If there is any advice I would universally give to every person, regardless of who they are, it is this: walk your own path.
Walk your own damn path.
Donโt walk someone elseโs path. Donโt walk the path your parents predestined for you just because you feel emotionally indebted to them. Donโt walk a path that appears to be yours, but is actually societyโs fabricated ideal of who you โshouldโ be. Donโt walk a path just because you fell into it and itโs โgood enough.โ Donโt walk a path that you feel a sense of enslaved duty towards because itโs what you โneed to beโ doing according to dominant sociocultural standards.
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Walk your own path. That means CHOOSING your own path in a very conscious way. This is an act of spiritual self-sovereignty.
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What is a Lone Wolf?
A lone wolf personality is typically defined as a person (or animal) who prefers to spend time alone rather than being in a group. However, within this website, lone wolf refers to a person who has listened to their calling and has left behind their old life, thus rendering them alone or alienated from others. We all possess an inner wolf that thirsts for freedom, truth, and authenticity. If we seek to live a meaningful life, if we want to fulfill our destiny and spiritual purpose, itโs our job to listen to that inner wolf and embrace our sacred wild nature.
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Why Most People Are Terrified of Walking Their Own Path
Although choosing your own path may initially sound very empowering, thereโs a reason why most people prefer to follow the herd.
First Reason:
Firstly, walking your own path means that you might be REJECTED by others. You might be gossiped about, thought of in disparaging ways (e.g., as a โkook,โ โoddball,โ โidiotโ), and outright alienated or estranged from other people. Sometimes those people who reject you are those closest to you. And what could be more painful than losing a family member, friend, or even partner?
As a species, we’re biologically programmed to seek approval because acceptance equals survival. Inevitably, doing anything that may cause us to be rejected sets off those deep, primal alarm bells and raises the hairs on the back of our necks. I would go so far as saying that walking your own path guarantees that at some point someone will look down on you and say, โwhat on earth are you doing, you imbecile?โ
Second Reason:
The second reason why most people avoid walking their own paths is that it’s a hell of a lotta work. No one is out there giving you a map, a set of rules, or instructions that tell you what to do. YOU have to be responsible for figuring it all out from scratch.
It kind of feels like stumbling through the dark in a room full of sharp objects. You will make mistakes. You will fall flat and land smack bang on your face. You will feel embarrassed, overwhelmed, and a lot of other uncomfortable emotions that come with doing something completely radical.
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And on a mental and emotional level, most people see that. Most people understand, on some superficial level, the consequences and therefore prefer the cozy, comfortable, and bland mediocrity of society-prescribed living.
Third Reason:
The third reason why most people avoid walking their own paths is that itโs “too much” RESPONSIBILITY.
When you take your path into your own hands, YOU are responsible. Thereโs no one to blame, point the finger at, whine about, or feel victimized by. You are the worker, boss, innovator, and creator all-in-one. Instead of someone else holding all the cards, you hold all the cards, and it is ultimately your problem if you wind up feeling shitty with what you do. Most people canโt handle that.
Most people like the comfy confines of their cages because it makes them feel justified about feeling like a โpoor littleโ victim of life. Instead of taking self-responsibility, itโs much easier to dump the burden onto someone elseโs shoulders and feel self-righteously empowered through blame.
Fourth Reason:
And last, but not least, the fourth reason why most people avoid walking their own paths is that they donโt know where to start. Some donโt even know that there is another path, to begin with.
We seem to be raised in cultures that tell us that there are a limited number of paths, aka. the paths that are taught by the big money-making University and College industries.
In school, we are conditioned to believe that going to University is the only path towards developing a legitimately โfulfillingโ career path โฆ and that getting a properly certified career path somehow equals happiness. Very few of us are even taught about other equally, if not fulfilling paths. Spirituality isnโt even touched on in most cases.
So when we do stumble upon the possibility of taking a new path that goes against the grain, we are not only intimidated but also invalidated by our social conditioning.
