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17 Signs You’re An Old Soul Stuck in the 21st Century

by Aletheia Luna · Updated: Nov 16, 2022 · 1,053 Comments

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How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?

– Satchel Paige

There is a special kind of person in our world who finds herself alone and isolated, almost since birth.

Her solitary existence isn’t from a preference or an antisocial temperament – she is simply old.  Old in heart, old in mind, and old in soul, this person is an old soul who finds her outlook on life vastly different and more ripened than those around her.  

As a result, the old soul lives her life internally, walking her own solitary path while the rest around her flock to follow another.  


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Perhaps you’ve experienced this in your own life, or have witnessed it in another person?  If so, this article is dedicated to you, in hopes that you will come to define yourself or understand another better.

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Table of contents

  • What is an Old Soul?
  • 17 Signs You’re An Old Soul
  • Have You Experienced Spiritual Awakening as an Old Soul?
  • Old Souls and Inner work
  • Illuminated Souls
  • Old Soul FAQ

What is an Old Soul?

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Quite simply, an Old Soul is a person who feels much older than their age reflects. This feeling is often accompanied by the gift of empathy, high intelligence, intuition, and keen insight into the human condition.

Old Souls are often outsiders looking in, they feel as though they don’t “belong” in this world, or this period of time. As a result, most Old Souls long for a sense of true meaning, purpose and inner fulfillment that money, power, and success can’t achieve. This longing is often described as the thirst to “return back home.”

There are two major types of Old Souls: those that are born with the sensation of being “different,” and those who “grow into” becoming Old Souls through the process of spiritual awakening. We’ll explore Old Souls and spiritual awakening more a little later.

17 Signs You’re An Old Soul

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Robert Frost, Eckhart Tolle, Jim Carrey, Oprah Winfrey, and even Nick Jonas have been called Old Souls. Perhaps even you have?  

If you have not yet discovered whether you’re an Old Soul, read some of the revealing signs below:


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1#   You tend to be a lone wolf

Because Old Souls are disinterested in the pursuits and interests of the people in their age groups, they find it dissatisfying to make friends with people they find hard to relate to. This sense of alienation is one of the major problems Old Souls experience.  The result is that Old Souls tend to find themselves alone a lot of the time. They struggle to connect deeply with others because most other people don’t have the same interests or values as them.

2#   You love knowledge, wisdom, and truth

This might seem a little highbrow, but the Old Soul finds herself naturally gravitating towards the intellectual side of life.  Old Souls inherently understand that knowledge is power, wisdom is happiness, and truth is freedom, so why not seek after those things?  These pursuits are more meaningful to them than reading up on the latest gossip about the Kardashians or the latest football scores.

3#   You’re spiritually inclined

Old Souls tend to have sensitive and spiritual natures.  Experiencing a spiritual awakening, overcoming the confines of the ego, seeking spiritual enlightenment and self-realization, and fostering love and peace are often at the core of the Old Soul’s ultimate quest in life.  

4#   You understand the transience of life

Old Souls are frequently plagued with reminders of their own mortality and that of everything and everyone around them. In fact, it’s not uncommon for the old soul to have multiple existential crises throughout life, especially during difficult situations that highlight the impermanence of existence. Being very perceptive and sensitive toward the reality of death, old souls choose to live their lives differently. Every decision counts.

5#   You’re thoughtful and introspective

Old Souls tend to think a lot … about everything. It’s crucial for an old soul to get enough space and time to reflect, introspect, and develop more self-awareness. This natural tendency toward rumination helps them to quickly learn from their actions and understand the people and environments around them. Many Old Souls practice a natural form of shadow work in which they are constantly reflecting on how they could do better, prevent their issues from getting bigger, and create more inner harmony.

6#   You see the bigger picture

Old Souls dislike getting lost in the superficial details of gaining useless degrees, job promotions, social prestige, and better iPhones. Instead, Old Souls prefer to look at life from a birds-eye perspective, striving to find the wisest and most meaningful way of living and using their time. After all, life can end at any moment, so why waste time on trivial details?

