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Archetypes: The Ultimate Guide (+ How to Work With Them)

by Aletheia Luna ยท Updated: Jan 18, 2025 ยท 40 Comments

Image of a woman splitting in two representing the archetypes

Archetypes are omnipresent.

They’re within you, they’re within others, and they create the very foundation of human behavior.

Did you know that you can actually work with archetypes and it’s one of the most multi-layered ways of cultivating more love, happiness, and confidence, as well as accessing guidance and a sense of well-being on your spiritual journey?


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If you’re skeptical about spirit guides, or simply want a more psychospiritual approach to your inner work, archetypes, as living energies, provide an exciting wealth of knowledge and wisdom.

I work with at least one form of archetype every day. I have also seen countless others work with archetypes with tremendous success. And let me tell you, it’s so worth it.

In fact, LonerWolf is structured around the five archetypes of awakening.

If this topic has your blood fizzing with excitement or curiosity, keep reading to learn where to start …

Table of contents

  • What is an Archetype?
  • Archetype Examples
    • Jungian Archetypes
    • Spiritual Archetypes
    • Enneagram Archetypes
    • Psychological Archetypes
    • Male and Female Archetypes
    • Myss Archetypes
  • 100+ Archetypes List
  • 12 Benefits of Working With the Archetypes
  • Are Archetypes and Spirit Guides the Same?
  • 7 Ways to Work With Archetypes

What is an Archetype?

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Archetypes are patterns of behavior that aid and influence our mental, emotional, and spiritual growth as human beings. You can think of an archetype as quite literally a type of energy.

Just like the many species, genres, breeds, and groups that structure our earthly existence, an archetype is a quality or essence that forms the underlying framework of consensus reality. Like many pieces in the Cosmic puzzle, archetypes are separate and easily definable qualities that compose the Whole.

Archetype Examples

Just so you know, there are a hell of a lot of archetypes out there.


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In fact, there are so many archetypes that it will be impossible to include all of them here. Archetypes have an endless array of nuances and subtleties, so Iโ€™ll strive to give you the most prevalent ones currently operating within our collective psyches.

Below you’ll find a comprehensive list of over 100 archetype examples to explore and better acquaint yourself with.

While youโ€™re going through this list, pay attention to any that jump out at you. The ones that intrigue, trigger, disgust, or enrapture you are the archetypes you need to work with the most closely. Write them down, and keep the list handy for the next section on how to work with archetypes.


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Jungian Archetypes

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What better place to start than with our old friend Carl Jung?

Jung was a Swiss psychoanalyst who first conceptualized the idea of archetypes. Thanks to Jung, we now have a map of the psyche which defines the main archetypes present in every human being.

These archetypes, which Jung wrote about in Archetypes and the Collective Unconscious are as follows:

  • The Anima
  • The Animus
  • The Child
  • The Father
  • The Hero
  • The Maiden
  • The Mother
  • The Persona
  • The Shadow
  • The Trickster
  • The Sage
  • The Self

While there are many other archetypes in existence, Jung wrote about the above archetypes the most in his work.

Spiritual Archetypes

The next list of archetypes was created and devised by us (myself and cowriter Sol) here at lonerwolf.

We have been in the spiritual field for many years. The following twelve spiritual archetypes took us an excruciatingly long time to identify, think about, consider, and create. They are as follows:

  • The Alchemist
  • The Ascetic
  • The Cenobite
  • The Devotee
  • The Disciple
  • The Hermit
  • The Mystic
  • The Prophet
  • The Rebel
  • The Sage
  • The Saint
  • The Shaman

You can take our free spiritual archetypes test to see what your dominant archetype is.

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Enneagram Archetypes

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The Enneagram is an intricate model of the human psyche. While its origins are debated among many scholars, many people believe this system was developed from the teachings of Oscar Ichazo, Claudio Naranjo, and mystic George Gurdjieff.

The enneagram archetypes are as follows:

  1. The Perfectionist (type 1)
  2. The Giver (type 2)
  3. The Performer (type 3)
  4. The Individualist (type 4)
  5. The Observer (type 5)
  6. The Loyalist (type 6)
  7. The Idealist (type 7)
  8. The Boss (type 8)
  9. The Mediator (type 9)

We created a test that you can take to discover your type. Take our free enneagram test.

