At the roots of most chronic physical, mental, and emotional illnesses is a basic wound: a lurking spiritual malady.
The basic philosophy that accompanies most spiritual healing traditions is that when we are disconnected from the Divine, we are severed from true well-being.ย
Since the Divine is the source of our energy (our life force), when we are alienated from it, we experience numerous illnesses that manifest in endless forms.
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The purpose of these illnesses is to help us reconnect with our Divine inner Center โ to point the way back to Wholeness.
This is where spiritual healing comes into the picture:
It’s a path of healing; of reuniting us with our true Spiritual Nature.ย
However, not all approaches to spiritual healing are healthy. In fact, it’s wise to practice discernment and caution here.
We need to look out for ourselves because we may be used by so-called spiritual healers and preyed upon by false ideas.
As a person who has a lot of experience with spiritual healing, who works in the spiritual field, and who has published numerous spiritual books on the topic of healing (for spiritual seekers, empaths, and old souls), I’ll share key advice in this article.
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What is Spiritual Healing?
Spiritual healing is the practice (and experience) of restoring, harmonizing, and balancing our Spirit or Soul.
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Spiritual healing is also seen as a transcendental experience of reconnecting with our true nature. As author and teacher, Shakti Gawain writes:
Spiritual healing occurs as we begin to consciously reconnect with our essential being โ the wise, loving, powerful, creative entity that we are at our core.
Spiritual Healing and Spiritual Awakening
For many people, spiritual healing is a crucial part of the spiritual wanderer’s journey of awakening.
By revealing and soothing the wounds that other modalities (such as psychology or nutrition) fail to heal, a doorway is opened to deeper inner spiritual alchemy. In other words, spiritual healing can offer us the chance to grow and transform in a way that no other path can.
Many sensitive and receptive beings, such as empaths, intuitives, and old souls, are drawn to spiritual healing. Some even become spiritual healers themselves. For many spiritual wanderers, spiritual healing becomes a regular part of their spiritual awakening path.
5 Types of Spiritual Healing
There are many different approaches to spiritual healing.
For example, some new-age healing practitioners focus only on bringing balance to the etheric or non-physical energy field of the human body. Shamanic healers focus on restoring the spirit and curing soul loss. And other holistic healers focus on unifying the body, heart, mind, and spirit.
Even psychologists and therapists are starting to incorporate spiritual healing into their work such as those operating in the depth and transpersonal fields of psychology.
So in summary, there are five different types of spiritual healing:
- Physical healing (of the body)
- Emotional healing (of the heart)
- Mental healing (of the mind)
- Spiritual healing (of the spirit or soul)
- Holistic healing (of the body, heart, mind, and spirit)
The type of spiritual healing that you’ll need will depend on the following questions:
- What is your main struggle in life right now?
- Do you have more than one pressing issue?
Depending on your answers, you’ll be able to determine what type of spiritual healing modality you need. For instance, if you suffer from chronic pain (for which no other methods work) and also depression, you would need physical and mental healing โ ideally, some kind of holistic healer would benefit you the most.
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If, on the other hand, you have one issue, like an unshakable sense of grief from a lost relationship, seek out a healer who specializes in emotional healing.
Common types of spiritual healing include chakra healing, crystal/herbal remedies, breathwork, reiki, traditional medicine (ayurveda, Chinese medicine), aromatherapy, meditation/visualization techniques, and so on.
But what about soul healing?
What does that mean? And does it apply to you?
(By the way, here’s a video we made on the topic of spiritual healing a while ago โ it provides some unique food for thought!)
How Can I Heal My Soul?
If you’re interested in spiritual healing, you likely feel that somethingย fundamentalย is missing from your life.
Some people are able to verbalize this feeling, while others just feel a stark, bone-chilling absence of something vital. When a person is able to pinpoint what’s wrong, usually they discover that it’s rooted in the soul.
“I’m a lost soul,” they might think, or, “My soul is broken.”
But this is a fundamental misunderstanding. Yes, something is certainly wrong, but it’s not that the soul is broken (which is impossible from an objective standpoint), it’s that they’ve lost touchย with their soul.
In other words, they are living in a lifeless, colorless world that lacks the joy and succulence that the soul brings.
So the question isn’t how to “heal” your soul (because the soul is Divine and incapable of being fractured โ you can experience this while meditating), but how to findย your soul.
Mature spiritual healers (i.e., those who understand the nature of the soul) and spiritual healing resources out there (such as this website) will recommend a host of different methods. Some of them include:
- Self-love and self-care practices
- Inner child work
- Shadow work
- Soul retrieval
- Solitude and introspection
- Meditation and mindfulness exercises
- Connecting with spirit animals and spirit guides
- Spending time in nature (ecotherapy)
Click on any of the above links to get further guidance if you’d like a place to start with your spiritual healing.
