to become the best version of ourselves possible. A true twin flame will have some negative traits, but that will be outweighed by their positive qualities. False twin flames, on the other hand, are toxic to be around and make us feel rotten inside.
8. Can twin flames communicate telepathically?
No scientific studies have been conducted, so it’s best to keep an open but balanced perspective. Yes, it might be possible for twin flames to communicate telepathically when in a relationship. But this shouldn’t be used as an excuse to avoid clear communication and assume that the other can ‘read our mind.’ Telepathic communication can also lead a person to believe they are reading another person’s emotions and thoughts accurately, when in reality they are projecting their own beliefs, wishes and desires onto that person. This is a tricky area and should be approached with open-minded caution.
9. Can twin flames fall out of love?
Yes, unfortunately, it is possible for twin flames to fall out of love. However, this is not to say that the deep soul connection will disappear, or the possibility for rekindling love will vanish. It is possible for twin flames to fall in love, fall out of love, and fall in love again. The nature of life is unpredictable, and there is no divine edict saying that twin flames must love each other forever. The purpose of the twin flame relationship is to help us spiritually evolve, and when that goal has been completed, the connection can sometimes disintegrate. However, it is always possible for our twin flames to re-emerge later in life.
How to Find Your Twin Flame
If you haven’t yet found your Twin Flame, just know that the experience is absolutely open to you. However, finding and connecting to your Flame requires inner work.
The best way to connect with your Twin Flame isn’t through a fancy manifestation ritual, but through an authentic development of self-love. You must be willing to deal with the darkest places within you before you can truly open to the Twin Flame connection.
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Twin Flame Resources
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Our twin flames can be our friends or lovers. For some people, they arise at the most opportune times, and for others, they arise at the most complicated times. And still, for some people twin flames are said to not arise in this lifetime but are nevertheless with us in heart.
Whatever the case, remember that it is entirely possible to be whole and complete unto yourself with enough inner work. Remember, twin flames do not “complete” you because you are already innately “complete” at a soulful level; they instead compliment you deeply and help you to grow.
I am pretty sure I have found mine. About 2 years ago, i was talking to two of my friends on the phone while they were at work. I heard a voice in the background. I asked them who’s voice that was. It was their boss’ voice. I said that she sounded really young but I felt a connection to that voice. I ended moving in with them after a very rough relationship. I moved from SD, to AZ right before covid. One of my friends still works there with her.
He has continually talked about quitting, but I have had an uncanny insight into what she was going through. That was more than enough to make him stay.
Anyway, I just started working there too. The second we looked into each others eyes, I knew something was up. I think she knows something is up too. We instantly connected at a level that I have never felt before. When one of us are off, we are both off. In fact…this happened today.
She is set to get married to someone that I feel she is having second thoughts about. I dont like the guy. Hes lazy, doesnt clean the house, doesnt work. He isnt supportive and is extremely controlling. His idea of giving a gift is picking something up off the side of the road like a ring he finds, and gives it to her. What kind of a guy does that?
Anyway she was talking about her wedding with me today, and talking about how expensive it is. I just said that I am glad that I didnt have to worry about that right now and that it was probably going to be a long time, a long long time before I was going to have to worry about that. I ended up going back inside and left because I was feeling a little emotional. Anyway, when I came back inside, we didnt talk to each other. We kinda just stayed to ourselves for most of the day.
I ended up asking her if she was okay a little later. She replied that she hated two of our coworkers. But I could tell that that wasnt the only thing bothering her. I let it go though.
Im not entirely sure how to talk to her about the connection I am feeling but I know that it would help each other out alot. Im thinking I just have to do it.