Many people believe that the only way to know youโre walking a โproperโ or valuable is if you get the approval of social institutions (or shall I say social marketplaces) in the form of degrees and PhDs. The deep distrust we are conditioned to develop in ourselves paralyzes our ability to act. So many of us never make anything of our dreamsย โ they just fester in the back corners of our minds.
13 Weird and Wonderful Benefits of Walking Your Own Path
So far weโve focused only on the negative side of walking your own path and being a lone wolf. But what about the breathtaking, exciting, blood-tingly-good benefits?
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When comparing the negatives and positives side by side, let me tell you, the negatives pale in comparison to what you can expect to experience.
Yes, being different and being a lone wolf walking your own path can be uncomfortable, tiring, confusing, and alienating at timesย โ BUT there are so many rewards to reap from this courageous way of living. Some include:
- You’re free to follow your true soul path
- You’ll innovate and create to your heartโs utmost desire
- You’ll connect with people who truly support and nourish you (your soul family)
- You’ll experience tremendous mental, emotional, and spiritual growth
- You’ll become the person you are destined to be
- You’ll make a real difference in the life of others
- You feel more ALIVE
- Gratitude, excitement, and joy come more easily
- Many unexpected doors open to you
- You feel more vibrant and energized
- You feel a sense of self-respect for courageously pursuing your life purpose
- You get to experience the thrill of exploring unknown territory
- You can go to sleep at night feeling happy and content
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Does walking your own path always mean that youโll have to embrace being a lone wolf or social outsider? No, not always. Maybe your life purpose really is entering statistics into a data file in an office. Maybe it’s simply being an acceptable member of society. (If you feel empowered by that or like it’s for a greater purpose, all the more power to you!)
But I would argue that thereโs a difference between defensive complacency (e.g., โI donโt know what youโre talking about, but Iโm perfectly happy in this path/job,ย thank you very muchโ) and real fulfillment.
Spiritual Awakening and Being a Lone Wolf
Spiritually speaking, we’re all required to walk the path of the lone wolf sooner or later. Those who have undergone a spiritual awakening and/or dark night of the soul know this all too well. Quite frankly, it’s impossible to keep conforming to society’s expectations and values after the veil has been pulled from our eyes. The old ways will eventually crumble. Something must give.
So, why is walking the path of the lone wolf an inseparable part of the spiritual awakening journey? The answer is that to begin the spiritual path in the first place we must leave the familiar. We must walk alone. We must go on a voyage into the Great Unknown. (If you’re familiar with mythologist Joseph Campbell’s ‘Hero’s Journey,’ or the Tarot’s Fool card, you’ll understand this.)
But what triggers this initial awakening and desire to go solo?
At a certain point in our lives, we look around at everything and everyone around us and think, โthereโs got to be more.โ We’re no longer fulfilled. Life feels empty. WE feel empty. This thirst for something deeper and greater than material pursuit is what initiates us onto the path of the lone wolf.
Why is it called “the path of the lone wolf”? The reason why I call it the lone wolf path is that it can initially be a very lonely path. WE must be the ones to reconnect with our inner courage, discernment, and wild internal compass to walk the path well โ NO ONE else can do this work for us.
And without embodying the inner strength, resilience, and intelligence represented by the wolf, we can easily fall back into the soulless and oftentimes destructive life lived by the billions of sheep out there.
How to Embrace Being a Lone Wolf and Walk Your OWN Path
Walking your own path, on some level, always requires a conscious choice in which you say โYES, this feels true to me and what my Soul really craves for.โ Even if you accidentally stumble onto that path, walking an authentic path always requires some level of self-awareness.
At some point in your life journey, you’ll need to embrace being a lone wolf. Youโll have to go at it alone. Youโll have to go against the grain, break free from the herd, ask the difficult questions, and face the confronting truths which may alienate you from others.
You’ll need to be discerning, see through the bullshit, shrug off the haters, and keep moving forward, even if you’re tired of fighting.
Being a lone wolf means being a spiritual warrior. It means standing up for what you believe in and courageously walking into the wild unknown.
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Itโs all worth it. I can assure you of that and I can keep asserting it until I turn black and blue โ but ultimately you must discover this for yourself. Donโt take anything I say as truth unless you have experienced it directly.
