There is one particular state of consciousness that can change your life forever.
This holy moment can only be described as “ecstatic” in that your connection to life expands significantly.
In this profound state of being, you feel that life is full of beauty and sacredness – yet this feeling is not subjective, but is instead an objective phenomenon that is outside your personal self.
Theologian Rudolf Otto called this experience “numinosum.” But in this article, we’ll refer to it as the mystical experience.
All throughout history, the mystical experience has been referred to as a “religious” or spiritual experience, where the few mystics that recorded their experiences reported it as a rapturous and undifferentiated sense of profound Unity with all of existence.
There have been many descriptions of the mystical experience throughout the ages. A few of my favorites are firstly the ancient Greek word and mystical Christian concept of Kenosis, or divine emptying. Such an intriguing word has been used for centuries to describe the state of divine receptivity that closely mimics what it’s like to have a mystical experience.
In psychology, the closest terms that capture this mysterious state of being are Abraham Maslow’s description of “Peak Experiences,” and psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi’s concept of “flow.”
And in nature-orientated cultures like the Australian Aborigines, mystical experiences have been referred to as “Dadirri” – or the deep listening emerging from silent and still awareness.
But in layman’s terms, what is the mystical experience? And of what relevance does it have to the spiritual awakening journey that so many of us are undergoing?
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What is a Mystical Experience?
What is a mystical experience? In essence, the mystical experience is a state of being in which the personal ego (or separate sense of self) merges back into the Divine Self, also known as Source, Consciousness, God, Nondual Awareness, Brahman, or Nirvana.
A few other synonyms of the mystical experience are the Buddhist concept of Satori, the Kundalini awakening, as well as the Western notion of Self-Transcendence and the transpersonal experience.
Mystical experiences are temporary glimpses into our most sacred True Nature.
Those who undergo mystical experiences often describe feelings of bliss, ecstasy, unconditional love, interconnectedness, and Oneness with all things.
The Candle in the Dark (What a Mystical Experience Feels Like)
Perhaps the best way to elaborate the mystical experience might be with an allegory. The ancient Hindu tradition of Advaita Vedanta has an interesting one:
Imagine that you are in a completely dark room. You’ve been told that in this room lives a very large snake. As you sit in the room, you can see its silhouette and you feel great fear as you contemplate the potential for it to bite you at any moment. But one day there is a flash of light which illuminates the room and you see that what looked like a snake was, in reality, a rope. Although the flash of light was momentary, it gave you a glimpse of the truth. All of a sudden your long-held fear vanished entirely, and your experience of the room was never the same ever again.
This is what a mystical experience feels like: it is like a flash of truth that releases you from your limited sense of self and gives you a taste of a reality that somehow feels more real.
Ancient Greek philosopher Plato once recounted a similar allegory from his teacher Socrates, which described what the mystical experience feels like and how it impacts one’s life. Below, I’ve loosely paraphrased his intriguing thought-experiment:
Suppose that you’ve been kept chained in a cave all your life. Behind you blazes a fire, and next to you sit a row of other prisoners. All that you and the prisoners know of life is the experience of watching the shadows dancing on the opposite wall to you, and the shared interpretations of what you see. However, by chance one day, one of the prisoner’s chains breaks, and he escapes into the outside world. At first, he is confused, overwhelmed, scared, but he also feels an immense sense of expansion, awe, and bliss. He is aware that he is experiencing a larger, more complete and absorbing reality than what he could see within the cave. His natural instinct is to return to liberate his fellow men, but after struggling back into the world of darkness and shadows, his attempt to enlighten his companions is met with ridicule and incredulity as they accuse him of being crazy.
To some degree, we are all prisoners in the cave of our past experiences. Any mental worldview becomes a cave the moment it is taken for “absolute reality.”
9 Characteristics of the Mystical Experience
There are moments of oneness with the Beloved, absolutely ecstasy and bliss. That is nothingness. And this nothingness loves you, responds to you, fulfils you utterly and yet there is nothing there. You flow out like a river without diminishing. This is the great mystical experience, the great ecstasy.
– Irina Tweedie, Sufi & teacher
Every person’s mystical experience varies in length and intensity. However, there are a series of characteristics that almost all people who glimpse the Divine share.
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If you’re curious to know whether or not you’ve had a mystical experience, you can read the nine characteristics that I’ve defined below:
1. Conscious Unity
The boundaries of where you perceive your individual identity to begin and end completely vanish (otherwise known as ego death). Instead, you’re left with a boundless and infinite union with all that is around you.
2. There is No Time or Space
With a lack of a definable identity or spatial recognition, your sense of time feels infinite. You go from perceiving time from moment-to-moment as a static individual, to perceiving it as a stream of eternal present moments.