I believe i met my twinflame when i was about 14 or 15 years old. I knew of him because i listened to his music on soundcloud and his music inspired my soul in a way no other voice could. We had a mutual friend that i didnt know knew him on a personal level. One day im chilling at my friends house listening to his music and he pops up in the backyard and asked me how i knew the song i was playing and i told him i listen to him all the time. He then says its him . hes the one ive been playing on repeat ever since i got out of rehab lol. We exchanged social media and a few days go by and that mutual friend of ours tells me lets go to this kickback which happened to be at his house. The way we stared at eachother from a distance sent electricfying waves through my heart,soul,and body. I knew in that moment i wanted him. I knew the moment i listened to his music he was the one who would change me. So we started hanging out all the time i was hooked like a fish on a line while he was still in the sea full of fishes. All i knew was that i wanted him. Its crazy cause he sees 444 and i see 742 and it was a big deal for me because i started seeing his numbers the moment my heart missed his. We both got in a car accident with one of the greatest people weve ever met and that man died and the last song that played when the car crashed was 4am by travis scott and the news video was 4:44am. i remember waking up in the hospital and the first person i asked about was him. Fast foward a few months i became addicted to drugs badly and so did he. We never judged eachother, we survived together, got well together, fought eachother over petty conversations even robbed eachother. We spent nights homeless. Hes the type to stop drugs cold turkey and not go back but i needed actual rehab i need professional help because i wanted to kill myself. I would hurt him in moments where i just wanted to love him but i didnt know how. I kept thinking he deserved better and that i was dragging him down. Everytime i would go to rehab and ive gone multiple times he would stop answering and i would sit in rehab missing him and im not talking about ” i just miss him” im talking about i felt as if a part of me was gone and not hearing the sound of his voice would make me assume the worst. His artist background sparked something in me. i used to draw in elementary school and i stopped after something traumatic happened to me and after i met him i would start painting on canvases. Drugs blocked my mind for 5 years after. and i recently started teaching myself how to draw again. I was the girl who could only pick up 30-60days sober and on 4/20 i finally got my year. Its crazy to think about lifes wierd ways because on 4/20 he dropped a album called never left. We havent talked in about 6 months because we both assumed things that werent true. and i was a relapsing junkie and he didnt want to see me die he has no idea i finally reached my year. I believe hes my twin flame. I can feel his energy and emotions anywhere i go. Love never dies and atleast my love for him will never die but i think he gave up on me. Anyway thats my take on a twin flame.
I have most definitely met my twin flame and I feel as though we are close to union. She makes me feel so safe and free, like I can do anything when she’s by my side. As the runner, I feel as though I’ve gone through hell and back. The funny thing is, when we first met online, we decided to just be friends. That online date was a very interesting experience. I almost gasped aloud upon seeing her face. The most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen. And then when she talks, I can’t help but hang on every word. I thought that I was being super awkward or whatever but I was just nervous and self-conscious. Anyways, we decided to just be friends but later she asked if I could start teaching her guitar. We talked for hours after the second lesson. I’d never connected with someone so deeply so quickly. One thing led to the next and after an evening of watching The Office over video chat I told her that I had a crush on her. She enthusiastically said that she felt the same, but she thought she would be the one to bring it up first. She said she would’ve waited longer to tell me because she enjoys “the chase”. Well, damn, did she get what she asked for. We had two weeks of absolute bliss and love-sickness. After an in-person, socially-distanced walk where we struggled not to kiss each other, she asked me to be her girlfriend and I said yes! But I felt as if something in me changed. I felt so afraid of being in a relationship with her. I’d never had someone I liked so much like me back. I became terrified. To the point where I became sick and would shake and have aches and pains all over. I couldn’t accept that someone as beautiful as her could love me. I felt unworthy and like I would not get any relief until I left her. I ended up breaking up with her over text but came back to her a few days later with a song I had written and told her I wanted to be with her. A week later, I still couldn’t handle it and broke up with her “for good”. I told her I wasn’t ready for a relationship and that I had a lot of things I needed to heal. She was hurt but said that she understood. She asked me to hold her for a few moments before she left and I still felt the peace that she emanates. She told me that she was in love with me. All I could say was, “I know”. I felt horrible but I knew I needed to take care of myself. So she left and I tried to forget about her. The first couple of days were alright, but the next couple weeks I could not stop crying. She wouldn’t leave my mind. I needed to meditate, smoke weed, exercise, do anything to stop me from thinking about her. But she was always there. My family tried to help me move on, but how do you move on from someone who makes you feel like that??