7#   You aren’t materialistic

Wealth, status, fame, and the latest tech gadget … Old Souls take little interest in these things.  After all, what’s the point of seeking these socially paraded goals if they can easily be taken away? What’s the point if the fulfillment isn’t long-lasting or soul-enriching?  

8#   You were a strange, socially maladaptive kid

This is not always the case, but many Old Souls exhibit odd signs of maturity at young ages.  Often, these children are labeled as being “precocious,” “introverted,” or “rebellious,” failing to fit into the mainstream behaviors. Usually, these children are extremely inquisitive and intelligent, seeing the purposelessness of many things their teachers, parents, and peers say and do, and either passively or aggressively resist them. If you can talk to your child like s/he’s an adult – you’ve probably got an Old Soul on your hands.

9#   You’ve undergone an existential crisis

It’s common for Old Souls to ask deep and penetrating questions about life in their search for love, truth, and freedom. This quest to live a meaningful existence inevitably means that they will, sooner or later, experience an existential crisis. An existential crisis is what happens when a person starts to see through the lies and delusions within society. They may wonder what life is really about, whether they have a true purpose, and start to think about the human condition more. Is life just a product of chance? What’s the point of everything I’ve done? What is all this about, anyway? These are the types of questions Old Souls ask during the existential crisis.

10# You see life through a poetic/contemplative lens

Old Souls take time to enjoy life – they see things that others don’t see. Take nature for example: an Old Soul will enjoy the way the wind dances through the trees – while someone else may just walk straight by, disinterested or blind to the simple beauty before them. Old Souls also take time to contemplate life. The smile and laughter of a child is something to stop and savor. The striking beauty of a piece of art is something to ponder. The words of a great writer are something to meditate on (see Lectio Divina). There is so much in life to stop, appreciate, and reflect on.

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11# You tend to overthink everything

While Old Souls are contemplative types of people, this can also prove to be a painful and challenging quality. For instance, most Old Souls struggle with the curse of overthinking practically everything. Choosing from a menu at a cafe, for example, can be a strangely painstaking experience. (There are so many options! Which is the right one? What would taste the best? What is the most ethical? What is the best value for money? What is right for this time of the day? etc.) Social situations are no better, which leads to the next point …

12# You struggle with anxiety in social situations

Put the tendency to overthink everything alongside conscientiousness and strong empathy, and you have a recipe for social anxiety. Throw in a little bit of eccentricity (i.e., not sharing the same interests as most people) and we have an unavoidable tendency towards lingering social discomfort. Although many Old Souls are confident, calm, and self-possessed people, social situations are complex and tiring. There are so many elements to consider (fragile egos, etiquette, boundaries, reciprocity, unspoken but obvious insecurities, etc.) that they often prefer just being left by themselves. With that being said, when Old Souls do find someone they connect with or find interesting, they tend to form strong and intense connections quite quickly. It’s one of the greatest joys of life to find fellow kindred spirits.

13# You easily fall into the role of advisor or counselor

People flock to Old Souls for advice like a moth drawn to a flame. Attracted to their level-headedness and wisdom, it’s common for family members, friends, and workplaces to naturally position the Old Soul as advice-giver. While most Old Souls don’t mind this, it’s common for them to feel inundated and overwhelmed by the magnitude of other’s problems. Even so, Old Souls enjoy helping others. It’s more of a pleasure (than a burden) to give guidance to those in need.

14# You enjoy the company of those much older than you

Old Souls tend to make friends with older folks way more often than younger people (including those of the same age). There is something so down-to-earth, engaging, and layered about those who have been around much longer than the rest. Besides, it’s comforting being around those whose external energy matches the Old Soul’s internal energy. There’s something compatible there. No need to go running around like a headless chicken to parties, concerts, and what have you. Instead, Old Souls can enjoy sitting around a fire or lounging on the patio chairs, having a good old-fashion talk and exchanging stories.

15# You crave simplicity

In some areas of life, Old Souls respect and even like complexity. But overall, what most Old Souls crave deep down is simplicity. There is a certain purity, beauty, and Zen-like appeal in the simple life. Some Old Souls may find themselves drawn toward minimalism, while others may take a minimalistic attitude toward everyday responsibilities and other pursuits. The Old Soul’s thirst for simplicity is very much connected to their love of heart, soul, and essence. Whatever is true and worthy can easily be found in simplicity.