If youโre drawn towards embracing your inner wolf, beginning your spiritual journey, and courageously walking your own path, here are some helpful pointers:
1. Understand and accept that there will be some backlash
Whether from your friends, family members, or society at large, you will inevitably encounter naysayers. At some point, you’ll be met with cynics, killjoys, and sourpusses who seek to bring you down to their level. The reason why they fight against you is that, in their minds, you invalidate their way of existence. By courageously forging your own path you are causing them to reflect on their own lives and decisions. If on some level, theyโve realized that theyโve followed the crowd and made no unique decisions of their own, they’ll feel a sense of resentment which theyโll project onto you.
Although itโs not nice to be on the receiving end of this, understand that the issue lies with them, not you. Everyone walking a path with a heart will experience social unease at some point โ youโre certainly not alone in facing this problem. Just keep moving forward and remind yourself that itโs no oneโs place to dictate what your life should be like except you.
2. Ask yourself, โWhat do I truly and deeply want?โ
This is not a question you ask just once, this is a question you continuously ask on your path, thousands of times over. Keep bringing back your focus on what you desire on the deepest level โ not what others want to project or dump onto you.
What do you feel called to do? What do you wish to accomplish in your life? What wild paths are you afraid to take because they are so alien โ but that you feel secretly drawn towards?
Our paths are not static: they’re constantly shifting, evolving, and changing. By repeatedly asking yourself this question, you’ll be able to reinvent yourself over and over again. Instead of getting stuck in an old and stagnant way of living, you will be in tune with your Soul.
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3. Question everything
Being a lone wolf and walking your own path go hand-in-hand with a sharp mind. How are we to discover what is our โstuffโ vs. otherโs โstuffโ if we canโt be discerning? How can we learn what is true and what is deceptive without the ability to analyze?
Your mind is a tool that needs to be sharpened. Without having a sharp mind, itโs easy to fall into delusion, naivety, and stumble into rabbit holes which lead to great confusion. Without the ability to use critical thought (and balance that with an open heart), you can easily fall prey to emotional and spiritual predators out there.
Your ability to be discerning is your protective sword on your path. I canโt emphasize enough how important it is to be discerning! Donโt let anyone convince you of anything until you have experienced it yourself.
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4. Love yourself and be your own best friend
Embracing the path of the wolf and taking responsibility for your life can be lonely. If you are your own worst enemy, your path will be a million times harder. But if you can focus some of that energy on learning to love and accept yourself exactly the way you are (warts and all), your path will be a million times easier.
You are with yourself 24/7 and you’re the only person who has been there by your side through everything โฆ doesnโt it make sense to like who you are? Doesnโt it make sense to enjoy spending time with yourself? In my experience it absolutely does. Practicing self-compassion and learning how to love yourself are two of the most powerful tools and strengths you can possess. Ever.
5. Know yourself
Strive to learn a little bit more about yourself, your strengths, and your weaknesses each and every day. Self-discovery and self-understanding are tremendously important facets of walking your own path. As the wise master, Lao Tzu once wrote, โHe who knows others is wise. He who knows himself is enlightened.โ Only when you can come to deeply know yourself can you truly embrace who you are and walk your path with confidence.
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6. Feel the fear, but act anyway
Walking the path of the lone wolf will inevitably confront you with some scary and intimidating situations. Even just starting the path can be terrifying.
Following your heart and listening to your calling is not as sunshine-and-roses as many people make it out to be. Often it requires tremendous sacrifice and the ability to look fear straight in the face without turning away.
While I am not a perfect example, I have learned as a rule that feeling the fear but acting anyway is a good choice (in most cases). Obviously, if youโre facing a life-threatening situation it would be better to pause and probably run the opposite way.
But if the fear youโre feeling is emotional or psychological be gentle with yourself and keep pushing forward. Hold your goal in mind, reaffirm your worthiness and inner strength, and keep going. Donโt let anything or anyone try to bring you down. And if you do fall down, keep picking yourself up, over and over again. Remember, you can do anything, just do it afraid. Have the courage to be vulnerable.