I began soul searching more than I ever had before. It’s been so painful but so worth it. Internalised homophobia, unresolved childhood trauma, trust issues, self-hate, etc. I’m finally moving through it. I see myself as a person again. I am not unworthy of love. Fear is the opposite of love. I am choosing to trust those who love me. I have been hurt before, but that does not define me or my loved ones. My twin and I have been in contact again and she’s moving to an apartment that’s 10 minutes away from me. I pray that this summer will be one full of love, fun and growth. Thanks for allowing me to share. <3
I believe I have met my TF when we first met I was like hi whatever. But he somehow arranged a group get together to go out to eat. I went and he paid for my meal we talked I felt no pressure to try to impress him. We all decided to make a whole day of it. We went to the mall he & I talked & talked. He ask my opinion on something he wanted to buy. We decided that the 5 of us go see a movie. So we go & all day I am like enjoying our conversation but I like wildly attracted to him. During the movie he leans over & ask me if he could kiss me. So I was shocked but agreed. When he kissed me it was like something I have NEVER felt. It scared the crap out of me. After this day he kept asking me out I went out to lunch with him taking my best friend with me. He ask if he could take me out sometime alone. I abruptly moved 2 hours away from him. Idk why I ran. Then aprox. 6 weeks later I moved nack to where he lived. I was praying he was still single he was but when I contacted him he was on a date. Ugh So anyway we Finally start a relationship. For almost 2 years. It was crazy we connected on a level that was unbelievable. When we would argue it was loud & I almost always ended up crying. Because he could just look at me wrong & it would hurt my feelings. Lol anyway I broke up with him because I wanted to move back to my hometown. Where I could be around my (grown) children. We met once so I could get some of my things. When we met at the storage unit just so happened we were wearing the exact same tee shirt holding the same kind of drink. I had never drank this drink b4. And had just bought the tee shirt. When he put his arms around me for a hug it felt like home. We went our separate ways. I have felt a strong sense of sadness & like something is wrong a few times. To find out that he was experiencing some sadness & going through something. I am now in a relationship with someone else but all I do is think about him. A song plays he is on my mind. Everything around me reminds me of him. Idk if he is my TF but I do know that through that relationship I healed alot he taught me so much. And today I love myself & know my worth. Wish I knew what the future holds. Thank you for letting me share.
Whew! I believe I’ve met and married mine. We’re re currently separated after an intense year last year, but we are now seeking to understand each other on a different level than ever before.
We fell hard and fast for each other. I knew instantly something was different about my husband when I met him. I was kind of ashamed and embarrassed to fall literally instantly in love, but I was scared of guys then… took him working hard to earn my trust to get me to even remotely consider the fact that maybe the other shoe wouldn’t drop on me.
Like… I’m just now realizing this after 10 years of knowing him, 9 years of a tumultuous marriage. We have 2 kids, and my ego and his have played cat and mouse (a.k.a withdraw and pursue)… I have never grown so self-aware and so aware of others around me than I have in this relationship.
It has been excruciatingly painful at times, for both of us. I’m astounded that we’re even able to talk, and laugh, at this point after all we’ve been through, and all my ego defenses…
Thank you for your spiritual insights and words to the journey I’ve been on with my husband. I also appreciate that you often reference the Bible, as my husband and I are Christians. But your insights appear to be universal and grounded in Biblical truths from what I’ve seen and experienced personally.