Psychological Archetypes

The following archetypes are based on the worldโ€™s first scientifically validated archetype assessment tool: the Pearson-Marr Archetype Indicatorยฎ (PMAI). Like most archetypal theories and tests, the PMAI is inspired by the works of Carl Jung.

Here are the archetypes:

  • The Innocent
  • The Orphan
  • The Warrior
  • The Caregiver
  • The Seeker
  • The Lover
  • The Destroyer
  • The Creator
  • The Ruler
  • The Magician
  • The Sage
  • The Joker

You can take the psychological archetype test here.

Male and Female Archetypes

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We see male and female archetypes scattered everywhere. They are found in the secular world as well as in the spiritual world (think of the โ€˜godโ€™ and โ€˜goddessโ€™ within paganism for instance).

Please note that itโ€™s possible for females to share male archetypes, and males to share female archetypes.

Here are the dominant archetypes:

Females โ€“

  • Maiden
  • Mother
  • Crone
  • Seductress
  • Witch
  • Queen
  • Crusader
  • Mystic
  • Spinster
  • Saint/Martyr

Males โ€“

  • Father
  • Warrior
  • King
  • Sage
  • Lover
  • Trickster
  • Magician
  • Destroyer
  • Healer
  • Saint/Martyr

Myss Archetypes

These days, one of the best-known archetype researchers out there is Caroline Myss. In her Archetype Cards deck (which I own and recommend by the way), she lists eighty archetypes:

  • Addict
  • Advocate
  • Alchemist
  • Angel
  • Artist
  • Athlete
  • Avenger
  • Beggar
  • Bully
  • Child: Orphan
  • Child: Wounded
  • Child: Magical
  • Child: Nature
  • Child: Eternal Boy/Girl
  • Child: Divine
  • Clown
  • Companion
  • Damsel
  • Destroyer
  • Detective
  • Dilettante
  • Don Juan
  • Engineer
  • Exorcist
  • Father
  • Femme Fatale
  • Gambler
  • God
  • Goddess
  • Guide
  • Healer
  • Wounded Healer
  • Hedonist
  • Hero/Heroine
  • Judge
  • King
  • Knight
  • Liberator
  • Lover
  • Martyr
  • Mediator
  • Mentor
  • Messiah
  • Midas/Miser
  • Monk
  • Mother
  • Mystic
  • Networker
  • Nun
  • Pioneer
  • Poet
  • Priest
  • Prince
  • Prostitute
  • Queen
  • Rebel
  • Rescuer
  • Saboteur
  • Samaritan
  • Scribe
  • Seeker
  • Servant
  • Shape-shifter
  • Slave
  • Storyteller
  • Student
  • Teacher
  • Thief
  • Trickster
  • Vampire
  • Victim
  • Virgin
  • Visionary
  • Warrior

100+ Archetypes List

In summary, we have a massive list of archetypes for you to explore and work with:

AddictAdvocateAlchemist
AngelAnimaAnimus
AsceticArtistAthlete
AvengerBeggarBoss
BullyCaregiverCenobite
Child: OrphanChild: WoundedChild: Magical
Child: NatureChild: Eternal Boy/GirlChild: Divine
ClownCompanionCreator
CroneCrusaderDamsel
DestroyerDetectiveDevotee
DilettanteDiscipleDon Juan
EngineerExorcistFather
Femme FataleGamblerGiver
GodGoddessGuide
HealerHedonistHero/Heroine
HermitIndividualistJoker
JudgeKingKnight
LiberatorLoverMagician
MaidenMartyrMediator
MentorMessiahMidas/Miser
MonkMotherMystic
NetworkerNunPerfectionist
PerformerPersonaPioneer
PoetPriestPrince
ProphetProstituteQueen
RebelRescuerRuler
SaboteurSaintSage
SamaritanScribeSeductress
SeekerSelfServant
ShadowShape-shifterShaman
SlaveSpinsterStoryteller
StudentTeacherThief
TricksterVampireVictim
VirginVisionaryWarrior
WitchWizardWounded Healer

Again, this archetypes list is by no means exhaustive. But I hope it gives you a clear idea of the many examples of archetypes out there!