7. Let your wild nature guide you
You are both human and divine โ accept this. Embrace the wild and non-rational part of you that serves as your inner compass. Listen to your gut feelings and let your animal self be filled with passion. You donโt have to be tamed or repressed any longer.
Walking your own path and embracing the lone wolf side of you means that you finally have freedom. You have the freedom to feel the wind in your hair, the sun on your face, and the earth beneath your feet. Your life is your making. Your destiny is in your hands.
Make sure that you get out of your mind and into your body; into your heart, blood, and bones โฆ what are they telling you? Honor the wisdom in your instinctual nature. Honor the wild and raw passion pulsating deep within. Harness this passion and let it guide and motivate you.
There is no point walking a path that you do not feel passionate about. Let the wolf within you howl loudly and freely. Remember that YOU are both the traveler and the path all-in-one. The compass you need for your path is always within. Be careful of looking for it outside of yourself. While others may be able to shine a light on your path, ultimately the greatest guiding light is your own Soul.
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What is your experience with walking the path of the lone wolf? What struggles have you faced and how have you overcome them (if at all)? What did it feel like when you broke away from the herd and followed your own path? Iโd love to read your response below.
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I guess my advice to those who want to take the lone wolf path is that people are going to judge no matter what path you might take. Believe me, no matter what you will do, some people are going to like that and some people are going to dislike that. There’s no option in life where you’re going to please everyone, even if you lie to yourself there is something like that, so might as well take the path that makes you happy the most. If you try to please everyone, then all sides would just find you as being disingenuous, and eventually. . . if you listen to this warning, no sides will trust you, if you demand to listen to all sides. Maybe if it’s something minor like saying you like all the ice cream flavors, sure, but not when it comes to the more important values and beliefs you stand for. It will eventually come out that by trying to act like someone else to please everyone with different opinions and beliefs, it will come out that it will look like you’re betraying everyone around you, and that would be very unfortunate. Hmm . . . my main spirit animal is not a wolf though, though a wolf does manage to accurately describe me to some degree, though I still think a fox is more accurate to my personality. A fox is somewhat smaller than a wolf, so it might not be as intimidating in terms of pure strength and power, but somehow it’s more agile, more intelligent, and more cunning in a way isn’t it? Still, that’s only compared to a wolf, but compared to a lot of animals, foxes can be fairly dangerous if they want to be. A fox also comes off more charismatic, mischievous, and flexible than a wolf, don’t you think? Somehow. . . the image of a wolf comes off a tad bit more serious, directly aggressive, and also just more dependent on others. I mean, in the wild, alpha/beta wolves don’t really exist.(Look up “alpha wolf myth” on google) Hierarchy only applies to wolves in captivity. In the wild, wolves are just a family, without having such human power structures between them. But a fox you know. . . is a little more independent, perhaps? And more inclined to use charm, wit, and humor to deal with conflicts? To me. . . that sounds more comfortably diplomatic, if you ask me.
Thanks for sharing some of your advice, AnonymousPerson.
I love foxes as well – they remind me of a mixture between a cat and a dog. They definitely carry some devilishly mischievous energy, almost like a trickster. ๏ปฟ๐๏ปฟ
But I definitely love wolves the most โ for me there is a soul connection here. The fact that there are no alpha wolves in nature (only in captivity), and that wolves actually operate in family units (while some break away, which are the lone wolves), makes me love them even more. The symbolism and correlation to my own story is, well, wild ๏ปฟ๐๏ปฟ
Hi I live in Northern Ireland co Antrim Ballymena I am lone wolf but what made me this way is my own wife and my doather and son has tryed to kill me since the last 10 years thay have no idea how much it is hurting me if it was not for my grandkids and my mum I wood be 6 feet under the ground and I pray to God evey day and evey night 24 /7
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That sounds horrendous, Samuel. I hope you’ve contacted the police or got a restraining order. I don’t know your situation or mental state, and am taking your words at face value, but I wish you safety and wellness. Take good care of yourself ๐บ
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be sure to give them great advice. I know they will appreciate it.
