We all interact with the world in ways that are as unique as ourselves.
There are thinkers and feelers, introverted and extroverted people, highly sensitive and intuitive people as well as endless other ways of processing the world around us.
It’s no surprise then to discover that we each give, receive, and understand love in different ways. Although there are as many love “dialects” as there are people, there are five main love languages we use to communicate: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch.
The 5 Love Languages® by Dr. Gary Chapman presents the idea that we each have an “emotional love tank” that constantly needs replenishing. When our emotional tank is empty, we feel unloved, unappreciated, and our relationships don’t reach their full potential.
Most problems in our relationships with other people come from speaking in different love languages, whether that be with your partner, friend or even child. For example, your husband/wife might complain to you that you “don’t spend enough time with him/her” when you communicate your love through acts of service.
In this free love languages test, you’ll find out what your primary love language is. Discovering your love language will help you to communicate with others how you prefer to receive love.
You might also like to encourage your loved one’s to take this love languages quiz so that you can find out how to speak their love language as well.
Wendi Papalia
May 7, 2019 at 21:30Love lonerwolf.com– extremely informative and lots to consider!
dorothy brady
January 31, 2019 at 23:50while in therapy over the years I learned that the things we crave in our relationships are the things we didn’t get from our parents, so we seek out someone who ‘WON’T be able to give us what we want most, my love language is physical touch, my parents were not very affectionate, I don’t have memories of being hugged or held, no memories of affection. my husband took the test also, his love language is affirmation, and for some reason I am not able to constantly compliment or stroke his ego.. he is not very touchy or affectionate toward me..the one thing I crave most in our relationship
Dr. Keisha Lankford
December 5, 2018 at 09:59Love it
Sakib
May 4, 2018 at 00:13My answer for this test was soooo right! Hugs to the world!
Aletheia Luna
October 30, 2018 at 16:44So glad to hear that Sakib! <3
Miriam
December 14, 2017 at 07:041 Acts of Service (I will love you passionately if you take it upon yourself to do the dishes, take out the trash, keep the house clean/tidy, massage me, etc. … – if you can do that, prepare for a steamy night ☺)
2 Quality Time (just having your undivided attention and spending time doing something fun together makes me happy)
Aletheia Luna
October 30, 2018 at 16:44Haha so true!
Luisa Calle
June 15, 2017 at 08:48Hello. I wanted to take this test but I am not able to find a link or figure out how to start the text. Was the test remove? Help.