Discover what your dream relationship looks like – according to the wisdom of your subconscious mind. This game was inspired by two Japanese psychologists Tadahiko Nagao and Isamu Saito, and their creation of “Kokology,” or the study of the mind (kokoro) in Japanese. Kokology is based on the science of psychology and is aimed at […]
Can a Relationship Survive When One Partner Isn’t Spiritual?
You meditate, practice mindfulness, do inner child work, shadow work, burn incense, communicate with your spirit guides and are passionate about the spiritual path … but the only problem is that your partner isn’t. In fact, not only are they not interested in the spiritual path but they also have a hard time understanding why […]
Attachment Style Quiz – Which of These 4 Romantic Types Are You?
“Attachment style? What the heck is that?” If you’ve asked this question, you’ll be slightly relieved to know that attachment styles are pretty straightforward. Essentially, there are four attachment styles: secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant attachment. The attachment style you have will determine, for example: what type of partner you choose, how healthy the relationship […]
18 Signs You Lack Personal Boundaries (and Feel Constantly Used)
You feel pushed. Manipulated. Exploited. Dominated. Coerced. Pressured. Bullied. Controlled. The person in front of you has gone too far and has overstepped your personal boundaries. But you don’t know what to do. You feel weak and helpless. A quiet desperation rises inside of you. You feel like a fly stuck in a web. What […]
Splitting: The Defense Mechanism That Destroys Your Relationships
Have you ever wondered why you swing so quickly between loving and hating a person? Are your relationships characterized by extreme ups and downs? If so, you might be experiencing what psychologists call splitting – a nefarious defense mechanism that makes it difficult to hold down stable relationships. What is a Defense Mechanism? Defense mechanisms are […]
Why We Use the Search For Love to Escape Ourselves
Let’s be frank here. Most people want love. The craving for approval and affection from others is embedded into our DNA. There’s probably nothing else on earth (other than the survival instinct) that is as strong and primal as the longing for love. We need to belong. We NEED to feel loved. This is all […]
