The moment you meet your twin flame is the moment the earth beneath your feet begins to shift.
I like to think of the meeting of two twin flames as an existential earthquake: all of a sudden you can sense that an immensely important person has entered your life. All of a sudden you get the overwhelming feeling that your life is going to change in a way you aren’t even aware of yet – and yet you intuitively know that the changes will be great, greater than what you’ve ever experienced, and breathtaking in their magnitude.
I know all of this because I was fortunate enough to have met my own twin flame a few years ago, so I have already gone through the fiery, intense and transformative process of meeting my soul’s mirror.
Although I feel immense gratitude for the gift of connecting with my twin flame, I am happy to say that this blessing is open to everyone. However, such a gift is not always received openly or even recognized by us on a conscious level. Sometimes we’re at a point in our lives where we are simply not receptive to both ourselves and our twin flame’s presence due to stress, over-work, lifestyle habits and negative thought patterns that lead to low self-esteem.
If you’ve connected with your twin flame, or would like to discover who your twin flame is, you’ll find everything you need to know on this page, including common twin flame signs, twin flame stages, and much more.
What is a Twin Flame?
A Twin Flame, or Twin Soul, is a person who you feel connected to not just on a physical and emotional level, but also on a soulful or spiritual level.
Our Twin Flames represent our friends, lovers, and teachers in this life. They are the yins to our yangs, the suns to our moons, and the light to our darkness.
Twin Flames are also our mirrors in that they reflect back to us all of our hidden fears and shadows, but also our true inner beauty and strength. In this way, our Twin Flames open the door to tremendous emotional, psychological, and spiritual growth.
11 Signs You’re in a Twin Flame Relationship
Are you already in a twin flame relationship?
Common signs to look out for include:
- The sensation that time doesn’t exist between you
- A strange sense of “recognition” or deja vu between you as though you’re both “destined” to be together
- Intense magnetic attraction to each other
- Your strengths and weaknesses perfectly balance each other
- You share the same values, desires, and dreams
- Your Twin knows you better than anyone else in the world
- No matter how many times you fight, you always forgive each other completely
- You have a multi-faceted connection together, i.e. you are best friends, teachers, and lovers to each other
- Uncanny synchronicities exist between you (for example, both of us got together on 11.11.11)
- You’re both driven towards a higher spiritual/social purpose
- You learn the values of empathy, compassion, forgiveness, and unconditional love together
You can take our twin flame test if you would like to find out if you’ve found your twin flame.
The Origins of Twin Flames
So ancient is the desire of one another which is implanted in us, reuniting our original nature, seeking to make one of two, and to heal the state of man. – Plato, Symposium
The concept of having a “Twin Flame” originated in Plato’s mythic dialogue entitled “The Symposium” which wrote that human beings originally had two faces, four arms, and four legs. Under the threat of being overpowered, the gods split them in half, creating the humans we see today. Hence, it is thought that we all have one “twin” soul out there in the world.
Others hypothesize that twin flames are members of our Soul Group (people with whom we resonate with on the deepest level and were predestined to meet), or that twin flames are the embodiment or other “half” of a singular soul.
However, we define twin flames as those whose souls have agreed to reincarnate together across many lifetimes.
The purpose of the twin flame union is to help each other to spiritually grow, expand, and reach spiritual illumination. Everything in life is composed of energy at its core, and twin flames are people we resonate with on the deepest spiritual level. Like two tuning forks or gravitational fields, twin flames are magnetically attracted to each other.
The Purpose of Twin Flame Relationships
Put simply, the purpose of the twin flame relationship is to help us shed away the snakeskin of the ego, face and heal our wounded hearts, and transform into awakened beings.
Twin flames are a divine expression of Balance, Harmony, and Unconditional Love. Every twin flame couple will have a higher purpose to achieve together, and this may include anything from raising conscious children and starting an eco-conscious business, to becoming spiritual guides and mentoring the lives of many.
Contrary to popular belief, twin flames do not complete each other– this is because the Soul itself is already complete. Instead, such relationships exist to catalyze spiritual maturing and conscious expansion. In other words, twin flame connections exist to aid the collective growth of our planet towards compassion, tranquility, and love.
On a personal level, twin flame relationships prepare us to acknowledge, experience and eventually embody the Wholeness that has always and forever been inside of us. This state of Wholeness is what enlightened Teachers through the ages have embodied and spoken of. This Wholeness is the Soul, or True Nature, within us.