12 Benefits of Working With the Archetypes

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Here we come to the most exciting part of the article: digging into some practical action!


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YES, you can work with the archetypes. You can work with any you wish.

But why would someone want to work with the archetypes?

Here are some of the biggest reasons for working with these universal energies:

  1. You get to explore new, unknown parts of yourself as part of your inner work
  2. You can experience positive growth in important areas of your life (like your relationships, work, spirituality)
  3. You can discover long-forgotten gifts that were previously buried within your unconscious and rejected by your ego
  4. You get to embody empowering (and previously disconnected) parts of yourself
  5. You become a more whole, mature, and integrated person
  6. You understand yourself at a deeper level
  7. You understand others at a deeper level
  8. You feel more connected to yourself, others, and life in general
  9. You can develop a more robust understanding of how to love yourself
  10. You can heal old traumas and wounds
  11. You get access to universal energies that can help you shift out of dark places like self-doubt, anxiety, rumination, or even the Dark Night of the Soul (aka. spiritual crisis)
  12. You gain a unique doorway to accessing your Higher Self or Soul

The above benefits are only the tip of the iceberg. But donโ€™t take my word for it, try it out yourself!

Are Archetypes and Spirit Guides the Same?

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Before you proceed to the rest of this article, you might be pondering this common question.

Are archetypes and spirit guides the same? The answer is yes and no.ย 

On the one hand, archetypes can be approached as spirit guides. For example, you may approach the Sage archetype in the form of the Norse god Odin (who may or may not be an objective spirit guide โ€“ that’s up to you to decide).

But an archetype itself is a pure type of energy. It is impersonal. It does not respond to prayer, devotion, or worship. An archetype is an objective force โ€“ think of it as a building block of existence like atoms and molecules are.

A spirit guide, on the other hand, is a personal metaphysical force. Spirit guides can either arise from one’s own psyche and deep mindย or exist in other realms of consciousness.

I hope that clears things up a bit. Can you use archetypes as bridges to spirit guides? Absolutely. But pure archetypes (such as those listed above) are best for psychological (rather than spiritual) inner work.

7 Ways to Work With Archetypes

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Here are some of the best ways to work with archetypes (in no particular order):

1. Pick a Light and Shadow archetype

Choose an archetype that represents a quality you love and wish to embody, and an archetype that you fear (that symbolizes part of your shadow self). Picking a light and shadow archetype is simple โ€“ just review the list of archetypes above. Notice which ones call out or jump at you and write them down.

2. Look for the archetypes hidden within your behavior

What are your dominant archetypes? You can always review the archetypes examples above and take one of the recommended tests. By learning about your primary archetypes, you’ll discover your greatest strengths and biggest weaknesses.

3. Search for your โ€˜Matronโ€™ and โ€˜Patronโ€™ archetype

Research gods and goddesses of old โ€“ these beings are basically personified archetypes. Look through the different pantheons out there and see what gods and goddesses appeal to you.

There are numerous pantheons of characters out there โ€“ Egyptian, Indian, Celtic, Nordic, American Indian, Chinese, African โ€ฆ the list goes on.

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If you donโ€™t know where to start, think of a quality you would love to evoke/invoke and embody. For example, perhaps you struggle with expressing your anger in a healthy way. Research on google โ€œanger gods/goddessesโ€ and see what you find. This approach may take a little bit of digging, but itโ€™s worth it.

Also, pay attention to any gods or goddesses that keep popping up in your life. If you keep coming across the same god/goddess, this could be a case of synchronicity.

Such an experience of synchronicity happened with Lilith, the ancient Babylonian goddess of power and personal sovereignty (who was the first wife of Adam but refused to be subservient to him). I kept hearing of her, seeing her, and reading mentions of her names in the books I was studying at the time. It was a bizarre but amazing experience!

