At the roots of most chronic physical, mental, and emotional illnesses is a basic wound: a lurking spiritual malady.
The basic philosophy that accompanies most spiritual healing traditions is that when we are disconnected from the Divine, we are severed from true well-being.
Since the Divine is the source of our energy (our life force), when we are alienated from it, we experience numerous illnesses that manifest in endless forms.
The purpose of these illnesses is to help us reconnect with our Divine inner Center – to point the way back to Wholeness.
This is where spiritual healing comes into the picture:
It’s a path of healing; of reuniting us with our true Spiritual Nature.
However, not all approaches to spiritual healing are healthy. In fact, it’s wise to practice discernment and caution here.
We need to look out for ourselves because we may be used by so-called spiritual healers and preyed upon by false ideas.
As a person who has a lot of experience with spiritual healing, who works in the spiritual field, and who has published numerous spiritual books on the topic of healing (for spiritual seekers, empaths, and old souls), I’ll share key advice in this article.
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What is Spiritual Healing?
Spiritual healing is the practice (and experience) of restoring, harmonizing, and balancing our Spirit or Soul.
Spiritual healing is also seen as a transcendental experience of reconnecting with our true nature. As author and teacher, Shakti Gawain writes:
Spiritual healing occurs as we begin to consciously reconnect with our essential being – the wise, loving, powerful, creative entity that we are at our core.
Spiritual Healing and Spiritual Awakening
For many people, spiritual healing is a crucial part of the spiritual wanderer’s journey of awakening.
By revealing and soothing the wounds that other modalities (such as psychology or nutrition) fail to heal, a doorway is opened to deeper inner spiritual alchemy. In other words, spiritual healing can offer us the chance to grow and transform in a way that no other path can.
Many sensitive and receptive beings, such as empaths, intuitives, and old souls, are drawn to spiritual healing. Some even become spiritual healers themselves. For many spiritual wanderers, spiritual healing becomes a regular part of their spiritual awakening path.
5 Types of Spiritual Healing
There are many different approaches to spiritual healing.
For example, some new-age healing practitioners focus only on bringing balance to the etheric or non-physical energy field of the human body. Shamanic healers focus on restoring the spirit and curing soul loss. And other holistic healers focus on unifying the body, heart, mind, and spirit.
Even psychologists and therapists are starting to incorporate spiritual healing into their work such as those operating in the depth and transpersonal fields of psychology.
So in summary, there are five different types of spiritual healing:
- Physical healing (of the body)
- Emotional healing (of the heart)
- Mental healing (of the mind)
- Spiritual healing (of the spirit or soul)
- Holistic healing (of the body, heart, mind, and spirit)
The type of spiritual healing that you’ll need will depend on the following questions:
- What is your main struggle in life right now?
- Do you have more than one pressing issue?
Depending on your answers, you’ll be able to determine what type of spiritual healing modality you need. For instance, if you suffer from chronic pain (for which no other methods work) and also depression, you would need physical and mental healing – ideally, some kind of holistic healer would benefit you the most.
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If, on the other hand, you have one issue, like an unshakable sense of grief from a lost relationship, seek out a healer who specializes in emotional healing.
Common types of spiritual healing include chakra healing, crystal/herbal remedies, breathwork, reiki, traditional medicine (ayurveda, Chinese medicine), aromatherapy, meditation/visualization techniques, and so on.
But what about soul healing?
What does that mean? And does it apply to you?
(By the way, here’s a video we made on the topic of spiritual healing a while ago – it provides some unique food for thought!)
How Can I Heal My Soul?
If you’re interested in spiritual healing, you likely feel that something fundamental is missing from your life.
Some people are able to verbalize this feeling, while others just feel a stark, bone-chilling absence of something vital. When a person is able to pinpoint what’s wrong, usually they discover that it’s rooted in the soul.
“I’m a lost soul,” they might think, or, “My soul is broken.”
But this is a fundamental misunderstanding. Yes, something is certainly wrong, but it’s not that the soul is broken (which is impossible from an objective standpoint), it’s that they’ve lost touch with their soul.
In other words, they are living in a lifeless, colorless world that lacks the joy and succulence that the soul brings.
So the question isn’t how to “heal” your soul (because the soul is Divine and incapable of being fractured – you can experience this while meditating), but how to find your soul.
Mature spiritual healers (i.e., those who understand the nature of the soul) and spiritual healing resources out there (such as this website) will recommend a host of different methods. Some of them include:
- Self-love and self-care practices
- Inner child work
- Shadow work
- Soul retrieval
- Solitude and introspection
- Meditation and mindfulness exercises
- Connecting with spirit animals and spirit guides
- Spending time in nature (ecotherapy)
Click on any of the above links to get further guidance if you’d like a place to start with your spiritual healing.