16# You’re attracted to all things vintage

While this might not be the case for all Old Souls, many find themselves drawn toward old music, old furniture, old architecture, old books, old clothing – really, anything old. Some Old Souls feel more at home in bygone eras (18th-century horse and carriage, 1920’s jazz, etc.), while others have an appreciation for even older cultures (e.g., shamanic and tribal periods).

17#   You just “feel” old inside

Throw away the ‘Old Soul’ label for a moment and focus on how you feel inside. How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are? Those who realize that they feel much older than their age reflects are often Old Souls at heart.

Common feelings that accompany being an Old Soul usually include a feeling of world wariness, mental tiredness, inquisitiveness, watchful patience, and the sensation of being an “outsider looking in.”


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Have You Experienced Spiritual Awakening as an Old Soul?

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Almost every Old Soul, to some extent, has undergone a process of spiritual awakening. 

Spiritual awakenings are periods in our lives when we feel lost, confused, and alienated from others and society’s rules, expectations, beliefs, and values.

The spiritual awakening process is a painful and often traumatic experience involving the complete disintegration of our former habits, perceptions, and even life goals. Often, the result of such an experience is fear, confusion, depression, anxiety, and social alienation for years on end. However, despite such devastation, the spiritual awakening process is ultimately a liberating experience after we have gone through the fires of rebirth.

You might be wondering what triggers the spiritual awakening process …

Well, usually the spiritual awakening process arises in a person’s life during major life events such as marriage, divorce, child-bearing, death, illness, and tragedy. However, spiritual awakenings can also be completely spontaneous, arising as a natural result of life experience – or in the Old Soul’s case, soulful maturity.

The inevitable product of going through a spiritual awakening process is soulfully maturing. The more we come to see through the illusions and deceptions of society, the more we direct our search for true happiness and fulfillment within ourselves. The deeper we search, the closer we connect with our Souls, which are the ultimate sources of our joy and peace.

Old Souls are people who are conscious of the Soul’s existence and actively work to reconnect with it again. In this sense, the term “Old Soul” is metaphorical rather than literal, indicating a matured and ripened relationship with the Soul or True Self. A Young Soul, on the other hand, is a person who hasn’t yet experienced a deep connection with their Souls, or Higher Selves. They remain like a young flower bud: tight and closed.


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However, it’s important to realize that not every Old Soul has a working connection with the Soul. After undergoing a process of spiritual awakening, it is common to become so absorbed in the suffering of the world and other personal issues, that a connection to the Soul is “lost.” While the Old Soul may be aware of a profoundly divine presence within them and existence, they are not able to sustain a connection with it. This experience is known as The Dark Night of the Soul.

Old Souls and Inner work

Instinctually, Old Souls know that life is one great spiritual journey towards inner Wholeness. As a result, most Old Souls spend their lives seeking that which will bring them true self-fulfillment or self-actualization.

The most vital practice to incorporate into your life as an Old Soul, and indeed as any person, is inner work.

Inner work is the practice of working to reconnect with your Soul – it is not limited to any particular religious or spiritual doctrine but embraces all paths.

Essentially, any practice which helps you to become conscious of the eternal and unchanging presence within you that is your Soul is helpful. We have dedicated this website to helping you explore various techniques and sacred inner work practices out there that aid soulful maturing. You can read more about Inner work here.

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Once an Old Soul has learned how to reconnect with and embody the Soul, they enter a new level of spiritual advancement. We refer to this level as the Illuminated Soul stage.

Illuminated Souls are awakened beings who have been freed from the dualistic mind that is at the root of all suffering (read more about the mind and ego for more understanding). Common Illuminated Souls that we know of include figures such as the Buddha, Basho, Krishnamurti, Meher Baba, Mahavira, Gangaji, Eckhart Tolle, Mooji, Unmani, and many others.

You can read more about Illuminated Souls in my Old Souls book.

Old Soul FAQ

Here are some common questions people ask about Old Souls:

How old is my soul?