If you donโ€™t like (or trust) Google, I recommend a great resource called the Encyclopedia Of Spirits, The Ultimate Guide to the Magic of Fairies, Genies, Demons, Ghosts, Gods & Goddessesย by Judika Illes. There’s a lot of great information in this hefty tome, and it will be something youโ€™ll refer back to over and over again if you enjoy working with archetypes.

4. Have a conversation with your archetype

Journaling is a core spiritual practice I recommend for all forms of inner work โ€“ and that includes working with the archetypes.

For this activity, youโ€™ll need to get into a meditative mindset. Put on some ethereal music (or any sounds that put you into a dreamy state of mind), and do a little bit of meditation for five or ten minutes.

Next, start a conversation with your archetype. Get your journal and think of some questions youโ€™d like to ask (e.g., “What would you like to reveal about yourself/me?” “What can I learn from you?”) โ€“ then dialogue back and forth, just as you would with someone across email. You can also try automatic writing with this task if you’re in a mystical mood.

Learn more about how to journal.

5. Pathworking

My definition of the modern, non-esoteric, version of pathworking is that itโ€™s the act of mentally projecting yourself into a picture.

For this activity, you’ll need a picture of your archetype. For example, if you are working with Trickster energy, you may choose to look online for Trickster images. You might stumble across a picture of Pan, Loki, Anansi, Puck, or other symbolic representations of the Trickster.

You can either stare at the picture on your phone (and disable the screensaver so that you can do your pathworking uninterrupted) or print out a picture.

To pathwork, find a quiet undisturbed place. Put your phone/picture at eye level about an armโ€™s length away. You want to be able to comfortably stare at your picture. Connect with your breath, ground yourself, then gaze gently at the image in front of you. After a few minutes, your vision will gain a warped or dreamlike quality. Allow that to happen.

Once you feel yourself entering a light altered state of consciousness, imagine walking into the picture and interacting with the being. Alternatively, you could imagine the figure springing to life. You may then choose to ask the figure questions such as, โ€œWho are you exactly?โ€ โ€œWhat part of me represents you?โ€ โ€œWhat important lessons can you teach me?โ€ โ€œHow can I integrate you into my waking life?โ€ and so forth.

The responses you receive may be symbolic, verbal, or kinesthetic (bodily sensations). Once you’re finished talking with the figure, thank them, then return to normal consciousness. Record your discoveries in your journal.

6. Try active imagination

Active imagination is similar to pathworking except it’s done solely within your mind. Carl Jung (that marvelous fellow) first came up with the idea of โ€˜active imaginationโ€™ for psychological self-discovery and used it in his own work.

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Active imagination basically involves going on an unstructured visual journey within your inner landscape. Unlike visualization, nothing is prescribed: it’s all spontaneous.

For example, to work with a specific archetype such as the Monk, you may choose to begin your active imagination within a monastery. Let your imagination go wild and see what happens. Does a monk come into view? Perhaps a wise old owl flies in and then transforms into a mysterious hooded figure who then takes you on a journey? Maybe the floor opens up and you fall into a secret chamber. Virtually anything could happen.

Make sure you ask the archetype questions and thank it once youโ€™re done. Record in your journal everything youโ€™ve experienced for reflection and deepening your self-awareness. Sometimes new layers of insight come when unpacking your archetypal journeys.

7. Physically embody your archetype

Temporarily taking on the behaviors and attributes of your chosen archetype is a great way to integrate them into your personality structure.

For example, if you wish to connect with the Seductress or Don Juan side of your nature, why not pick a sensual perfume, a beautiful piece of jewelry, or an elegant outfit to wear? You donโ€™t necessarily need to go out in public (unless youโ€™d enjoy seeing others’ reactions) โ€“ even just experimenting from the comfort of your own home is effective.

Youโ€™d be surprised by how profoundly simple changes in our physical appearance impact our moods and emotions. Research โ€˜enclothed cognitionโ€™ for more juicy insight.

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Put simply, we are composed of a multitude of archetypes. Archetypes form the many facets of our being.

I hope that the archetype examples and guidance within this article have inspired you.

Working with archetypes is something I do each and every day, and it has added so much richness and depth to my life.