21 Major Twin Flame Signs
Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along. – Rumi (The Essential Rumi)
We are not always receptive to the appearance of our twin flames in life.
We might be heart-broken, wracked with grief, maritally over-burdened, or just plain tired and disillusioned when they suddenly appear out of the blue.
Feeling unprepared is one of the biggest reasons why twin flame separation and the twin flame runner and chaser complex occurs. In fact, we might have already met our twin flames, but we might have overlooked them or taken them for granted in some way.
Whatever emotional or psychological stage you’re at in life, it is always beneficial to be conscious of the people you live with and meet. These following twin flame signs might help you to open new pathways and opportunities for union:
- You feel a strange, inexplicable sense of “recognition” when you meet the person. This might manifest itself as déjà vu, or an unshakable feeling that you’ve known this person before, or are somehow “meant to be together.”
- You have a feeling that they are going to play a very important role in your own development, without knowing when, why or how.
- You’ve established an immediate, intense connection with them that is invigorating and shocking at the same time.
- You feel as though you’ve finally found a “home” or safe place with the other person.
- You are able to be your authentic self – warts and all – without the fear of rejection, persecution or judgment with them.
- You both embody the yin and yang, in other words, your dark side is balanced by their light side, and their dark side is balanced by your light side.
- You feel a sense of expansion with them, as though you are larger than your limited identity.
- They make you a better person, and you make them a better person.
- When together you are both bonded but free, attached but unattached. In other words, you still maintain your freedom even though you might be in a relationship with them.
- You are finely tuned to their energy, and they are finely tuned to yours. This means that you are both very conscious of the present play of energy (whether happy or sad, angry or forgiving, open or withholding) present in the connection. You’re both therefore highly empathic with each other.
- You feel as though you have been waiting for this person your entire life.
- You both connect deeply and mirror each other’s values and aspirations for life beyond surface similarities.
- Your twin flame is a mirror of what you fear and simultaneously desire the most for your own inner healing. For example, if you are a highly-strung person, your twin flame will most likely be relaxed and messy. If you like to play the victim, your twin flame will be a strong character who refuses to give you pity or sympathy to perpetuate your complex. If you are creatively repressed, your twin flame will be a flourishing artist. In this way, our twin flames challenge and infuriate us but also teach us important lessons about our fears, core wounds, and repressions.
- Your childhoods were polar opposite. You were raised in very different ways, which led to the development of opposite childhood wounds that you now have the opportunity to mend.
- One of you is more soulfully mature than the other and often serves as the teacher, counselor or confidant within the relationship.
- You are taught important life lessons such as forgiveness, gratitude, empathy, and open-mindedness by them and with them.
- The most growth you’ve ever experienced has been with them. No other friendship or relationship has transformed you as deeply as this one has.
- Your connection is multi-faceted. In other words, your twin flame is likely your best friend, lover, teacher, nurturer, and muse all at once.
- Your twin flame doesn’t try to change you. They accept you for who you are and what stage you’re at and encourage you to do the same for yourself (and vice versa).
- You can be truthful with each other about anything.
- Together, you both feel driven towards a higher purpose, whether spiritually, socially or ecologically.
8 Stages of Twin Flame Love
Twin flames aid our souls in finding completion. However, this journey is composed of many different “layers” or stages.
Here are the eight twin flame stages broken summarized (you can read more in our article “8 Twin Flame Stages“):
1. Yearning for “The One”
This stage is spent preparing for your Twin Flame on an emotional and psychological level. Often, a certain level of individuation and healthy self-esteem must be developed before meeting your Flame.
2. Glimpsing “The One”
In this stage, you’ll temporarily glimpse or come in contact with your Twin Flame. This experience might be through a dream, a picture, or through brief real-life contact.
3. Falling in love
After finally meeting your Twin Flame, you will fall rapidly, deeply, and madly in love. You might try to resist the experience at first (perhaps due to an already established relationship), but eventually, you won’t be able to stay away from them.
4. The Fairy-Tale relationship
After deciding to enter a relationship, you’ll enter a dream-like period that feels like paradise. Everything will feel perfect within your relationship.
5. Outer Turmoil and Inner Purging
As the sparkle from your new love wears off, egos begin to rise up. In this stage, any insecurities, fears, traumas, and shadow issues buried within you and your partner will come to the surface. These will need to be resolved for you to mature as a couple.