I also highly recommend that you check out our article on Soul Work, which goes into great depth on ways of reconnecting with the soul.
It’s important to be educated and use spiritual discernment here. Not all spiritual healing modalities are equal. Not all healers or teachers are in it forย yourย best interest. And sometimes, our motivations for spiritual healing are wrong. I’ll explain why next.
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The Dark Side of Spiritual Healing That No One Talks About
Thereโs a reason why no one talks about the dark side of spiritual healing.
First, most people arenโt evenย awareย that thereโs a dark side. Second, if theyย areย aware, they’re uncomfortable facing or confronting it, typically out of fear or a sense of embarrassment.
Hereโs where I come in: your friendly neighborhood shadow worker. I will help to outline exactly how seeking spiritual healing can be self-destructive and why.
Sounds paradoxical, doesnโt it? Well hereโs the thing: it is! Spiritual healing can feel like an enigma wrapped in a riddle, and Iโll explain why.
To be as short and succinct as possible, there are two dark twins of spiritual healing:
Issue 1: Spiritualized Resistance
The first dark twin is what I call spiritualized resistance.
What does spiritualized resistance mean? Basically, it means that sometimes we can use spiritual healing as an excuse to โget rid ofโ certain feelings, memories, and experiences that weโve had.
Whatโs wrong with trying to banish or get rid of what we go through? Itโs a form of resistance. And resistance leads to tremendous suffering. Iโm talking about anxiety, depression, anger, resentment, bitterness, the whole shebang.
I believe that everyone in the spiritual community needs to understand that trying to โhealโ is not always about healing. In fact, often, healing is used as an excuse to deny, suppress, disown, or reject what weโre going through.
It is completely understandable to want to try to get rid of our suffering โ particularly if we’re exhausted and deeply wounded.
But hereโs the thing: desperately trying to heal can actually exacerbate your unhappiness and deepen your resistance to whatโs happening, thereby preventing you from actually healing!
I will repeat that sentence again (read it slowly): desperately trying to heal can intensify your unhappiness and deepen your resistance to whatโs happening, thereby preventing you from actually healing!
It is important for us to understand that true spiritual healing is about facing, acknowledging, exploring, and integrating what we are going through. Itโs not about trying to escape our reality!
Issue 2: Dark Spiritual Teachers
The second dark twin is perpetrated by spiritual โhealersโ and practitioners who are aware โ either on a conscious or unconscious level โ of the first dark twin of spiritual healing.
These teachers are aware of the addictive quality of the push-and-pull game of eternal self-improvement and they use it for their own self-gain.
I see this literally everywhere. Itโs a sad thing to behold. Itโs prevalent in people who believe they must pay big bucks to โmanifest their desires,โ keep their vibration high, and basically accumulate more and be more (as if who they are and what they have isnโt already enough).
But when does this getting and being more actually end? Itโs an eternal cycle that leads to suffering (which I wrote about in my thought-provokingย self-improvement article).
Then, of course, you have the more sinister breed of spiritual teachers who appear divine and enlightened on the surface but are raging megalomaniacs underneath.
A true spiritual teacher will always give your power back to you, but a false spiritual teacher will not only parade around wearing your codependency like a crown but will also actively encourage it.
They will purport to have the power to โhealโ all your issues and provide you with the โone true pathโ towards enlightenment, illumination, self-realization, or Oneness.
And if you believe them, you’ll be ensnared in a dangerous web of believing that someone outside of you can offer you salvation. (Read more about dodgy spiritual guidance.)
What is Authentic Spiritual Healing?
Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives.
โ Akshay Dubey
I hope that during the course of this article, I have communicated myself clearly. Spiritual healing itself isnโt to blame; it is our mental approach to spiritual healing that’s the issue.
When spiritual healing is used as a way to avoid, deny, suppress, and disown our issues through โspiritualized resistanceโ we are abusing its potential. And when spiritual healing is used as a dangling carrot by unethical and unwise spiritual teachers, then it is being desecrated.
So what is authentic spiritual healing?
True spiritual healing is about facing, acknowledging, exploring, and integrating what we are going through. Itโs not about trying to escape our reality! Itโs really as simple as that.
Just think of it this way: if you had a blistering sore oozing blood and puss โฆ would you really achieve much by covering your eyes and pretending to ignore it or “manifesting” it into oblivion? No. The pain and infection would still be there.