I also highly recommend that you check out our article on Soul Work, which goes into great depth on ways of reconnecting with the soul.
It’s important to be educated and use spiritual discernment here. Not all spiritual healing modalities are equal. Not all healers or teachers are in it for your best interest. And sometimes, our motivations for spiritual healing are wrong. I’ll explain why next.
The Dark Side of Spiritual Healing That No One Talks About
There’s a reason why no one talks about the dark side of spiritual healing.
First, most people aren’t even aware that there’s a dark side. Second, if they are aware, they’re uncomfortable facing or confronting it, typically out of fear or a sense of embarrassment.
Here’s where I come in: your friendly neighborhood shadow worker. I will help to outline exactly how seeking spiritual healing can be self-destructive and why.
Sounds paradoxical, doesn’t it? Well here’s the thing: it is! Spiritual healing can feel like an enigma wrapped in a riddle, and I’ll explain why.
To be as short and succinct as possible, there are two dark twins of spiritual healing:
Issue 1: Spiritualized Resistance
The first dark twin is what I call spiritualized resistance.
What does spiritualized resistance mean? Basically, it means that sometimes we can use spiritual healing as an excuse to “get rid of” certain feelings, memories, and experiences that we’ve had.
What’s wrong with trying to banish or get rid of what we go through? It’s a form of resistance. And resistance leads to tremendous suffering. I’m talking about anxiety, depression, anger, resentment, bitterness, the whole shebang.
I believe that everyone in the spiritual community needs to understand that trying to “heal” is not always about healing. In fact, often, healing is used as an excuse to deny, suppress, disown, or reject what we’re going through.
It is completely understandable to want to try to get rid of our suffering – particularly if we’re exhausted and deeply wounded.
But here’s the thing: desperately trying to heal can actually exacerbate your unhappiness and deepen your resistance to what’s happening, thereby preventing you from actually healing!
I will repeat that sentence again (read it slowly): desperately trying to heal can intensify your unhappiness and deepen your resistance to what’s happening, thereby preventing you from actually healing!
It is important for us to understand that true spiritual healing is about facing, acknowledging, exploring, and integrating what we are going through. It’s not about trying to escape our reality!
Issue 2: Dark Spiritual Teachers
The second dark twin is perpetrated by spiritual “healers” and practitioners who are aware – either on a conscious or unconscious level – of the first dark twin of spiritual healing.
These teachers are aware of the addictive quality of the push-and-pull game of eternal self-improvement and they use it for their own self-gain.
I see this literally everywhere. It’s a sad thing to behold. It’s prevalent in people who believe they must pay big bucks to “manifest their desires,” keep their vibration high, and basically accumulate more and be more (as if who they are and what they have isn’t already enough).
But when does this getting and being more actually end? It’s an eternal cycle that leads to suffering (which I wrote about in my thought-provoking self-improvement article).
Then, of course, you have the more sinister breed of spiritual teachers who appear divine and enlightened on the surface but are raging megalomaniacs underneath.
A true spiritual teacher will always give your power back to you, but a false spiritual teacher will not only parade around wearing your codependency like a crown but will also actively encourage it.
They will purport to have the power to “heal” all your issues and provide you with the “one true path” towards enlightenment, illumination, self-realization, or Oneness.
And if you believe them, you’ll be ensnared in a dangerous web of believing that someone outside of you can offer you salvation. (Read more about dodgy spiritual guidance.)
What is Authentic Spiritual Healing?
Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives.
– Akshay Dubey
I hope that during the course of this article, I have communicated myself clearly. Spiritual healing itself isn’t to blame; it is our mental approach to spiritual healing that’s the issue.
When spiritual healing is used as a way to avoid, deny, suppress, and disown our issues through “spiritualized resistance” we are abusing its potential. And when spiritual healing is used as a dangling carrot by unethical and unwise spiritual teachers, then it is being desecrated.
So what is authentic spiritual healing?
True spiritual healing is about facing, acknowledging, exploring, and integrating what we are going through. It’s not about trying to escape our reality! It’s really as simple as that.
Just think of it this way: if you had a blistering sore oozing blood and puss … would you really achieve much by covering your eyes and pretending to ignore it or “manifesting” it into oblivion? No. The pain and infection would still be there.
Would you really heal by pretending that sore wasn’t yours or by making it someone else’s responsibility to look after? No. You’d still carry that sore with you everywhere. It wouldn’t go away any time soon.
The only way to heal that blistering sore is to face it, accept it, and find ways of alleviating your suffering – not as a way of trying to escape your reality – but as a form of self-love. This, to me, is true spiritual healing.