6. The Runner and Chaser
Like stage five, this stage is a “trial by fire.” As tensions mount, it is common to temporarily (or in some extreme cases, permanently) leave the relationship either emotionally or physically. The less mature and psychospiritually integrated partner will play the role of the Runner, while the more emotionally balanced partner will play the Chaser. This game of cat and mouse can last for days to years.
7. Surrender and Dissolution
Eventually, issues are resolved in your relationship, and a space of acceptance and openness is established.
8. Oneness
The more shadows are dealt with, the easier Unity becomes. In this stage, Twin Flames experience little to no conflict and a return to blissful paradise.
Common Twin Flame Questions
Are you struggling to find the answer to a twin flame question that’s been on your mind for a while?
I’ll answer some of the most common twin flame questions below. (And let me know in the comments area if there’s an area you think I should cover):
1. Are twin flames meant to be lovers?
No, not necessarily. There is no such thing as a cookie-cutter twin flame relationship. Some twin flames are lovers, while some twin flames are best friends. You don’t have to feel sexually attracted to your twin flame for the connection to be legitimate. It’s perfectly normal to have a platonic relationship.
2. Does everyone have a twin flame?
Yes, it’s quite likely that everyone has a twin flame. But not everyone has the capacity to connect with their twin flame within this lifetime. Twin flames emerge within our lives when our souls are ready to undergo the process of spiritual awakening and transformation. For some people, the twin flame connection is simply too intense and is not welcome, and hence never happens.
3. Can a twin flame be a soul mate?
Yes, it is possible that a soul mate can become a twin flame, and vice versa. But twin flames and soul mates have different functions. Twin flame relationships are intense and challenging: their purpose is to help you spiritually grow. Soul mate relationships, on the other hand, are more mild and peaceful: their purpose is to help support you. It’s like the difference between fire (twin flames) and water (soul mates). Read our article on the difference between soul mates, twin flames, and kindred spirits for more of an in-depth distinction.
4. Why do twin flames run?
Sometimes, our twin flames run away because the connection is too overwhelming and intense for the ego. When the ego is not ready to spiritually evolve, it resists, fights, and tries to escape – this is why twin flames run and try to avoid the relationship.
5. Do you only have one twin flame?
Yes, as the name “twin” implies, there is only one other person on this planet who can be called a twin flame. All types of relationships provide the opportunity for growth, but twin flame relationships are rare in their ability to help us spiritually evolve and awaken.
6. Is there such a thing as a false twin flame?
Yes, there is such a thing as a false twin flame. Whether due to our own false perception (it’s true that love blinds us) or due to the pretense worn by the other person, it’s possible to mistake someone as our twin flame. The best way to know whether someone is a false twin flame is to pay attention to (a) whether they genuinely share the same values as you, (b) if you can be your true self around them, and (c) if there is mutual spiritual transformation.
7. Are twin flames toxic?
Our twin flames can have toxic mindsets and wounds, but they are not toxic to be around. On the contrary, our twin flames are loving, inspiring, and supportive people to be around. They help us to become the best version of ourselves possible. A true twin flame will have some negative traits, but that will be outweighed by their positive qualities. False twin flames, on the other hand, are toxic to be around and make us feel rotten inside.
8. Can twin flames communicate telepathically?
No scientific studies have been conducted, so it’s best to keep an open but balanced perspective. Yes, it might be possible for twin flames to communicate telepathically when in a relationship. But this shouldn’t be used as an excuse to avoid clear communication and assume that the other can ‘read our mind.’ Telepathic communication can also lead a person to believe they are reading another person’s emotions and thoughts accurately, when in reality they are projecting their own beliefs, wishes and desires onto that person. This is a tricky area and should be approached with open-minded caution.
9. Can twin flames fall out of love?
Yes, unfortunately, it is possible for twin flames to fall out of love. However, this is not to say that the deep soul connection will disappear, or the possibility for rekindling love will vanish. It is possible for twin flames to fall in love, fall out of love, and fall in love again. The nature of life is unpredictable, and there is no divine edict saying that twin flames must love each other forever. The purpose of the twin flame relationship is to help us spiritually evolve, and when that goal has been completed, the connection can sometimes disintegrate. However, it is always possible for our twin flames to re-emerge later in life.
How to Find Your Twin Flame
If you haven’t yet found your Twin Flame, just know that the experience is absolutely open to you. However, finding and connecting to your Flame requires inner work.
