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How to Practice Spiritual Discernment (Avoid STDs!)

by Aletheia Luna ยท Updated: Apr 3, 2025 ยท 59 Comments

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How important are truth, integrity, and authenticity to you โ€“ even at the cost of feeling comfortable and being affirmed?

When it comes to spirituality and the journey of awakening to our True Nature, most of us have a pretty good idea of the essential principles to keep in mind.

Qualities like love, peace, kindness, compassion, generosity, forgiveness, and gratitude โ€“ you know, those stereotypical feel-good qualities โ€“ inevitably spring to mind.


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But how often do you hear about the importance of spiritual discernment?

Chances are โ€ฆ probably not that much.

Letโ€™s face it, even just the words “spiritual discernment” have a dry ring to them. They kinda sound like theyโ€™ve been taken from some heavy leather-bound book that has been collecting dust on the bookshelf for the past 100 years.

I imagine a stern librarian or an 83-year-old Harvard professor of physics when I think about spiritual discernment.

But don’t let the lack of feel-good vibes make you discount the importance of being discerning on the spiritual path.

Spiritual discernment is the single most essential ‘Sword of Consciousness’ you’ll need to hack your way through the many overgrown forests of Bullshit out there.

Table of contents

  • So โ€ฆ What is Spiritual Discernment?
  • The Sacred Path of Brutal Honesty
  • 13 Dangers of Lacking Spiritual Discernment
  • How to Stop Spiritually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) and Practice Spiritual Discernment
    • 1. Go soul-searching and study yourself
    • 2. Be brutally honest with yourself
    • 3. See from otherโ€™s perspectives
    • 4. Listen to your primal instincts
    • 5. Seek and be receptive to feedback
    • 6. Ask questions (and test your theories)
    • 7. Reflect and evaluate
  • Spiritual Discernment is Like a Sword โ€ฆ

So โ€ฆ What is Spiritual Discernment?

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Spiritual discernment is the ability to distinguish between truth and deception on the spiritual path.


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Thatโ€™s it. Itโ€™s quite simple.

In Sanskrit, spiritual discernment is called vivekaย and is said to be the โ€œcrowning wisdomโ€ on the spiritual path, allowing us to discover what is real vs. unreal.

Indian sage Patanjali believed that it was spiritual discernment that helped us to achieve a โ€œluminous state,โ€ also known as spiritual illumination or oneness.

In fact, in the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali, the cultivation of spiritual discernment is said to be so powerful that it has the ability to destroy ignorance and address the very root of our suffering.

Why Spiritual Discernment is Non-Negotiable

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Many people who begin the spiritual awakening path start off with a sprightly skip in their step, innocently assuming that the world of spirituality is a wondrous playground.

There is a beautiful innocence here that reminds me of the Disney movie called Bambi.

Through the magical forest, Bambi skips … until he reaches a clearing where his mother is brutally and mercilessly killed by a hunter.

There are many spiritual niches, teachers, and communities these days where spiritual discernment is neglected, and it reminds me of this Bambi parable.

“Love and light,” “Just go with the flow,” “Trust and allow,” “All is Love,” โ€“ you’ll hear this a lot, and certainly, much of it has truth and power.

And yet …

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The reality is that the spiritual path is not somehow magically immune to misleading, harmful, or predatory behavior.

The reality is that there are monsters in that magical forest.

The reality is that the spiritual path isnโ€™t as blissful as people make it out to be.

The reality is that there are endless ways you can be taken advantage of by so-called spiritual teachers, guides, gurus, and paths.

The reality is that there are deep rabbit holes that you may struggle to get out of.

Hence the need for spiritual discernment โ€“ aka. the Holy Bullshit Detector.

So letโ€™s take off our rose-tinted glasses and get real for a moment.

In a world full of sharks, spiritual discernment is the boat that allows us to safely travel through the waters of existence.

But without it, we are left flailing desperately around in the water while those who feed off ignorance and folly come to feast on us.

The Sacred Path of Brutal Honesty

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In order to practice spiritual discernment effectively, you have to be brutally honest with yourself.

