We all interact with the world in ways that are as unique as ourselves.
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There are thinkers and feelers, introverted and extroverted people, highly sensitive and intuitive people, as well as endless other ways of processing the world around us.
It’s no surprise then to discover that we each give, receive, and understand love in different ways.
Although there are as many love “dialects” as there are people, there are six main love styles that we use to communicate: Physical, Practical, Presents, Kind Words, Activity, and Kinship.
We each have an “emotional love tank” that constantly needs replenishing. When our emotional tank is empty, we feel unloved, unappreciated, and our relationships wither.
Most problems in our relationships with other people come from speaking in different love styles, whether that be with your partner, friend, or even child.
For example, your husband/wife might complain to you that you “don’t spend enough time with him/her” when you communicate your love through physical affection.
In this free love styles quiz, you’ll find out what your primary love style is. Discovering your love style will help you to communicate with others how you prefer to receive love.
This test can also help you to understand your loved ones better and enhance a deeper sense of interbeing and spiritual connectedness with them.
So feel free to also encourage your loved ones to take this love styles quiz so that the two of you can find out how to speak their love style as well.
(✬ By the way, if you’d like deeper support in strengthening and healing your relationships after taking this test, check out our Healing Relationships Bundle for more guidance and empowering resources!)
What did you get?
Share your results in the comments!
I took this quiz for fun only but my results were very accurate: PRACTICAL Love Style. And although I’ve chosen to remain single and celibate for the past 5 years – in order to manage and protect my own energy – this is definitely the way my relationships with friends and family thrive best.
Present times are challenging in this illusionary “physical” world and we need to be there for each other in every way possible. There is far too much unnecessary and preventable suffering and division/polarization in this world. We each have the power to change that each day in the seemingly smallest of ways. Strangers are not exempt. I am You and You are me.
I got Kinship Love Style… and yes, i feel satisfaction in connections where there is a sense of mutual understanding and compatibility.
I got activity. And yes. If I can’t spend time with you there is no way I can touch you or be touched.
I got activity. Not sure if it was right or not because most of the time I was like, “I don’t knoooowwww.” It could be this one…or that one…that one? I don’t have much experience with romantic love. Mama and I are very close though so I thought about us. I had a relationship with someone. She had to move far away, back to her family. So we ended it but we are still close. Anyway, I think Activity is right. Mostly, because it was hard for me to not be lonely when she worked all the time. We still love each other but I just couldn’t handle being so far away. I know a lot of people can do that but I guess I’m shallow. I dunno. Namaste, my friends.
I got “kinship”.
My Primary love language is physical I’m a hugger and sweet if I really like and appreciate all qualities relationships in my life but I like kind understanding sweet hugger people like myself idk I guess I’m just weird
uugh loved the quiz but my love language is 100% words of affection and acts of service not just quality time or activities :) I also replied almost 100% that I want to feel understood so that does not match up <3
So, i heard and read about love languages but since I had a very loveless childhood/life so far, didn’t really know what to think of it. Still not sure if I even know what love is or how it suppose to feel. So i did the test. Some questions where really hard to answer, and some of them, like other people comment, didn’t have the right answer. Like spending time alone after a hard day.
Anyhow, it appears my love language is physical touch.
I am still struggling in the self love and self acceptance thing. (Want to buy the self love journal soon)
How can this new knowledge help me to learn to love myself better?? Is there any guidance??
Although I love a good cup of tea, nice dark chocolate and a walk along the beach. (Preferably all 3 together :D) its not quite the same thing as physical touch.
How can I help myself with this info??
This test just blew my mind off the charts. A close friend kept telling me this and I don’t want to believe now I do for sure.!!