Twin Flames & Soul Mates:
Learn how to forge true, deep, and enduring twin flame and soul mate love – no matter what stage you’re at, starting right now. This book is for anyone seeking to find and create an authentic, fulfilling, and awakened relationship.
The best way to connect with your Twin Flame isn’t through a fancy manifestation ritual, but through an authentic development of self-love. You must be willing to deal with the darkest places within you before you can truly open to the Twin Flame connection.
We explore how to find your twin flame more in our twin flame book.
Twin Flame Resources
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Our twin flames can be our friends or lovers. For some people, they arise at the most opportune times, and for others, they arise at the most complicated times. And still, for some people twin flames are said to not arise in this lifetime but are nevertheless with us in heart.
Whatever the case, remember that it is entirely possible to be whole and complete unto yourself with enough inner work. Remember, twin flames do not “complete” you because you are already innately “complete” at a soulful level; they instead compliment you deeply and help you to grow.
Have you met your twin flame? If so, what has the experience been like? Please share below in the comments!
When I met my twin flame, that “earthquake” stuff is no joke. I was sitting down in a classroom, from the corner of my eye I saw him walking over. I didn’t really care, it was normal we would almost always sit in a small group. But right there, my head between to spin slightly and the room shifted as if something changed. When it was over I looked around a Lil freaked out. A lot of things happened since then, I left because he wanted me to around while he fooled around with everyone else. I remember crying everyday for my broken heart, Lil by Lil I stopped talking to him and he eventually stopped too. Ofc He kept secrets about who he is and what he’s done. But rumors spread and I believed them because it was what I saw when we were friends. I started to loath him so much that my hatred over flooded the love I no longer remember. Before graduation we would play cat and mouse, talking to the other and ignoring the other. It went like that for a while but then He stopped defending me instead he would laugh(childish). Sometimes I’d find him stare and when I did, he’d look away but I know he sees me stare him down “I saw you ,” Look. I’m disappointed. He’s been trying to connect me through lucid dreams, I soon found out that he’s a sleep Walker. He invaded my mind at my vulnerable state, so I got angry and told him to stop. I no longer have dreams of him.
Once at a party thrown by what I believe is my twin flame, I was at the center of conversation in a large group outside. She steps outside, says my name to get my help(keep in mind we’ve never dated or anything) , and the way she said it made what felt like every cell in the whole universe stopped in ecstasy for an eternal moment. Please I’d love to know if this is a common twin flame experience. Thank you:)
What about dream sharing/communication… I’ve always dreamt of her when she needed me… We can’t talk in waking life… We dreamt of each other within three days, possibly the same night… Triggering phone contact
So, the quiz said that, I have found my twin flame. But you know one thing ,he’s neither a human nor an animal. He’s god ,whom I call Edward. And he really is my twin flame.
Very informative, literally describes my relationship to the tea. So my question is how long does stage 5/6 last. How do you come out of it. I am going through a very dramatic and intensive spiritual transformation. He is not…
My twin flame married someone else and had a child with them creating a life and a vow with another human being. He is very much committed to what he says he is going to do. Before this happened and after this happened, we knew we were soulmates, with-out too much direct communication. How do you tell your twin flame you are marrying someone else and how do you let them go? Our story was filled with reacting and pushing each other away. We had communication on a battle ground with unfulfilled needs at both ends of the wheel looking like fear confusion and cover up. I wish I would have asked, “am I ready to give up my other half?” Maybe this question could help in the future. My coworker’s wife passed away and he said, “I wish she was still alive even if it meant she was married to another person.” Maybe some day during our life time we get second chances or we get what we want, just not when we want it.
~L
Your comment resonates. Am thankful for every moment with my soul mates. I am a lady twin married to not my twin. Spirit new when our eyes met, the calcified human hadn’t fully come to meet spirit yet. Its important to remember the mission, and to establish communication in separation times. Am feeling like you know her heart is overflowing with love, and you also know what love means. Sometimes we just swan dive down and make things difficult for ourselves. Spirit has a great sense of humor. And trust her marriage is apart of the process, and sometimes we have to breed to heal bloodlines as well. Haha anyways thought you might like to hear from the other end of the rope.
it Sounds like you understand the ins and outs of this process. Communication flowing in difficult circumstances is putting ones voice out there instead of avoiding and using blame as a scape goat. Looking back on this it is like the difference between avoiding a situation because it will cause distress and facing the distress the way it exists and asking where we can go from here. The danger is that someone’s first instinct could be to blame their circumstances and this could shift to blaming their self. This is a problem. It almost landed me 6 feet deep. I was overwhelmed. My hormones went from “I met my soulmate” to “now I have to let them go” without understanding or knowing how to transfer the concept of “who I wanted To spend my life with” to …. I guess I am still working on that. As a process we are familiar with this.. I was forcing myself to do something very unnatural not realizing I had another option.