What do you really want?

How deep are you willing to go?

What are your true motivations?

There is no use pretending to be one thing and behaving in the opposite way. Eventually, you’ll be called out by yourself, others, or Life itself.

Spiritual discernment only works when you are first crystal clear about your own internal drives and desires.


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As psychotherapist and yoga teacher Mariana Caplan explains,

To ask this question ourselves โ€“ โ€œAm I committed, or am I just involved?โ€ โ€“ and give an honest answers helps us to make intelligence choices about which paths and practices are best suited for the spiritual development we seek. The problem arises when we profess one thing and live out another, because we confuse ourselves and others, and we limit our growth.

If only we could say honestly, and without shame, โ€œI engage spirituality as a hobby,โ€ or โ€œI want a spiritual practice that will give me some inner peace of mind but without any commitment or discipline,โ€ or โ€œIโ€™d like to keep spirituality as my mistress but maintain comfort and security as my spouse,โ€ or โ€œI want to be seen as a spiritual man or woman because that will make me more sexy.โ€ โ€ฆ

Or perhaps we could use more simple, straightforward language, such as โ€œIโ€™m a serious spiritual aspirant,โ€ โ€œIโ€™m a seeker of moderate interest,โ€ or โ€œIโ€™m a part-time, casual spiritual tourist.โ€ It is not wrong to have such an approach to spiritual development. We grow from where we are, and if we pretend to be somewhere we are not and try to move forward, we are likely to travel in a very crooked line and become more confused than necessary.

Figuring out where we stand on the spiritual path is the very beginning of discernment.

13 Dangers of Lacking Spiritual Discernment

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Where do I even start?

I realize that it may be an inconvenient truth for many. But the spiritual path can be tremendously perilous when you donโ€™t practice spiritual discernment.

Here are some of the MANY traps, pitfalls, and dangers present (and inherent to) this journey โ€“ also known as โ€œspiritually transmitted diseasesโ€ (STDs) as coined by Mariana Caplan:

  1. The Spiritual ego and spiritual narcissism โ€“ aka. using spirituality to strengthen your self-identity
  2. Buying into โ€˜fast-foodโ€™ spirituality (cheap, low quality, and unhealthy practices)
  3. Corrupt spiritual teachers who use you for money, sex, fame, or power
  4. Faux spirituality (pretending to look, talk, dress, and act like a โ€œspiritual personโ€)
  5. Confused motivations (confusing the desire for belonging, validation, or escapism for seeking authentic spiritual growth)
  6. Ego-attachment to one’s spiritual experiences (thinking that you’re “extra special” because of a mystical experience or incidence of ego death)
  7. Groupthink or cult-mentality (being in a spiritual community that rejects individuality, questioning, or any type of personal difference outside of the accepted norm)
  8. Spiritual pride/superiority (this happens to seasoned seekers who have attained a certain level of wisdom, but use that as an excuse to shut down further growth)
  9. Spiritual codependence (finding a spiritual guide/teacher who mirrors your own repressed desires, and vice versa, e.g., your desire to be โ€œprotectedโ€ or โ€œsavedโ€ and the teacherโ€™s desire to feel special, needed, and loved)
  10. The โ€œChosen-People Complexโ€ (believing that your group/path/teacher is the best in the world)
  11. Falling for the cult of personality (bolstering your self-worth by associating yourself with a powerful, charismatic, or perhaps enlightened teacher)
  12. The Messiah Complex or believing that โ€œyou have arrivedโ€ (prematurely claiming to be enlightened and to know everything, which severely limits further growth and harms others)
  13. Spiritual bypassing (avoiding facing reality in favor of escaping into feel-good spiritual fantasies)

This is by no means an exhaustive list.