Without time, space is endless.
Because your sense of identity is gone, your ability to separate “your” (now non-existent) surroundings into individual “spatial” elements also disappears.
3. Objective Reality
Without a discernible identity comes a sense of greater “objectivity” as though you’re experiencing a much more intricate and profound reality. Everything doesn’t just feel perfect, everything is innately perfect.
4. Gratitude
Most of your ecstatic feelings stem from an immense sense of gratitude. This gratitude is an overwhelming sense of awe at “your” (now non-existent) insignificance in comparison to the vastness of existence.
5. Life is Seen as Sacred
Your sense of gratitude is so vast that you feel almost undeserving of having the opportunity to experience such a miracle. You develop a new sense of respect for the sacredness of life that allows you to be here.
6. You Understand the Nature of Paradox
Normally, our sense of egoic self creates a duality in our perception of reality (i.e., “I” am separate from “That”). However, the moment this separation disappears, you’re left with a non-dual reality in which your intellect finds paradox after paradox (e.g., something is both light/dark, here/absent, human/divine, limited/eternal, beautiful/ugly, etc.). In truly understanding the nature of paradox and how it permeates all of reality, you experience mind-blowing realizations and expansive breakthroughs.
7. The Experience is Indescribable
The overwhelming magnitude of emotions and intuitive understanding that you embody makes the attempt to even describe the mystical experience feel limited by language. To try and put words to such a reality feels insulting to the depth of the experience.
8. The Experience is Temporary
The very nature of the mystical experience (experience being the keyword here), is its transience. Eventually, you end up returning back to your habitual way of life, but the experience changes something deep inside of you.
9. The Experience is Life-Changing
After experiencing such a state of ineffable Divine Truth, suddenly death isn’t as scary as it used to be, and the beliefs or ambitions that you once held to be so important often tend to lose their meaning. In fact, the mystical experience often awakens a deep thirst to try to integrate as much of that experience back into one’s regular day-to-day life as possible. And so begins (or deepens) the spiritual awakening process.
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The Mystical Experience is Only a Taste
There’s a useful term in the Christian doctrine known as “Grace.” This word basically means that we receive mercy and love from the Divine because it wants us to have it, not because we have done anything to deserve it.
Many people confuse having a mystical or spiritual experience with cultivating a spiritual life. It’s common to think that we can somehow “earn” or “manifest” such profound glimpses into the Divine, when in reality, such experiences are brought about by grace.
Furthermore, our appreciation of such profound experiences is directly proportionate to our development of spiritual maturity.
If the grace of a mystical experience is given to a 10-year-old child, they will no doubt enjoy the experience. But the degree in which they absorb it will be much less compared to someone who has undergone maturation – or the deep exploration of their psyche and the ability to live life from the seat of their Soul.
For the child, the mystical experience will be a great experience that will eventually fade and become a distant memory. But for an adult who has dedicated their life to cultivating spiritual maturity, to “tilling the soil of the Soul,” this experience becomes the seed that is prepared to blossom.
Indeed, such an experience might be the very tipping point that leads to the ultimate spiritual awakening – also known as Enlightenment or Illumination – or the permanent shift in consciousness from the individual ego to the Infinite Higher Self.
Inner Work & Soul Work
Experiencing spiritual liberation as the goal of the spiritual path is precisely why practicing inner work (i.e., self-love, inner child, and shadow work) and soul work (i.e., surrender, disidentification with the ego, stillness) are so essential to committing to the journey of spiritual awakening.
Without removing the blockages that obscure our Inner Light, mystical experiences have no deep or long-lasting impact on us.
In other words, such experiences just become extravagant rendezvous with no real substance.
But by learning to integrate the profound realizations that we’ve been given access to, we can experience true and long-lasting transformation. Slowly and steadily, we begin to taste the essence of Eternity.
Have you ever had a mystical experience? What was it like? I’d love to hear about it below!
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Jessica & Mateo, I had such an experience in 1980 as the result of intensive Raja Yoga meditation (eyes open). I experienced a visual field of green and gold lights that persisted for sometime. For the next three days or so I remained in the ‘witness state’ as I went about my daily life which continued almost on remote control as I watched from above. This was an ecstatic experience of complete control. In regards to ‘Grace’ my recent excursions into Parasympathetic NS activation via breathwork and chakra vizualization has afforded a few insights as to how this seems to work, or at least one avenue thereof. Once again it is via the pineal gland. The classic yoga visualization of the crown chakra as the thousand petal lotus is a very tough visualization to achieve. I have no idea how it can be completely achieved as my human mind simply cant do it. And that is the secret perhaps. I have given up the struggle and instead accept that the Divine wants the very best for me and all I have to do is to ask and surrender and confidently grasp that grace that awaits patiently. So I pull down… Read more »
This email had perfect timing. Just this week, I had this happen. It was undescribable. This write up helped me understand. THANK YOU!