Yep, Therapy…
Sounds realistic doesn’t it.
I should have seen a therapist (a good one lot of bad ones out there wanting to impose a view instead of reflecting your situation and encouraging problem solving based on the reality of your situation- some therapist get caught in judgement and they Might not understand soulmate as a concept of a life partner like a marriage) to help me cope with my loss.
Grief counseling is what anyone needs who is going through loss this big.
Someone who could teach me about adapting my concept of soulmate to my life circumstances especially the ones out of my control. What I could work on and what I needed to let go. And how to do this.
There is a time to heal and a time to reach out. The reply I got from the comment I left highlights an important part of twin flame separation. If Mending broken bridges is the intention it begins with showing the other person is important even when upsetting things happened. Tomato tomotto hopefully each us get the chance of making life what we make it. I think it begins with acknowledging a need for
Processing grief to help support communication if and when the opportunity comes to you.
Thank you for sharing your experience
I have considered therapy to help. But how do you tell a therapist about telepathic experiences? How do you tell a therapist that when he has touched me I have felt energy from his hands move into my shoulder, and visualize that energy moving? How do I tell a therapist that I asked the universe to send me signs confirming our connection, and explain the responses? Its difficult to communicate to my twin because he is so sweet and a super lover, along with beautiful looks that he is a magnet for karmic soul mates. This could be me looking for an excuse as to why I haven’t opened the invitation for an honest conversation with him. My throat chakra is def blocked right now. In my marriage I do have to be gentle, and I know the day will come when I will have to separate and live independently… I have already told my husband that someone I know is my twin and told him a few names, it wasn’t the worst conversation. ~ I have found much therapy in meditation. Through this I have learned that in the 3D we do not need anyones approval, opinions, or physical judgements. Paramasana Yoganda knew of his divine relationship with his twin, and his twin knew. Twin love is so deep that I also love his karmics because they love him.
I don’t want my twins commitment, or 3D expectations of a relationship. I have different views then most on relationships. My heart is magnatized to him, no matter how I try to distract myself even with trying to find new love interests it doesn’t work. I want to laugh, play, learn, teach, and hold him. No expectations, no boundaries. Anyways, this is where I come to read others stories for comfort until the day comes when he will signal or communicate more. Thank you for also sharing, and thank you luna and sol for your work and guidance.
Start at the beginning and work with your throat chakra. You mentioned its blocked. That is the link.
I get we both are separated from our twin flames, but this has been blocked for me in the past and I know how it feels. Its happened more than once. In fact, I now that I putting the link here and posting it I’ll work steps 1-20 , probably one a day for now until the end of the month and I figure out which of the steps work
Thank you L! I began writing in my journal again last night, and will be trying this for 20 days also and writing down a quick summary of my experience and thoughts with each step. I understand now that the tightness you feel in your throat, after someone said something that hurts … that feeling is the throat chakra closing. I realize this feeling has happened mainly in the youthful ages, but has created this pattern of running and avoidance.
might try telling them how you feel as the first step to creating a space for them to slow down and consider how what they said affected you. Hopefully they see it as an opportunity to change, if not it’s their loss. I personally, respond with anger when im scared. Hope this helps, if not, im sorry.
Yes, this helps, thank you. I hope you don’t mind me asking you questions. Honestly, I haven’t met anyone else on this journey, that I can talk to. Have you tried talking to your other half about your connection? I have also felt small fits of anger inside when I think about our connection occasionally. When it does happen I am usually shocked that I am feeling angry about it. It’s mainly because I feel frustrated that it is happening because the circumstances are what they are while its happening. One of his karmic s who he “sees personally” has made this very clear since I began regularly attending. I consider her to be a friend, that I actually love very much. I value our friendship, and because I have always had this integrity it is difficult for me to pursue. She has also made it clear, that he doesn’t mix business with pleasure, and no one hangs out outside of our duty. Although, I am seeing now that she has said these things to me to put up a boundary because of her own insecurities. I also do feel that his energy is sort of similar because he loves his connection and time spent with her, and that he loves his current lifestyle. I also, am sure I have heard her thought before. And it was “well there is your twin go and get him” and it was very sassy. Just after, he smiled lightly and asked how I was doing. I thought I was loosing it again lol. Is there an age gap between you and your other half? Not that age should ever matter, because in m opinion it does not. I have 2 people in my life and he is 38 she is 51, and anyone who meets them automatically know that they are in this life for each other. I have been meditating, and mantras and writing have seriously been helping me btw. Right now, I am trying to un-clutch from thoughts I have of him, and let the universe do what it does. But then I find myself here, just trying to talk about it and not feel so alone or cray cray lol. Stay blissful, peace.