Furthermore, all of the above traps arise from one or all of the following issues:

  • The inability to distinguish reality from illusion (or truth from lies)
  • The inability to discern what is ego-based and soul-based
  • Lack of self-awareness
  • Lack of psychological growth and maturing
  • Lack of inner work and exploration of shadow motivations
  • Lack of honesty and sincerity with oneself

For more specific guidance, see the following articles for in-depth guidance on spiritual traps:

  • What is Spiritual Bypassing?
  • 11 Traps Sabotaging Your Spiritual Growth
  • Are You Addicted to Spiritual Escapism?
  • 5 Types of Spiritual Healing (& What to Be Careful Of)

How to Stop Spiritually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) and Practice Spiritual Discernment

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For a human being who hungers for truth, what is most beautiful is that which is most truthful. If the road to truth means having to learn what is untrue and to face unconsciousness and obstacles within ourselves, the lover of truth gladly accepts the challenge. Each time we expose and face that which is untrue, we are that much closer to what is true.

โ€“ M. Caplan

If our goal on the spiritual path is to be authentic and sincere lovers of truth, we need to practice spiritual discernment.

As Indian master Paramahansa Yogananda once said, โ€œTruth is not afraid of questions.โ€

If you want to prevent yourself from contracting the many spiritually transmitted diseases (STDs) out there, there are a number of paths you can take:

1. Go soul-searching and study yourself

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To study yourself is to know yourself. Self-study means going on a journey to explore the deepest realms of your mind and heart. Self-study is synonymous with the idea of soul-searching: it involves diving deep into places most people tend to avoid.

Valuable avenues of self-study include reading books, studying spiritual and psychological teachings, attending workshops and self-development classes, going to psychotherapy, getting a spiritual mentor or teacher, journaling, practicing meditation, examining your dreams, doing shadow work โ€“ the list goes on.

There are many forms of self-study on this website. In fact, simply reading this article is a form of self-study, so kudos if youโ€™ve read this far!

2. Be brutally honest with yourself

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Easier said than done, I know. But developing spiritual discernment means being willing to face the hard truth and facts about yourself.

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If you donโ€™t like facing reality, youโ€™ll find it close to impossible to be honest with yourself and therefore practice spiritual discernment. Honesty and discernment go hand-in-hand, you cannot have one without the other.

One powerful but simple way of being honest with yourself is asking the question, โ€œWhy am I feeling/doing/saying/thinking this?โ€

Try your best to dive deep into the core reason. If you start feeling defensive, uncomfortable or threatened in any way, you have likely found the truth. If you feel like you want to run, stop questioning or if you get the urge to distract yourself with something else, you have likely stumbled upon the truth.

Being honest with yourself requires sincerity and integrity. The good news is that you can develop and strengthen these qualities by asking questions such as โ€œWhy?โ€ and โ€œWhat is really going on here?โ€

Other ways of being honest with yourself include, for instance:

  • Admitting when you make mistakes
  • Owning your strengths and weaknesses
  • Being mindful of your thoughts, feelings, desires, impulses, and shadows
  • Introspecting and reflecting on your habits, decisions, judgments, and motivations
  • Embracing humility and the willingness to be wrong

Because being honest with yourself can be so confronting, itโ€™s essential to cultivate some simple self-compassion. Make sure that you forgive yourself and treat yourself kindly, otherwise being honest will become more traumatizing than nourishing.

3. See from otherโ€™s perspectives

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Explore alternative viewpoints. Look into the pros and cons and the for and against of what is in front of you.

To practice spiritual discernment means to go beyond your limited perspective and determine what is real vs. illusion.

What do others say โ€“ popular and unpopular, famous and infamous, educated and uneducated, etc. โ€“ about the subject at hand?

Be careful of biases. Seek to expand your understanding as far and wide as possible. Often the realizations and discoveries of others are the missing pieces of the puzzle that inspire us to connect with a greater understanding.

4. Listen to your primal instincts

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Your intuition or gut instincts are a manifestation of unconscious knowing.

When you โ€œfeel something is offโ€ itโ€™s often because deep down, a part of you (whether on a heart, mind, and/or soul level) calls bullshit.

Pay attention to how your instincts feel in your body. What sensations spread through you when faced with a tricky decision, an ill-intentioned person, or even a dangerous situation?

For instance, some people feel butterflies in their stomach, pressure in their head, a lump rise in their throat, a feeling of dread, or like me, tingles up and down the spine.