Would you really heal by pretending that sore wasnโt yours or byย making it someone elseโs responsibility to look after? No. You’d still carry that sore with you everywhere. It wouldn’t go away any time soon.
The only way to heal that blistering sore is to face it, accept it, and find ways of alleviating your suffering โ not as a way of trying to escape your reality โ but as a form of self-love. This, to me, is true spiritual healing.
So when it comes to spiritual healing, please be mindful of these traps and practice healthy caution. Critical thinking skills and radical self-honesty are so vital in this day and age.
What I’ve Learned
Iโve been guilty of using spiritual healing as a way to try and escape my suffering before.
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As a person who has wrestled with anxiety for years, I have often fallen into the trap of trying to spiritually bypass my suffering through fluffy feel-good thinking or methods that promise to instantly โget ridโ of anxiety.
But folks, I’m here to tell you that it doesnโt work. Trying to put a band-aid on a festering sore will only make it worse.
Resisting your reality, even in a โspiritualโ way, will only serve to deepen your suffering. The only way out is through. You need to go to the core and roots of your issues in order to heal them.
Please reflect on what I have written in this articleย because it might save you years of pointless struggle.
Love and peace to all.
Further reading and helpful resources:
- Are You Addicted to Spiritual Escapism?
- Traps & Pitfalls on the Spiritual Wanderer’s Path
- Spiritual Awakening Bundle (for down-to-earth spiritual support)
What does spiritual healing mean to you? What struggles have you faced or “dark spiritual healers” have you come across? Tell me below!
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I take a great interest in self-knowledge, work on life in harmony with myself, and also drawing. And also I love the site lonerwolf, you guys are the best! I will be glad to talk with people with similar interests :-)
Thank you for being here, Daniils. :)
Good day Daniils. I assume you are in Russia. I am the East Coast of the USA – Please read Thomas Troward, Emily Cady, Ernest Holmes and Neville Goddard. You will find a lot of their material on the Internet. You will find great joy in reading them and you will find great strength in discovering them. I am a Science of Mind practitioner, the teaching of Ernest Holmes, but also Emily Cady and Thomas Troward.
May you be protected by the Light.
Hi, I have been going through what I believe sounds like everything you are saying. Trying to push through healing by suppressing emotions. It has left me in a not so good state. My mind/thoughts have changed drastically and my visions and images are not as vivid. My mind used to speak to me constantly and now it has become very quiet and lonely. Iโm unhappy and often times wish I was dead. Tho I feel very dead inside. I need help and guidance. Pretty sure I went through dark night of the soul, I have had a awakening but also denied a lot of my real feelings and beliefs. I am wondering if there is any way you can help me? I was vibrant and happy just a year ago but had some not kind voice speaking to me.
Jamie, while we don’t offer personal sessions at the moment, I encourage you to look up a “transpersonal therapist / psychologist” in your area. They deal with the spiritual and psychological aspect of emotions, trauma, etc. I hope this helps.
Hi, I have been through a very rough couple of months and am continuously trying to “explore”, ” define” certain things. Have always been quite popular and attract people since I can remember. The thing is people walk away feeling better and tend to feel “drained” , “exhausted” after these interactions but still feel drawn to these people and helping. I am quite sure I am an “emp”.
I am very interested in what your experiences are. My son has been dealing with the dark side and crazy Facebook people for years and years. I would like to lead him into someone who understands the dark side of spirituality/enlightened/awakened etc.. He has been in numerous jails, institutions, etc., because these “enlighted, ascenscion light workers” have told him he is a saint, a god, an angel, Through his whole journey he says he is the chosen one to suffer for other people. It is VERY complicated and a numerous years long story which I can’t possibly even begin to type here. Could you please let me hook you up with him? I think me coming across this article was meant to be and I need help and so does he. He is 28 and the demons, DXM use, thinking he was made to suffer for others has ruined his life. He knows this when he is in his right mind but I need to find someone who understands instead of these thousands of Facebook “ascension” people who I know some mean well, but they are clueless some of them. Can you please help me or lead me in the right direction? We have suffered so much because of the dark side of this. Thank you for any help you can offer.