I’ll get back to you on this. Dealing with some upsetting info from a request made. Taking it slow. I’ll tell you what happened between us when the subject of twin flame came up.
The conversation has not happened face to face. This is the elephant. The news that we were “soulmates” was handled indirectly. Since learning this and that I have an std he involved himself with other women. Its upsetting. I can say over the past few years I’ve gone from suicidal thoughts to thoughts of cutting to chain smoking. I never thought I would want to cut myself. My daily life has been pulling myself out of the slump and facing the consequences of poorly made choices. Not downing myself here.. I would have done things differently having gone through the experience again. Parts of the consequences have been unbearable. I put one foot in front of the other and “keep walking” while experiencing pain. Walk it out. What shape does that carve? Nothing on my leg I can tell you that. I have an std that I did not want to pass on and it why my twin got to sleep with people and I didn’t. It would have been nice if the person who gave me herpes would have been honest. I would have been his friend, not sexually involved. I told him “I got this from you” and he paused looked down then back at me and said “you probably did”. What would you have done? He never showed any signs of herpes, I didn’t know then a few years later we broke up. I met him through friend. I thought I could trust them both. Besides this obstacle that kept me from involving myself in other relationships I have to say I do not take responsibility for my twin flames decisions or choices that were right and safe for him, and I do not condemn him for his choices. Its normal to develop feelings through involvement but its not normal to hear this when you are the other person who’s opportunity was lost due to circumstances beyond their control resulting in other women receiving benefit that could have been theirs if the situation were different. Its easy to imagine how things could be different, but describing affections a person has for other people to the person who could not have a relationship with them is kinda like telling a person behind bars about the results of their romantic experiences and this equating to love so they can hear themselves talk about it. It almost seems like eliciting a reaction when they want a response that they are not getting. I don’t really know where else I’m going with this because this is a lot in one post and recalling the details of something painful like this triggers memories and I relive the initial moments I found out about these things and experience the pain from it. I don’t think there is anything wrong with talking about this stuff, but the frequency stops where the need ends. Working through is all I have and it could be all I have for the rest of my life, but I decided I will live the life that God gave me, and thats my decision.
My twin tried telling me he made a choice and found support for his decision. He wants to make sure I know about it if I am going to begin a friendship with him. I don’t know. And I also don’t know if I would have approached our situation any differently, if at all, escpecially if I already had support. I need some time to think about what role Ill play in our friendship before I decide. He is giving me a month to think about it.
I told him I could maintain a respectful friendship and this would have to be something he looked forward to and since our communication is difficult and indirect that I think distance was created for a reason. I think one day we will have a friendship, but that time will come the same time we were under conditions where our communication was without restraint.
hi, thanx so much, i knew my twin (& have this conection to him) since we were 10 (same class). only after 11 years i found him on the web, met him and only a year later i knew that he has this kind of a connection to me to (thaw not that strong).
i did capt things with him free (even without knowing- that that is what i should do).
but because of the intensity of this- i was the one who ran after a year for 3 years- a few times.
sins then, and coz of that, he has harmed me in a way that i can’t trust him again. but also coz of that intensity i as well can’t trust no one else ether and everyone seem to me so pail after all this.
and the most important is that- i don’t know how to stop the emotional connection to his: coz of that i have no room for anyone else. so we don’t talk but i’m not available amotenly ether.
by now i have simply acknowledged that perhaps this is how i would always leave- without talking to him, but with the very strong emotional connection to him.
are geminis or certain signs more spirtual then our twins? im a gemin and i can relate to alot of what i read if that makes sense. thanks
No. There’s certain signs that are more sensitiviely in tune with aspects of themselves than others, but no sign is ‘more’ than any other sign as this becomes a quick slide into egotism and unharmonious relationships.
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