There are many approaches to discovering the age of your soul – it all depends on your personal beliefs and preferences. One way to discover the age of your soul is through a deep guided visualization where you seek out your core essence. You could use imagery such as ascending to the heavens, descending into a deep tunnel and finding ‘the light,’ or moving through a labyrinth toward the center where your Soul resides. Other methods include mirror work, soul gazing (with another person), dream work, meditation, and using plant medicines. However, the question must be asked, why do you want to discover your soul’s age? How will it ultimately help you? And how can you know for sure that you’ve found the right answer? These are important questions to explore as they will help you to use your time and energy wisely.

Are Old Souls rare?

Old Souls are relatively rare and compose a small percentage of the world’s population. Some speculate that Old Souls compose around 10% of the world’s population. However, this number is not exact or proven. Regardless of that fact, Old Souls are not common in today’s society.

What is the definition of an old soul?

An Old Soul is a person who feels much older than their age reflects. This feeling is often accompanied by the gift of empathy, high intelligence, intuition, and keen insight into the human condition.

How do you know if you are an old soul?

Pay attention to the following signs:
1. You have a preference for solitude
2. You’re sensitive and empathic
3. You have a profound understanding of human nature
4. You have the ability to deeply introspect
5. You tend to experience a lot of psychological tiredness
6. You’re disinterested in worldly achievements or status
7. You have an inclination towards spirituality
8. You have a mystical approach to life
9. You thirst for truth and wisdom

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What makes one person wise beyond their years, and another, young at heart?

What makes one person awaken to the desire for spiritual fulfillment and self-love, and another person to the desire to content themselves with material gain and social status? The answer is the age (or level of development) of their Soul.

If you’re an Old Soul, you will likely feel alienated in society, but you’ll also be able to live a truly unique and meaningful life. There are blessings and curses that accompany this way of being, but most of all, I hope you know that you’re not alone and there are others like you.

Are you an old soul? I’d love to hear your stories below.

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About Aletheia Luna

Aletheia Luna is a prolific psychospiritual writer, author, educator, and intuitive guide whose work has touched the lives of millions worldwide. As a survivor of fundamentalist religious abuse, her mission is to help others find love, strength, and inner light in even the darkest places. She is the author of hundreds of popular articles, as well as numerous books and journals on the topics of Self-Love, Spiritual Awakening, and more. [Read More]

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  1. Djedida Hector says

    July 10, 2014 at 1:03 pm

    I realized that I was an introvert when I was about 14 or 15. It did not come to me sooner because I was raised in an environment where people did not understand that kind of personality (The Caribbean). As a result, I always felt like I was weird and that I did not fit into this world. That was one of the causes of me being moderately depressed form having a low self-esteem from the age of 9-13. Another reason why I was depressed was because I was separated from my parents (the only people that did not think that I was weird) when I was 9, that was when I move into the States. During my depressed years, I went through every emotion that I had alone, not expressing them to no one. It was and still is how I deal with my problems, I like to solve my problems from within. What got me through that phase; it is that I always told myself things are going to get better if you do well. Looking back, I laugh, because I realize that basically raised myself. I did not have a role model or anyone to look up to form junior high school; most of my wisdom came from within me. Most people who knew me told me that I was wise for my age.

    The road to self-understanding began when I was no longer depressed. First I understood that was an introvert, then later on I felt like it is much deeper than that. I did not realize I was an old soul a couple of months ago. It all started with this FEELING that I have experienced life before and I felt OLD all the time. It’s like I am tired of life and I am detached to everything. I am now 19 years old and I can’t wait when I retire. I also think about the meaning of life all the time. I took the soul age test, turns I am an old soul. I am enlightened about all this and I want to know more.

    At this point of my life I feel ok (not extremely happy, nor sad), I think that there is still lot for me to learn about myself and the world, I am still trying to figure out what is the purpose of my life and what is there for me hereafter. I would like to let you know that this is my first time sharing this with anyone, and that it is heartfelt. This is how much I appreciate your articles on this topic.

    Sorry for the spelling and grammar, English is my second language.