Perhaps most of all, doing this work has helped me to integrate parts of myself that I never even knew existed. The feelings of empowerment and wholeness Iโ€™ve experienced thanks to archetype work have been both breathtaking and profound.

Which archetypes attract you the most? Which do you plan to work with? Feel free to comment below!

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About Aletheia Luna

Aletheia Luna is a prolific psychospiritual writer, author, educator, and intuitive guide whose work has touched the lives of millions worldwide. As a survivor of fundamentalist religious abuse, her mission is to help others find love, strength, and inner light in even the darkest places. She is the author of hundreds of popular articles, as well as numerous books and journals on the topics of Self-Love, Spiritual Awakening, and more. [Read More]

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  1. Ariana says

    August 28, 2019 at 9:26 am

    Luna, look how good is this! :-) Maybe you can add it above – when you mention Lilith (very helpful for both women and men :-) … Cheers from another 11/2 coming out of shadows! :-) I love your work <3

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  2. Sophia Roy Choudhury says

    August 22, 2019 at 2:22 pm

    Dear Luna & Sol
    As always your wisdom is profound & I love it.
    Have you published a book on Archetypes?
    Is the Shadow Work Book included in the Spiritual Awakening book?
    I plan to buy the Shadow Work….so please guide me .
    Many Blessings!
    Sophia

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      August 22, 2019 at 2:56 pm

      Thank you, Sophia, for your kind words <3
      Yes, the shadow work journal is included within the spiritual awakening bundle, among many other helpful resources. I hope this helps. :)
      โ€“ Luna

      Reply
  3. Alexander says

    July 31, 2019 at 2:15 am

    I have also been much preoccupied with Lilith throughout much of my life, albeit naturally experienced differently; I tend to associate her with Ishtar/Inanna/Hathor/Astarte/Tanith/Aphrodite/Freya. Of Mesopotamian deities I prefer Ea/Enki, of Egyptian ones Thoth and Ptah. Greek and Norse deities I have quite a complex relationship with, tending to despise both Zeus and Aphrodite (though the power embodied by the latter wields a powerful sway over my life and mind; if we were in a Greek myth my succession of experiences of unrequited love would be a just retribution for failing to honour her in my supreme hubris) admiring Athena and Artemis and liking Demeter and Hestia. I am more forgiving of the promiscuity of Hermes and Pan (with more ambivalent attitudes to Apollo and Dionysus , though I like Apollo’s son and granddaughter Asclepios and Hygeia, and Dionysus’ companion Silenus and human wife Ariadne. I have always had a particular soft spot for Hephaistos/Hephaestus/Vulcan. He seems just about the most well-adjusted of the major Olympians, with the possible exception of Hestia. Odin and Loki are alike intriguing, though neither as trustworthy as Heimdallr. Of Norse goddesses I like Idunn, although the Nornir are intriguing, as is Aegir’s wife Ran. In India Sarasvasti, Ganesh and Avaloketeshwara, so naturally in China Guanyin/Kuanyin, although also to some extent the Jade Emperor. Then again, I remain to this day in some sense a Christian (as a child this was heavily tinged with Buddhism; increasingly this has moved to a greater degree of sympathy, respect and gratitude to the other Abrahamic sibling faith-traditions).

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    • Alexander says

      July 31, 2019 at 2:24 am

      In Egypt Isis us intriguing, as are some deities typically thought of as dark such as Anubis, Set/Seth/Sutekh and Apep/Apophis. I do not know why Hades is often thought of as particularly evil; he is arguably the least wicked of the three brothers (or at least the most faithful, though I would not recommend abducting one’s niece, though even that compares favourably to Zeus’ track record). Amongst the Celts, Brigid, Arawn of Annwfn , Epona/Rhiannon/Macha, and the Morrigan. Maybe also Gwydion, Gofanon/Goibhniu, Dian Cecht and Ogma, as well as Ceridwen and Myrddin.

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    • Alexander says

      August 06, 2019 at 9:56 am

      Oh and Shou Shing, the Taoist god of long life and one of the Three Gods of Happiness, but that is more based on his appearance.