So when it comes to spiritual healing, please be mindful of these traps and practice healthy caution. Critical thinking skills and radical self-honesty are so vital in this day and age.
What I’ve Learned
I’ve been guilty of using spiritual healing as a way to try and escape my suffering before.
As a person who has wrestled with anxiety for years, I have often fallen into the trap of trying to spiritually bypass my suffering through fluffy feel-good thinking or methods that promise to instantly “get rid” of anxiety.
But folks, I’m here to tell you that it doesn’t work. Trying to put a band-aid on a festering sore will only make it worse.
Resisting your reality, even in a “spiritual” way, will only serve to deepen your suffering. The only way out is through. You need to go to the core and roots of your issues in order to heal them.
Please reflect on what I have written in this article because it might save you years of pointless struggle.
Love and peace to all.
Further reading and helpful resources:
- Are You Addicted to Spiritual Escapism?
- Traps & Pitfalls on the Spiritual Wanderer’s Path
- Spiritual Awakening Bundle (for down-to-earth spiritual support)
What does spiritual healing mean to you? What struggles have you faced or “dark spiritual healers” have you come across? Tell me below!
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This has lead me to genuinely question what is life? And what does it mean to me. I’ve been trying to heal my own wounds and it turns out I was simply trying to run away from them. In pointless efforts of trying to escape my own reality unconsciously. But for me true healing is a completion of the psyche to merge and integrate all lost aspects of the self, even those we couldn’t see due to the mental clutter. Becoming the true you in an genuinely, unique, authentic way. No falsity of your way of being for any reason whether it be social conditioning, past traumas, or even negative subconscious beliefs. True healing to me means simply to be yourself as the true authentic great person you are.
At the center of who you are you have the answers; you comprehend who you are and you comprehend what you must do.
I have often thought, after studying and practicing witchcraft several years ago, that I may have opened something up or even placed a curse upon myself. Is that even possible?
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As always a great article. You’re work is so valuable to me and always brings me back to my core when I feel out of balance
Also that’s is very true! When I desperately try to heal because I feel broken and I NEED to fix myself fast so I deserve my soul connection again (which is not how it work but when you’re in a state of fear and desperation you lose your connection to the ground and go loco) it just gets harder. Because I’m not coming from a place of love and care for myself instead I try to get rid of what I perceive as broken or wrong. This comes from false conditioning and can be very painful.
I’m so happy that more and more people are addressing the fact that a healer doesn’t have the power to heal us instead gently guides us to heal ourselves. It’s about empowering others to follow THEIR soul not our egos.
Love to you both
Hi, I read your articles with interest. I’ve known a few charismatic gurus in my time and I’ve been ‘around the block’ when it comes to various strategies and techniques for self-healing and self-fulfilment. At the same time I’ve been working for the past 35 years on my own ‘periodic table’ of (all) consciousness and relating it to some of my own more ‘colourful’ experiences. My only comment for the moment is that, like a ship, a lot of our being is ‘below the waterline’, inaccessible to conscious interrogation. (Though communication is permanently ongoing in an unconscious, ‘inspiring’ way and in both directions simultaneously) And yet we lead such ‘conscious’ lives that it is difficult to accept the idea that that which may be of the greatest good to us in any moment, sudden or protracted, lies in the unconscious and needs to be invoked in an approach which is a combination of technique and faith – that ‘state of our own personal nation’ voice that cannot be consciously directed or experienced – and belief. It has taken me years to develop this awareness and yet we live in times where results are expected almost instantly. And this leads me… Read more »
Been through it all and seen the darker sides and experienced all that you spoke on and have done my homework and still do refreshers on my self to be sure not adding to anyones misery..they have enough to handle just like I did. What I do I do not charge for and never have. I refuse. I feel deep in my heart and soul that money is the root of all evil and if I charge I become part of that root..I make sure I am in God’s grace and His faith in me is strong otherwise I can not do anything and that’s my sign that I am doing something wrong and must take an inner look see and determine what needs to be fixed in my self. Once I fix me then I can proceed but only if God(Divine source)says so.I am shown and then go forth to help. The disciples got angry with Jesus when they tried to perform His miracles and healings and they argued with Him about it..He told them if you are feeling pride in your works and try to do healing on anyone you will be prevented from doing so. They knew… Read more »
Hi. First of all I want to say thank you for me to be here. And I hope that we can walk a path. I am very new to this and my whole life I have searched for answers and why and why and why….. Yes healing is not instant, it will make it a little bit easier to live with the scars inside of you. I found this article making sense and thank you for the wisdom and insight.
Great article. This line sums it up well for me