Hi Kathleen,
I’m sorry to hear that your son is suffering so much. The reality many struggle to face is that spirituality can become a drug โ in fact, its addictive potential and charisma is far greater than that of a chemical substance because it’s so subtle, so intangible, and so elevated. What you mention about your son feeling like ‘he is the chosen one to suffer for other people’ is a clear indication of the Martyr Complex (see this article: https://lonerwolf.com/martyr-complex-symptoms/) and Savior Complex (see this article: https://lonerwolf.com/traps-of-spiritual-growth/). If your son is willing, I do psychological-based tarot readings, and you can contact me via the contact form of our website to get this sorted out: https://lonerwolf.com/contact/ Thank you for sharing, and I truly hope your son feels better. We also have a facebook group if your son needs a more balanced crowd of people to be around: https://www.facebook.com/groups/LonerWolf/
Unfortunately I feel like I have a spiritual block. Whenever my mind is peaceful , I keep thinking of this man. I think a bout him all the time. We are not in contact anymore physically but metaphysically I feel his presence all the time. He has moved country’s and I have moved county’s. I don’t think we will ever see him again. So why does he take up so much thinking space? I want to…as you said, put a band aid over it and I have tried! I feel like the only way is direct action…but I’m completely out of my depth. Completely hating writing this on valentines day.
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I am so greatful to have come across your site! I absolutely am enjoying every piece thoroughly! Thank you both so much for sharing your knowledge… Namaste-
thank you for this quite eye-opening article.
As a medical doctor I am always quite sceptical about spiritual healing, but in the last years I have often searched the path to be able to heal my patients (in what ever way possible). And of course there’s quite a bit of bull shit on the market. Reading this article however, opened my eyes.
However I do remain with lots of questions. Even if I can agree on the thought that healing is more than covering the eyes to the spirituale lessons to be learnt, (and that too I find extremely difficult, even for myself), how do you explain all this to people who suffer so much physically that their lives have become no more that surviving the day…?
In short, even thou now I know a little more .. I feel even less capable to find a way to try to heal my patients.
Johan
Amen! I agree with you 100%! I realized a long time ago that the only person who was going to save me was me. I went through different healers trying to “fix” myself. You are right. It only made me feel worse. Then the whole you are not positive so that is why you are suffering made me feel even worse.
I didn’t start to get better until I realized that I had to love myself more and put myself first. Some people would say that is selfish. That is what I thought for years. It is why I suffered so much trauma. I gave away so much of myself. I had so much soul loss.
I see so many people being taken advantage of by people who claim to be healers. Spending thousands of dollars for “coaching”. People are looking for quick fixes for their pain. Then their are the people who stuff their pain down so deep. I can see their pain. I’ve had people stop talking to me because I tried to be empathic to them. I’ve learned to just help those who are ready.
Thank you Aletheia for shedding light on this. I hope that a lot of people read this.
I would also add that spiritual healing is also about playing the long game. Very few healers talk about this because they may not be able to attract clients. Websites are full of glowing testimonials where people’s lives were turned around after one or two sessions. In my experience and of many others this is very rarely the case. Once you “clear” a layer a new one presents itself, or there may be many sides of an issue that needs to be cleared. Also many modalities do not go deep enough to the root cause, so for the seeker it is a bit of a journey traversing a lot of hollow promises until they find a modality that is truly transformative. Spiritual healing is not a quick fix for our impatient, fast food culture.
This article was very illuminating. I do have a question; I agree with facing and accepting the wound, but how does one go about healing it? If we approach the situation from a place of self-love, I suppose we will have the answer. But how does one, after accepting the wound, go about properly healing the wound itself?
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You have to understand the root trauma. When you have experienced trauma(s) itโs it enough to say that I will have a positive outlook on my future and not let it consume me..because the fact is that a lot of our traumas stem from one root trauma, and when we experience trauma we develop our own set of individual coping mechanisms that is run by the subconscious, meaning we donโt see the effect of it ourselves unless we truly do the work. Decoding our childhood programming is a must. Some people become emotional unavailable, some people very codependent, others passive aggressive and angry etc. This past year Iโve been experiencing heartache. It took me a while to understand that what I felt about being rejected by this one person actually was the same emotional reaction I had to several other relations that year, both family members, friends, who just vanished from my life for different reasons. I finally understood that this had nothing to do with what those people had done or said to me (or not said and done)it was about how they all triggered my root trauma, which is being emotionally abandoned by my narc father and codependent mother in my upbringing . Our reactions always reflect something incomplete Inside of us. If we donโt deal with the root trauma, we can never stop these emotions from surfacing.. different people and situations will continue to trigger us. So how to heal depends on what you have experienced in your life. Itโs about understanding what went wrong, what you didnโt get that you should have gotten (on a developmental level) and how you as an individual coped with not getting that. When understand your childhood programming, then you have to start reprogramming your brain, hijacking the fight or flight ecenter in the brain. There are numerous ways to heal, and like this article explores, finding a good therapist/coach that actually understands trauma and is not just in it for the money or whatever, is important. It has to be a healer that has done the healing work themselves., and are truly compassionate about guiding you through it without cynical incentives like money or fame…