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  4. jana says

    July 20, 2019 at 9:31 pm

    Spiritual archetypes is something i am very interested in and have been researching (and even realizing myself). But I cannot seem to find more on them, as google is proving to be quite useless in this area, i live in a city and country where there is a huge disatvantage when it comes research on Spirituality, and I cannot do the quiz on your website about Spiritual Archetypes over and over until i get all the answers, because it feels wrong. Would it be possible to do a summary of each Spiritual Archetype, as i would love to incorporate this knowledge and compare it to some connections iโ€™ve had with certain people lately, that are obviously spiritual, but i cannot seem to put my finger on how i should develop the relationships. I know I am on to something, but I am at an early stage of my spiritual awakening journey, so guidance from people with more wisdom and experience than me is much appreciated. Even if itโ€™s key words, itโ€™d be something to go on. Love this website. I am learning a lot. Thank you.

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  5. Dawn says

    June 05, 2019 at 4:12 pm

    Hello, I’ve been reading everything about spiritual awakening and archetypes. I’m trying to understand it more and more, but sometimes struggle with really understanding it. Help

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  6. amnah says

    May 12, 2019 at 5:01 pm

    Hi Luna, I highly appreciate you on this article ,I am feeling some energetic articles like this one. I am glade to find and read this. actually I am facing projection from some one (she is my Boss)and i feel regret from 3 years, now i have did stand against her, and i thought to do for my self now, I could realize now that something i should do for me, as I am thing I em going to waste myself and my inner. I was good in knowledge and was havinng good hand in Research but now I am like paralyses people.Where I am?what it happened?why i wasted my self in these 3 years under this king of boss?who has grandiosity manner,and to demeaning others and specially me.please guide me too.I am suffering ,its painful to me.Luna ! many many thanks you again.

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    • Ryan says

      May 14, 2019 at 10:23 pm

      I had a same experience with a boss of 7 years. i made a stand too about 4 to 5 years in working for him. and then boss calmed down a little bit to keep me complacent or okay. then he started his old tricks again. then i took another stand. this cycle never ended for 2 more years. over and over. he demean me and i would try my hardest to protect myself and voice myself. it was a true test and sometimes i felt i failed to protect my self adequately. eventually i told him off for good and left with only a day’s notice a week later. i made less money at new job, but had little supervision and also the boss was nice to me anyway. the peace i experienced from then on was worth the pay cut. i just adjusted my way of living to live below my income. eventually many other doors opened for me. Its been 4 years and i have found many new ways to provide myself for income and have been trying them all out worrying about keeping one job. working in miserable environments are something i will never do again no matter what and so it has mattered less to me to simply leave a work place when i feel i am no longer content. i have left 3 jobs since then, and not looked back each time. and each time i take a new journey i meet new good people and have made one true friend for life and another friend too i would never have met. i also created brand new lifestyles for myself in process of moving from job to job and got to try out new ways of living and schedules and work i didnt know about before. it has been enriching if to just observe journey and use my likes and dislikes from it to move forward

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  7. Stacy says

    April 12, 2019 at 10:43 am

    Incredible. I have recently stumbled across the concept of archetypes after traveling through Nepal and meeting Hindu people. Many of their Gods & Goddesses resonated with me, and one in particular was Durga the divine mother/warrior. Fast forward a few months, and I’ve been home for a while now, and working on character development a story that I’m writing, and naturally started doing some research on Archetypes. How much these remind me of the concepts in Eastern deities! Well, something strange happened when I started looking into the trickster archetype, like bizarre images popping into my head and synchronicities happening while I’m thinking or researching and now I just have this general sense that there is a trickster inside of me that really wants to come out! Anyways. I think I’m going to try doing some path-working to see what comes of this. I’m a little excited! I’ve recently entered my 40’s and am going deeply inward after a life of being mostly outward focused. Wish me luck