    Reply
    • Visvam says

      July 13, 2014 at 5:51 pm

      Hi Djedida,

      I was struck by your statement that this was your first time sharing these feelings and thoughts.
      I see it as something sacred and courageous.
      Have look (and a listen) to wwwkryon.com. I found them extremely useful in my search.

      Peace and greetings.

      Reply
    • Aletheia Luna says

      July 16, 2014 at 11:44 am

      Djedida, thank you very much for opening yourself up and sharing your thoughts, struggles and triumphs here. I really appreciate that, and I am overjoyed that this article could further help to enlighten your road of self-understanding.

      You commented that you “basically raised yourself”, and this sounds very similar to the experiences of my fellow writer Mateo Sol, who pretty much did the same. I wonder whether many Old Souls have experienced this? An interesting thought.

      Thank you again for sharing your thoughts and experiences here!

      -Luna

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      • Teresa says

        July 20, 2014 at 12:05 am

        I identify as an old soul, and I too raised myself. I did not grow up with any type of spirituality, but I found what resonated with me in my twenties. I started reading Psychology Today at 15 yrs, and found a counselor on my own at 16 yrs old (pro bono) who helped deal with my dysfunctional family of origin.

        Thank you for this article.

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  2. Alexander w keaton says

    July 10, 2014 at 11:06 am

    By the time I was 12, to me, the world was full of shit. I never followed suit. I walk my own path, though be it long , I walk it steady. I have been many place’s , done many things. I can see behind the shadows and lies of our culture. But enough with the philosophical B.S. . That is weird,I have felt like I could read between the lines since I was 12. I left home at 16 and started going to trade school and became an electrician. I am now 40 and in school and working on my Engineering degree. And now matter what, I can not bend to authority. I watch the people around me change , and always for the worse. They destroy , they care not for humanity but there own self gain. I sigh for the world. I hope they change their ways before the planet takes them back.

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      July 16, 2014 at 11:34 am

      Hello Alexander. Sounds as though you are quite anti-authoritarian, and cynical towards the world – all traits of a ‘T’ according to MBTI. I learnt a long time ago that you can’t change the people around you unless they are willing to change themselves. But perhaps that is how life is supposed to pan out for some people? All we can do is learn to flow with what life throws at us, regardless of what it is.

      Thanks for reading.

      -Luna

      Reply
  3. Anubis says

    July 10, 2014 at 8:52 am

    Hello old friends

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      July 10, 2014 at 9:43 am

      Hello Anubis :)

      Reply
  4. Rob says

    July 10, 2014 at 7:32 am

    I’ve long suspected that I was an “old soul”. I meet all 9 perfectly. Even when I was in my early 20’s my “friends” would see me as “old” – even nicknaming me “grandpa” (at 23!).

    (btw LonerWolf – I have always viewed myself as a loner AND the wolf is my totem)

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      July 10, 2014 at 9:42 am

      Haha, I can relate Rob – my parents and siblings used to call me “granny” in my teenage years.

      Thank you for sharing here, and I look forward to hearing more from you in the future!

      -Luna

      Reply
  5. Damien says

    July 08, 2014 at 1:48 am

    After looking at a few of the blog posts on your site, I seriously appreciate your technique of writing a blog.
    I bookmarked it to my bookmark webpage list and will be checking back in the near future.

    Take a look at my website too and let me know your opinion.

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      July 10, 2014 at 9:39 am

      Thank you Damien, Sol and I both appreciate that. :)

      -Luna

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  6. Kierra says

    June 30, 2014 at 1:45 am

    I have lived but seventeen years, but I am so much older and wiser compared to my peers, and even some of my superiors. Often times, I become very frustrated with nearly everyone’s inability to comprehend, digest, and accept my tranquility and knowledge. I become weary, almost, with the trivias of today’s society. Although I am readily capable of adapting to almost every person’s level of intelligence and so on (I empathize so well it’s frightening at times), it seems that I can never find anyone to REALLY stimulate my senses. When I think I have at last found someone who can partake in a riveting conversation, he or she falls short, and I must lower myself again, to his or her level. I feel that I will never be truly happy in life. However, fo keep myself sane, I ignore my desperate desires to delve into my introspection, and attempt to live on the surface, as does everyone around me. Just as a previous commenter stated – as humans, we crave socialization. I do not believe it is wise or even safe to detach oneself from society completely, although that could quite possibly be the key to reaching the ultimate pinnacle of oneself. And so, I blend myself into the cage of this society. Sometimes it makes me feel a lot less conscious, as if my perception of the world, which was once vivid and lucid (but only in the depths of despair) has been clouded. It almost feels like I’m trapped and this Earth is my cage. I have such a strong yearning to cascade into the spiritual world, where I feel I belong, that it is painful. And yes, I must admit, this all does drag me down sometimes.