I know that you are trying to make people feel better in there sole
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I was so depressed and one day just decided to get up and walk towards a girl’s voice I have chosen the path of lone wolf how do I support myself when narsosistic family is trying to destroy every step I take I was able to grow mushrooms and herbs heal the sickest of sick and they had me committed and called insane cuz I don’t want to be a slave it’s so hard to work a meaningless job after I know how many people I helped with spiritual medicine how do I work cooking food without hating every second
I am 72+ years old and to tell you the truth I don’t ever believe that I was part of a heard. I have always, it seems, followed my own path and went places that others did not wish to go. You might say that I have always been a weird duck but it is who I am. For some unknown reason, until now, I have always gravitated towards the wolf even if it was a bookmarker with its picture on it. Now I know why. My Spirit animal is the Wolf. Thank you so much for all of this information that you present. It has helped me so unbelievably much.
In the two years since being widowed at age 70, I have experienced more spiritual growth than I did in 70 years.
Great article. Education is a better safeguard of liberty than a standing army.
I am 79 years old and for 54 years of marriage (my wife died on March 18, 2020) I have been living a lie and practicing a faith (Catholicism) which I basically do not believe in (certain sacraments). I just bought St. John of the Cross, DARK NIGHT of the SOUL and in it there is a โsuggestionโ to seek the intelligent guidance of an experienced โdirectorโ to help you on your journey. The suggestion being that โbeing in the darkness prevents you from seeing clearly with your own eyes.โ My issue is that a priest or minister may be directing in their ways, beliefs, attitudes, etc. I am totally confused as to the next step I could take.
Suggestions????????
Go within alot. Meditate.
Focus more on developing your intuition, and give your left brain a rest but not completely blocking it out.
Peruse the information on this website, fellow Soul๐๐ผ. See if it helps, makes sense, connects.
Stop thinking.
Just be.
Quiet the mind and answers will come.
If they donโt, in the silence ask for help. Then wait. Carry on with life and answers will come.
(Be quiet and observant. Learn to become the watcher of your life situation rather than the victim of it)
If still no answers, repeat.
(it took me a long while. Many months of scepticism and discipline to touch source. I was so desperate. At the end of my material life. I was destroyed. Now I cannot stop the synchronicity fest ๐)
Enjoy the process for just that. The process of life – itโs wonderful in both its pain and beauty.
The whole thing is about Christianity? It’s been going on for 2000 years ? The information is outdated? Doesn’t work anymore ๐ All religions are man made and depending where u live ?they will be against you? I’m starting to see clearly. They say you got free will not true ? Another lie All religions the way up is down through hell. Pain and suffering? Not anymore? Lol๏ปฟ๐๏ปฟpeople who are on the healing path are making breakthrough s and healing themselves through the divine part of yourself and tapping into trapped energies? Here in Canada we’re all under the Catholic umbrella? Forced into this religions like a box that’s why you can’t get out? It’s like the whole community? World is against you? I can see the truth and it’s hard ๐ช but once u get through u can see how the people? The collective are doing it ? Even making bad things happen in ur life and I mean bad ? I told Jesus? The father in heaven and AA who are all on the same team to get lost ๐ I don’t want ur programming and conditioning and seriously they are trying to stop me ? Ruin my life ? They show up here and there and I can see it? I’m talking about Not sure God Or so call father who I think is man made like cults? I thought I was evil or something but I ain’t? I hot a puppy dog who watches and gazes at the TV every once and awhile then just moves on .but one day there was a priest and he seen him and lost it ? Started barking at tv screen? And it’s like what are u trying to tell me here and I have spirit guides and I think it’s a woman ? She is showing me the truth? I couldn’t figure out fir the longest time in the lords prayer I kept saying Deliver me from Evil which is you? So I’m on to something and they know it ? There is a They and they’ve been controlling the world ๐ A few months ago I got 3 speeding tickets cops were on to me all the time ? What is going on here ? Why are these cops following me? The last time cop wouldn’t even come to my driver’s side door cuz they know I can tap into them ? They’re sub conscious ? We’re all connected? Anyways he says I’m giving you a ticket for following too close ? What are u talking about? I said ? And he was furious and he said You back off? And the name on his shirt was Masons? So this whole thing about saving your soul at a church or Aa watch out? They will if you comform? If you don’t all kinds of things start happening. Car accidents? People getting drunk and hurting someone and ending up in a place where they can make follow their way? Your not going crazy and your not evil? Or bad ? 1st thing they tell you when you go to church is your a sinners? Put down .guilt trips Every God fearing American ? How many times have you heard that? Om on to them and I feel I’m being persecuted? Mentally? Spiritually Abused? Which leads to emotionally and physically abuse? They are cruel? Did you know that it was the Jesuits the spiritual entity behind Hitler to kill the Jews ? They burned all the books ? The priest back in the day? Not true ? I have them all ? I’ve tapped in to the books of knowledge. ๐ there in me ๐ I see this big library in me ? Anyways if anyone is reading this I can sure like some feedback or support? I’m alone out here and there’s no one to talk to cuz no one else knows? Lol ๐
I have been bred in a highly orthodox and judgmental society, where your ultimate aim in life is to be either a doctor, engineer or a bureaucrat.
