A healer’s power stems not from any special ability, but from maintaining the courage and awareness to embody and express the universal healing power that every human being naturally possesses.
— E. Leventhal
At heart, we all have the capacity to heal ourselves and nurture others.
Spirit, energy, thought, intention, skillful practice, and empowered belief are available to all people.
Yet, as individual expressions of the Divine, we all have different paths, and not all of us feel called to healing practices.
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Spiritual Healing and Social Rejection
Let’s first briefly explore the ‘dark’ or difficult side of being called to be a spiritual healer.
Those of us who do feel “called” in some way to spiritual healing are often met with some resistance, either from our friends, our family members, or our culture.
This is because spiritual healing can often be frowned upon as a quasi, scientifically misguided, charlatan practice by a society that is built on the mind and ego.
While there are con artists in every practice, the genuinely beneficial aspects of spiritual healing are often ignored mainly because they can’t be quantified or reasoned with.
Unfortunately, this has led to a large percentage of us (particularly in Westernised societies) losing touch with traditional forms of healing.
In this modern world, very few of us were raised around shamans, medicine people, or traditional healers who could pass on ancient knowledge and holistic healing practices.
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Instead, as children, we were taken to GPs, physicians, and doctors who prescribed us medications and other allopathic medicines.
While some of these medications were indeed useful and helped to fix certain parts of us, they never aided us in healing our whole organism with its many layers.
Yet despite the way you were raised, you might still feel a strong pull towards spiritual healing, even if it “goes against the grain” of what you were taught or the model of healing you were raised to accept.
So, are you a spiritual healer? Let’s find out.
30 Signs You’re a Spiritual Healer
If you’re a spiritual healer, you will sense it deep down.
You might feel like an old soul who doesn’t quite belong in this time or place, an empath who feels everything too deeply, or quite simply an outsider or lone wolf who can’t seem to integrate into society properly.
On a personal level, I’ve always known in my blood and bones that I’m a healer.
As a child, I was thoughtful, inquisitive, dreamy, and extremely nurturing. I remember caring for the kids at school, caring excessively for my toys, ‘rescuing’ stranded insects that got caught in spider webs or snails about to get crushed on the pavement, and caring a whole lot about the “bigger picture” in life.
I also remember playing with energy, having precognitive dreams, being hyper-sensitive to the physical and emotional environments around me, and somehow always attracting wounded people into my life.
Spiritual healers come in many shapes and forms. For example, I fulfill my role as a spiritual healer through my writing. Other people fulfill their calling by practicing reiki, kinesiology, yoga, meditation, hypnotherapy, psychotherapy, herbalism, acupuncture, EFT, and a whole range of other practices.
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Spiritual healers are shamans in their own right. They are people who allow the energy of Spirit to flow through them in a way that guides, rejuvenates, and empowers others.
The spiritual healer is also a wounded healer, meaning that by healing themselves, they also heal others. This is the best kind of education available.
Are you a spiritual healer? Here are 30 signs that I’ve compiled (some might surprise you):
- You are highly sensitive to energy.
- You feel other people’s emotions and physical ailments as your own (aka., you’re an empath).
- You’re incredibly intuitive and can ‘read’ others very easily.
- You are a “big picture” thinker (and don’t concern yourself too much with the details).
- You have gone through bouts of existential depression or existential anxiety.
- You’ve felt like an outcast for most of your life.
- You think differently from others.
- You get overwhelmed in public easily.
- You’ve struggled with anxiety or panic before.
- You’re the natural peacemaker between people.
- You’re the confidant that people turn to in times of need.
- You experience digestive issues, lower back pain, or gain weight around the stomach area (lower chakra imbalances).
- You feel drained after spending too much time around people
- Sensitive beings like animals and children gravitate towards you.
- Other people tend to “dump” their emotional baggage onto you to deal with.
- You think in shades of grey rather than in black and white.
- You’re very aware of the interconnectedness of life and deeply respect it.
- You believe in synchronicity more than coincidences.
- You have a history of healers in the family, e.g., nurses, psychologists, massage therapists, doctors, counselors, etc.
- You’ve experienced major trauma in your life, e.g., the loss of your family, a life-threatening illness, a near-death experience, physical/sexual/emotional abuse, war, mental illness, etc.
- You’ve gone through a spiritual awakening or kundalini awakening.
- You’ve experienced the dark night of the soul.
- You tend to be mostly a right-brain thinker rather than a left-brain thinker.
- You experience chronic low energy or pain in your body (e.g., chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia, etc.).
- You are drawn to the archetypes of the shaman, wise man or woman, witch, wizard/warlock, and healer.
- You tend to attract people who need “fixing” but often get trapped in self-sacrificing roles.
- You’re an excellent and compassionate listener.
- You’re naturally drawn toward healing professions that help others experience balance and wholeness.
- You can feel, distinguish between, and alter the energy within and without yourself.
- You have had numerous mystical experiences.
How many signs in this list can you identify with? If you think I have missed any signs of being a spiritual healer, comment below and make a suggestion!
Spiritual Healer Q&A
Think you might be drawn toward the role of the spiritual healer but are still unsure? Here are some commonly asked questions that might help you out:
Spiritual healers come in many shapes, forms, and types. However, overall, a spiritual healer’s focus is on the non-physical realm: the Soul, Spirit, and energetic layers of a person. Most spiritual healers focus on helping a person reconnect with their Soul or Higher Self by clearing away old energy, identifying inner blockages, and channeling healing energy. Spiritual healers may choose to work with ancestral trauma, past life issues, chakra imbalances, soul loss, or anything that may be causing unhappiness, inner dis-ease, and disharmony.