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      June 30, 2014 at 10:17 am

      I empathize, Kierra, with your suffering. I hope that his article has shown you, however, that you aren’t actually alone, and this should provide some level of solace to know that your strife is shared by other people around the world – even in the same city.

      It’s easy and tempting to get stuck in the world of the mind, the world of noble suffering, however, in order to increase the quality of your life you should consider reaching out to people similar to you. It’s difficult at first, but the internet helps a lot – try meetup.com for instance. Search for groups that surround your interests, e.g. spirituality, metaphysics, self-improvement and so forth. Above I have also listed the Facebook Old Soul group if you are interested. You could gain extra ideas there.

      I’ve personally found the internet very helpful in my search for people like me. In fact, that was how I connected with Sol (coauthor of LonerWolf). So perhaps try giving this a go.

      All the very best,

      -Luna

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  7. scubasniper says

    June 28, 2014 at 8:36 am

    Its like I have the values and beliefs of a very old man, yet I’m 18 years old. Of course there are some strong “cons” to being an old soul, but its all about perspective. I love being an old soul. Earlier this year I was clinging to very toxic friendships that I had to let go because I felt they were hindering my spiritual growth. I am now 100% comfortable with being alone and it is by far the greatest feeling ever. I can say that I could be alone for the rest of my life and be fine. That in itself puts me in a small percentage of the human race, simply because by nature, we are social animals.

    Being like this kind of sucks at the same time too, people think you’re lazy because you think the things they think are VASTLY important, are incredibly pointless. It kind of sucks because you don’t fit in with your age mates, but it doesn’t suck when you realize you don’t really want to…

    Friends and people try to change you because they think you’re broken or “wrong”.

    It’s all good though. I know who I am now, I’m very deeply introspective and know how my future is going to pan out. Once I get there, I’m going to buy a huge field with flowers and everything and just live. No need for anything else.

    I don’t like to look down on the “others” because they are just humans being humans. I have this quote I made up “Don’t hate humans for being humans”. Humans are just animals, that are being animals. Being ego driven is a human thing at this point in time. Although it would be great for everyone to operate from their higher self, thats just not how it is right now. Like a dog is a dog, humans will be humans. Hopefully in the future the vibration will be raised on this planet, but for the most part, never dislike a human for being a human. Understand where they are coming from and why they are doing what they are doing. For the most part I don’t even feel “human” in the mainstream sense anymore. I feel like a spiritual being in this weird shell. Looking in the mirror is fun.

    I feel as if old souls are souls that can easily be taken advantage of by narcissistic younger souls because of our empathetic and caring nature. Don’t let this happen guys! Monitor your relationships and if you are not growing from being in them…you must leave.

    One time I kind of started liking my friends mom (shes 44) because she was the first person that I could have an actual conversation with. I could talk to her for hours. It was really cool. I told her more about myself within 2 days of knowing her than I did within the 2 years of knowing that friend. It was a very weird situation and I know it could be classified as “wrong” to like your friends mom, but things just sort of happen, ya know?

    To anyone pretending to be like your age mates, stop doing that. What is the point?

    Although you probably won’t listen to that advice, you will learn that it is pointless sometime on your own journey.

    I’ve been looking for more old souls to connect with but it’s very hard to find them. I know I will meet some of you during my journey on this planet though. It’s only a matter of time.

    I really love myself now and It fascinates me that im only 18, how much farther my spiritual progression will go because of how far I am right now. I can’t wait for the rest of this life and good luck to all of you old souls that have commented on his page.