I truly believe that I have met my twin flame!! Kind of silly but he was a friend suggestion on fb and I was immediately drawn to him for some reason. So, I messaged him thanking him for accepting my friend request and we messaged back and forth for a couple of weeks discovering so many similarities and synchronicities between us…it was blowing both of our minds (both our favorite number is 21)! I didn’t think anything would come of it because his profile said he lived in a state pretty far away! But one day he was doing a live from the airport speaking about coming back to his home state which happened to be mine, as well! Once he got back into town, we messaged and talked on the phone for HOURS and decided it was time for us to meet. He put my address in the GPS and he lives exactly 222 miles from me. He didn’t bring a change of clothes or anything because he was only supposed to be driving up to spend the day with me, BUT he ended up staying for SIX days before returning back home. Prior to us meeting we called each other to tell one another we were nervous, but once he got there and we laid eyes on one another, it was an instant connection unlike anything I’ve ever experienced in my life!! He was even looking for jobs in my hometown to not have to leave…and I was surprisingly great with that! He told me he was falling in love with me and came back to visit a few more days the following week, but once he got back home and was about to start a new job, he told me he doesn’t like labels because things always change when you label a relationship. I’m just wondering is he’s a twin-runner?!? Anyway, I gave him some space and he called today and asked he could come visit me again, so we shall see how this goes!! He IS my twin-flame…I feel with every fiber of my being! Thx for listening! ❤️
I’m so happy for you!! It feels so good to “talk” about it, doesn’t it? Like if you were to tell someone you know IRL they would think you were insane. My own journey has been longer and made more difficult due to me being in a relationship when I met my tf. I’ve been overwhelmed with signs lately keeping my tf on my mind…my god, today I randomly heard a very specific phrase we used to say to each other on TV. In the two years since we started saying it (haven’t said it in about a year) I’ve never heard it, it would have stood out to me even before learning about twin flames and strongly considering he was mine. I’ve had feelings of him being somewhere, kissing my neck…an intense non sexual dream about him…signs when I asked for them (a specific number and symbol, and his actual name). But IRL were friends only, never discussed anything beyond friendship. All I can hope is if we’re meant to be together as more than friends, is that it’s like I felt in that vision and that the love I saw in his eyes in that dream is real. Because then heaven will be a place on earth, at least for me and if at all within my power, him. But no matter what, I’ve never grown spiritually like I have since meeting him. He reminded me who I am at heart. He gave me faith again. And I’ll love him til the end of time for that. I sincerely hope your journey is quicker and brings you great happiness and joy…and a love like you never thought possible. ❤
And I wish the same for you!! ❤️
I have met my twin flame! And we married not even a year in a relationship, we have 3 kids now. He’s the best that ever happened to me. Everything said above is true and I relate! It’s the best connection ever and we been through a lot of fights almost gave up on each other.. but our relationship is stronger now and still learning more from each other
What if your twin flame lives on another continent? But all the traits match and you had a dream about them a few weeks before you happened to meet through a mutual hobby online?
I met my twin flame 4 months ago about the time i met my soul mate and was getting commited to him.He wasn’t my type but yet I could not stop myself and we fell in love within a month.No matter how sad,ugly and in rage I am once I see him every feeling dissipates,I was frigid for years but the sex with him was on a whole other level and I enjoy every move and every touch.We cannot part ways with each other and even though we had son many troubles,frustrations and religious differences we always fall back into each other’s inescapable embrace.Somehow I knew from the start because I Already moved into a higher consciousness after several relationship with narcicists before meeting him but knowing the perfect word for it is mind opening.The most amazing thing is how we control each other through our thoughts and it can be funny and as well frustrating at times!I have healed over 50% of my wounds with him and I’m still in progress.
I was fortunate enough to meet my twin flame 4 and a half year ago. He passed away a week ago and I have no idea how I am going to keep living without him. I am so lost.
You poor thing prayers up for you to find some comfort.
Mine is more a question than a comment. Is it possible for two people who have NEVER met in person to be twin flames? I’m curious because a friend of mine says she has met her twin flame but he is already married to another and they have never physically met it’s all been online or over phone and i believe a few face to face on Skype.
I’m so curious about this too!!
I believe I met my soul mate, twin flame 36 years ago when I was 14. I didn’t know it then but we had a connection that was different from even my best friend at the time. Myself and my guy friend were from troubled families, were reckless and had no guidance. He was loyal and attentive and adored me. We lost connection and 10 years later I saw him briefly but I was so self absorbed and trying so hard to be the perfect girlfriend to an abusive boyfriend I didn’t even say hi. He just watched me from afar for quite a while. 10 years later I learned he passed at 27. Two weeks ago out of the blue he came to me in my thoughts and I could feel his presence so intensely it has effected me everyday since. I break down crying, sobbing everyday randomly, missing him more than anything. As well, without fail, I get at least one or up to 5 signs or coincidences. A friend scribed for me, he said he loved me and unbeknownst to my friend, he even spelled my name right. Is it possible my energy when I die will unit with his energy? I’m trying to make sense of everything. I love him so much I feel that I’ve lost my one chance with my soul mate, or twin flame. I’m happy, sad and confused.
i was wondering if my twin flame can be someone that i saw on social media but they don’t know me yet but i know them. can that happen ou it is not possible for 1/2 meet the other one before or it only happens when the two meet each other at the same time ?!