Learn to tune into your body and how it feels in different situations to understand its unique language. (A regular mindfulness-based meditation practice can help you develop this.)

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Connect with that wise and primal part of you and use it as an ally.

5. Seek and be receptive to feedback

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Get feedback from trusted friends, peers, teachers, and therapists.

One way to test both yourself and others is to seek out a psychological or spiritual advisor and ask them to help you see where youโ€™re going wrong.

A competent and honest psychological/spiritual advisor wonโ€™t be interested in affirming you at the cost of being truthful. Instead, they will help you to see any spiritual or psychological diseases you may be carrying โ€“ and how to remedy them.

The next step is perhaps the hardest: will you be receptive and listen to the observations? It can be difficult and confronting for the inflated ego to handle honest feedback as the entire purpose of the ego-self is to protect, pretend, and hide.

So be gentle with yourself but also be open to growing and evolving. Itโ€™s okay to feel emotionally reactive, but donโ€™t let that prevent you from accepting and integrating the truth.

Read: Spiritual Guidance: 11 Types & How to Find True Teachers ยป

6. Ask questions (and test your theories)

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If you suspect something within yourself or another may be false/disingenuous, get to the root of it and ask questions. Examples of questions you could ask include:

  • Is this true?
  • Am I being genuine?
  • Are they being genuine?
  • What is an opposing perspective that might be equally as true?
  • What is this perspective/belief lacking?
  • Am I/they spiritually bypassing?
  • Why does this not feel right?
  • What is missing here?
  • Is this intuition or fear speaking?
  • Are there any hidden motivations here?

There are an endless amount of questions you could pose, but the ones above provide a springboard for you to do some detective work or create your own questions.

The next step is to test your theories. For example, if you suspect that a public figure you admire and follow is not being authentic, test your theory. Go through their work and see if you can find any instances of transparency, humanness, or vulnerability. If the person is presenting an invulnerable image, something is most likely off. We are all human after all, and even spiritual gurus arenโ€™t exempt from weakness and messiness.

7. Reflect and evaluate

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Self-reflection is a vital stage in spiritual discernment. How else will you discover where you may be going wrong?

The easiest and most widespread way to self-reflect is through learning how to journal.

Journaling is simply the process of writing down your thoughts, feelings, and discoveries in a journal or notebook.

I recommend creating a calm and atmospheric space for this practice. Light a candle, burn some incense, make yourself a cup of tea, and put on some soothing music if it helps. Getting yourself into a reflective mindset requires you to be quiet, still, and removed from the hustle and bustle of daily life.

You donโ€™t need to dedicate a lot of time to this activity โ€“ just ten minutes a day will do โ€“ but obviously the more time you can spare the better.

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Find a time of day in which you feel particularly lucid (or mentally clear) and make a habit out of exploring your thoughts, mindsets, feelings, habits, beliefs, and shadows.

Start with one area of life that you would like to evaluate, for example, your relationships, work life, family commitments, personal goals, habits, addictions, patterns, etc.

Next, explore your thoughts and feelings towards this one area of life. You donโ€™t need to write a whole book โ€“ just a few lines or even words are fine.

After that, go a little deeper. Explore any dark or looming feelings you’ve been experiencing surrounding this topic such as anger, anxiety, frustration, depression, jealousy, shame, etc. (Equally so, you may like to explore any overwhelmingly positive feelings you may be having such as joy, ecstasy, immense gratitude, relief, etc.).

Finally, explore why you might be feeling these strong positive or negative emotions. Answer the following questions:

  • How are these thoughts/feelings impacting you?
  • What uncomfortable truth might be buried beneath them?
  • What might you not be considering?
  • What might you be bypassing, escaping, or ignoring?

Reflect on your answers.

Although this process can be difficult and challenging at times, you’ll find, with time, that it’s worth every ounce of effort doing โ€“ it leads to a kind of self-illumination.

As Henry Miller wrote in his book Tropic of Capricorn,

Everything we shut our eyes to, everything we run away from, everything we deny, denigrate, or despise, serves to defeat us in the end. What seems nasty, painful, evil, can become a source of beauty, joy, and strength, if faced with an open mind.