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      June 30, 2014 at 10:00 am

      Thank you for sharing some of your advice Scubasniper – what you’ve said regarding accepting other people for who they are, and yourself for who you are is simple, but extremely important. I’m not sure whether you’ve joined already, but Sol and I have created a Facebook Old Soul group, and I think sharing some of your insights there would be really useful: https://www.facebook.com/groups/imanoldsoul/

      -Luna

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  8. Tenzen25141 says

    June 26, 2014 at 9:20 am

    I am 13 years old. I fill in most of the signs for an old soul. I ain’t too comfortable of hanging around peers my age. When i hang around people who are way above my age, i tend to get along better with them. For truth be told, i don’t even try to or want to fit in, i want to just be myself and no one else. One thing that saddens me is how i’m limited to people who i don’t feel that i’m compatible with. My grandparents have called me an old soul in a young body, and i agree with them.
    I am VERY happy that i’m not alone.

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      June 30, 2014 at 9:48 am

      And I’m very happy that this article could show you that you are not alone, Tenzen. :)

      All the best,

      -Luna

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  9. Angela says

    June 23, 2014 at 12:40 pm

    I am eighteen years old. I have a free and jovial spirit. Most people would view me as a sanguine and a young adult with a silly personality. However, it is through my personal insight and spirituality that I am able to realize at a young age that I am very wise beyond my years. I have never been in a relationship in this life but emotionally and mentally, I understand so much about relationships. I have been told that I have a very old soul and I do agree. I have lived many times and I have carried that deep knowledge within me even to this life.

    As to being an introvert, I am actually a very big extrovert. Like most people, I do have my moments when I am an introvert though but only when I am not in the mood to socialize. I do value my alone time a lot and I feel that it is extremely crucial to often be alone and re-evaluate our personal feelings and to recharge our energy. I do believe that most old souls tend to be in solitary. I do love to do things on my own and I have no issue doing so. Most of my friends are too embarrassed or afraid to do things by themselves so they love to be in groups. I understand why, but for me I enjoy my time alone and sometimes it is much better for than being in a large group.

    As for seeing the bigger picture. Absolutely true! Sometimes even the things my older siblings do or say make me wonder if they realize how silly their actions or words are. I think that people these days are too caught up with how people view them that they actually begin to lose their self identity-and in the process, lose touch with their Higher Self.

    I absolutely enjoyed this article. Thank you for sharing your brilliant magic with us all. God bless.

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      June 30, 2014 at 9:47 am

      Many thanks Angela. Have you considered that you might actually be Ambiverted instead of Extroverted? Many of the characteristics that you describe regarding your personality sound like a mix of introverted and extroverted. More in this article: https://lonerwolf.com/ambivert/

      I really appreciate your comment here, and for adding to this small community of comments we have. :)

      -Luna

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  10. Magenta says

    June 19, 2014 at 12:51 pm

    Ever since I can remember, I gravitated to adults. Even though I couldn’t understand what they were saying when I was young, I still liked to listen to their stories. And when I learned to talk, many of my mother’s friends and family said that talking to me was like talking to an adult.

    We used to visit Lake Michigan every summer and spend a week out there. After getting lost and found at the Pavilion, a lady gave me a huge blueberry muffin and told my mother “your daughter is an old soul.”

    From the first time she recounted the story that I can remember, I’ve been fascinated with old souls, young souls, all souls, really. I never thought to research into it, however, and now I think I have an interesting path of self discovery ahead of me.

    I’ve always learned my lessons mostly through watching others, and I can learn most anything simply from watching. And I’ve always been the one who gives the best advice among any circles I’ve walked. I guess I’ve always kind of felt like I know how the world works, and I can usually tell when someone is good or bad–but mostly only when it doesn’t relate directly to me somehow.

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      June 30, 2014 at 9:38 am

      Hi Magenta, many thanks for sharing your story here.

      If you’re interested in reading more about Soul Ages, you should have a look at this article, which is a brief introduction (if you haven’t already): https://lonerwolf.com/soul-age/ You may also like to read a book called Nature and the Human Soul by Bill Plotkin, which (although heavy at first), discusses a different take on Soul Ages.

      Thank you again for reading,

      -Luna

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