I am calling out Luna and Sol. I have been and felt so alone and isolated in this experience. If a soulmate is rare, than a twin flame has to be rarer than rare. And I know there are a lot of false twin flames out there, or people not in the lifetime of Ascension. If what I believe is true, then I am a twin flame meant to ascend after I die, and I am calling you out. Will the real twin flames please stand up? If you are really Flames that have been United, and you are going to ascend after you die, then prove it to me by contacting me and sharing your story.
I was at a low part in my life when I had a psychic awakening and preminition. I saw and heard a woman and a house. Followed by a feeling of security and trust. All I had to do was follow the path the universe set forth for me. It was 3 years until the first sign happen. I follow the dimes ($1.50) worth, over roughly 4miles over to an ally where I met her. She was out side with her dog. I stopped and stared for what seemed like eternity. But it was only a second, enough time for her to notice me looking at her. She puts her dog inside and comes back out walks over to me and asks my name I tell her and then she says I don’t know why but I feel like I know you…we were friends for 2 years then we moved into a physical relationship. It lasted 4 months before the first split. Went on and off for 3 years after. Even though we were not together during the split she never left my side. We finally came back together and we have been so happy together. This is the easiest relationship I have ever been in. First it was rocky and confusing but after we both were ready to except and embrace our destiny. It’s been so comforting to have my best friend, soulmate, cheerleader. This love is why the songs and poems are written. Side note I told her when I first met her that I was going to retire at 40yo and own a house with the bills paid and I don’t need to work. Well, when we became a permanent couple with in a year the preminition I had, about 10years before, came true! I love life and being open for the universes surprises. Thank you good will to all
Oh where to start. Such a weird situation for me. I’ve never met someone like a person that entered my life as a friend a couple years ago. He is the most frustrating person…yet I cant stay mad at him. Even my SO (Im in a long term relationship) noticed I was uncharacteristicly forgiving of my friend. And protective, which is also rather unlike me. I cherish him and care deeply for him. But I also care about and love my SO, in a different way. My potential TF though, it’s a level I’ve never experienced. I can literally feel his emotions, I’ve never met someone so intense on all levels. My TF (?) is like a human yin and yang of intense emotions-as intensely as he can hate he can love. I am similar, but I bottle mine up, whereas he lets his out-sometimes explosively with the hate part. We’re alike but different, anyone that didn’t know either of us VERY well would think we were polar opposites but we’re really not. We have a way of thinking the same thing at the same time, or embellishing each others crazy schemes-and I can usually tell if he’s thinking some sort of mischief just by a look. I’ve also sensed his presence before seeing him in places I didn’t even know he would be at. I went through a time a while ago when even if we were apart I could sense him and even smell his cologne. There was also a few times where it was beyond sensing emotions. One involved an intense visual and physical feeling of being in a specific place being touched and kissed on my neck by him. It happened out of no where, I was working at the time and not thinking about him at all. I couldn’t ask about it (we’re just friends and I have an SO, that’s not appropriate conversation material in my mind) so I can’t say for sure where it came from, however it involved specific touching that I’ve never experienced or thought of. It was really strange for me. I hadn’t heard of a TF at that point. Currently we only speak occasionally, we were closer a while back but drifted apart for now due to distance and my SO. It’s painful in a way, yet I keep experiencing this odd sensation of peace and knowing it will be ok and work out. I’m currently experiencing a lot of termoil in my life including issues with my SO and family. In fact I know he’s going through a difficult time and I told him the same thing-somehow I know, we’re both going to be ok. We’ve never discussed ANY of this, neither of us come from backgrounds where such types of discussion are acceptible between friends, especially if one if in a relationship. So I have no way to know for certain how he feels about me aside from friendship, unless I try to look at things he’s said or done (many point to him feeling someting more than friendship, although whether it was a deep level or just a hey she’s attractive level I can’t say for certain). I don’t know if we’re meant to be anything beyond friends in this lifetime and I can accept that (granted if I’m completely honest, I think if for some reason we progressed beyond into a physical relationship it would be burn the place down type intense passion and I’ll always hold a little regret for not experiencing it). I know I dearly hope he will be a part of my life throughout the rest of it though. I’ve never met anyone that made me feel more comfortable being my true self around, being ok with being awkward and intense and silly. I hope if we are meant to be just friends he sticks around because I’d miss that more that anything. That and his sudden whirlwinds of craziness and creativity, he makes me laugh from my soul sometimes (then other times I want to punch him lol). Just feels good to “say” that I guess.