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  8. alma says

    January 25, 2019 at 10:38 am

    I see all this talk about “archtypes” as a masquerade. An archtype must be wearing a mask. There is no “archtype” for just plainly being the one you are for which reason it is all about masks. What need would there be for this talk about “archtypes” and “archtypical behavioral patterns” and what not if it were not because so very, very few dare to tear their own mask off? None. The majority insists on the mask. Either out of fear, I guess, or because they just don’t seem to be able to find their own face. They lost face. And whoever is going to bring them back to their own Spirit that is crying out for them, that wants them back, is being judged as someone who is either not in their right mind or who is – and this is where it really gets nasty – too afraid to wear a mask. You see? The mask is the answer of the many to the quest of the few: Liberty. I sweat behind a mask. I tear it off. I show you my face. You hate me for doing that, for not participating in your daily theatre with an ancient plot line: The Escape from Self.
    I tell you what: If you need to talk to a mask, find one. Attract one. As for me, I’m out of here. Howl. I want Freedom in my chest, in my hair, in my heart, in my movements. I don’t want to sweat in your game. Howl-do-you-do. Bye.

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      January 25, 2019 at 12:06 pm

      Alma, I hear your frustrations and concerns, but you misunderstand the fundamental role of archetypes. You seem to perceive archetypes (from what I gather in your message) as masks that people wear. However, archetypes actually form the fabric of our psyches. It is a well-known psychological fact that we are not a “single” person. We are actually composed of many selves that form one cohesive ego. Yes, we do need to tear of our masks eventually, but being Free isn’t solely about annihilating our egos and howling to the wind (as romantic as that sounds). Being Free is also pragmatically about doing inner work both psychologically and spiritually. Part of that inner work involves maturing our egos, for you cannot wake up before you grow up. I agree that we are stuck in a game of Escape from Self, but part of the journey towards embodying that Self involves reconnecting with lost parts of our ego (through archetype work for instance). You can’t transcend something that doesn’t properly exist. When the ego self is weak and fragmented, the next level of genuine spiritual transformation cannot occur. What happens instead is that we’re using spirituality as a bandaid; a way to escape our problems, rather than to deal with them. I hope that makes sense.
      Best wishes

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      • alma says

        January 25, 2019 at 2:12 pm

        I think it’s very, very necessary to be very, very clear about what the heck it is we are on about here. NO vague terms, NO taking for granted that oh we all know this and we all know that, and it’s a well known psycological fact that….bla bla bla. IT IS NOT. People throw around with other peoples’ terms, as if they were given entities, public chunks of knowledge that ooh we all know. THE HECK ANYONE does. I am no enemy of inner maturation, sweethearts. What I am against is the insistence of halfbaked ‘truths’ and name dropping. I find my truths in what I see. It’s all so fancy with Carl’s definitions and Francis was just such a juicy piece of Bacon, but honestly I tend to suffocate when people oh tend to know it all. I go into hiding, then. To be alone with my spirit. So I can SEE again. Call that romanticism, if you like. I do not see no reason to defend my truth. It is not for me to defend those of others either. You may hear, but can you listen? You need to rely on your own judgement whispers your soul.

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        • Aletheia Luna says

          January 25, 2019 at 2:36 pm

          Hi Alma. I sense a lot of anger/defensiveness from you, which is unfortunate and unnecessary in a discussion I’d hope would be civil. I’m not asking you to defend your beliefs, I’m simply trying to explain archetypes more clearly to (hopefully) clear up misunderstanding. I personally have no issue with those who stand on the shoulders of giants so long as it’s balanced with our own direct experience and understanding. Terms like “archetypes” are necessary to use in order to label, organize, understand, and grow on our spiritual paths. I see no issue in using the terms of others in the name of psychospiritual progress. As I can see no real mature and open communication is likely to happen with you at this time, I’m ending my correspondence here and drawing boundaries. Please visit another website if you do not resonate with the content here. Thank you.

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          • alma says

            January 25, 2019 at 4:21 pm

            I will go.
            Goodbye.
            Spirit resides in Nature, i. e inside yourself. Not in a web page.

          • Nader Khaghani says

            January 14, 2020 at 11:29 pm

            Dear Alma, Please listen to a man who has been opinionated and to some extent still is until he discovered we defend our ideas with tooth and nails; but, we also need to remember ideas are like leaves on the tree. Our ideas change color, fall and new ones keep growing and maturing. Good luck to you dear, and keep thinking and thanking nature for its gifts which we all grateful to and share.