There are many courses out there that can certify you and sharpen your skills as a spiritual healer. However, none of these are mandatory to becoming a spiritual healer (although, they can strengthen your skills and give you a strong theoretical/philosophical basis). Spiritual healing is an innate calling that comes from the Soul; it can’t be handed to you on a piece of paper. Many people study intensively by themselves. With that being said, formal study can help to hone these innate talents. To become a spiritual healer, focus on what subjects and topics you’re drawn to and seek out trustworthy and trained facilitators – that is your path.
Yes and no. Spiritual healing is an inborn gift. If you’re an empathic and naturally compassionate person, chances are you are a born healer. But spiritual healing doesn’t suit everyone – even those with the innate gift. To be a spiritual healer, you need to have done a lot of inner work (working through your own inner wounds), have a high level of integrity, and be a grounded person. Some people find spiritual healing too overwhelming and intense, so keep that in mind when pursuing this path.
How Can I Start Being a Spiritual Healer?
As a healer, the best possible place you could start is with yourself. As the proverb goes, “Physician, heal thyself!”
Starting from within first is the best way to ensure that you have enough energy, passion, and love to give to others. If you haven’t done the right inner work, you may struggle with issues such as:
- Low energy and chronic fatigue
- Poor personal boundaries
- Projecting your problems onto others
- Being a ‘savior’ rather than a facilitator
- Struggle to hold space
- Compassion fatigue
- Overwhelm and burnout
In the words of teacher Phil Good,
Doctos study medicine. Teachers study education. Healers study darkness.
Being a spiritual healer requires a profound, long-term, ongoing commitment to your own mental, emotional, and psychological healing (aka., working through your darkness) so that you can be a clear channel or mirror of Love for others.
There are three places to start. The first is with self-love. The second is with inner child work. And the third is with shadow work.
Here are some further guides that can support you on your journey:
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- Lush images with quotes
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- Oracle/tarot card spreads
- Book recommendations
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Spiritual healing occurs as we begin to consciously reconnect with our essential being – the wise, loving, powerful, creative entity that we are at our core.
May you reconnect with that wisdom within so that you can help others access their innate healing power.
Tell me, how many of the signs in this article can you relate to? What is the biggest struggle you’ve had as a healer, and what advice do you have to share? Please share below – you never know who you may help!
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I do show some of the signs, but I also have Aspergers Syndrome via being on the Autism spectrum. I help people but a part of me hates humanity. I myself have dealt with childhood trauma and verbal abuse. Didn’t really make more than one friend in school until 8th grade and High school was a struggle for me as I found out that I was the only one with Aspergers syndrome at my school. I’m 34 and fight these feelings of hatred and disgust towards humanity for how I was treated. Why did my soul think yeah its great to put Chris through childhood trauma, verbal abuse and have him see the world in a hateful state of mine. You humans are a blight to yourselves, immature morons you lot are. I can’t believe my soul has chosen this for me as my reincarnation. I refuse to care and be hurt again.
Thank you for shining so brightly. I was recently injured in an accident at a water park. I was waiting in line at the climbing wall explaining to another kid how this wall was like life and that you have to keep getting back up and trying and then boom. Another kid jumped of the top of the wall and did a cannonball on my head. I seen a flash of light and then was underwater. When I popped up I called for a lifeguard but don’t remember how I got on to the course again. While laying there listening to everyone panicking around me I was completely calm. I help the lifeguard calm down and secure my head. I went to the ER and the doctor said my neck was broken but my spinal cord was ok. Since I have been home I’ve been just blessed with great friends who help my gf Haley and I still keep our business working but this slowed pace and neck brace have given me time to be alone with my thoughts. I’ve realized I was just moving too fast and that if I slowed down I actually attract so much positive energy that the sick and the injured come to stay at my house and contribute to our goals. Opportunity has been mocking in abundance and I feel like I’m meant to help others by helping them find their true passion and allowing them to feel that passion with a team of people behind them. On top of that I’ve been asked to be on the board of a music and performing arts sanctuary. Life truly is amazing and reading your words has made me feel more confident in myself. I’m not sure if we are naturally healers or if it’s our own attraction to diversity that allows us to heal ourself first and then when your share the message of hope in the most challenging of times, that other become healed. I could only hope that this message finds a way to create a new excitement and passion in your life.
Lots of love
Dustin Reimond
I can relate to every one of the signs you mentioned, to me that’s unreal!
There was only 1 question that did not relate to me. I’ve always known I had a gift of healing. My inner core is finally at the place it needs to be. I am overly sensitive to people and my surroundings. I am usually 2 steps ahead of everyone. People shun me and think I’m crazy when I tell them something and it comes true.
I always get lost in this website because I move to so many different articles and just really love reading all of it. So much resonates with me and really inspires me to dig even deeper. I think I’m always doing work and constantly being reborn, each time with a new and refreshed mental clarity. What a beautiful gift.
Every single one of them
♡
#14 “Sensitive beings like animals and children gravitate towards you” This has came up before, if it is truth, I cannot say. Although not found of labels I consider myself a mystic and wounded healer. I have spent years cultivating a high energy body so I can emit a healing energy with my presence. Knowing this why are most kids and animals not attracted to me (not that I expect to be Snow White lol)?
I am able to relate to all the signs that you mentioned … I wanted to add some … Music heals the soul … Using music you can heal yourself and others…
Yes, absolutely. Music is magical, it transports to another time and place – and often to another level of consciousness. Thanks for reminding us here Ameejo!
I had 28 out of 30
I had 29 out if the 30.
100% Describes my life as well.
Holy, girl you just describe my Hole life on this post I’m like wow that’s to much coincidences