Same thing happened to me, lol xd xp
Wow. I experienced almost the same story. After 4 years of feeling this way, i finally broke up with my boyfriend and told my friend what i feel about him, and he feels the same!!! I’ve never been so happy and free that i finally was honest with my soul and feelings
OMG that’s awesome for you. I hope it works out.
I still can’t shake the feeling that he’s more than a random person in my life. A few weeks ago I had a very intense dream about him. Not sexual at all. Someone threw out something important from his past, and I took it and kept it safe, and hid it. He was in tears about it but asked me to laugh with him so no one knew he was upset. I did. He looked at me without pure love in his eyes. Now the weird part. I knew it was him by his eyes but he looked different. A little while after I saw a photo of him when he was younger. Holy hell. That’s who I saw in my dream. But I’ve never seen a younger pic of him. I’m still like wow about that…
How can I tell if my boyfriend is my Twin Flame or a false twin flame. I’ve known him for 15 years Always admired him even though he’s a functional drug addict he also doesn’t believe that he’s a drug addict just someone that uses drugs. Last year when we had sex for the first time with no expectations I literally thought I’d been struck by lightning and like I was home. I had no knowledge of anything to do with twin flames or soul mates.He’s the one who introduced me to the Carl Jung theory and I’ve grown more in this last year than in the last 20. in the beginning we were absolutely honest. I’m a Claircognizant empath so I have a built-in lie detector. About 4 months ago he became less reliable and attentive and lying about using money for drugs. I started pointing out things he did that made me feel bad. He would apologize but the behaviour continued. He also went through periods where he would emotionally shutdown completely. About a month ago we fought and he called me out saying that I was projecting. It hit home. I did some introspection and he was right. We both were. I wrote down a list and told him about everything I’d discovered about myself and apologized. I then told him that I believed that he was a drug addict and lied too much. I did this with the intent to help him grow. At this point he shut me out and wouldn’t speak about anything of substance and refused to explain anything. It was torture and he knew it. I finally realised and received confirmation that he thought I was deliberately trying to hurt him by calling him a drug addict. And by calling him out on his faults. We’ve decided to seperate for the moment to work on ourselves and he’s trying to quit drugs.I’m willing to assist him through the process either way but how do I know if he’s my True flame with a drug addiction or if he’s simply just a false true flame
He sounds like a soulmate. Look into the soulmate vs twin flame article and it’ll explain more but I had the same situation happen and in my case, I was being called the druggy basically. I realized she was a false and I ended up meeting my twin flame when I was at the lowest point of my life I ever been in. She seen everything I did and told me how she felt and is helping completely different then the other one did. When you meet your twin flame, its like they know how to talk to you with out rattling you or making it worst. Twin Flames definitely challenge you to leave your bad habits behind and become better for yourself. There are countless soulmates that will make you feel like you found the one but you wont know until you hit your ultimate low in my opinion.. Don’t drive your self crazy and remember if you have to change yourself for your partner, they are most likely not your TF.
I found mine unexpectedly. It is intense and you feel like you’re losing your mind. I can connect to mine and hear his souls voice. It’s hard to deal with the intense emotions you feel like you’re out of control. The love is so strong that you can’t even be mad at them for long. You know them better than others in your life. It feels right with him and wrong with others. I hadn’t been with anyone else for 4 years now because I can’t get him out of my head. I get turned off by other guys who show interest. I can feel him in my dreams and talk to him. I see him in my head in the room I’m in. Sometimes he comes in spirit form. I also get a negative spirit who tries to break us apart and make me think he doesn’t care about me. I can tell the difference because it doesn’t act like him but more petty and angry. It cares too much of what I think. He’s always been encouraging and there for me. He’s calm and laid back. He tries to make me feel better than worse. My connection with him has faded and I get him less. The start of it it was strong. It’s depressing us both that it’s harder to communicate with each other because he still tries.