            Aletheia Luna is enlightening all of us, and I for one am grateful when I learn something new regardless whether I agree or disagree. The ones I disagree with are the most essential and the best ones.

            You don’t like name dropping, but Jung said we always run away from what we need to learn.
            with respect, love and affection from one human being to another.

    • Rana says

      June 04, 2022 at 9:09 am

      Hi Alma, I just wanted to say that I really appreciated reading your comments. I worked with archetypes a long time ago and revisiting it now, I thought what you were saying was very apt: pulling off the mask to be okay with pure spirit and self. Working with archetypes for me personally was kind of dangerous and took me into some extremes and I was just left with being an actor and a failure, with a broken sense of self. Or panicking, thinking, which archetype can I be today (leading one into false lives and narratives). I think that the anger you feel is legitimate and your sense of style about it is to be appreciated! We are all at different stages of a spiritual journey and I agree that categories and labels can be suffocating, and marks the end of this stage of development. I hope you are happy and free, wherever you are!

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  9. Debbie says

    January 25, 2019 at 8:46 am

    I am a student of Caroline Myss and have studied archetypes for the past seven years. In fact, after spending six months determining my unique twelve, I was informed by Caroline at the 2013 Miraval workshop (31 students for 5 days – awesome!) I had the Femme Fatale. No way! But she’s so intuitive as you know. She said you’re Addict – big-Time but you have the Femme Fatale. I am big-time Addict. It came out in the first house and I said it would for 6 months before I cast my natal chart. I love identifying various behavior patterns knowing it isn’t personal. All Wounded Children have the pattern of anger that explodes as they grow into adulthood and they don’t confront its shadow. It’s the child having the temper tantrum caused by the wounds, abuse, neglect so many years ago. I find it fascinating – and very empowering. Thank you for your great work!
    Debbie

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      January 25, 2019 at 11:52 am

      Debbie, I’m so glad this article resonated! And what a privilege to be able to meet Myss face-to-face. :)
      -Luna

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  10. Ika says

    January 23, 2019 at 4:38 pm

    Hey Luna! This article is exactly what I need right now.
    A few weeks ago I set an intention to get deeper into my mind. I’ve been feeling that there’s something, some sort of information, that has been veiled from me. Something deep within that I am aware of but can’t understand.
    I tried stretching my mind to the point of getting a mini panic attack in the middle of the night. I knew it wouldn’t work but I just had to test it out, even with the risk of challenging my own sanity.
    I feel that the information I’m referring to is a part of a “place” which speaks an entirely different language than a mind could ever learn. It’s something beyond everything I could possibly know, but it’s there and somehow I feel that it has something for me to discover.
    I sound like a nutter, yes?
    But anyways… I think this archetype work might actually be the safe way to start exploring it. Or perhaps you would suggest other methods for this circumstance I’m in, Luna?
    Thank you so much :D

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    • Aletheia Luna says

      January 24, 2019 at 10:27 am

      Hi Ika. :)
      Don’t worry, you don’t sound like a nutter! It is actually quite reasonable to believe that there is a part of your inner world that is too advanced for your logical mind to understand. The deep mind is an indescribable place (I have visited it a few times during shamanic trips), but it does need to be approached with caution as it can be extremely overwhelming. Archetypes are a safe way of invoking/evoking certain qualities, skills, and information from the deep. In your specific situation, why not try pathworking/active imagination (written about above)?
      I hope that helps Ika.
      Best wishes,
      Luna

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      • Nader Khaghani says

        January 14, 2020 at 11:43 pm

        Dear Luna, I love your comments and what you share with us. Please do note, and you already know, archetypes have that awesome numinous power of the collective, and as such we need to approach gingerly and carefully not to be possessed but assimilate them. They take over and fragment consciousness the too eager minds that just open up. Of course, we need to be open but also closed. That is the name of archetypes, two as one, one as two.
        I do not agree with branding people with an archetype.
        The antidote is your wise comment that many personality live within us. Wisely said. One among many is healthier way of looking at the archetype active in the psyche, I think in my humble opinion.
        with much love, respect, and affection. Nadar

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