My family members have constantly tried to tempt me into considering bureaucracy as a career. But that’s not what I want.
I am in love with two subjects: Biology and Literature. I wish to pursue a branch of Biology and become a freelance writer side by side.
And three people have always believed in me: My father, my mother and my school teachers to whom, I am truly grateful. My father is my greatest support, saying, “Whatever you choose to be in life, you should do your best and be satisfied.”
I began my journey for enlightenment recently, and I stumbled upon this excellent website.Perhaps, the universe has conspired to work magical paths in my life. I am intrigued by the wisdom in these articles and truly grateful to the authors for helping me in my journey.
I shall be a lone wolf, indeed.
Thank you Aadya, and how wonderful that your family is there to support you, that is a great blessing! I hope you pursue your dreams with passion โก
hello my name is courtney gregory i just had a very intence spritual awakeing sole to sole im seeking out for someone to feel my vibe
Hello Courtney my name is John Iโm pretty much the same but I havenโt reached out til now youโre text has given me the opportunity to do so if youโre looking for someone to interact with Iโd like someone that might understand my experience thanks talk soon maybe
I used to be a good person, always ready to please and help others. Then i realize that when the time came for me to get help no one was there for me.
What i did in my life start from nothing to build a 25y plus IT career, have my own condo after losing 2 houses due to separation, be cheated on, when i was faithful and back in 2013 realizing after my last separation what was out there for me in term of relationship and the fact that i felt so good alone in my own thoughts.
The choice was clear, i guess i was always a lone wolf to start with going to karate class on my own at 14 taking 3 buses to get there, spending more then half my life at the gym training alone etc.
There is no fear of living alone because at some point it will eventually happen to all of us. Its better to be alone then surrounded by people who use and abuse you.
“Its better to be alone then surrounded by people who use and abuse you.” I 100% agree with you kay. It’s crucial to learn how to enjoy and thrive in solitude for *all* people โ it is a spiritual requirement in my opinion. Kudos to you for picking up the pieces and building a life that resonates with you!
Hi I know that you are on your own my wife and doather stoed in front of me cutting the arm s and my chest of my self I ended up my wife this year we wood be 30 years married we are still married I am not separated she lives in with my doather if it was not for my grandkids and my mum I wood not be here any more 2 years ago I had a rope around my neck if it was not for the police man saving my life I wood not be here today so sorry for texting you
Most women nowadays as it is are very stuck up evil rotten and very nasty low life loser B—— as well which makes it very difficult for many of us single guys trying to find love today. Especially when there will be times when these very pathetic women will curse many of us guys out for absolutely no reason at all when we will just try to start a conversation with them. And i know other single friends that had the very same thing happened to them too. What in the world is up with that anyway? Just too many very psycho women everywhere these days unfortunately which is why so many of us guys are still single and lonely today, and not at all by choice either. Not our fault since these women are definitely are really to blame for that one.๏ปฟ๐ข๏ปฟ