Im actually with mine right now and its truly a blessing to have because he knows me inside and out. I have never experienced what i have with him with anyone else. I truly do believe he was meant to be mine and I was suppost to be his.
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The night we met will be engraved in my soul forever. We met at a bar I remember I kept looking at the entrance like I knew she was going to show up. The second she walked in I was completely drawn into her. I remember being upset because I thought for sure she was straight. Her friend asked if I wanted to dance with them I immediately agreed and joined them on the dance floor. I remember feeling so alive. We danced together and it felt effortless, we flowed. I didn’t leave her side the rest of the night. She threw me against the wall on the dancefloor and kissed me so passionately after that all we did was make out. We both were getting out of longterm relationships that were extremely toxic. We were both heartbroken. She invited me to her hotel room she and her friend had for the night but I declined. The next day she asked me out again I agreed. Once again we danced all night and had an amazing time. She asked me to come to her hotel again this time I accepted. I dropped my friend off at home and headed to meet her we stayed on the phone while I made my way over to meet her we were so lost in conversation of course my phone died she never told me the name of the the hotel or room # I drove around trying to find the hotel but got tailed by a cop and freaked out so went home. Later she said she stood in the street and hoped I’d drive by and see her cause she realized I didn’thave the name of the hotel. She eventually went back to the room and cried herself to sleep. She was hurt and blew me off for days I finally got her to meet me again she showed up to my place with her car packed up with all of her things. That night she moved out of her apartment she shared with her ex moved in with a friend and never looked back. Our next encounter I agreed to come to her new place after work and all we did was talk and cuddle I remember I laid on her with my head on her chest I couldn’t get over how natural it felt …I remember telling her I can’t believe how comfortable you feel to me. I’ve never felt this before, I feel like I’ve known you forever. She felt like home. I felt safe. I’ll never forget the feeling. I kept saying “this is so crazy ” there was no awkward faze, no games, no fear, we didn’t leave each other’s side. I know what we have is not just a typical experience, it was ordained, it was fate. She changed my life. We broke up after 5.5 years but we are still friends we stopped talking for 3 years after too much unhealthy energy but we recently made up. I can’t imagine my life without her. I’d never know love had she never shown up. I don’t regret any of it. Even our break up. We have this love that has gone through it all. We fight but we always find our way back to each other. We go deep into each other no bullshit. We relive our old memories all of the time. We were best friends, still are. I don’t believe that the love we share happens all the time. I don’t believe that everyone gets to experience a love so deep. That’s how I know we chose each other. She’s my twin flame. I dreamt her before we met. I remember we were in the car and I made her laugh it was like time stopped it was unreal. I immediately pictured my dream it was so vivid it was the same moment. I was so overwhelmed I had to pull over. I literally got to love the woman of my dreams. Few loves hold a special place in our hearts. She always told me “tell me the story of how we met” we would go to the place we met every anniversary and relive our first night together. I don’t think we’ll get back together I’m ok with that she’s married now. True love cannot be tamed and you don’t get to decide the experience. Love is a blessing. To be vulnerable in love takes courage. You don’t know love until you can set it free. Until you have to walk away. I had made peace with the fact that we might not ever speak again. I said a prayer and let her go. 3 days later she contacted me after not speaking for 3 years. That’s how I know she’s my flame. I always contacted her and we had never gone this long without talking but I was done chasing. I never thought she’d come back. All I can say is I waited 30 years to love her and I will love her the rest of my life. From lovers to friends but we’re doing life together.
«both of us got together on 11.11.11»
How to calculate that?
This year I see this number all the time. Does it indicates the person whom I’m dating as a twin flame ?
Among all the possible comments on the wide internet, i found your comment on 11.11 and wanted to leave a comment. I don’t think it’s much about calculation, to reach some kind of a date, but simply being aware of certain synchronicities. More importantly aligning your own empiricism to the real world in the now.