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Spiritual Discernment is Like a Sword โ€ฆ

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it cuts through all of the deception, traps, and BS. It truly is one of our greatest tools of protection on the spiritual path.

I hope this article has emphasized just how essential spiritual discernment is on the awakening path.

To close, Iโ€™ll leave you with a few inspiring quotes on spiritual discernment:

Sound judgment, with discernment, is the best of seers.

โ€“ Euripides

Discernment is the ability to see things for what they really are and not for what you want them to be.

โ€“ Unknown

We must learn to practice the art of discernment in making choices without judgment, to monitor carefully what enters our field.

โ€“ Steve Rother, Spiritual Psychology

Where there is not discernment, the behavior even of the purest souls may in effect amount to coarseness.

โ€“ Henry David Thoreau

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About Aletheia Luna

Aletheia Luna is a prolific psychospiritual writer, author, educator, and intuitive guide whose work has touched the lives of millions worldwide. As a survivor of fundamentalist religious abuse, her mission is to help others find love, strength, and inner light in even the darkest places. She is the author of hundreds of popular articles, as well as numerous books and journals on the topics of Self-Love, Spiritual Awakening, and more. [Read More]

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  1. Annon says

    September 18, 2021 at 10:16 pm

    Sharing thought re

    โ€œEverything we shut our eyes to, everything we run away from, everything we deny, denigrate, or despise, serves to defeat us in the end. What seems nasty, painful, evil, can become a source of beauty, joy, and strength, if faced with an open mind.โ€

    Suggestion: never lose the context of words like this, that takes true discernment

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  2. Annon says

    September 18, 2021 at 10:10 pm

    Oh my, worthy of voluntary funds donation; that is my initial response after reading this article. What a journey it has been following along Loner Wolfโ€™s path/ development/ growth

    Very palatable advice: balanced, sound, mature-minded, enjoyable to mentally ingest

    Iโ€™m able to go away with thought provoking snippets for my day. Investing time to tune into Loner Wolf, whether I agree or not with content (sometimes I donโ€™t entirely agree and thatโ€™s ok, eg maybe Iโ€™m not ready yet), articles like this reiterate that itโ€™s blessed time well worth it

    – I still suck at journaling, I did it religiously once ages ago and found my instinct was directing my actions many times opposite to the logic of journaled conclusions

    – this article forms part of the direction that I need to hear, so timely I guess. Itโ€™s part of spiritual maturity, and thatโ€™s a โ€œplaceโ€ that requires effort, responsibility etc

    Short present situational synapsis:

    I have an internal [ spiritual ] disharmony going on, Iโ€™m spiritually bypassing/ avoiding/ procrastinating. My inner system/s are totally rejecting spiritual practice/ necessary tuning
    -> I recently did a number of courses to be a spiritual councillor to help others, but my other-self is just not interested in progressing any further. Pretty stubbornly selfish. I need that part of me to have an attitude adjustment. So a bit of an โ€œinner cold warโ€ going on

    A timely article for where Iโ€™m at re reiterate exercising discernment to โ€œpersuadeโ€/ rouse co-operative congruity with my inner self [ sounds like madness, but… for all those newcomers – Loner Wolf has all the explanations and answers! ]

    Reply
    • Aletheia Luna says

      November 12, 2021 at 11:23 am

      Thank you for sharing your inner processing/musings Annon, it’s a pleasure and honor to know that this article (and the many others), have some kind of meaningful impact on you. For me as an online writer and creator, it can be hard to really know whether what I’m doing is making a difference (even if people say it is). So I loved reading these musings. With gratitude! โ™ก

      Reply
  3. Su says

    September 17, 2021 at 9:00 am

    When we say love and light we are praying for light to illuminate your dark shadows with love at your side. We are all created of photons, which both exist and do not exist simultaneously. Choice is ours to make or give choosing away to another. A genius shared with us to always see the difference between a choice we make, and a choice others make for us. We create our path,or allow others to. Take the reins on your dreams. Believe.