I experience these momentarily after going through emotional release, but I have more repressed stuff that is gradually coming up so once the experience fades I feel better and have freed up energy and resolved more stuff but the feeling and experience is gone and the fear or anger or whatever is there to work through and accept. I begin again each day, trying not to be goal orientated rather a way of life as the traumas recede.
I am becoming more accepting, more nonchalant and more loving to myself so I guess things are changing for me.
The only Mystical experience that I recall is one warm evening. Feeling slightly tired I flopped into a large lounge chair and just allowed my mind to calm, and my body to completely relax. With breathing slowing down and thought gently rolling in and out, I settled and accepted no thought for the first time. It was bliss to not feel past problems, or current anxieties from creeping in to spoil the show.
As I opened the eyes from meditation everything felt a type of peace and grace I had not felt before. Anything felt possible while no inner sounds, images or subconscious thought ruffled the bliss. One drop of water dripped upon this calm plain of stillness would have caused ripples across the cosmos. It was the best! As a teaching as I was here but not here at the same time. And has helped me reach out when stressed to remember this time and how beautiful it felt to be free.
Thank You My Strength of courage you dealt with yet choices are not others place of trophy on mantel, it collects dust You can take when you leave earth planes error plains.lol.
Spirit of You n Yours so Stunning as well as kangaroo do kick..now u really think I’m that dumb ..Focused point loved your voices I hear as well beauty I posses cause U HAD TO HEAR OR HERE BRUTALS OF LOVE OF MINE OR MINDS.
Hugs to Souls
Diana
Incredible.
Yes. I experienced this aged 7 and age 10 and never again. I remember thinking something like “I’m really me” and just feeling this intense feeling of being completely present, it’s hard to describe in words but it took my breath away.
I feel like as I’ve got older the clarity has perhaps faded.
Sir, If I had read this page and the comments on this page 3 years ago, I would have dismissed all of you as quacks! I’m 46 years old and now I’m sitting here crying at how similar all these experiences are to what I have been experiencing for about 2.5 years now and very often at that. It happens as often as a few times in a minute but often several times a week. I get these moments COMPLETE existential fulfillment baking with eternal and infinite bliss that is always accompanied by Divine affirmation. I don’t understand it, but it IS understanding! These are moments of perfect clarity, awareness, peace, unity with everything and such a feeling of positivity, PROFOUND LOVE and an unshakable knowledge that I am immeasurably important. He makes me feel like I’m the most important thing he ever created. I say He, but I haven’t seen Him. I see the place, though. His fingerprints are in everything and even His fingerprints overflow with life, color and a beauty words can’t touch. These experiences last no time at all. I can be gone for a million years in between two words of somebody else’s sentence and… Read more »
Instead of reading “holy”, I see “wholly”, because these experiences allow us to feel wholly within ourselves and the infinite energy that is wholly with us and all things in existence.
In My early years I have always been the mystic and outcast out of body experience and so on in the teenage much trance and altered states of mind when I was 23 I have a really dark Shakti awaking who really destroy my life and it took me 3y4m and then I get this wonderful experience of Mercy from GOD when I first met this black angel of light who came with all the religions in chains and took me out of all the dimensions after 60d something I’m scream out loud of fear then came this meltdown of my ego and my self and all I feel was bliss and love for all of the universe, when I wake up my only word was Enhet in Swedish! Oneness with all of the universe! Almighty GOD Allah Jah Oversoul call it what you want! The only thing I have to say that We all are One in the same Creation and the only thing that can be Higher is This One Merciful Blissful LOVE for all the Creation! But I have been Alien to this world and the system we have when money is king and man is GOD… Read more »
recently while on mushrooms, I experienced what can only be accurately described as ego death. I say “ego death” because that’s definitely what happened – and because I cannot say with 100% certainty that I actually died, even though that is what I perceived to have happened. I can’t say that I died physically because here I am, alive and well. I have no proof that I actually died, aside from a clue that was left behind, which I will share a little bit later on. so I decided, for reasons I will not share, to eat some mushrooms all by myself. but it was 5:30 am or something like that, and I was tired, and cold, and outside, and it was December. so I went inside to lay down next to my man, who was already asleep, so that I could get warm. I fell asleep before I felt any effects from the mushrooms, and forgot that I had even eaten them. then I became aware that I wanted to wake up, but I couldn’t. my awareness was awake, so to speak, but I could not get my body to function as if it were awake. I could barely… Read more »