    Reply
  4. Wendy Banfield says

    September 15, 2021 at 7:31 pm

    Thanks very much for this very enlightening article. Shows me I really need to do some inner work.

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  5. Juliet says

    September 15, 2021 at 5:10 pm

    I did a long spiritual search after my life partner died. There is certainly some wacky stuff out there. And there are certainly some rip off merchants. Watch out for anyone who says following them, or buying their crystal necklace, will help you find the partner you’re looking for, or the money you need. Or the tick-box religion that says if you follow their rules God will reward you, or you will go to heaven instead of burning in hell, or you will become a higher being instead of being reborn as a mosquito. My rule of discernment has become this: If it’s about love, compassion, sacred balance and unity with all life and spirit, it’s cool. If it’s about following the rules of human power structures out of fear, it’s not. That works for sifting the useful bits of both traditional religions and new age ideas.
    I thank you both for being among the few genuine guides out there in crazy internet land.

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    • Nate says

      January 31, 2023 at 11:58 pm

      How do we know that this isnโ€™t a rip off then?

      Reply
  6. Robert E Perry says

    September 15, 2021 at 2:01 am

    Really timely article, Aletheia. Thank you for this thorough exploration. I remember leaving a group because all anyone would talk about is “love & light”, the shadow was excluded and that is dangerous indeed. What we repress comes out sideways.

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      September 15, 2021 at 3:39 pm

      “What we repress comes out sideways.” โ€“ truer words have never been spoken :-D
      Thanks for sharing your experience Robert, it can be so alienating entering groups such as that!

      Reply
  7. Allen says

    September 14, 2021 at 8:45 pm

    This is a very timely message. Especially in a world now saturated with misinformation, much is on purpose but also some are unknowingly ego driven and impart their truths on others expecting them to follow without question. One must be open but discerning as well. Trust your heart, trust your inner voice. Accept what makes sense to you and work with it as long as it feels right. Also trust your heart and inner voice when that sense of uneasiness is present in whatever way it manifests itself for you and distance yourself from the cause.

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      September 15, 2021 at 3:39 pm

      Absolutely. Thank you Allen!

      Reply
  8. Eve says

    September 14, 2021 at 5:22 pm

    Thank you for pointing this out to the world… Spirituality being such a kaleidoscopic subject, can bring about a lot of confusion without the necessary discernment… too many people still attach spirituality with religion…or charlatans…cults…or negative spiritualism and witchcraft…there is a lot of misinterpretation out there…a lot of nonsense… One has to follow their own inner truth & compass…and this will be their sword :) Remember along your own path that spirituality is all about profound beauty, clarity, and yes, love, no matter what level you have journeyed to so far on your spiritual path…also, once you have discernment, you will be progressively guided towards spiritual growth and expansion….

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      September 15, 2021 at 3:41 pm

      Thanks for these words of wisdom Eve. โ™ก

      Reply
    • Annon says

      September 18, 2021 at 10:21 pm

      Just love this comment, thank you for sharing

      Reply
  9. Rene says

    September 14, 2021 at 3:32 pm

    hello this is so true as i am into this also , as they ask ( although what they teach is great and honest and true ) to much money , as I personally do not have. and yes as a spirituals ( like yours )they give advice for free and also warn against the spiritual BS as they say ….but its way to much … so I cant take that course what maybe( although I will get there as anything a day is posable ) makes it longer ( but also stronger is it ) …. good report this teaching is of yours .. well done as to many when out of balance follow the ONLY one … . indeed read more see more listen better and keep ( try at least an openmind) and I write this lol even I am in a anxiety period . wow . anxiety is the game of the brain to get the mind to make anxiety to get its braindrug .

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      September 15, 2021 at 3:44 pm

      โ™ฅ

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  10. Chavdarovsky Zey says

    September 14, 2021 at 2:42 pm

    I love you lโ˜€๏ธnerwolf Everyday, every single day your posts makin great my life. Thank you and bless you. You’re the best!

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      September 15, 2021 at 3:42 pm

      Thanks so much Chavdarovsky, these words mean a lot to us! Much love and gratitude โค

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